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SDFemDom4cuck
| Hetero Female, 51, Central, Illinois
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Evidently it is not quite clear enough. I am not here to make friends. I am here for a specific reason and I suggest reading my ENTIRE profile. I will no longer waste time responding to those who cannot comprehend what my profile says.
Sonnet 57 best describes what I seek.
Submission isn't a choice one makes; it simply is who you are. If you're confused, unsure of your ability to live this life, or looking for some kink on the side I won't be interested. If you understand and accept who and what you are then I might be interested.
D/s does not define my life but it is an important part of it. If you are unable to hold an intelligent conversation that does not revolve around kink or D/s I'm going to become bored very quickly. If you are unable to do anything but comment on my looks or send inane one line intros then I am not interested. Intelligence, humor, honesty, and sincerity are far more important to me than your continuous attempts to obtain material to jerk off to. If you are married, engaged, or otherwise involved in a vanilla relationship and simply seeking to have a dirty little secret on the side stop reading now and move along to someone else.
I am a strict disciplinarian, a firm believer in FLR, long term/permanent chastity, orgasm denial, corporal punishment/behavior modification, ball busting, and cuckolding. If you don't understand any of those terms I'm not going to explain them to you. Google is your friend; use it. I know exactly what I want and refuse to settle for less.
I do not respond to inane one sentence messages. Introductions riddled with spelling and grammar errors will also be deleted without response.I f you start with nothing but hello, hi, or a comment about my looks I am not going to respond to you. If you introduce yourself but can't discuss anything beyond kink, ask me sexually explicit questions, or request to go offline immediately prior to my requesting it I will roast your balls quicker than marshmallows over a bonfire. I am not here for your sexual entertainment or fantasy. Writing an intelligent introduction about why you feel you would be a great potential is the guarenteed way of getting a response.
Evidently what I am seeking isn't clear enough. I am seeking a Female Led Relationship leading to a Cuckold Marriage. No more than 10 years younger/older than my age.
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11/20/2016 7:21:35 PM: Heading out of town for the Thanksgiving holiday. Not much of a signal in the cornfield so sending an early Happy Thanksgiving now! Will catch up on messages when I return!
11/8/2016 10:16:34 PM: I truly fear for my country given the way this election seems to be leaning. Truly terrified. May have to open up my search overseas!
11/1/2016 8:17:28 PM: Cuckolding is a dynamic that covers a wide spectrum. Each Cuckoldresses is different from every other. There is no set or preconceived ideologies aside from what the two people involved agree to enjoy together. Even that evolves over the course of the relationship from what it may have been at the beginning.
That being said I can only speak of what has worked for me; your mileage may vary...
In the end it is a relationship like any other with the addition of kink. The foundation is still one of compatibility, communication, trust, and love. While it is great to start with knowing there is a basis of shared kink interest there still needs to be compatibility on multiple levels. Because if all there is to a relationship is a shared kink then you are going to be pretty miserable in those hours that dont involve kink. Real life is a very real part of a 24/7 relationship that many people forget about. Work deadlines are reality, family issues are reality, illness is a reality. It is not just her in leather wielding a whip 24/7 fantasy. Both sides need to be with someone they enjoy spending time with on both a vanilla and a kink level.
For me, I look at a potential and ask myself if they are someone I would want as my best friend? Would I want to spend the rest of my life with this person on a vanilla level? If the answer to both of them is yes then there is a good possible potential. No one is kinky 24/7 365. There is a balance of kink and vanilla that two people discover in life together that is as individual as the two people involved.
Best of luck in finding what works best for you!
10/3/2016 1:14:44 AM: I just love being on call overnight! Sarcasm at its finest.
Seriously, I love my co-workers and I am happy to cover for someone during a major life event but this schedule may just be the end of Me. Why can I remember the days when I went out dancing until dawn and was still in my office by 8am bright eyed and cum filled?? Sigh...
Just another 8 weeks of these overnight/double shifts to go! Yay Me!
9/21/2016 2:16:28 AM: Nothing like a shattered phone on an on call night! Normally I would at least try to sleep and the phone would wake Me if needed. I shattered my first phone ever today and it keeps losing more functioning as the night goes on. So instead of getting even a few hours sleep I am awake, monitoring an IM for the off chance an emergency occurs. Yay!!! On a positive note.... My insomnia means I am accustomed to going without sleep for a day or two on a regular basis.
I spent most of the evening perusing My original stomping grounds in the forums over on the message Board side. Returning after my previous year+ away makes me wonder what in the world has been going on over there! Kind of sad to see. It used to be a lively place filled with helpful information and helpful people.
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