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TheCaligularium
Switch/Dom Couple, 44/45, Washington US 
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TheCaligularium

We now have a profile on another Kinky meeting place that ends with 'life' and Videos of our training sessions at CLIPS4SALE: Just surf THE CALIGULARIUM.

 

THE CALIGULARIUM is a Dungeon Space for Play Parties, Private Encounters, Photo/Video Shoots and Visting Doms and Dommes, incuding a Medical Area, a Cell, and Multi-purpose apparatus.
MASTER X is an Experienced, trainer of boys, sissys, Ladies, and Couples. TRANS-MISTRESS EXTREMA is a CD Dominatrix skilled in Gender-Bending and all forms of Fetish. .'The Doctor' is proficient in 'Alternative Therapy.'
Monthly parties are open to select Guests.

 

Visiting Dommes can enjoy the Hot-tub, kitchen, and gorgeous view while their slaves lie neatly tucked away in their cell. Various ammenities include digital video and editing, computer availability and wi-fi. Priced to fit Your Budget.

 

Private play and Parties for Kinksters and their friends are always available.

1/4/2012 11:43:16 AM: Todays Beautiful Slut gifted us with a selection of Dildos and Buttplugs He bought at the Incomprable LOVERS LAIR of Lynnwood! Certainly one of the Best Stores in the world! What an Honor to have something from there bestowed upon us!!!

1/3/2012 3:59:36 PM: We have a video site on CLIPS4SALE: Surf the caligularium and enjoy!  

12/11/2011 12:38:44 AM: We have a wonderful submissive here who writes about his experiences as a subbie and his adventures in Kink.   Here is his latest Offering:   The path of discovery into the multiple levels of Human Sexuality and the inner layers of our fragile and/or indomitable human spirits that lays open when couples unlock the door to kink, fetish, and the BD/SM, D/s Lifestyle can be richly rewarding, but is fraught with perilous dangers. It is possibly the most extreme form of 'play' we can explore. I know of three relationships personally that have gone down these roads. Two out of three of these relationships crumbled in flames largely because of the journey. It was not pretty. I know because one of them was mine and it cost me the best friend I ever had.There are multiple layers of behavior, cultural origination, and socio-economic status that play factors in the success or destruction of such relationships and they are all compounded by the keystone of drug use. Everything becomes more complicated when drugs are involved. It starts off extremely problematic, but when people are riding the roller coaster of ups, downs, hangovers, misinterpretation of data and open-wound-like tenuous, thin-skinned, phenomenon's that drugs bring to the table, it becomes a knot that cannot be untied. Personalities and people become moving targets: Are they High? Are they needing to fix? Are they in a listening place? Are they hungover? Where are they on the scale and who am I talking to now? Leaving drugs aside, for the moment, the Journey begins here: First the trifecta of FEAR, GUILT, and SHAME must be faced down. Some people are much more equipped to face these demons.They come from stable, loving, supportive and unconditionally loving families. They have much less baggage to carry around. Those (like me) who have come from dysfunctional families seem to have extra helpings of Fear, Guilt and shame, which Ironically, has led them down the fetish roads for relief, but leaves them ill-equipped to deal with the fundamental dynamics they present. The one successful relationship I can point to features a Lady who is well aware of her cultural background of an abandoned child. This awareness came in the BD/SM realm, serving a Master who she now can admit she 'used' to 'deal with her own shit,' while not dealing with it directly.She had found a Man to abandon her by design, because that is what Love was modeled for her, but in being abandoned again, It did not make it better, it made it even worse. In this crucible, however, she discovered that it was not the Master's shit: It was HER shit. Finally having come to terms with this, she was able to move on to a relationship that worked with Kink as a major component, but only after she had come to terms with the childhood stuff that haunted her. And what does this relationship look like? There is mutual understanding and a willingness to learn and grow. There is Mutual admiration and respect. There is balance. Both parties have worked in the sex industry and both can compartmentalize the Professional realm and the personal world. She is a dominatrix which turns him on, but he is not afraid of what she does, nor is he jealous. He is in fact the Dominant one when they engage in the Vanilla world. The Roles reverse, but still he views the Mistress as 'the greatest women he ever met!' (his exclamation.) He likes what she does and accepts it with TOTAL trust. It is, as he says 'None of my business.' As she gets her 'kink fix' and he must get his, on the other side of the coin, she accepts also with complete totality his need to watch porn, masturbate, and get his fix also without jealousy. She even goes so far as to apologize when she finds him beating off to porn without her, for failing to 'be there' for him. She enjoys when he dominates her in the vanilla sex that by both accounts, there is plenty to enjoy.This is all quite counter to the two disastrous relationships that were devastated by the kink worlds. My lover discovered my addiction to kink, but rather than being appalled, she embraced it. She made me feel safe with my fear, guilt and shame and I fell deeply in love with her for the freedom of expression this offered. We played together quite successfully for some time, fueled with steadily increasing doses of drugs. Then she turned pro. We were partners in this for some time and it was great fun and full of excitement, but slowly and surely multiple layers of turbulence piled up and festered. The balance became non-existant. Trust was lost. She got her kink on in a multiplicity of ways and looked to me for the vanilla relief, but I was left hungry for kink and grew jealous and resentful of the opportunities she had, but I did not. The pain drove me further into drugs, while she backed off of them. In this period I craved higher highs, more radical trips into sub space and was introduced to crystal Meth, which was like seeing God. inhibitions, responsibility, and selflessness vanished when I was high on meth. I became dangerous, which scared her even further into relative sobriety. Meanwhile, the compartmentalization eroded. Trespasses in the vanilla world were brought into the dungeon and mistakes in the dungeon werebrought into the bedroom. Play for her was 'play' or 'work,' but for me it was a critical part of growing addictions and a mandatory component of daily life that became an obsession. She was left alone while I endlessly hunted for the next fix, the next hit, the next adventure, having become insatiable. Meanwhile she had plenty of opportunities and my hunger was a turn off. We fought valiantly to get back to the good place, exploring ever more radical activities, but play partners were chosen poorly, group scenes and parties went bad, leaving her embarrassed and questioned by the kink community and I was left banished. The deep pain of jealousy, abandonment, and failure fueled my drug and kink needs even more. We drifted further and further apart and never effectively debriefed or unraveled what went wrong and how it was getting worse. Simple conversations became impossible: Mutual disrespect, mistrust and animosity grew and grew unchecked. And so we spiraled in to the inevitable crash landing; her moving on to a new lover and a career in the realm and me landing ostracized and a blight on her good name.This does not hold a candle to the other failed relationship. In this one, The man knew from the Get-go that she was a practicing professional Domminatrix and seemingly accepted it. In the opening phase of courting, she told him all. This seemingly was a relationship based on total honesty and truth, but it turned out to be an illusion. Wheareas She had come clean, he had not. The solid foundation of trust eroded slowly at first, with him making demands on what she could and could not do in her professional sessions and her deeply resenting it. His drug use escaleted, (I would hypothesize, from personal experience, out of frustration.) This widened the gap, but when she found out he had kinky fetishes of his own that he had not revealed, this was the beginning of the end. The discovery made, he failed to accept his culpability and responsibility and blamed her for his inner demons. All along the seemingly healthy relationship had been crippled by his inability to grapple with his fear, guilt, and shame over his secret fetishes. The fact that she was so free and easy about hers, no doubt, fed fuel to that fire, pushing him deeper into the hole. The most tragically ironic thing about this couple is: All along the way he had a partner that was willing to work with and embrace his secret world, but he couldn't get out of himself tosee it. He had it all, right in the palm of his hand and now he has nothing but ruins.The healthy couple has stated that it is the unresolved childhood stuff, our cultural origination and the way 'love' was modeled for us that determines how we we will deal with the pressures and questions that emerge from playing in the BD/SM, D/s world. Jealousy emerges out of old wounds. I hope this has been helpful, kinksters. I can't pretend to be an expert on how it should be done, but I certainly know all too well how it should not.

12/8/2011 9:41:56 AM: A Testimonial From one of the Divine Mistress Extrema's Slaves:    arrived 15 minutes early noit wanting to make Mistress wait for me.  I was nervous and locked in my chastity cage.  When Mistress opened the door lets say WOW.  The boots...oh if I wasnt locked in my cage I would have had a full blown erection right then.  I entered and was escorted down stairs to a well equi dungeon.  Mistress asked if I had something for her and I handed her the key to my chastity cage...what a feeling to know she now held the key to my cock. I was then told to undress and to re-dress in a black short dress.  The sleeves went all the way down to my wrists yet the dress came almost to but did not cover my chastity cage or my ass...I was placed in some black sexy heel, about 4 inches and then Mistress placed a posture collar on me....finally a hood and leash...I was prepared, nervous but ready to serve. Mistress directed me towards the windex and paper towels...I was tasked to clean every mirror in the dungeon..and there were a lot, 9 of them as I recall...I could see myself in each one of them as I washed them for her..my cock screaming for release from its cage. I did not dally and had the mirrors done fairly quickly, again not wanting to disapoint Mistress...then Mistress asked me how I felt about being in the presence of another of her subs...I hesitated.  I had NEVER been dressed as a woman in front of anyone before I arrived at her home, and now I was going to live out a humiliation fantasy...I told her I was ok with it, and she took the leash and led me upstairs.  Oh crap was the thought that raced through my mind as I saw the other sub was a female...here I am dressed in a short dress, high heels and my chastity cage clearly visible to Mistress's pet...did I see her pet give a slight smile, I think so and if not for the hood the deep red bluch on my face would have been clear for all to see...I was humiliated. My second task was to sweep, then mop Mistress kitchen floor.  I enjoy domestic service and was more then eager to show Mistress my cleaning talents.  After sweeping, a bucket was filled with warm water and I was handed a sponge.  Yes, I was going to be on my hands and knees scrubbing Mistress's floor...which I did. At some point, I was told to stand, and Mistress used a riding crop on my chest, nipples, and balls.  Just a reminder that I was there to serve her...all this was done while Mistress's pet took video and pictures...more humiliation. After the floor was clean Mistress treated me to a treat !  I was taken back to the dungeon and placed on an examination table.  My hands secured opver my head, and my legs to a spreader bar and raised high in the air.  Mistress ran the video camera and instructed her pet to remove the chastity cage,  My cock freed from its small cage quickly grew into a full erection...cold lube was placed on my throbbing cock and pet was instructed to stroke me whiel I begged for the opportunity to cum...my mind was on one thing and one thing only...I was completely aroused and trying to hold back but Mistress's pet was not having any of that...pet torn an orgasm from my body, a very powerful one and then once drained the moment of truth. Mistress's pet took her hand with my cum covering it and my eyes widened as her hand approached my mouth.  I had wanted to do this for some time, but now I was eagerly eating my own cum while being video taped. I was released, and layed on the floor, covered with a blanket and given time to 'come' down..I needed it. In just a few hours more than a few of my fantasies were fulfilled...and I eager await the next time I can serve Mistress Extrema. Regrets...only one.  When I was leave Mistress told me that I was to kiss her pets hand, then kiss hers as a thank you.  My regret is that I did not drop to my knees and kiss her feet for allowing me to serve her. Her sissy slut

12/6/2011 11:29:18 AM: THE CALIGULARIUM has been blessed in the last week with Four exxxtroidnary sub-slut-servants who have offered up their gift of submission and servitude. The yard is raked, the Kitchen, spotless, the bathroom squeaky clean, the dungeon immaculate and all implements sterilized, wrapped in protective plastic, ready for action. We treasure and honor Your wonderful gifts of service.   The act of submission is an act of trust, respect, and Love.   We here admire and respect all Who have conquered their Guilt, Fear, and Shame to emerge butterfly-like from the oppressive coccoon of Societys Judgement.   What a lovely day it is Today...A blessing.   Best wishes to all.

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