i'm a discreet, nonpassable, bigendered mwm.   i'm mainly interested in hearing from discreet, mature men who are admirers of special women like me.   i'm not really interested in sex, but i do enjoy the occasional, discreet company of a gentleman.   as with many of us on here, i can't host, and i'm limited in how often i can meet and how far i can travel.   if you're curious to know more, feel free to contact me.   i'll reply as soon as i'm able.