I am an Alpha-Dom male seeking a sub for a LTR. I believe the D/s relationship is founded in the mind first and on the physical plane secondly and involves great trust.

I am a Dom, not a sadist. I believe that the D/s relationship is one built on mutual trust. The Dom has a responsibility to care for his sub and look out for her mental and physical well-being.

I enjoy the company of a woman who is intelligent, confident, and secure and is an Alpha female in her public and outward life. She is  a sharp dresser, enjoys the thrill of wearing sexy undergarments under that business suit, and has a plan and knows how to execute. She is seeking the Dom who will take control from her and relieve her of the mantle of responsibility that she carries around in every day life. She won't give it to just any man who claims to be a Dom. She is very selective to whom she will ultimately surrender control and won't give it up easily. However, when she does she will surrender it completely.

When I am in public with my sub I will at times engage in public play. However, I am not seeking a sub who will be a sub all the time. Instead, I am looking for that hard-to-find public-Alpha/private-sub.