So something in my profile caught your interest. I guess the first question is What are you here looking for? Do you seek a true escape from the endless requirements of life without direction? Does your neck feel uncomfortably bare without a collar that while it binds you, also frees and protects you? Do you desire, to the point of needing, someone to take not just control of, but responsibility for you?
If yes, then read further.
First, what do _I_ bring to the table.
I grew up on a farm. A day's work for me would leave most of today's males weaping in the ditch.
From there I joined the Army. Desert Storm and Bosnia were my two deployments of record. US Calvary Scout. Look it up.
After that, a number of different careers as I worked on transitioning to civilian life. Currently I lead a team of software engineers, making a solid 6 figures.
I own my own house (deed in my safe) that I working on renovating. And this isn't some shack. The 16 inch thick stones of its walls came from the old courthouse. Just it was built in the 1920's so needs some updates.
I've written a several science fiction books that I'm getting ready to launch an ad campaign for. There is a glaring vacuum of new, good, material in that area. I plan to fill it and profit from that.
Recently gotten into the joys of ATV riding. Though, as to my nature, I didn't settle with just some "sport" model. It not only had to be fun and good looking, but had to have utility as well.
I am looking for a girl, or girls, to take in and make my slave. I dont say this lightly or with the normal mindlessness that most pretend dominants here and other sites have. Im not looking for games. Im not looking for casual play. What I'm looking for is the full Master-slave relationship. I have had it in the past. As to why I dont have a slave now, life is what it is. What this means is if I put my collar on you, you will be come my responsibility, not just my toy. You will be encouraged to explore things. Not just BDSM wise, but life wise. To find you niche.
As for what service to me will entail, first what most will feel is the boring part. Maintaining my house. Most of those who are looking forget that part.
Sexual service is a given. I also have long experience in bdsm, and a fairly well appointed dungeon, so there will be active use in that manner as well.
I would like to find someone who is artistically inclined. Not a requirement, but definitely a plus. Artwork for the books I've written and will write would be benneficial. Or if your talents are musical, helping me relax that way.
On the photos. Specifically the one with chopped wood in the background. While Mother Nature felled the try, I cut it up with a chainsaw then split that wood with an axe. Can the boi you're courently thinking of do that?
More and more, I'm seeing females talking about wanting to go back to a '50's household. Usually, they are over 30, having failed to get the free ride our society says is owed them. Typical. Things are getting rough. And instead of taking responsibility for their actions or in-actions, they want to "re-negotiate" and go back to a time where they can just stay home while their husband works 60+ hours to pay for everything, including a maid to come in and do all the cleaning, because she's above all that. Which will allow them to complain about their husbands never being home to give them an excuse to cheat on them with the whomever. And then divorce them, taking half plus alimony.
So no. No man should even consider that. You want a "50's" relationship? Sure. 50 BC, Roman Republic time. You want what we got, including protection from what's right around the corner according to most pundits right now? Prove your worth to us. I'm not negotiating.
Something I find amusing and rather digusting. When submissives/slaves seek out a master with a list of demands. Starting with common-sense ones like being in shape and stable job/home wise. I mean it's hard to call those "demands". They should be the minimum anyone is looking for in a master. But I digress. From those they go on to list demand after demand. Making it clear that a master must serve them. And that their "perfect master" is one that is willing to give up all the master desires for the submissive/slave.
So... I spend my life building my and my house up. And I am supposed to give that all up for you, who have done _nothing_ in your life besides going from dead-end job to dead-end job?
I actually often laugh out loud when I get to the point in their profile where it lists "Housework" as a hard limit.
Going to try this. Including a link. This is for all the females who feel they are _owed_ anything when all they have is _maybe_ good looks.
Long time, no journal. But now I'm a bit bored. Anyway, I now have a sail boat. It's only a small 22' foot "cuddy-cabin" one. It's call a "trailer-sailer" because it fits easily on a normal sized trailer and I can tow it anywhere. Which means I'm going to be exploring a lot of the local lakes. Already been out on Lake Eire a couple times. This is a setting-stone to my final goal. Currently I'm looking to retire in 5 to 6 years, buy a 40 to 60 foot power cruiser, and head down to the Caribbean. I'm using this one to gain skills on not just sailing, but repairing and upgrading boats.
Another excellent night at the local dungeon. And we didn't even play!
We had put out that we were going to be at the dungeon for pony play if anyone was interested. We had a couple nibbles so were pretty excited. We got to the dungeon and shortly after that the two people who had shown interest made it in. So we went into the back and pretty much everyone that was there in the dungeon that night followed us back. Shadow Dancer and I wound up giving an impromptu class on pony play and basic dressage to them. Only the two that we expected actually got up and tried what we were showing, but everyone there looked interested. Since this was our first attempt and getting people out for pony play, we were very pleased! We spent the rest of the night socializing with a few people. Looks like we might get some interest going here in Pittsburgh!
