Collarspace.com The Largest BDSM Community on the Planet
Horizontal Line
Vertical Line

Horizontal Line

jheath
Pan Male Slave, Seattle, Washington US 
Horizontal Line
jheath


Please know that I am quite serious about finding the right dominant to serve and complete my life. So a long term relationship is what I seek. Although i can bevanillaas may be convenient, I can not do a, vanilla, relationship the person i serve may be characterized as GoddessMistress, or GodMaster or Owner. If you have desires to own than we should talk.



i am more a slave type than a submissive. As such, i think in terms of being owned. To me a slave should have no opinion about how it is used. As a slave i could serve either a Male or Female since my sexual activity would be up to the Owner and not subject to my desires.



Here are a few things about me



I am part American Indian,6 2 tall and weigh 185lb. I work out and walk regularly. I have a couple of degrees and am semi-retired. Yes, I could relocate.



I was born October 8, 1939.



Aggressiveness, intelligenceand a dominant personality,are the most important things I seek in an Owner. Followed closely by creativity and determination. Then, of course, I would like someone who is healthy and in good shape.



I have written several stories about this kind of relationship. If you would like to read one or more, please let me know.



I will send Youmy complete DS life experience if You would like.Please know that as a slave i can be bi and that i have served a Master.Thank you for reading my ad.



Your servant,

slave james
10/3/2017 8:28:58 AM: The following expresses the feelings of this slave about its state of being Journal Entries by MistressVN:     11/7/2016 1:07:30 PM [Report Entry] Definition of slavery   Slavery, and I do mean Real slavery, has been around before recorded human history. The ownership of people by other people, in its purest form - slavery - has existed for over ten thousand years; throughout the evolution of civilized humanity.       There is a distinctive difference between CONSENSUAL slavery and non-consensual slavery.       Non-consensual slavery is ILLEGAL. I explicitly CONDEMN the practice of non-consensual, involuntary slavery. Non-consensual, or involuntary, slavery has been made illegal in every major country in the world.       So, if non-consensual, involuntary, slavery is illegal, than how can someone legally own a real slave? That is an excellent question.       Consensual slavery is not a myth; no more a myth than marriage (or any 'civil union' in some cases) is or than being an employee is. Legally, the word 'slave' has no significance in any contractual agreement. It's a legal thing. However, the principals of slavery are perfectly legal as long as everyone involved is old enough to enter an agreement, capable of comprehending the magnitude and gravity of the agreement, and of course fully agrees to enter the agreement.       From this point on, and everywhere else here, wherever you see the words: slave, slave hood, slavery or enslavement what is being referred to is Consensual Slavery.       Now, while a slave very well may wind up in a monogamous relationship, owned by just one person who cherishes them as their prized property, showering their slave with love, affection, fidelity, devotion, consideration and only the best of care, where both owner and slave consider themselves as 'equal' partners, and while such an owner may consider the slave their property and while these slaves may consider themselves as property of their owner, I would not consider a relationship so described as ‘slavery’; no matter how brutal the S&M play may be. The above is generally referred to as a deep D/s relationship and not necessarily one of ‘slavery’.       The fact is (and regardless of what any idiot you might have heard said) you most certainly are allowed to 'give up' (or 'waive') your rights. There is no law that says you are not allowed to voluntarily choose to disable any (or all) of your rights. People 'give up' their rights all the time; sometimes (unfortunately) without even realizing what they are doing.       The slave contract.   Consensual Slavery (or Voluntary Servitude) is legal, is very real, can and is legally practiced worldwide   We will not go into the detailed specifics of what wording is used in a real Contract of Voluntary Servitude, but, rest assured, it is as binding as any application into the military, for instance. It is perfectly legal for a person to voluntarily forfeit their rights and be legally bound to serve, suffer and endure.       Slavery is not about sex; nor is it about S&M.       Yes, a slave may be disciplined; and this discipline can take the form of sexually charged torture or tormenting. Of course an Owner can have sex with their slave - that's a given. But you don't need a slave to have sex or 'play' at S&M. If you are only interested in sex or S&M (or any combination thereof), I strongly recommend a visit to any of the places in Europe, US or Asia where (prostitution is legal and) you can, far more cheaply and easily, get your needs fulfilled.     Total Control + Total Responsibility   By definition, a ‘slave’ is a piece of (movable) personal property (a.k.a. 'chattel') owned by another person.   A slave can be bought, sold or traded. While a slave may be cherished and cared for, a slave can also just as easily be misused and abused. Of course an owner can love their slave; nothing in the book says that an owner cannot love their slave. However, slavery does not require love.       Slavery is about control: the utter and total domination and control over another human being's life. Slavery is also about responsibility: the utter and total responsibility of another human being's life.       There are two basic elements required of slavery:       1. A slave.       2. An owner who is willing to accept the huge responsibility of a slave and posses the great strength, skill and ability of doing it.       As simple as this may sound, it is far more complex than you may imagine.       Illusions.   For the would-be slave: Trust may be an issue prior to slavery, but it is an illusion.       Physical attraction may be an issue prior to slavery, but it is an illusion as well.       In fact, everything and anything a would-be slave requires or desires, apart from their true and total commitment to actually being a real, owned slave, is an illusion.       Slavery is NOT about 'romance'.       Sure, an Owner could romance and seduce a slave if they chose to, but romance and seduction are not 'part and parcel' of slavery itself. Slavery is about Ownership and servitude; any other element involved is something other than, or in addition to, slavery.       If a 'slave' insists upon a requirement or a condition for, or on, their Ownership - they are seeking something other than slavery.       Yes, it all sounds so terrifically unfair, doesn't it? An Owner can require and involve whatsoever they like in the 'relationship' and a slave must endure and indulge whatever an Owner's whim might be. Hmm... That almost sounds like, well: slavery! Doesn't it? There is nothing at all that a slave can claim 'entitlement' to. However, in an effort to demonstrate this, here is an extraordinarily brief list of things a slave is specifically not 'entitled' to           Respect                 Honesty                 Loyalty                 Affection                 Compassion                   Understanding                 Appreciation                 Courtesy                 Recognition                 Approval                 Fair Treatment                 Gratitude                 Praise                 Honor                 Pleasure                 Explanations                 Fidelity          Slaves don't get a vacation, 'personal' days or 'time off' for being sick. Well, they could if they were granted such by their Owner, but they have no entitlement to such things. As a real slave you will be expected to (and here's the shocking part) actually be a slave. That's just so crazy, huh? A real slave will be expected to be a slave 24/7/365. This is one more point as to why slavery, real slavery, is not for everyone; or even most people for that matter.    If you demand, expect, or require any of the above, then, you cannot be a slave and there is nothing wrong with it. I suggest you re-think what it is you want. Perhaps you could find a nice Dominant (Dom or Domme) who you can share the pretend fantasy that you are a slave with.     If you are thinking: 'Hey, I want to be a slave.' but you want recognition for your service, you want to be rewarded for your efforts, you want to be treated with 'fairness', you want some variety or flavor of 'equality', you want respect, compassion and appreciation then you want something other than real slavery. What you are probably looking for is to Role-Play the part of a slave in an OTS (Other Than Slave) relationship.       Similarly: Ownership is neither a simple nor a small undertaking. An Owner assumes total responsibility for the health and well being of their slave(s). Some Owners love to train their property, others do not. Some Owners love to micro manage their property while others do not. Some Owners enjoy the acts of bathing, grooming, feeding, clothing, and housing their property while others do not. No matter which aspects of Ownership you may enjoy, every aspect of a slave is your great and entire responsibility.       Here is a listing of the bare minimal requirements that an Owner must attend to in order to maintain their slave(s):   A. Housing:A slave requires a 'dry' living space with protection from the weather, where the temperature will be reasonable to live in.B. Bathing and Grooming:For health and sanitary reasons, a slave must be fully cleansed at least once per week. Whether you provide access to a shower or simply run a garden hose, the slave still must be washed, with nonirritating soap, regularly. The dental care of a slave is also very important for obvious reasons.C. Feeding:A slave must be fed on a regular basis; to maintain good health in your slave, a balanced diet of nutritional foods and plenty of water must be provided by you for your slave.D. Physical Health:Conditioning and training a slave is one important thing, but you will incur substantial medical costs if the general health and welfare of your slave(s) are not consistently kept in mind.   Owning a slave is as difficult, demanding and costly, as caring for a newborn baby. Although, neither ''Doms'' or potential slaves comprehend the extend of this. A Real Dom, with true slave experience (meaning to have had a slave for least two years, other than its own living in partner) knows what am I talking when discussing the complexity and cost of owning a slave.     Extremely few Doms have actually the economic and mental ability to keep a slave. The problem is that most of the ”Doms” takes too easy and disregard the gravity of these facts, as they do not have real experience in the matter.       Most who think they want slavery are really looking for D/s       So, perhaps you can now better understand: Dominance and submission, or D/s, is not equal to ‘slavery’.       To be a submissive is more close to what 99% of those who claim they want to be a “slave”, really wants. A submissive has a degree (no matter how tiny) of influence over the relationship. A submissive retains (no matter how few or how ineffectual) rights and liberties; while a Dominant might be able to assuage some of the power a submissive retains, the submissive does, in fact, retain power.       A real slave has no such power whatsoever. In fact, a slave has nothing at all, only what their owner grants them and that can be taken away without warning. A slave has only such ‘rights’ and ‘liberties’ and ‘influence’ that their owner may, or may not, allow them.       An owner can give the world to their slave but, in a heartbeat, an owner can take everything back from a slave leaving them, truly, with nothing at all.       A slave has no claim to any power whatsoever. A slave has no entitlement to influence anything.       A slave no longer has any claims to natural civil rights or liberties. Whatever a slave might have has been given to them by their owner, and even then it is an illusion as, in reality, the owner owns the slave – therefore the owner owns everything the slave appears to own.       A slave does not have possessions – a slave is a possession. Some people say that, in a D/s relationship, the submissive holds the real power; that a dominant ‘needs’ a submissive, needs their ‘gift’ of submission. That is not the case with a slave.       A submissive deserves respect; respect as a lover, respect as a person, respect as a partner. A submissive maintains the prerogative to choose the level to which they submit; and these levels may vary throughout the relationship.       Some people are convinced that, in a D/s relationship, it is the submissive that really controls every aspect of the relationship in a passive manner. Some people believe the philosophy, which depicts that the control of a Dominant in a D/s relationship is really just an illusion.       In slavery, however, there exists no “topping from the bottom”. In slavery, an owner controls absolutely everything with unchallenged power and real authority. As a general estimation, most “dominants” could not handle the force and power of the authority of an owner, and most “submissives” would vehemently defy the idea of absolute, total and real ownership.            Slavery is not about whips, cages and chains. Slavery is far, very far away from what most candidates dream about. It is rather the opposite.       Choosing a Mistress/Master, should be the last decision you will ever have to make in your life.       As a slave candidate, remember THIS ONE THING: Be wise, choose right.       If you had the energy and interest to read all this lines, I would appreciate if you can send Me a short message confirming that you read and understand everything, by writing Me the word ''confirm'' with capital letters in your message.       When I cleared up the definition of real slavery, and if you still think you are, or want to become a ‘real’ slave, or if you believe you are ready to, and capable of, being a slave you may pursue and contact Me.       This is the basic philosophy of BDSM slavery; if you don’t share it that is, of course, your prerogative. There will always be those who insist that it is appropriate to call themselves ‘slave’ regardless, or perhaps even in spite, of the real slavery definitions.Thank you for your time.   12/26/2015 1:46:23 PM: True mercy consists of unrelenting discipline and punishment. Stern treatment would speed his acceptance of his new slave life. 5/16/2015 9:29:43 AM: Benefits of Chastity and Teasing To be more attentive to a partner or dominant To increase sexual tension To feel controlled A feeling of 24/7 bondage To avoid masturbation To save sexual energy for a partner To heighten awareness of denied sexual relief and pleasure To refocus sexual behavior towards a specific act (such as intercourse) and/or away from another (such as solitary masturbation) To increase one’s sex drive To feel a powerful sense of belonging To enjoy greater pleasure by waiting What do you think of the preceding? 4/12/2015 10:33:47 AM: This slave loves the sentiment:'A proper slave finds more reassurance in power than mercy.'it hopes to be some Owner's, 'proper slave.' 11/15/2014 8:57:07 AM: i wonder what You think of the following: “A slave cannot decide to become a slave; it can only decide to go through the processes that make it a slave. If a slave could decide to be a slave, it could just as easily decide not to be. This is a real process, that results in real slavery, with the same, real, lack of control and decision making that characterizes slavery. This is not an agreement, this is not a legal issue, not a contract. This is a planned process. It develops an animal that cannot live in any other way, but in absolute obedience to one man, for whom it lives its life, and whose life it lives.” SlaveMaster
Horizontal Line
Horizontal Line
Username Gender Identity Orientation State
Country Sexuality Ethnicity Age Range
Max Weight Min Height They are seeking Willing to Relocate
Photos Only
List As Sort By
Horizontal Line
12345678910
Horizontal Line
Pic Vertical Line   Username Vertical Line Age Vertical Line     Location Vertical Line Last On
Horizontal Line
Click to view this profile Vertical Line Vertical Line 50 Vertical Line Gothenburg, Sweden Vertical Line now
Horizontal Line
Click to view this profile Vertical Line Vertical Line 26 Vertical Line Madison, Wisconsin Vertical Line now
Horizontal Line
Click to view this profile Vertical Line Vertical Line 49 Vertical Line Nottingham, United Kingdom Vertical Line now
Horizontal Line
Click to view this profile Vertical Line Vertical Line 64 Vertical Line Orange County, California Vertical Line now
Horizontal Line
Click to view this profile Vertical Line Vertical Line 30 Vertical Line Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania Vertical Line now
Horizontal Line
Click to view this profile Vertical Line Vertical Line 51 Vertical Line NrFboroHants, United Kingdom Vertical Line now
Horizontal Line
Click to view this profile Vertical Line Vertical Line 26 Vertical Line Kanas City, Missouri Vertical Line now
Horizontal Line
Click to view this profile Vertical Line Vertical Line 31 Vertical Line Long Beach CA, California Vertical Line now
Horizontal Line
Click to view this profile Vertical Line Vertical Line 44 Vertical Line Croydon, United Kingdom Vertical Line now
Horizontal Line
Click to view this profile Vertical Line Vertical Line 33 Vertical Line Phoenix, Arizona Vertical Line now
Horizontal Line
Click to view this profile Vertical Line Vertical Line 26 Vertical Line Merced, California Vertical Line now
Horizontal Line
Click to view this profile Vertical Line Vertical Line 42 Vertical Line Ventura, California Vertical Line now
Horizontal Line
Click to view this profile Vertical Line Vertical Line 34 Vertical Line Fortaleza, Brazil Vertical Line now
Horizontal Line
Click to view this profile Vertical Line Vertical Line 26 Vertical Line LA, California Vertical Line now
Horizontal Line
Click to view this profile Vertical Line Vertical Line 28 Vertical Line Riga, Latvia Vertical Line now
Horizontal Line
Click to view this profile Vertical Line Vertical Line 24 Vertical Line Portland, Oregon Vertical Line now
Horizontal Line
Click to view this profile Vertical Line Vertical Line 38 Vertical Line Ireland Vertical Line now
Horizontal Line
Click to view this profile Vertical Line Vertical Line 70 Vertical Line S E of Dallas, Texas Vertical Line now
Horizontal Line
Click to view this profile Vertical Line Vertical Line 66 Vertical Line Texas Vertical Line now
Horizontal Line
Click to view this profile Vertical Line Vertical Line 60 Vertical Line Michigan Vertical Line now
Horizontal Line
Click to view this profile Vertical Line Vertical Line 62 Vertical Line Fulton, Missouri Vertical Line now
Horizontal Line
Click to view this profile Vertical Line Vertical Line 47 Vertical Line Mears, Michigan Vertical Line now
Horizontal Line
Click to view this profile Vertical Line Vertical Line 40 Vertical Line Ligonier, Pennsylvania Vertical Line now
Horizontal Line
Click to view this profile Vertical Line Vertical Line 42 Vertical Line Bastrop, Texas Vertical Line now
Horizontal Line
Click to view this profile Vertical Line Vertical Line 50 Vertical Line Arizona Vertical Line now
Horizontal Line
Horizontal Line

Vertical Line

Vertical Line

Copyright © 2021 Collarspace.com and VSpin.net  
18 U.S.C. 2257 Record-Keeping Compliance Statement

Vertical Line



DMCA |  Privacy |  Spam |  Support |  Dir | TOS

Horizontal Line

Account
Horizontal Line