3/2/2013 5:46:31 PM: 150 feet of beautiful rope from Maui Kink arrived in the mail today. Need to test it out. Any volunteers? :)

6/26/2012 9:55:10 PM: Like so many others, the chat request thing doesn't work for me. If you want to say hi, just use the email thing.

1/28/2012 11:58:24 PM: Hello, fellow perverts. I haven't posted in a long-ass time because A) An 80-hour work week is no joke, and B) I found the woman I was shaking the world to pieces to find. She is.. she is more than I was capable of dreaming of. I still hang around here, though - perving people that deserve a second look. What can I say? I'm a voyeur (and my wonderful girlfriend also gets excited about women sometimes). I have to say, though, that CM is a goddamn cesspool. There are just.. too many depressing individuals here. I'm not talking about the down-to-earth people who have seen better days and are looking for growth, release, or connection - the kinky meek shall inherit the kinky earth. I'm talking about you motherfuckers who refuse to read the profile of the person you're messaging. I'm talking about you whores (not to be confused with professional sex workers or dominatrices) who use fetish as a flimsy excuse to take peoples' money. I'm talking about the sad fuckers who claim 'Dominance (roar!!)' as a reason to be a disgraceful asshole. But for all the shit you have to wade knee-deep through, there are a few pearls. There are those of you who demonstrate obvious love for the art of kink. Love for your deviant brothers and sisters. To those of you who take the world we were given, and make it into something beautiful and twisted for us all.. well done. I'll happily call you a friend.

6/29/2011 4:17:50 PM: I am waiting for you. I am looking for you. I will shake the world to pieces until I find you.

6/26/2011 5:03:51 PM: The basis of ANY relationship, vanilla or otherwise, must be respect, trust, and affection. Perhaps what makes a relationship kinky, then, is what we do to pervert these needs, but everything must still come from them. Punishment is given to allow the submissive the opportunity to rebuild trust (both my trust in her and her trust in herself) through a demonstration of submission and devotion. Isolation or deprivation is given to remind the sub how important, how meaningful the gift of contact and affection is. A reminder of what's at stake is trust is completely lost. Any kind of play, including acts which resemble punishment, is given to stimulate the submissive, mentally and physically. It is done to reward, to bring emotional and physical fulfillment, to allow the sub to further explore her innermost self. Acts of service (domestic, sexual, etc.) to the Dominant are done to instill pride and devotion in the submissive. And I hope everyone will pardon the cliche.. service builds character. Sometimes, even the submissive's ability to make decisions for herself must be taken away. Even this, however, should only be done if the Dominant intends on strengthening the submissive, then returning her decision-making ability. Exceptions to this must be extreme, rare, and very difficult to justify. Through all of this, even as a slave is beaten and violated while being made to lick a boot clean before she is thrown back in her cage for the night, the Dominant MUST respect the gift of submission, respect the person they are dominating, respect the relationship/arrangement, respect the need for a perverted interaction, trust that the submissive isn't withholding anything, trust that the submissive is receiving these gifts correctly, and must do all these things out of affection (even if there's disgust or disdain on the surface). If you are a submissive, and disagree, we probably won't play well. If you are a Dominant, and disagree, we probably won't get along.