Looking for a true Blk Dom who is not into games, has his head on straight and knows what he wants. I am very submissive and willing to please, however I do not wish to be hurt used or mistreated in any way.  My search has been long and I thought i had found my Dom but due to circumstances out of our control it is not to be.  Would love to find a Dom who knows what he wants, isn't afraid to get it, but also one who knows what it takes for a relationship and knows how to treat not only a slave but a woman. I love both the Vanilla and BDSM lifestyles and would like to take certain aspects out of both to combine a good healthy lifestyle. I am new to this type of relationship though i know what I want sometimes its hard for me to put exactly into words... maybe we can figure it out togeather...