I tend to spend a lot of my time just checking people out on here. It seems like people want some long thought out message all the time but here is the thing, i'm a conversationalist, and I tend to get to know people that way. I don't get this write me a huge ass paragraph telling me how much i love you or you want me without us knowing anything about each other. It's pretty hard for me to pour my heart out to someone I don't know. 

I'm genderfluid ask if the term is unfamiliar. 

As for what i'm looking for, dynamic. Someone I can mesh with both in the bedroom and out.

I list myself as a switch but I consider myself more of a general kinkster. 

I have taken Dominate roles both in and out the bedroom but my D/s position with someone really depends on the individual dynamic of whom i'm with. I am just more familiar with taking a Dominate role but not opposed to experimenting with the other side. Ideally it's really about the chemistry.