6/28/2012 9:47:02 PM: WARNING,THIS IS A RANT! Ok,let's take a moment,for some REAL LIFE ADVICE,FOR THOSE IN THE 18 TO 25YR OLD DOM BRACKET. So,You wake up one day,decide you are dom,and decide to enter the world of kink. CONGRATS. Its a great world,out there. Let me give you just one piece of advice,KEEP IT REAL AND HONEST. Don't have any experience? Want to learn? THEN SAY SO. Find an older more experienced dom,and ask them to mentor you. Attend munches,find a sex positive center or club. DON'T CLAIM MORE EXPERIENCE,THEN YOU HAVE. That's how people GET HURT. Ok,THIS part,is aimed at the 30 to 35yr olds,THAT DON'T HAVE EXPERIENCE,AND LIE ABOUT IT. (This is NOT aimed at those who DO have experience, OR those that don't,and ARE HONEST about it!) If you are 35, and claim you have 20 plus years experience,at being a 'master'...umm,excuse me,but...at 15,the ONLY thing you've 'masterd',IS CHILDHOOD. At 20,You've 'masterd' childhood AND YOUR TEEN YEARS. IF YOU HAVEN'T MASTERD YOURSELF, YOU CAN'T MASTER ANOTHER HUMAN BEING. Don't claim more experience,then you truely have. Not only is it a HUGE turn off...ITS UNSAFE. OK,end rant.

6/19/2012 7:44:57 PM: 6/19/12 7:37pm So,have been off the site,for awhile..due to job change,increased workload,family obligations and most recently,moving. Looking forward to things calming down,now.. and settling in to a calmer,more quiet home life.. and discovering what the future holds. I'm going back to school soon..another major job change will follow that,but that'll be at leat 2 years away. Start my pre req's,come August! YAY ME! Going back to school, to become a MidWife. This has been a long road,to get to this point,but i finally see the light at the end of the tunnel. Went back and got my EMT..and ill work limited hours in this,threw school..and maybe even keep a few shifts,after. Dropped all my Red Cross shifts. Was just too much,left no time for me..and my family,both bio & chosen. I know this was the right move...and I'm excited for the rest to begin,as well! :-) A.s.

9/18/2011 10:01:01 AM: Thank You to those that have welcomed me back so warmly. It is most humbling. And to those who have had harsh words, I thank you, as well. For without your being so open and forth coming, with your true nature, I wouldn't have a baseline for which to see what it is that I DON'T want. On a side note; please bare with me, on completing my profile. I realize it is a bit bland, and not a lot of info.. I will work on expending it over the next few days...as today is my birthday.. I will put it aside,for today. I wish everyone a relaxing and enjoyable rest of your weekend... be well. A.s. EDIT.... 10/6/2011... For those that have comented.... YES, I AM REAL. I CHOOSE NOT TO POST A PHOTO, DUE TO MY EMPLOYER. IF, AFTER WE HAVE SPOKE A COUPLE TIMES...(read; a couple times is twice, not 6 , 7 or a dozen!) WE FEEL WE'D LIKE TO CONTINUE TALKING... I will send you a few photo's, to Your off site email. Hope You have an amazing night! A.s. 2/18/2012 ATTENTION; HAD ISSUES WITH INTERNET, ALL AFTERNOON/EVENING. KEPT HAVING TO REBOOT, AND COULDN'T GET ON CHAT. HOPING ISSUE RESOLVED. WE SHALL SEE. A.S.