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SteamPhyst
Hetero Male Dominant, 53, Cape Cod, Massachusetts US 
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SteamPhyst
I didnt arrive here ten years ago tasting the world of BDSM for the first time, knowing all it encompasses and where my place in it was. Like all of Lifes great adventures, it starts with small steps, in turn building up to become legs of the grand journey which will bring wonderful people into our lives to teach valuable lessons, and a majority of them will be painful in nature and in the category of things not to do again. And there will be a few shining stars along the way, leaving us thankful for the time shared with them, no matter how fleeting.

As I have rehashed these words in my mind the past month, knowing I was going to rewrite this profile, I realized one thing. I am complicated, I dont fit neatly into one category. In the past ten years I have found out I am a sadist, no matter how much I tried to pretend it didnt exist, because when you get to know me, Im really a nice guy. And nice guys dont get off hurting people, thats just fucked up. A person I shall always remember clarified this for me with a song, giving me a glimpse at the other side, a peek under the hood of a masochist and understanding there are those who seek the pain for their own healing reasons. (If you want to hear a great song, let me know, Ill trade you.)

With that being said, get to know me and chances are Ill hurt you, one way or another. As Bob Marley said, Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for.

Dont confuse mind blowing sex for love, youre Fuck Struck, get out of bed and walk it off...

Words I and others have used to describe me Goofy, sincere, funny, articulate, passionate, patient, inquisitive, quiet, comfortable to be around, creative, insatiable, dark, geek, published author, sensual, unique, intelligent, animated, stubborn, different, obsessed, deep, talented, morbid, silly, and touched. When totally honest, Ill include sometimes needy and unsure.

Some of my passions, interests and quirks include Cheese making, music, leisurely drives with no timeline or destination, games and gaming, cooking, haiku, gardening, creating things, trilobites, machining and fabrication, reading, math and science, kissing, indie-movies, photography, talking to young kids as if they were little people rather than little kids, feeding people, fine scale and custom model building, energyaura work, sharing deep intellectual conversation, maps, Steinbeck and clairs.

Some people say Im different, and to them I say Fuck Yeah!! I march to a different kazoo, and my way works best for me this is how I Roll. Ive had people comment, Why would you do that, I would never do it that way. Of course you wouldnt, youre not me. I will not makes excuses or be placed in a position to defend MY actions. I have my own way of doing things and it becomes one smaller piece of the bigger puzzle, The Unique Me.

Please dont misunderstand me, but understand me fully. Your opinion ofme is none of my concern. I have too many other things going on to worry about how someone I dont know feels about Me. With that being said, friends and family come first. Get on that list and you can be damned sure youre opinion on many topics would be actively sought and valued. My want would be for everyone to have enough factual ination to an educated opinion, in any and all situations.

Imhere looking for friends. People I can talk and share openly with, both Domsub, male or female, without worryof misunderstanding, regardless of age. Not looking for any *wink* friends, I seek discussions on a wide range of topics. Intelligence is especially appreciated and actively sought.

Some have asked me what I am looking for, beyond a friend, should that time come. It might be in my best interest to start a list, just in case she appears Intelligent, confident, authentic, groks, likes to go for walks, common sense, geeky, comfortable with silence, have interests and hobbies of her own, socially comfortable, must appreciateunderstand puzzle solving skills. Not one of them have anything to do with actual physical appearance, go figure. Im sure there will be more things added as time goes by.

Disclaimer goes here I use a wheelchair, know that up front. Were we meeting face to face that would have been obvious.


3/26/2015 12:10:40 PM: Damn, what is it with Russian Cindy?  She is admiring my profile every other day 6/21/2014 8:37:25 PM: There once was a guy who pretended to be a lesbian woman online, and he attracted anther male pretending to be a lesbian.  They fell in love and lived online happily ever after 6/12/2013 1:13:40 PM: 21 year old Doms and Dommes, with five years experience, really?  What, did you take a class in high school? 8/19/2012 1:00:58 AM: I'll take a book whore over a mindless greedy cunt every day of the week. 8/11/2012 3:28:44 AM: Instead of wasting energy complaining about the quality of the users on CM, why not raise the bar by being positive, authentic and striving to stand out instead?
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