Here is my philosophy on a good Ds relationship basically, its chemistry that counts. We can compare our shopping lists of kinks and fetishes, but if we dont click, if we dont feel a spark, were not going to succeed together. Im fairly unorthodox in the belief that a subs needs are just as important as the Mistresss. I want to know what makes you hard or wet and use it against you, so to speak. I want you as sexually andmentally stimulated as I am. I believe a good Ds relationship is a partnership like any traditional relationship.
Dominance is HIGHLY sexual for me. So you need to be able to keep up with me. But, I have to like you when the paddles are put away and the mess is mopped up for the time being. Your mind is just as important as your urges.
I have many kinks, including that of a Mommy Domme (sharing fantasies of something secret and taboo - nursing someone at my breasts for hours) - but more traditional Ds dyamics are also important...Im very open minded, so if your kink isnt my own, Im willing to discuss it. But I dont always promise to participate in it.
I am NOT into adult babies, however, and Im not a sadist...I also am not into sissies...
