I am 18 years old and very inexperienced.

I would like to talk to more experienced people from both orientations to hear about their experiences in fetish and D/s

I am interested in experimenting with bondage and mild pain play, spanking is high on that list.

Im not looking for a sexual relationship, but rather a patient top who would be like to experiment with me and show me the ropes, so to speak. Either gender is fine but SSC is my watch word and I won't be jumping into a scene on the first meeting.

I live in brisbane and sadly long distance travel is not an option but I would be happy to converse through emails.

I am not interested in heavy sadism or degrading humiliation but would be willing to try most other things.

Any words of advice from experienced subs would be much appreciated. 

I have a weakness for intellect and interesting discussion on any topic. I am an atheist and am not interested in any kind of religious play or paraphernalia