Collarspace

Life is an adventure!

It should be lived as such.

I am the Captain of the ship of my life! Whether I chart a course to a specific destination, or let the winds and tides carry me wherever they will, the choice is mine. Or, in this case, the choice to run with this metaphor... )

As Captain of this ship, I am the dominant figure aboard. This does not mean I rule with an iron fist. I am generally considerate of others, though I do not submit to others. I have, however, occasionally met those whom I respect and trust enough to follow their lead for a mission or two. I have self-identified as a switch on occasion, but have realized that I tend toward dominant without the sadistic connotations. I am not a cruel man, though I do not spare the lash or strap when needed. For those who enjoy any sensual pursuit, I can dish it out and serve it up to them. Pain or pleasure, hard steel or soft leather, bindings of rope and leather might be softened with silk or fur, all this and more is available aboard.

The ship of my life includes a First Mate My Wife. We are both open and honest in all our communications, and in all our relationships.She gives me good council in all things, knows she is my submissive in our intimate times (at the least), and is happy knowing that I take charge when needed. Yet, she happily takes charge when she is working in her comfort zone.We are laid back and drama free by nature, and choose to avoid those who have excessive drama in their lives.

On the good ship HMS Dramafree, there is much fun to be had. There is room for at least one more crew member, somebody to help us keep everything ship shaped and Bristol fashion as we head out for our next adventure. My crew is my family, and my family is my crew, and all are my friends as well.

My wife and I are polyamorously inclined, with connections to a few other couples, and select singles, whom we cherish. Thus we share an open minded consideration of all possibilities in our relationships. While our spicy friends are not (yet?) permanent crew, they are often guests aboard our ship. Yet we are neither indiscriminate nor indiscreet. We strive to becomes friends first and foremost, and then let the relationships develop naturally.

Seeking Potential Cabin Girl for Ship of Life

What brings me here is a search for a special addition a cabin girl to join our crew. Not just any cabin girl will do. Whether this would be full time or part time is an open question, depending on the needs and desires of the prospective cabin girl as well as myself and the existing crew. It may include anything from occasional time spent together, to a full time live in care giver for an ill family member living aboard. As with most things, there are many possibilities and many options.

My wife supports the goal of me finding a cabin girl, knowing that I always have the question, is this good for us? as my top priority. She also knows that such a question expands as more people come aboard our ship. When our friends cum aboard, they are family. Should we find a prospective cabin girl, she would be considered family, regardless of the role within the family. Thus, is this good for her? will be implicit within the top priority.

Whether or not the cabin girl will wear a collar or not is also an open question. The nature of each Ms and Ds relationship is unique. I am certain that an accord can be reached as we discover our mutual commonalities.

If any of this sounds good to you, if you think this is something you might be interested in, send me a message. If you have questions, ask them. If you feel a desire to comment, do it.