I’m submissive and interested in bondage and sexual and service submission. I spent the last three years in a vanilla relationship, realized vanilla isn't fun, and am looking for someone that understands I'm new to all of this but really willing to learn. If you can't tell me what color this text is somewhere in your messages to me I will ignore you. Trust is the most important thing in a relationship to me and I want that to be built up before anything happens outside of the internet. Not into one night stands, online-only or anything like that.

Really into anal play even though I'm new at it, strapons, butt plugs, or real dicks are all fine in my book and I'd like to be able to take bigger and bigger things up there. Curious about prostate massages, milking, fisting is a very big turn on. Totally into spanking, CBT, nipple play and some pain, but nothing with blood. Being blindfolded, gagged, and bound is a big kink of mine. I believe to really be submissive you need to be willing to wear a chastity belt because you should be putting your domme's pleasure above yours and would do that if asked.

CD stuff: I enjoy crossdressing and have done it since I was 12. My serious interest is in becoming a sissy to a Mistress or Master, or a domme couple. I enjoy wearing corsets, nylons, velvet, silk, satin, latex and leather. I own several sissy dresses and am willing to expand my wardrobe based on my Owner's interests. I have a serious velvet fetish, and enjoy wearing formal and ornate velvet dresses.

Extreme stuff: I'm curious about the gimp lifestyle because it's a mix of rubber, leather, and bondage. I think gimps are really hot (I'd probably have a panic attack the first time I got in a sleepsack though) and I'd be willing to try it out with the right person and see where things go from there.

Not kink stuff: I spend the overwhelming majority of my free time studying for professional exams. When I'm not face down in my study guides and notes, I'm either watching baseball and football, playing with my dogs, watching and reading war documentaries, or snowboarding whenever it's cold enough. I'm currently focusing on trying to balance my work, sleep, free time, and studying so I can start finding time in the day to go running and swimming.

If you can't be bothered to fill out a profile or do what I've asked then I will ignore you.