I have been in this lifestyle for many years.  I have met people from all over, and have learned from what I like to call "old school" lifestyle people.  I find it isn't the same as way back.  Dominants aren't the type of Dominants that want to delve into the mind of a woman, who want to know her, know what makes her who she is. Instead they  just look for the next "play" session and who it will be with.  They take a woman make her theirs...and just because they take them to play parties, they label themselves as a Dominant.  

That isn't who I am looking for.  I'm a woman who is strong, who wants to be treated as a woman, and desires to be with a Dominant who recognizes that there is more to submission than sex and play.  While I do agree sex, kink and play are things I do want.  It isn't all I want.  I am looking for a connection, chemistry, a relationship.  Someone I can give up control to, and who I can lose any fears or inhibitions to.  I need to be with someone I can place my trust in and doesn't lie to me.  I  want to be used for sex, by someone who wants a relationship, and not just play, I want to be used for my mind and my soul and what I can offer to someone.

I have no interest in getting to know someone here....who after making somewhat of a connection with me....moves on to add others.  If you say you want to meet me, mean it!  If you say you will meet me..be a man and actually keep the promise to meet, and show up

I desire to have that intense experience, to be with someone who encourages me, supports me, believes in me, and in return will receive the same. Someone who wants a challenge and challenges me in return, both mentally, emotionally and physically.   I am a loyal person, with so much spirit.  I love to laugh.  I love museums, walks, picnics, making love outdoors, mostly making someone happy.

I would also like to meet someone who allows me to be me.  What I mean is this:  Dominants and submissives are WHO WE ARE.  Top and Bottom and BDSM is what we do.  I desire to be in a relationship where I can show my total submissive side, but to also be encouraged to grow in other sides.  I look at play as just that.... play.  There is a big difference between playing with someone just to play, and playing with my Dominant.  I can explain more if we begin to communicate.

If this interests you at all, please write me. 

Please respect my preference that I do not wish to become involved with a married man, or attached in any way, even if its an open relationship.  I'm sorry its just my preference

If you are not from the NE, please skip contacting me.  I don't have an interest in traveling by plane, train or automobile to see my Dominant.  I also do not have interest in a poly relationship of any kind.  I'm far to selfish to share...I will share on occasion if that is what makes my Dominant happy, but only as play, not as a relationship. I can't share attention, feelings or love with any other, and don't want my Dominant to want that either.  I want to be enough for Him.   I prefer the PA, NJ, DE, NY area..

oh one more thing... I just have to say this .....if you have a picture of your cock in your profile...i need to tell you, its a turn off for most women and shows you are interested in only one thing.  For the most part, it doesn't impress us and we won't take you serious. 

Ok all done.... : )

Thanks for reading.