People ask me all the time what I am looking for? Although I have my personal perferances for age, nothing else is set in stone. Why would I limit my tastebuds by choosing only particular kinds of fruit when I could have the whole orchard to choose from? I am open to chatting with anybody with intelligent and interesting conversation without anything other than a common interest at heart.

I have also been asked if I double domme or take part in fetish parties and again, if the situation is offerred and right, count me in.

Location, gender, race, aesthetics have no place in finding somebody to inspire me although their obviously has to be an attraction for a relationship to form. Bearing in mind that attraction is not neccessarily initially physical as the first conversations occur via CM therefore its the persons prose that catches my attention, not their face or their cock.

Now would be a good place to mention that the greatest and most powerful way for me to fuck you, is through your mind, be careful what you wish for, sometimes your heaven is really your worst hell.

First and foremost I am a Woman, the Domme is part of that Woman.My life is not part of d/s, d/s is part of my life therefore only a part of the Woman.

I do not need to dress up in leather corsets and boots to be a Domme, jeans and t-shirt I am the same Woman. The same goes for submissives, I do not need to tie them up 24/7 nor drag their sorry arses around Tescos on a collar and lead, if they are Mine they know they are mine in whatever situation presents itself. One look, one whisper, they understand exactly what I want.

I believe a d/s relationship is born from mutual trust and respect, from that comes all else. A relationship of two people where both need to be happy and fullfilled for it to be a long lasting and meaningful relationship.

Psychological bondage is a deeper bond and where my interest lies. Any twit can tie up another person, beat the snot out them and get them to submit, bondage of the mind takes a much stronger person and will...few are up for the experience.

I am a BBW (ish) so if that is an issue, click next for further profiles. What people look like isnt of interest to me, how their minds work and bodies react is. Those of the vain up their own arses sort, keep walking, Im not interested in looks without brains.

I have a family life...hard to believe huh... therefore d/s is not always neccessarily at the forefront, again if you have an issue with that, the door is open for you to leave. My family are the most important thing in the world to me and nobody will alter that, get used to it ! For these reasons, I am looking only for submissives of over 30, preferably well over 30 but not being one to appear bound by rules, I'm willing to consider most sides of the spectrum if you prove you are grown up enough to deal with it.

Another misconception I will put right here to save the endless messages with the same question...being sadistic or having sadistic tendances does not always insinuate pain is involved... "hit me" he said, "no" I said.... "please hit me" he said, "no" I said... "please, i beg you to hit me" he said, I laughed and walked away.

For those that have got this far and brave enough to message me, take note of my journal entries, this may help your message be read rather than added as a new journal entry for twit of the day.

Anything else you need to know ask, sometimes I don't bite on the first date !

Self-respect cannot be hunted.� It cannot be purchased.� It is never for sale.� It cannot be fabricated out of public relations.� It comes to us when we are alone, in quiet moments, in quiet places, when we suddenly realise that, knowing the good, we have done it; knowing the beautiful, we have served it; knowing the truth we have spoken it.� ~Whitney Griswold

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"Chain of command: I say it. You do it! End of chain."


"I only hurt you because I love the way you scream my name."
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