I am a crossdresser, and until recently I was completely closeted. I am now out of a stifling relationship with someone who did not accept this aspect of me at all. Looking for a new dynamic with a woman who understands the needs of someone like myself and is willing to teach me the things I don't know. I am not a transgender, nor do I wish to be. I very much enjoy dressing as a woman, but have no desire to live as one full-time. I refer to myself as a "male lesbian" because that's the terminology used by Eddie Izzard to describe the proclivities of crossdressers.