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You're, looking at the wrong profile... If your looking for a prince to sweep you off your feet.. Yes, there are people out there who will but they treat others like a prize. Prizes are rarely have lasting power. Great to earn and chase and own but they do not give you the same excitement ever again. If your looking for a solution for your problems. Yes problem solving can bind a relationship, once the problems are solved there is very little to hold a relationship together.. If your looking for become useless. Welcome to the pet rock theory, I wonder how many people still take care of thier pet rocks any more. If your looking for someone who just gets you. You need to able to comminicate so understanding can happen. Instance is never as good as taking the long way around., Sex and kink are easy to find. Finding someone who is willing to put in the time to create something special is hard to find.

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 ItsMaster

 Dominant Male

 California

 6' 0"

 200 lbs

 48

 Pan

 Asian

 12/22/10

 

Actively Seeking:

Submissive Transgender

Submissive female

Sub / Slave Male

Sub/Sub Couples

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 Bondage

 Collars

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 Local BDSM Community

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 Gambling

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 Bar Hopping

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6/24/2022 9:37:48 AM

I am not interested in being your ideas of being perfect. Perfection lacks growth and exploration of who and what we are. 

You need to have the ability to grow.  To trust and to communicate. 

Kink and orgasms are easy. Working functional relationships are hard. 


6/23/2022 11:30:35 AM

Do you find a diamond or take a lump of coal and squeeze? I am a squeezer. Laughs


6/23/2022 9:44:52 AM

Do you find a diamond or take a lump of coal and squeeze? I am a squeeze. Laughs


6/22/2022 1:17:55 PM

Pole or hole centric..

If one make a transgender person pole centric, how will that transgender ever be satisfied with bottom surgery?.

There are transgenders who will op out of having bottom surgery because the partner influences them to be pole centric and not hole centric.

In the strive to be the same as everyone, people tend to wipe put what is special and unique about oneself.


6/21/2022 9:07:48 AM

Here we go again. Passionate to serve or passable  ?

prettiest thing on the block or the kindness of a soul? 

Is it the biggest or the most sensitive to my touch that matters..

 


6/11/2022 11:48:09 AM

It screams just tell me what you want me to be. Best friend, wife, lover, slut anything to please. Just to be apart and to belong.

Breathe and whoo little blank sheet of paper.

Building a bridge that crosses two peaks is easy.

Building a bridge to into a void is hard. 

 


6/10/2022 6:01:54 PM

So you got demons in your pandora's box? Laughs.. now what kind of person would I be if I could convince them to help me with you. Laughs


6/8/2022 8:08:30 PM

The gift of acceptance. It is intoxicating.. breath. You don't have to be the best label. You just have to be you..

 

 


6/5/2022 4:43:49 PM

Tangling with me can be a blessing or a curse..

Opening up your pandora's box and saying look at all those issues I can play with..

I am more frightening that the issues that plague you. 

Yea, soft and moldable clay is easy to create but lumpy hard clay brings out a challenge and makes the success much more enjoyable.

 

 


5/27/2022 7:34:22 PM

Rather be served by something worthy for an hour that a life time of worthlessness.

I do enjoy creating the struggle to become something of value.

 

 


5/24/2022 3:35:43 PM

Having a 20 something tell you about sex is  just hilarious.

So you discovered sex, congrats. Laughs.

When a newbie wants to know everything? I look at them oddly. How do you squeeze in a life time of experience into brain who isn't ready to understand or comprehend what it is experiencing..

So you have dark desires. Well of course you do, your on this website laughs.

Some people are like bugs, you shine a light and poof they scatter.

Others are like a deer in the head lights.

You are not the center of existence. If you where, I have strong words to say to you about this imperfect world. Laughs


5/22/2022 10:00:22 PM

If you spoil yours' to a point where their normal toys just don't give them the satisfaction  they need to function.

It a bit cruel to watch them slowly go crazy.

 


5/17/2022 9:18:08 AM

I don't do temporary.  Sex and kink with no string doesn't interest me. Building a great relationship take time. There a certain fustration in spending time into something that is your forever just to be hear..

Thanks and now that i am more desirable I am going out to the world. 

 

 


5/16/2022 5:00:59 PM

While there a certain joy about having naked people wandering around the house, there a side of me that is thinking. I wonder if I can get that ass smell out of the sofas and the floor. Laughs..

A home should never smell like a dam locker room. 

If your naked on a table as part of the decoration.  Passing gas isn't acceptable.

Why is the decoration changing colors?   Why is there wax?  I really don't think burning ass hair is very appetizing..

 


5/16/2022 7:09:24 AM

If I don't know all of those dark secrets that never see the light of day. There is something wrong with the relationship.

While it fun to turn someone's fantasy into reality. It another to inspire them to create more. Down the rabbit hole? 

More like create a bottomless rabbit hole. 


5/15/2022 12:58:15 AM

If I can't amp up your desires to serve, to be adventurous. To be passionate about life. I am not the one for you..

Yes there are those who desire bimbos and meat puppets. I am not one of those.

 


5/14/2022 2:40:35 PM

Someone asked how they would fit into my life..

They mentioned cooking cleaning and laundry...

Laughs 

I am not going to have a brilliant and bright soul flipping burgers to do so would be very stupid on my part..


5/13/2022 11:26:38 PM

So what behind your mask that you have a tight grip on?  Your coping mechanism? Your fears and insecurities?  Can you really stand what you are and what you have become.  Are you that afraind??  That shameful?  In the world that you have created and desperately attempted to control and cope with. Can you even look at yourself?  Are you too damaged?  Has your bad experiences consumed what you are and left you a live nerve ending. Just reacting and coping?  Has your desires and addictions consumed you so that you just can't feel anymore?  

Life is more than just the desperate desire to not feel anymore.  

 

If I can just light a soul on fire, imagine the heights it could reach.


5/13/2022 5:27:59 PM

Pandora's box, I don't chase prey down to ravish it until there is nothing left. 

Being responsible to me means that I do understand the addictive nature of what I do to others.

I do not worry about the ones who have left. I am only need to concern with the one that stays.

Having holes and parts that orgasm does equates to having a great relationship.

People focus of the slaves and submissive naked on the floor. They fail to realize what it takes to have a strong alpha type to trust you enough so that they can let go and be that happy naked person on the floor ready to serve up to their ability..

It not how strong the orgasms are, it about how strong the relationship is. 

If I don't know you like the back of my hand.  There is a serious problems that need to be addressed.


5/13/2022 2:36:09 PM

Nothing greater than taming a strong willed highly emotional person.

Oh you think taming equals breaking them?  

There is no joy in dealing with an empty soul..

I enjoy building trust and understanding.. i tend to make those around me a bit more crazier.

 

Like jet fuel to the fire.  

 


5/10/2022 5:34:20 PM

If your involded with someone.. congratulations but I am not interested in you.

I am uninterested in training other people's partners, slaves or subs. The basic that one is yours don't be lazy..

I am not fodder for your books, research or fuel for your role playing.

I am not your backup plan. 

I am not perfect but i do have passion for life..


5/9/2022 6:34:21 PM

If I can't set your soul on fire, I am smart enough to let you go so you can get what you need..

Your misery isn't  fun nor does it add fuel to my passions. 

Happiness is addictive and will make you put up with stuff any sane person would run from.

 


5/8/2022 8:38:50 PM

I don't created bimbos or meat puppets.

 


5/4/2022 5:02:52 AM

I have never asked or demanded to take over a person's life but i tend to end up there..

People can't function very well with little sleep. Keeping a person in a sleep cycle that they can function better during the day us important..

Eating right is important.  How fo you expect to be at your peak if your having issues with low blood sugar?

Some people's fashion sense has a lot to be desired. I don't think the homeless look will ever be in fashion.

Being messy and disorganized Waste time and effort. A project or goal will take more time just in finding what you need.

Learn how to effectively communicate is important. If people can not understand you, how can you express your needs and wants. 

Developing emotional is important. It allows you pick your self up after something gone wrong 

Exercise keeps a body strong. It allows for a better life..

Got to have trust an island of a person is rarely a happy soul. 

 


5/3/2022 1:20:19 AM

Purpose, focus, passion, pride in accomplishment, safety, following leadership, trust, communication.

These are important to me before you are naked face down and ass up on a spot on the floor.

 


5/2/2022 1:04:20 PM

If you have no trust to give and no respect. Why tangle with me?

Yes, I have the ability to fix a lot of personal issues that you may have but you cannot build a relationship based on problems.

It the desire to please that counts more that 10 gigs of naked pictures you have..

I am not an e ticket ride. 

 


4/27/2022 7:35:31 AM

Some people are cursed with an experience that affaspects them for life..

One has to be stronger than the demons that plague another person soul. 

I do understand that the stuff that I do that I am.going to hated for life. 

I understand the human condition that wants to be special and one of a kind..

A person can be  traumatized to a point where they become me centered.  The world for them circles around them. Rarely do they see how thier action affect others.. it takes time and effort to javelin those turtles pop thier heads back up..


4/26/2022 10:12:38 AM

Never base a relationship on problems and issues. 

Once the problems are solved, you get a thanks and off they go. 

 


4/25/2022 2:51:21 PM

How can you compete against my history of what I have done? 

You don't you move forward and blaze your own path.


4/22/2022 4:10:40 PM

Applying transitioning techniques to a female, you tend to end up with a female who is always going to be chased by those who couldn't see the diamond in the rough. 

If I know you can dress better, expect your crappy clothes to be tossed.

Putting your working arms in a cast means I am going to have fun feeding you. It makes going convert going to the bathroom negotiation time. 

Head held high and walk with grace. Don't walk like a spoiled grumpy person. 

 


4/18/2022 12:34:14 AM

The hard path screams at you that you are alive.

Failure happens but success is when you are able to get back up.

Perfect mean there is no room to grow.

Beauty can be it's own trap.

And easy life is rarely satisfying 

 


4/16/2022 11:45:30 AM

There is a certain security in structured life.  Goals are reached, a lot of unknowns are now known. 

The simple things..

When to sleep and when to awake..

Knowing what to dress and what to eat

 


4/12/2022 10:01:06 AM

There are times when I just won’t engage in a conversation. 

If your in a relationship even an open one. I know the issues of my influence on person is not going to end pretty or happy. 

Someone has to be responsible.

Yes, I read profiles and it is your right to not engage in long distance. You have to be a bit crazy and have a lot of trust. Some don't have that.

If you have want to be nothing but a meat puppet, there are a lot who would want that. That isn't me. It the coming to America hopping and barking woman thing.  Laughs

 

 


4/11/2022 3:53:27 PM

Humiliation is an art form..

Too much and the natural instincts to run kick in.

Not enough and there is no emotional response.

Too often and immunity sets in.

In waves like a storm roaring in and out of one's life is the best


4/11/2022 3:46:52 PM

If you invite me into your head and I chase your demons away. You do know your going to be left with me in your head.

Frying pan or fire laughs.

 

 


4/9/2022 8:23:25 AM

Laughs, i was accused of being controlling.

You found me where? 

I am old and have dealt with lots of peeps issues.

When your blood surgar is all over the place, it is time to regulate what you eat and when you eat and how much you eat.

Is this controlling or just making sure health is maintained.

With a regular sleeping pattern, a person can better handle what they need to take care of..

How many hours of sleep do you function best at? 

Knowing what your going to eat makes meal prep easier.

Knowing what you need to accomplish makes you better prepared for it.

And the list of stuff is long and frustrating people or people looking in complain about the control.

Laughs


4/8/2022 11:54:34 AM

Spot on the floor. 

It just a spot on the floor. It has very little meaning for most.

Why does this spot have any value? 

Why should you be naked at this spot? 

Common sense say it should wear clothes to cover up.

Expose your body for judgment? How scary. 

There is safety away from the spot and fully clothed.

Others might see you naked exposed on your spot.

There a certain bravery that it needs to be there.

It not the spot that has value near a set of feet. 

It the relationship and history to get a person there that is the value.

Some spots on the ground are priceless..


4/6/2022 9:38:08 AM

It's just a different way of living.

 


4/5/2022 5:48:36 PM

So your into humiliation. Humiliation is an wonderful art form.

It maybe as simple as asking will this fit? 

Or making a t shirt of someone's orgasm face. 

The joys of post orgasm questions verses pre orgasm questions.

If you don't dress enough to please a quick stop at the clothes donation box comes in handy..


4/3/2022 8:03:16 AM

Being responsible means  knowing what to do afterwards.

If you take peeple down the path of over stimulation and  dependent of who they are based on your alpha drive, sending them back into the vanilla world can be cruel.

It is like opening a pandora's box than leaving it on it's own.


3/31/2022 2:14:27 PM

Breast and implants.

Little transgender ask me about them. 

My advice..

Doesn't matter what size they are.

I rather play with ones that are sensitive to my touch.

Surgery Doesn't promote sensitivity..

 

 

 


3/31/2022 1:11:38 PM

Some day your prince will come?  Laugh while you been taught this. Life teaches another lessons.

Remember my opinions don't mean nothing.

Move along move along..

 


3/30/2022 4:33:58 PM

But but I could have so many at my feet if I taught them.

Blah.  Teaching the ways I want them to behave won't set them up for the next person.

I am not a ride at Disneyland laughs.

I am not interested in adding fuel to your cosplay role playing ways.

Laugh to got to be a little crazy to get involded and been through a bit of heck.

 


3/29/2022 10:41:09 PM

A little something told me I would be surprised to tell me what it was into. 

Told it, If your in a relationship and approach me as a single. 

I am not interested in a person I can steal away. 

I tend to be intense and have a habit of amplifying clinginess.

I like mine to be happy and motivated to serve. 


3/28/2022 8:53:45 AM

When a pup wanders through a crowd attempting to get someone  to pull its finger.  Everyone knows what the pup is attempting.

Never assume a person is going to react the same.

Grabbing the finger and squeezing hard, put the panic fear in them like a trap animal.

Pulling them closer, I am in kicking distance. 

Now it is desperately trying to avoiding being kicked and is trapped by it's own finger.

I let go and laughed and told it, those fart pranks were old when I was a kid.

Every time it came in ear shot, I would say give me your finger.. it would run off like most pups do..

Now I have something I can use to make it run away.

 


3/22/2022 6:05:44 PM

It says it into humiliation..

So I dyed it's body hair bright pink. 

It avoids me now. Laughs.

I should have shaved the words I am so pretty on it hairy body.

 

 


3/21/2022 1:52:38 PM

I am not into locking someone up and throwing away the key. 

While I am capable of feeding a gold fish in a bowl, I don't find goldfish very interesting or amusing.

 

If you remove makeup from a lesbian, they tend to go tomboy on you. 

If you remove  makeup from a heterosexual, they get happy they don't have to wear makeup.

If you remove makeup from a male homosexual, as long as it not thier concealer. They can live with it.

Removing makeup from a transgender,  oh my god!!. the world is coming to an end.

Laughs..

Can you cook? Can you clean? Can you dress to please? Can you create understanding? Can you resolve issues?

Can you tell me when something goes numb when your in ropes? 

Can you be strong enough to be just you with all your faults.

 

 

 


3/8/2022 4:07:52 PM

I am not interested in making you feel bad about yourself. In this world you have to be tough enough so that negative people won't have an effect on you.  There a certain amount of stubbornness and metal toughness you have to be just to be you.  There are those who coping mechs are to transfer bad energy from them to someone else.  Your a victim thus you go through life making other victims. 

It one of the reasons when take on someone for a relationship. Having the ability to be who you are is important. Being unaffected against those who are way too happy to break you down.  These are more important things than kink and sex. 

 


2/25/2022 10:25:46 AM

So what kind of person do I produce?  Good question. 

I produce fighters. Line in the sand person. A person who has enormous  strengths to go after the evils that this world produces. To teach inner strength and a balance of life.  

A purpose for something greater and a passion for life that others notices. 


2/17/2022 9:37:56 AM

It not the sex or the kink. It the trust and the smile afterwards 


2/10/2022 8:19:31 AM

Pushed beyond limits, a heap of naked humanity is left. The highly charged emotional state come in.

The curtain of who and what you are comes to light. That pandora's box has been open and exposed to be seen.

One tends to find a lot of fear and many lost in purpose looking for direction. 

It not the sex or the kink. I enjoy what comes after.  I know iam odd and weird but I am happy who I am. 

Study and practice harder become a better you. 


2/3/2022 2:17:17 PM

If you cannot spend the time to get to know someone, do you really need them mucking around in your head?

If your not mine, I am not your source of bdsm knowledge nor am I your teacher. 

Telling me your going to settle for me, means you need to keep looking.

 


1/31/2022 10:16:43 PM

Instance hook up and meet ups. Really? not even interested. I rather not compete with your fantasy of who I am. I am not an actor I am just me. Actors and Actresses can feed you all the things you are craving for but in the end. It is just an act. After the show, you are left with just a memory of what should have been real. They are still a waste of time effort and life.

Time is the great truth revealer. 


1/31/2022 4:39:28 PM

I was offered a body to do as I wished. I thank them and moved on.

I have people with authorities wanting to be mine but i am one of those who like pointing and saying with pride that one is mine.

I don't tangle with other's if they have a relationship. I know my nature. I tend to create very needed people. Relationships is an art form and once things click. It quiet amazing but things never go right when a person starts to compare.

I understand many here have a great need but a great need isn't always a great foundation for something special..


1/27/2022 5:19:08 AM

If your seeking perfection, keep seeking. Laughs.

I seeking something that can handle the rough spots in life. If life knock you down and you can get up quickly. This is something worthy to tangle with. 

If you make your own drama, you won't stand a chance. I kick those people out of my life to achieve a quieter and peaceful experience in life.

I surround my self with those who make bridges not burn them down. 

If nobody gets you, maybe it is you and perhaps seeking therapy will give you the tools to create understanding between you and others. 

I am all human, with all the typical flaws. 


1/25/2022 7:14:25 AM

How much work are you willing to invest to be the person you are?

I always been attracted to souls who take the hard road to be who they are.

Do the right thing and be hated or do the easy thing? I am hated. 

The nice thing about being older is realizing that most others opinions means crap.

Being responsible is being accountable to your self and your actions..


1/20/2022 11:49:41 AM

Breaking is easy.. creating is hard. 

Keeping your passions high is as important as life itself.

If you amp up a person, you have to understand that it will get more attention. 

If it is not use to intense attention  sooner or later, it will wander off.

Grass is always greener syndrome. 

If you close that door. Doors don't open up again or someone has taken it's place. 

 


1/16/2022 11:09:02 AM

Old person rattling? I have always rattled on laughs.

The rough experiences make a person stronger but it shouldn't dictate which path we go through life.

We would never have learned to walk if that 1st fall dictated our choices. 

Communication is not just talking, it is bridging understanding. 

Irresponsible people do Irresponsible things. You should not be shock when Irresponsible people start acting Irresponsible. 

 


1/12/2022 11:48:59 AM

Pushed too hard, it experiences overload. It grs it coping mechanisms desperately trying to preserve what it was who it was. It is desperately trying to keep anything that was once it was. Under constant pressure every wall every experience just melts away. It just trying to cope with the here and now. It now just concentrates on the here and now.  The past has lost it grip and the ability to influence it's life.  It is just a live nerve. Now the question becomes, what does it become now?  Slut or Saint?  Freedom to fly or a caged trophy? 

There that side of me that love to open pandora's boxes but some boxes need to stay shut. 


1/10/2022 12:38:41 PM

Some people are like pandora's box.  Opening them up doesn't always means it a good event like Christmas presents. Lol

Sometime you end up slaying their demons but this doesn't mean once they are at peace that they will stay.  

Sometime the only thing that you end up with after a relationship is memories.


1/4/2022 11:26:55 PM

Still don't understand dismissing something that is mine.

If I move I take what is mine with me.

If I put time and effort into something, it worth something. Discarding it doesn't make sense to me.

 


12/30/2021 12:58:50 AM

The joys of micromanagement means you never going to get an answer to the question where do you want to eat.  Laughs

Welcome to picking out what it dresses like every day.

What it eats and when it goes to the bathroom.

It takes time to train and organize a messy life.

It take time and effort to straight out all of it mental and physical issues.

And once it is back on track with a functional life.

The typical thanks and goodbye happens. 

What a big time sink laughs

Been told if I make them insecure they will stick around but I don't tangle with people to give them issues.


12/25/2021 7:43:06 PM

Merry freaken Christmas.

May the chains that bind you free your soul.

May you reach the sexual heights you desire.

Being a submissive doesn't mean your docile.

A bright and passionate soul beats out any body shape.

A non passable transwoman who struggles so hard to be desirable that they can teach lesbians to be better lesbians. 

A Gay person understands the hate just for being themselves. Being Gay is not a choice, it just who you are.

Time doesn't heal all wounds. Sometime it curses our lives down a path we did not ask for.

Some people can't handle the intensity, others take In delight of ramping it up.

Remember it is better to cut the ropes off when nerves are being pinched.  You can always buy more ropes. 


12/21/2021 1:30:20 PM

Cause and effect.

If you train yours to have mutiple orgasms like a freaken fountain. Expect to buy more beds and bedding materials.

If you leave yours in a box for too long your going have to Expect there will be poop in the box.

If you train yours to be a bimbo don't ask it about tax issues

If you transition a male into a female. Trust me some one is going to hate you for that.

If you transition a female into a male. Trust me a lot more women are going to hate you.

If you training a pet, sometimes it will chew up your stuff for attention.

If you train a pet to go outside, it will piss off the gardener.

 

 


12/18/2021 1:07:17 AM

Bdsm equipment, I don't collect them. I enjoy making what I used. I don't reuse old toys on new relationships.

I rather create a fresh memory with a new peice of equipment that have that fresh memory compete with something from the past.

 

 


12/14/2021 7:44:50 AM

I understand the addictive nature of the things I do. We are social animals punishment is removing the social needs we crave. There is a reason why isolation is a form of punishment.

So if I am the source of intense passion and control. The results of removing that kind of influence quickly is always never good. 

Permanent damage isn't my goal. 


12/9/2021 9:38:15 PM

If I wanted sex or kink, it would be so easy but no i want someone who is tough enough to survive failures and grow from them.

Scars you get from life makes you more interesting. 

 


11/22/2021 10:09:11 AM

Some whine about problems. 

Others post about it..

Than there are those who roll up thier sleeves..

 

Laughs


11/14/2021 10:08:31 PM

I am not your therapist. I am not your solution nor am I your ATM. 

If you can't trust me leave. 

If I am not good for you, run.

If your looking for an escape I am not even close to being a knight.

My kind of relationship, takes time effort and a lot of thankless work.

Knowing how to cook and clean is as important as listening and  being emotionally stable.

 


11/5/2021 4:12:14 PM

Yea this old soul can still attract a 20 something laughs but I am old and appericate those who have battle wounds that life have inflicted on them.  The people who struggle and clung on to life are more passionate about life. Rough and tumble. We carry our scars with pride. 

Submission is more than just being tied and having orgasms.

Sometime it is hating to tap dancing naked but you do it anyways.

 


11/2/2021 12:54:25 PM

How you serve is more important than your looks. 

How you please is more important than the shape of your body. 

How you react around me is more important than terabytes of naked photos of you.

 


11/1/2021 2:15:17 PM

To serve me is to scream out my name in fustration. Laughs

It not your body that interests me. It the art I can create with it. 

If I have done well,  you will be desired and chased and not an meat puppet or a pet rock.

Dealing with me is a full time job. Laughs


10/22/2021 6:33:13 PM

Time to celebrate, Journals are back.

The older you are the stronger influence you need to have effective change.

 


4/21/2018 5:02:14 PM
I see an unhappy soul and I have an urge to fix it. But once fixed they move on..

4/21/2018 11:53:17 AM
Don t curse people with your own issues. They have enough on their own.. If I can't sculpture you naked and put that in a gallery.. your not for me.

4/20/2018 1:22:54 PM
Conversion therapy is a bogus. They claim. Turning gay people straight. Yet those same people are afraid we are turning straight people gay.. Kind of bogus.. laugh

4/19/2018 12:46:57 AM
Begging pleading screaming Stripped of your freaken walls.. Your lies fall on to deaf ears.. Your fake promises are noises,,, You can't act your way out.. You have nothing to bargain with.. How are you going to deal with a reality that you will have to endure.. Scream and no one hears Cry and no one cares. All you have to do is survive until and maybe you can build your walls to cover the raw nerve you become.. Sanity has left the building and emotions are running rampaging unchecked.. Can you ever be the same? Would you ever want to be?

4/17/2018 10:07:35 PM
People ask me why it doesn't upset me when people grab their privates and run for the hills.. Wouldn't you rather spend time with those who want that special relationship? Why should I chase those who are not willing to work hard to have something special.. My life continues with or without them.. door open and doors close.. nature of life.. never worry about the one who got away. Always celebrate the one you got..

4/16/2018 11:00:12 PM
If your not honest, how do you expect to find what your looking for? People wonder why I am so clueless when it comes to moives and tv shows.. Simple I find a real person more interesting.. I rather spend the time rigging up a person. Every body is different and it take time and an artistic eye to make a piece of human art.. I spend time exploring who and what you are.. Giving you tasks to complete and giving you structure you crave..p Spend time influncing get who and what you are.. Finding new ways to amuse us and push limits. I can take your ears off about those who I was lucky enough to experince a very close relationship. But ask me about the latest moive or who acts in them. I will give you look of who cares.. Laughs

4/16/2018 9:07:57 AM
So you want someone to get who and what you are.. It's starts by communication.. If you hide away, People are willing to ignore who and what you are. Over comming shyness isn't easy but it is necessary if you seek a better life you are living..

4/15/2018 10:49:44 AM
If you tickle a tail long enough.. Don't be surprise if you get claws and bite marks..

4/15/2018 10:47:14 AM
I hear frustrations of others a lot.. Don't let the fool and idiots keep you from the happiness you seek.. There a reason why you have to be strong... To find what you need and to hang on to it when you find it..

4/15/2018 9:03:29 AM
Do you know what your doing today, Tomorrow or the next day? Structure allows you to know what your doing and when your doing it. Much like knowing your going to church on sundays..

4/13/2018 11:21:23 PM
I rather have you show me your trust than your nake body.. I rather know what in your heart than what your kinks. I rather know your honest with me than to tell me pretty lies.

4/13/2018 9:50:45 AM
Breath and relax and focus on what is important to you. Do not let other people curse you with their own issues.

4/12/2018 11:49:03 PM
I demand the best out of you cause I know your capable of it. I teach you cause I know you can learn. I expect you to fail and to get right back up again.

4/9/2018 5:42:39 PM
It declared it's devotion to me. I raised an eye brow in disbelief. It said it would do any kinky sexual desire my dark mind could think of. It said it would endure a life time of pain. I asked for proof. Anything anything. It would post naked videos to prove it self. I told it i was going to send it back to college and send it to music class after school and on the weekends dance class so it will know how to move with grace. It grabbed it's privates and ran towards the hills. Who would have thought school was it's hard limit.

4/9/2018 1:28:25 PM
Transforming the easy part is dealing with the day to day afterwards is hard.

4/8/2018 2:30:42 PM
Amping up your already high sex drive is like adding jet fuel to a camp fire. Just need to be cautious that you don't melt down in the process..

4/7/2018 4:59:23 PM
I wield a lot of power not because I enjoy the power. I wield that kind of power cause some people's demons are really that strong.

4/7/2018 2:04:12 PM
I have to stay strong to keep those demons in your head away. I bring clam and order. It is my nature.

4/6/2018 11:18:31 AM
Rules protocols and structure is important. It gives comfort in knowing where you should be and what you need to be doing.

4/1/2018 1:02:46 AM
It is Easter, now how many vibrating eggs can I stick up in there? Did You know they have odd vibrating carrot sex toys? Bunny in bondage. Laughs

3/31/2018 4:01:42 PM
This picture represents your desires? You know that person in the picture can be you.. Have you ever seen a person grab their privates and run towards the hills? Laughs

3/30/2018 4:02:21 PM
What have you accomplished in your life? Don't know? I got plans for you. I laugh and they run towards the hills. Do i chase after them? No not even a step. Why? I know the kind of life I lead isn't for everyone. If they run early it means they are not going to be around when life gets tough and starts to begin to have real value. It not my job to give you a life of comfort. It it is my job to give you a life you can look back and be proud of. Even naked at my feet. If not that your naked at my feet that counts. It is how in the the heck you got thier which is important..

3/29/2018 5:16:23 PM
Good ones too far away or just to lazy to travel.. Laughs German slaves are fun in an nonsense kind of way. Kiwi slaves have sparks and a great amount of passion.. Aussie slaves are direct an have a unique sense of humor. Canadian slaves eat a lot less than the American counter parts. Ugrain slaves try pretty hard to please. Swedish slaves are not afraid of hard work and love to party. Iceland slaves will do about anything to avoid boredom. I always appreciate those who travel far to find what they want and need. I always take it as a sign of great passion for what they want..

3/28/2018 9:52:13 AM
If I just needed a wet hole or 18hr bjs, that I could find quiet easily. I need the trust. I need to lead. I need to have a extremely deep relationship. Clinginess is a plus in my book. I enjoy the obssevice compulsive nature of who I am. Coming up with new ways of bongage is quiet fun for me.

3/26/2018 12:45:07 PM
Yea yea push you until you break blah blah blah. It is what happens afterwards which is more important. Find the one who going be responsible enough to put you back together afterwards. I see a sea of broken souls. So I roll up my sleeves..

3/26/2018 8:33:42 AM
Major changes in who and what you are equals major conflicts and an extreme amount of struggling. This path isn't for those who want to find happiness. It is a path for those who struggle to acquire it.

3/23/2018 10:01:16 AM
Rip Craig list personal. I suspect there is going to be an increase in members here..

3/23/2018 9:26:37 AM
I wonder if my words fall on deaf ears. Relationship before the kink. Given time the truth does come out..

3/21/2018 8:16:46 PM
Scream my name and make me smile...

3/21/2018 9:20:36 AM
I don't care how ugly or fat you are. Service and submission are more important factors..

3/20/2018 10:49:28 AM
Don't care how famous or smart you are. I seek submission.. Face down ass up..

3/20/2018 7:40:18 AM
Zero interest in lazy people. Find me a person who understands that a great relationship take a lot of time and effort. I enjoy the intensity, the fustration and the clinginess. Delights of taking the hard path.. The value of something is different between found it, earned it, and made it. Made it is always harder and has a higher level of value..

3/16/2018 9:04:47 AM
So you want to give me your body.. Yawns... The real fun is when I am in your head..

3/15/2018 10:15:56 AM
At a function. 6 subs at my feet. I am holding court. I am attracting attention. It doesn't matter who meets you at a function or who is at your feet. It matters who you leave with.

3/14/2018 8:37:44 AM
Someone once thought that sending me a picture would get me interested in them. If I want a picture of you, I would take it myself face to face and in person.

3/13/2018 12:26:09 PM
If you send out message of i like your profile. You better have read it before sending me a message. A lie is never a good base for a relationship..

3/13/2018 12:19:26 PM
So you don't know what you are? Given enough pressure. The truth comes out really quickly.

3/9/2018 6:51:27 AM
ice cold hands. Vanilla will run away and scream that is cold. A submissive will hate it but it will put up with it the discomfort. A slave will see my cold hands and will warm them up.

3/7/2018 8:30:38 PM
I live to be put in charge of who and what you are.. I delight in bring out the best in you.. I smach your ass when your lazy. I growl at those who try to tear you apart. I don't live to control you.. I live to see the best you can be.. The hard road..

3/6/2018 1:55:19 AM
Being wanted and needed. Are you a joy to be around? Do you leave a person emotional drained or do you leave a person wanting to see you again. Being naked and always orgasmic isn't a sure fire method of getting that relationship you want.. Short cuts rarely work and seldom last..

3/4/2018 7:26:35 PM
Making you into something useless doesn't suit me at all. Some people just eat others souls and turns them into poop. The long hard path means with an artist eye you enhance what is there and create something better than you found it. Yes, I can create a meat puppet but shoving a hand up a meat puppet. Well it is like talking to yourself. Soon or later talking to yourself just makes you a little crazy like in the sitting on the other side of the bus kind of way. I rather inspire craziness than to be crazy..

3/4/2018 2:38:29 PM
Push to the limits. What will we find behind your walls. The hell you created your self or the piece of heaven you created to share..

3/4/2018 7:30:50 AM
If you can be sway and influnced by someone's bags of fat, drooling hole or some ugly wrinkled thing, what does that say about you? If you can be sway by trust, communication and loyalty, this speak volumes of who and what you are. These things are important for any long term relationship, But unfortunately you can't take a snap shot of them. Laughs..

2/28/2018 3:18:08 PM
It's funny how some will give you their bodies, Until you stop by a European waxing salon.


2/27/2018 2:46:12 PM
It should be naked but never afraid. Fear is a great motivator to get someone to do something. It is easy to inspire fear. But I don't take the easy route. I rather inspire you to be mine that to use power and fear to motivate your submission.

2/27/2018 7:28:38 AM
If it cries for attention and you them a path for special attention. If they refuse that path, I tend to give them time but like most opertunities. It changes over time.. Life is amazing but I hate waiting due to life is short..

2/24/2018 8:52:04 AM
Cause and effect. If you don't put effort into your job, you run the risk of being fired as you should be.

2/24/2018 6:33:22 AM
Odd how it made a request not to speak with me again. Sure not a problem, Post it's comment on it's profile so if I ever run across it again. I won't talk to it.. Put it on hide so it won't show up on any search.... Put it on block so it won't clutter my mail box... It asked, I fullfilled it's request and Now it complains.. I find a great amount of humor in it's fullfulling of it's request...

2/24/2018 5:33:21 AM
Stripped of who and what you pretend to be, what is left? There are some who have nothing left. Who and what they are have been forgotten and forsaken.. They can only offer nothing cause there is nothing left. Poor meat puppet. They are just needed holes with nothing to give...

2/22/2018 4:24:52 PM
When did m.o.n.k.e.y. become a censored word? Laughs

2/22/2018 6:13:10 AM
Control freak? I laugh. Nope There are benefits in keeping on time. Diets are easier to deal with. Eating 6 small meals a day keeps blood sugars more level. Proper amount of sleep keeps a person health. Planned meals makes it easier to shop and manage the foodv you buy. Dressing to please, it shortens the time to pick out clothes to wear. There is security in knowing what you need to accomplish during the day and knowing what you need to do for the week.. The is an advantage in knowing that what you do is pleasing. Your partner functions better happier. A person who serves well, is a source of joy and that improves and makes the relationship stronger and tighter. Some see it as control but I see it as a result of trust in the relationship.

2/21/2018 8:36:24 AM
A good submissive, is always more fun and entertaining than the crap is on tv. There are ropes and bondage positions to try. There are tasks that need to be accomplished.. Nude dancing comes to mind. There is something fun about correcting a body pose with a cane. Head up arms straight and 1 2 3 4

2/21/2018 12:22:31 AM
Ice cold hands.. The screams when I warmth them up on you... I smile

2/19/2018 4:23:52 PM
Doesn't understands why a lesbian sub tried to get a sexual response from me. It's not mine. I don't take kindly to being subjected to other people's strange ideas. Lesbian thought it could push my buttons. Welcome to reality. I kicked it's privates and walked to a trash can and threw out my shoes. Pain in the ass. I miss my shoes.

2/16/2018 1:10:27 AM
Having strong influnce, I see the great good it can create. I also see the destructive nature of a strong influnce when applied without a care of consequent.

2/13/2018 10:30:48 PM
Never fall in love.. Always cursed with love.. People fall out of love.. Curses take extra ordinary effort to remove the curse.........

2/9/2018 8:59:39 AM
Correcting bad behavior. Sometime it as simple as saying no, don't do that. Other time you have to be creative. Dance teaches where your body is in space. Body location is important to when you walk about. Some people walk like thier spines are made of cooked spaghetti. Step it up one two three..

2/2/2018 7:39:12 AM
If you fill your life with people who do not care. You will have a life filled with crappy experinces. I rather be alone than have a life filled with crappy people.

2/1/2018 1:07:12 PM
I grow tired of passive aggressive vanilla people. I invade their personal space look them straight in the eye and tell them. I don't find their behavior acceptable and they better fix. While people don't like being told what to do. I rather not suffer other peoples crappy behaviors.

2/1/2018 10:47:57 AM
There a little town in Italy that sells houses for a buck but you have to spend 25k in three years to improve the house you bought.. I was thinking i could have a few house submissives live there. Interesting though maybe something to dwell on.

1/31/2018 10:26:42 PM
The more you become unreliable the more easier you are to be replaced. It is easy to fake something to the person who has never had real..

1/29/2018 1:05:57 PM
Just because you want sex, doesn't mean it will happen..

1/26/2018 10:02:01 AM
Tied in ropes naked and so wet that it drips on the floor.. Safe word was invoked . Ropes where cut loose and a blanket was wrapped around it. It wanted to continue the session.. It didn't happen. It offered many sexual things to continue.. It was told no. It just wanted to know that if it used it's safe word that things would stop. I look at it as a failure of having enough trust to know that with out experimenting. More trust exercises are needed before this kind of event ever happens again but I know it will find something easier,.

1/21/2018 11:11:38 PM
It said it's a no limit slave. So I used a little hair dye and gave it a pink eyebrow.. Eyebrows coloration is now a hard limit..

1/21/2018 4:44:04 PM
So many want to be that prize on the shelf. Prizes on a shelf typical just attract dust. I don't want something that needs to be dusted off every few months. Lol

1/21/2018 6:19:10 AM
Addictive to what I do to you isn't the same as being in love..

1/15/2018 4:31:46 PM
My mind is a dark and scary place. That is why I come up with so many ways to keep you on your toes. There is something fun about cutting off clothes and tossing them in the fire. It makes space in the closet and you can go shopping afterwards..

1/13/2018 9:39:56 PM
Sometimes you find a little broken something discarded and forgotten. You spend time and effort fixing it. It than spreads it wings and flys away. That is the nature of broken things. Sometime all you get is a glimpse of what could be. This is the curse of the fixer.

1/10/2018 9:28:58 AM
Relationships takes an investment of time and effort. If you invest so little of yourself you will surely reap the small return.

1/8/2018 8:22:46 PM
Under water breathing Through a tube. Imagine all the smell one can share. Did you know certain smell are now someone hard limit.

1/5/2018 4:41:49 PM
It seems someone is attempting to read and make sense of my journal. I wish them luck. Ask questions if you need too.

1/4/2018 11:48:12 AM
Saying your a bad girl and asking for punishment is just to vanilla for me. Rewarding that behavior is just going to cause issues in the long run.

1/1/2018 10:12:05 PM
New year, new tasks, new ways of training. A year of new hope..

12/29/2017 12:15:24 AM
Sing for me. I want to hear your soul.. No cheating I don't want to hear other people's songs. I want to hear yours. Sing to me your feelings. Sing to me your fears and hopes..

12/29/2017 12:11:08 AM
If you don't keep up I will run you over if your not mine. If your mine I will tie you to a moving dolly and make you into a human pull toy. Keep up.

12/25/2017 12:32:59 AM
It screams, I will do anything to be yours...

I told it to be great.

I told it to be strong.

I told it to be smart.

I told it to be amazing.

I told it learn from it's failures.

I told it to never lie to it's heart..



12/24/2017 8:50:58 AM
Life is pretty amazing. Merry Christmas. Find and keep your happiness.

12/21/2017 9:08:16 AM
Look so like CS is having issues with thier private messaging system. See you should have given me your cellphone number.. Laughs..

12/16/2017 9:44:32 PM
Some little fluffy of a thing is seeking a Master... Now seeking a master is different from seeking me... It looks for the idea of what it define as a master... It doesn't seek who I am .. I do not live up to the label.. I live to be me,,

12/16/2017 6:38:13 AM
There is comfort in protocol, Understanding what is expect mean there no need to guess what you need to be doing at what time..

12/16/2017 4:31:45 AM
So what do I expect from you? I replied greatness.

12/16/2017 4:22:16 AM
No thank you, I pass.. An old group who I use to lead wants me to lead once again. They offered me control of something I created years ago. I went my way when safety protocols were ignore due to hotness and cuteness. Safety is my line in the sand. They offered me a choice of newbies to train, access to a work shop to build equipment, a place hold events. They said they would let me lead the group as I have done in the past. If I wanted a group to lead, I would have built another group to lead. You need passion to do what makes you happy. I rather pour passion into one. It is much more personal and satisfying. So I say.. No thank you, I pass..

12/15/2017 7:06:22 AM
It show me it's naked body... I kick it in the privates... If I didn't ask for it. Your just using your nakedness as a tool.. Put your stinking clothes back on. You can be naked on my terms not on yours terms...

12/14/2017 9:12:40 PM
You offer me sex as much as I want and yet I pass.. You offer me money to spend on stuff I desire and yet I pass.. You offer me you and it peeks my interest. You offer me you striving to create a happy life with me You offer me trust in my judgment. You offer me commincation from the heart.. And it peeks my interests

12/13/2017 9:36:19 PM
So you are into humiliation.. Let's take a picture of your face having an orgasm. Make a wonderful t shirt image. I hear crickets..

12/13/2017 10:22:49 AM
If you are not mine, it isn't my job to make it easier for you.

12/13/2017 7:09:01 AM
Most people avoid the struggles in life. Why go the hard way when you can go the easy way? If you truly listen to a soul who has been through hell, they understand and appreciate life so much so compared to those who had it easy.

12/8/2017 10:51:17 AM
Some people can not wait to come home to thier happy home. Others can't wait to leave thier home. The question i ask are you a joy to come home to?

12/6/2017 7:15:05 AM
create your happiness or find it? If you find it, you can lose it.. If you create it, it can be destroyed...

12/4/2017 3:25:45 PM
Body hair can be dyed pink.

12/4/2017 10:21:12 AM
odd hard limit.. Math problems. The smell of garlic. Weights in the shoe. Mustard/tooth paste as lubricant Feather dusters. Slow internet access..

12/2/2017 6:28:33 AM
Funny how someone who just reads my profile wants to become mine. Your life must really suck if a few words makes you want to give up your life to run to me without knowing who i am. Big life changes needs deeper thought before leaving what you have to what you want. I am a responsible person. I won't let you run away from your responsibilities. Just not in my nature. So those who think they can run away with me to escape your responsibilities , should run pass me.

12/1/2017 11:19:43 PM
A slut to one man isn't the same as a slut to all men.

11/30/2017 12:30:06 PM
You can't stay the same and grow as a human being

11/27/2017 1:10:10 PM
Never put the kink above the person.

11/27/2017 11:14:44 AM
Happiness is the strongest binding material. People who are happy are willing to put up with alot.

11/20/2017 10:25:00 AM
I know many who have a gaint list of people they have been trained. For them it is like a degree from a university. I always ask. Does the training from the past really make you ready for what your future reality will be.

11/16/2017 9:53:06 AM
Do you find your path or do you blaze your own? Found happiness is not as sweet as created happiness

11/15/2017 4:13:35 PM
I typical temper myself when dealing with vanilla people. I tend to freak out people. The in your face invade your personal space. Call you on your shit attitude is where i am most comfortable. It not that i want to control vanilla people. I just want to make sure they understand my point.

11/14/2017 1:53:02 AM
Once a strong relationship is built. The kink can happen easily.

11/13/2017 11:38:56 PM
Now it easy to drive a person into madness but can you bring them back.. you really don't want to known for creating crazy people.

11/11/2017 8:41:54 PM
I know my influence is strong. I dont do people who are already marriednor own. My influence can be intense and i dont do well with people who box up different aspects of who and what they are.

11/11/2017 8:40:10 AM
remove it's need for food clothing and shelter and i free up it's time. Doesn't it spend it free time to please the person who has done this or does it become more self center looking for new ways to please it self? Do you hope to tumble upon a that great relationship you hope for or do you take the hard path and create what you want and need. Too many Cinderellas laughs Stay a frog, you get more kisses that way...

11/10/2017 1:46:13 AM
If you don't speak out, it means you agree on what is being said or done.. While the squeaky wheel get the oil, a noise fuck get a ball gag and a swat. She was so beautiful that made her ugly just so that she couldn't use her beauty as an excuse. Sometime you are tied up upside down not because you desired it. It just that I find it amusing. I like those drive up charity clothing drop off boxes. If the way you dress doesn't please me, I can make a donation. Sometime I do something memorable like having you tie your bra to the arm of a rail road crossing gaurd.. Yes, I was the first person to honk. You turn such a lovely shade of red. I can give you an orgasm from across the net. Imagine what will happen if you were closer.. Some people go to an event, I rather create one..

11/7/2017 5:14:27 AM
Life is short, do something amazing. There are so many who just wait to experince life. Waiting sucks! There a differences from going to an event and creating an event. Find someone who makes you want to rush off to bed. Some relationships give your a chance to grow and become what you can be. Some relationships just suck your life away.

11/6/2017 2:54:48 PM
Be carful what you wish for. Dreaming of something is different from having. If you give your mind away, it never comes back the same. Experiences changes people more than they are willing to admit too.

11/3/2017 9:27:42 AM
Can you follow simple instructions or are you the type looking for excuses and loop holes?

11/2/2017 10:52:30 PM
can you cook? and can you clean? Odd simple questions.. It doesn't mean I can't cook or clean. It a question of whether you can or not,,,

11/1/2017 8:58:37 AM
The day after Halloween, I still miss the little submissive who sits in the urn on my shelf. It was a Halloween baby. When I got involded in its life, I saw it needed a friend desperately. I became it's friend so no matter what kind of shit it gotten into It would allways have a safe place. Why didnt I make it mine? Simple there wasn't enough trust and commincation to create that kind of relationship. Even vanillia people around her saw she was having issues. Boy did it suffer through life and every time I growled at it for fucking up and its life in would run and hide until the next emergency. I think it was killed by someone pretending to be a Master and his two woman who followed his shit. While this pretend master I think got away with her murder, He did not on the next. All three are now serving life without parole. Even tho it was never mine, I still miss I from time to time. I still send messages to it's profile knowing it will never respond.. I still remember it words shortly before it died. Don't worry, I know what I am doing.

10/27/2017 10:30:18 AM
When driven to a point where self masterbation isn't an effective way to satisfy your need and hunger. Your search suddenly becomes frantic. Your flying without a net. It can be epic or tragic. Depends on who your pick. Pick wisely.

10/21/2017 8:15:00 AM
Driven to point of madness. Having your mind screaming about the relationship you having. Floating on a sea of your passions. Your sexuality isn't under your control. You are being driven and played with. Your emotions are flowing and just experience the intensity. Your addiction to this kind of experience is real. Fear is great to hold on to what is left of you. Do you fly or stay safe. I warn about Pandora's box. The lost of one self. Do you experience the hard road of life experience or do you stay safe.

10/19/2017 12:02:21 AM
I always admire those who try harder to get things accomplished. Working harder to become something you want to be is a good sign. So many people looking for perfection and oh so few willing to work towards it.

10/16/2017 1:34:43 PM
Given enough stress inducing highly sexual stimulation. I hear so many promises and confessions. These dark deep confessions will tend to make the subject want to flee. Sometimes when another learns what is truely in the heart of another. It doesn't bind them but it puts a wedge between.

10/14/2017 4:31:07 AM
Yes, the smell of bacon can become someone's hard limit. A little rope and a ring gag plus the smell of cooking bacon equals a large amounts of drool. Oh you want a piece of bacon? Drool drool drool.. Laughs what a mess

10/13/2017 11:22:05 PM
If I call would you come running? If I need you will you be there? If we create happiness would you allow a thief to steal it? If we struggle would you flee? If you see drama would you squash it? If there was no music would you sing? If there was no hope would you create it?

10/12/2017 7:40:24 AM
Are curses real? Yes, very much so. I have known and seen people leave something they enjoy and love with a passion at one time. You been lied too, you been cheated on, you experience some terrible heart break. I understand these events are rough when you open your heart. I have experinced these things and most likely you have too. Ok so the other person is an idiot and scum. I get that fact.. So why do you allow someone you currently hate have influnce in your life? Life is short.. Don't like terrible people have influnce on your life. Fight for your happiness. It is worth it...

10/8/2017 9:45:57 AM
Some one got into my personal space.. I looked straight into its eyes and just stared it down. I don't put up with that kind of crap.. Laughs

10/5/2017 2:44:07 AM
Sing for me and let me see your heart. Dance for me and let me see your joy. Scream for me so I know it is I you need. Show me your old wounds so we can heal them. I am stronger than your addictions. There is more to a slap in the face than most understand. There is more to bondage than just rope. I truely seek a soul who can submit on my terms not theirs. Your death leave me alone and wandering.... I yell into the wind because the soul needs to scream. I howl at the moon cause the emotions need to escape. I take the hard road cause it gives me riches that the lazy will never understand. I will push you till you break cause I understand it will make you better for the experince. I write here cause I understand nothing is perment and these thoughts will just evaporate into the nothing it came from.

10/4/2017 1:26:13 PM
A little meat puppet wanted me to rule it's life with pain fear and torment. It wanted little or no human thought. It wanted a life time of humiliation. Why the offfer is interesting. It isnt for me. I like when it runs towards me and not away from me.

10/4/2017 7:20:37 AM
With strong influnce many things are possible, many things can be changed. How you eat, walk, dress and talk, not to mention how you think. Your sexuality can be amplified to the extreme so that your thought are just center on the next orgams, chastity can be applied where you spend time trying not to think of sex and orgasms.

10/3/2017 7:44:22 AM
As it's medication was changed, it desire for sex changed from several times a year to basically once a year. Typically you would think this would end that kind of relationship. Nope. My sense of responsibility didn't change. So what did kill the relationship? Simple. The lies it told. Can not build a relationship based on lies. Tried many of time to correct that bad behavior. It was happy with the lies it told. So now it and it's lies are now happily living in prison.

10/2/2017 5:04:03 PM
So it says has a strong sex drive? I giggle. Morning orgasms.. wakey wakey.. Shower orgasms.. did you know ky reactivates in the shower. So your nice and clean, surpise off comes your towel and more orgams back to the shower you go. Laughs. Cooking breakfast more orgasms. No cooking bacon naked. Yes, you need to sit down you don't look rested. Doing the dishes. Yes, it means more orgasms. Back to the shower you need to go.. Another surpise attack. Boy, you take a lot of showers and you nap a lot. Laughs

9/26/2017 11:18:21 PM
I know my personality and what my influence does to a person. I push and I push hard. Trying to deal with me is a full time kind of event. I don't do well with others who are involded with others.

9/21/2017 6:24:46 PM
It showed me it's privates to get a reaction. I kicked it hard between the legs. I wonder if that was the reaction it wanted. Odd how some think showing of the privates is some magical key to get what they want.

9/19/2017 2:41:41 PM
Work hard on the relationship becuase you understand the worth of it. Protect it cause there are so many who would love to see it fail. Don't believe in instant. Instant is never as good as something hard earn or fought form

9/17/2017 6:23:18 PM
Show me your privates and you might find what kind of reaction you get to a stun gun. I wonder who will show them twice after the fact Or third

9/13/2017 9:10:23 PM
Does fat bother me? No, I take on fat as a challenge. I could just put you in a cage and just put you on a starvation diet. But it just means when you are let out you will just eat more and will end up bigger. I could have your stomach stapled or have most of it removed. It will work a little while but if you know the statics you know it is far from a sure thing. The most effective way? Life style change. That tends to work. Good habits equals a non food reward. Bad habits.. Oh you just don't want to go there.. Laughs.

9/13/2017 6:53:35 AM
It a pile of mush crying and sobbing.. Now you wonder how did it get there to that point. How a relatively sane and normal person become a lump of emotional mush. Time and experince create coping mechanisms. start removing them and the raw emotions start to flow. They say confession is good for the soul, They say a person secrets should be locked away. They say hidden and suppressed parts shouldn't be messed with cause it has that public image to project. Remove these flood gates and expect the raw emotional energy to flow. Love anger depression jealousy state being expressed. Soon all that emotional energy has been spent. When it express all of what it is feelings all of who it is and hopes to be. The crying starts to flow..

9/12/2017 1:37:58 AM
it take trust to give someone an orgams so strong that though leaves thier head.

9/8/2017 3:08:18 PM
Cook to please. Dress to please. Clean to please. While these sound simple to do, it is amazing how many can not accomplish these simple things.

9/8/2017 1:18:31 AM
on the hottest day of the year... If I dipped my arms in an ice cold bucket until they hurt with cold.. If I hugged you , would you flee from the shock or would you sink into my arms.. The nice thing about ropes is that can absorb sweat. Well if they can absorb sweat, they can also absorb Smells. It would be interesting to train a reaction to a smell. How fun would that be..

9/5/2017 3:40:53 AM
When I hear "I am search for my perfect person", I  steer clear.

Someone who instantly gets you and know who and what you are..
Is different from the person who struggles to know ever little thing about you.

The struggle make the relationship better..

Honestly when is instance ever has been good as the long road kind of experience.

9/2/2017 5:10:11 PM
I admire those who work to hard to get where they need to go.

9/1/2017 2:29:34 PM
Part of who i am is always the explorer. I explore who and what others are. I have demanded more from certian others not to see them fail. I do so cause i have a firm belief that they can rise to the demands i put on them.

9/1/2017 12:23:57 PM
Sure sure no limit person. Tied naked and all sorts of positions taking photographics where nothing is hidden. Paint them so they look like a clown and it's an instance new hard limit.. Ha!

8/31/2017 12:10:59 PM
Been offered money to get involded with a person. Been offered a motorcycle. Been offered a rent free house. I am insulted by offers like these. Currently someone offered me a body part? Now what in the heck am i going to do with a freaken body part? Make private part stew? Eeeewww laughs.. These kinds of offers are just attempts to get around the hard work it takes to create a real strong real strong relationship.

8/31/2017 7:47:59 AM
It is one thing to put a person in a chastity device, most can handle that but the constant teasing tends to drive people a bit mad.

8/30/2017 3:09:46 PM
There is a lot i can do. But with all i have done and will do. The same basic question comes up. Will there be more happiness afterwards.

8/30/2017 10:13:20 AM
Being responsible tends to make me cautious. I know that my influence is disruptive for other people especially those who compartmentalize thier lives.

8/30/2017 7:20:58 AM
Typical we invest 8 hours a day into a job.. What happens when you invest all your time into a relationship.

8/29/2017 12:25:09 AM
I hear pretty words a lot.. If your words have no meaning than they are just pretty words that have no meaning,,

8/28/2017 10:06:12 AM
Submission based on truth is a beautiful thing. Don't tell me what I want to hear.. If i wanted to see you naked, i would rip off your clothes personally.. If you want something bad enough, it is comforting to know you will fight for it. This is more important than what you look like naked. Part of the journey with me is exploring who and what you are. address Show me your demons that lurk in your soul. I enjoy a good fight..

8/28/2017 2:25:42 AM
Someone approached my friend and want to know if he wanted to get married for money. Yes there are people out there who will give you money to become legal in this country. They kept upping the price. He finally said if he was going to get married under those terms. He was gong to turn the woman into a sex slave. They went quiet and finally went away. As my friend was telling me this story, I was thinking. I think I am a bad influence on my vanilla friend. Laughs.

8/24/2017 4:13:35 PM
Mental note. Dont press a vanilla's buttons. I got into a vanilla's personal space today. I told it, your social behavior was unacceptable and that i know your going to remember this incident for a while. So reflect on who you show to the public before the rest of us have to deal with you. It peed in its pants. That wasn't my intent.

8/23/2017 8:43:53 AM
Dispense happiness and fun.. and than the world will come knocking. But if you need help moving only than will you find your those worthy of dispensing happiness and fun too.. Laughs

8/18/2017 7:13:54 AM
if the question of can you cook and can you clean doesn't come up in a conversation, the relationship is going to be short.

8/17/2017 1:37:44 AM
A whole body Shave? Oh heck no! A plucking is in order. Hair by hair.

8/16/2017 6:05:51 AM
It whines in frustration, it's sexual advances are turn down. Those types typically wanders off and look for someone else where those things will work. Show me your mind who and what you are. Show me what you are and not what you pretend to be. Show me you understand what it takes to walk the hard path. Show me that you know how to avoid being cursed by the bad crap that has happened in your life. Competition with ghosts in your head makes it difficult to create a future. Show me you can build a relationship and not look for that instantaneous one. Show me you know how to protect your relationship from others who want to fuck with it. These odd things are more important that your age race or that naked body you possess.

8/8/2017 11:13:02 PM
You can build something great with time and effort..

8/7/2017 7:04:24 PM
A smart person knows you shouldn't open every Pandora's box you are presented. When you walk through life, one should not leave a trail of broken souls and open boxes. A meat puppet without a hand shoved up it's butt is just a sad skin wrapper crumbled to the floor.

8/7/2017 7:04:23 PM
A smart person knows you shouldn't open every Pandora's box you are presented. When you walk through life, one should not leave a trail of broken souls and open boxes. A meat puppet without a hand shoved up it's butt is just a sad skin wrapper crumbled to the floor.

8/7/2017 1:09:21 AM
I write this as a random voice in the darkness we call the net. I do not write this to see you naked or to start a relationship with you. I write this cause I have a odd sense speaking my mind and giving out random bits of advice, Take it or not, tis not matter. Read this or delete this unread. It doesn't matter. Sometime a responsible person just needs to speak even tho nobody listens. There will always be asshole and bastards in this world. We know what the fuck they are. They waste our time and consume our life for thier own selfish reasons. They give us grief and attempt to play with our emotions. We understand the emotional pain they inflict on us. As a relatively smart person, why do we give these kinds of horrbible human beings any kind of say of what we do or feel in life. They are garbage and as garbage they should have zero influnce in our lives. They shouldn't have an impact on our future relationship. Ok you been duped into wasting your time but don't let these bastards have an influnce on who you are and where your going in life. sometime you have to take the hard path to get what you want. Happiness isn't always easy but it is worth fighting for..

8/6/2017 6:12:12 AM
Too much orgasms. Can slowly drive the sanity out of a person.. Is that such a bad thing to do?

8/2/2017 7:50:18 AM
I was told.. I will serve you for your pleasure... I been offered this kind of service before from others.. If I was just center on my own pleasures, I would have jumped on the opertunity.. Serve for us, to make us stronger. Serve for us, to create a stronger relationship. Serve for us, to create a happier life.

7/31/2017 8:40:16 AM
it lays on the floor totally spend. It has reached total exhaustion. Some people see the things that are done to reach that point. I tend to see the relationship that made a event like this possible.. So many people are cart frist people..

7/28/2017 4:44:40 PM
Do you fight for your happiness? Do you struggle to be you. These are qualities i look for.. I don't base my forever relationship based on boobs, butts, holes or cocks.. I based it on how hard you fight to be happy. How you defend your relationship your loyalty and trustworthiness.

7/26/2017 7:00:19 AM
Easy to say.. Fucken hard to do.. If you say your body is mine, I take it seriously but typically it is not what they were thinking.. I take it for a walk just to see how it can handle a little physical exercise will do. I look how it walks. Does it shuffle along or does it walk with purpose. A walk should not be like dragging a cat along. If the feet roll to the side, corrective shoes will be bought and used.. Just a simple walk and a conversation about relationships typicall become the norm.. Walks with a goal comes next. Some sort of view destination. As walks become easy. A back pack is introduce. Weight is increased over time.. Hiking trips are now part of the routine of it's life. But as simple as this activity is I have heard that walking is on thier hard list.. Laughs

7/24/2017 11:27:51 PM
It shows me it's privates and masterbate to get my attention. It sends me naked pictures of it doing objects. Really? Is that how you attract my attention? Go find someone that those things you do are attractive and leave me alone.. Show me your desire to serve by becoming a better person.. Show me that you can be loyal and work hard to earn and keep trust.. Show me that you can communicate what is real and not what is expected.. Show me that you can build a life and destroy lives around you. Show me you have a passion for life.. Show me your soul faults and all. Show me the battle scars you earn from fighting to survive in this world.. I know I ask too much..

7/24/2017 12:03:39 PM
Driven to maddness by it desires to reach satisfaction. You tend to lose one self. Take an quiet anchored soul and cut it free to be driven to madness. That soul will search for that experience again and again. The want has morphed into a need. Expect to be hated for what you turn it into. Expect to be needed at any cost. When opening someone's Pandora's box always expect a few demons.. Be strong and be prepared..

7/23/2017 9:53:26 PM
It screams cause it has to not because it wants too. It grabs the bed because it doesn't want to be knocked off the bed again.. It shows me it secrets cause it wants a tighter bound.. It shows me the nasty parts of it self cause it wants my acceptance. It amp up it's sexuality cause it know it pleases me. It offers itself to me cause it knows I am responsible enough to take care of it. It doesn't play games becuase it understand by being real it will find real.

7/21/2017 1:23:09 AM
The more set in the ways you are the greater and stronger influnce is needed. The more thicker those walls you have the harder you need to break through them. I been accuse of being extraordinary cruel and mean. I say no. I am just breaking those barriers that you created and prevent you of having the life you so desperately wanted. I been called controlling because I gave structure to an unstructured life. I gave it structure so it can reach it goals and desires. I never promised a stress free and struggle free life but I do promise a life with the goal of creating happiness.

7/20/2017 8:50:19 AM
It is easy to find a person for sex. It is easier to find a person for kinky sex. It is easy to find someone to willing to be your rope bunny. It is easy to find someone who is willing to change thier sex for you.. Now finding someone who wants to build a life with you and go through all the ups and downs isn't so easy.. Finding someone who is willing to cope with your personality the field suddenly shrinks.. Laughs.. There a difference between finding happiness and creating happiness... One take hard work...

7/19/2017 8:48:39 AM
Why are your pants ripped and torn to shreds? Simple fact. Pants are not for you.

7/16/2017 7:31:02 AM
Sometimes people be moan the fact that a relationship has failed. A failure teaches us that we can survive quiet a bit of emotional pain and still survive to find another relationship. Finding the one or the right situation isnt easy but by only going through the pain do we find the one we need and want. Have hope...

7/14/2017 5:45:08 PM
I push you higher so that your submission is sweeter..

7/10/2017 5:06:01 PM
Pink and blue body hair.. found someones new limit.

7/10/2017 1:30:28 AM
A submissive as me what my skill level was. I asked for it's hand and played with it for over an hour. The poor thing was hot and sweaty and had turn to mush.. It had to use the bathroom to masterbate and wash up afterwards.. I told it I didn't give it permission to masterbate. It's face turn very red. I laughed and it grovel and ask for forgiveness.. I told it. It wasn't mine. Laughs

7/9/2017 9:59:43 AM
I have seen and know what happens when you open up some else's Pandora's box without being the support that is needed to handle what you find in the box, Nothing good comes from being irresponsible.

7/9/2017 9:28:16 AM
I am that kind of person who says in public. That one over there is mine.

7/5/2017 3:11:28 PM
I was told I was too far away. The last two who said that are now living in the same country same state and same city. Laughs.I am old and know most of the excuses. Did i correct it? Nope...not mine to correct. Just wish it well and let it search for what it wants and needs.

7/5/2017 7:38:25 AM
Under the stress of too many orgams or no orgasms would your true self come to light or would you just be driven to madness?

7/3/2017 6:54:57 AM
Calling me on the phone and masterbating isn't a way to catch my attention silly person. Funny how most scream this is my need but have zero knowledge of mine. Driven by the your own needs there are those who forget how to serve.

6/29/2017 6:31:47 AM
I threw a ball.. It bounced in front of it. Zero reaction.. It just waits to be told what to do. It motivation is just an orgasm. I thank it for it's time wished it well and send it away..

6/19/2017 12:31:55 PM
An ex wants back into my life, i said no. I took on a 300plus person and made them lose more than 1/2 themself. I made the need for me stonger than food. It couldn't handle the new out side attention. It wanted the easy life. It took off and left the relationship. It has swollen up again and is begging to comeback. I have zero interest in repeating the past. If your more than willing to toss out the relationship, if is obviously had very little value to you. Some doors are slammed shut and will never be open again. It is time it realize this fact and move on..

6/17/2017 8:22:40 AM
Some people pretend to be a hero others are. Some people scream look at me. Others are noticed by thier peers. Some people blame others for thier problems. Other dig down and find solutions. Life is short be amazing.. be epic

6/10/2017 11:31:01 PM
Certain things still haunt me today.. The words of dead submissive. Don't worry about me, I got a good handle on things. She was buried at sea.. Her brother gave me a bit of her ashes. She sits on my shelf.. I know how terrible Ms is it took away some one I cared about, wheel chair bound and on oxygen. I know about breast cancer and the strong need to follow up treatments. Rip. I knew about leaf.. It got married to someone and now has to cope with being in a poly situation, I know this wasn't the life it wanted. I am sad for it. I know the craziness.. Not the good kind. And how it robbed a person of what should have been and what could have been. This wasn't the life you wanted. I wonder if you will end up in prision or end up in a mental ward again?

6/9/2017 5:43:56 PM
Fake this and fake that. If it comes close enough i can train it to be real. It will hate me for the rest of my life and I can live with that. I can't train something if it runs nake into the hills grabbing it privates. Maybe someday i can even train those too. Laughs

6/8/2017 1:21:43 PM
You can't live life looking backwards. Yes you can have regrets but you can't change the past. You can cope with it affects on you in the present but you can not change it.. Try to live a happy life in whatever form it us in..

6/7/2017 4:33:57 PM
So what kind of person am i looking for. Glad you asked.. What sex? Oh it doesn't matter surgery and hormone therapy can fix a lot of issues. Laughs.. What size boobs? Do you really think bags of fat sway me to one way or the other? Bags of fat. Oh yea great bases of a deep and meaningful relationship.. not.. Dick size? Chop it off or turn it inside out? maybe use a vacuum and make the person walk bow legged? How many bags of saline can we inject there another great way to have a relationship. Pain is addictive.. do i want to be your go to guy for your pain fix? Do I want someone addicted to what i can do to them? Do i really need someone who just wants me for pain? It the same as with screaming pleading wet orgasms. Lets build an great relationship on orgasms. As stupid as that sounds, People try to make this happens. Two points.. do you have a brain and can i earn they right to lead you through life.

6/5/2017 5:33:30 PM
Many screams force me to.... Like i have nothing better to do than to force you to do something you want to be done anyways. Break you. You you really think a broken human is all that sexy or useful? I find broken people all the time..broken people are plentiful and easy to find. Do you know much time and effort it takes to tell someone when to eat what to eat. When to go to the bathroom. What to do all the time? It chews up a lot of time just to deal with the little things. Some people just love to consume another's person time. For what sex? Laughs

6/4/2017 10:11:24 PM
If your looking for something real.. Don't use something fake to attract something real. Crash and burn baby, just crash and burn...

6/4/2017 2:00:31 PM
I walk the hard path and I walk alone. I don't create stories but I do inspire them. I don't look for the easy way or the easy lay. I have been promised souls before. I believe in working hard even in a relationship. Hiding who you are in dark corners doesn't do you much good, I will show you the horrible terrible things that make who I am before I will show you the best of what I am. I do leave most people alone with thier Pandora's box closed. I pitty the ones I have opened. I have seen more people grab thier privates and run for the hills that I can count. I have amped up someone sexuality just to put them in chastity. Giving someone a extreme experince makes them into stalkers.

6/1/2017 2:58:56 PM
It still puzzles me that after you invest that amount of time that moving is what brings the end of that relationship. If i move i take what is mine with me. I don't leave it behind to get lost in trying to cope without me. If you leave something behind it must be considered having little or no value. If it was on the same par as the air i breathe. Dam it i am going to take it with me where ever i go..

6/1/2017 2:59:32 AM
One of the simple things I do is to have a submissive tell me what they have for a meal. You be suprise how this simple request has many grab thier privates and run towards the hills. Sure give me your body, mind and soul but tell me what you had for dinner makes you freak out and run off. I find that amusing laughs. Dinner must be a hard limit.

5/26/2017 4:40:21 PM
Submission is a funny thing. It can not be judged by the size of it breasts or the length of it's cock. It can not be judge by the sexual appetite or the lengths of what one will do to another. Submission can not be judge by the biological sex or the strive to go against what nature has dictated. tellIng the truth is far differene from telling what another person wants to hear. Do I have a session with every person who wants to have a session with me? Oh hell no. I am old and wise enough to know that some Pandora's boxes should always remain shut. If you can grow a sexual desire in someone that escape isn't possible. You will end up with a person who will stalk you and will do anything to have you back in their life. Power can be very intoxicating, you can create a mindless person who just thinks about sex and how to please. You can create meat puppets who will do anything for you to please. I still think it is a waste to create a meat puppet. They don't think they just do. Puppet rarely add a thing to a relationship, they just follow and fulfill commands, I take the hard road which scared of most people. I understand that in order to take control of someone. You have to be stronger than thier habits and addictions. The older the person the harder it is to become stronger Than their old addictions and old behaviors.Breaking walls through the Internet can be done but it takes time and effort . A lot of people are looking for the porno version. Screw the story line and the relationship and let's get to the good stuff. Many people want to have that person naked at thier feet but few understand what it takes to make that happen.

5/25/2017 8:24:38 AM
So why do I go out of my way to upset and piss off with someone I am interested. With anger comes the truth.. Get someone angery enough and their core nature comes out.. How they fight back how much can they dish out all spills out.. Are they self destructive or do you have to get a restraining order later on.. These are good points to know..

5/25/2017 5:49:08 AM
I get offers from people to train them over the net.. If I did accept those people offers, I could have more than a dozen people listening and behaving the way I wish them too. Now for some that is perfectly ok. If this makes you happy.. Go for it.. Once you created a relationship and have someone in your life, this kind of activities don't hold much interest. A submissive tied in ropes with an o ring in it's mouth being teased with the smell and taste of food is just one of the many unquie and fun things to do. It's is amazing the amount of drool a body can produce.

5/21/2017 3:15:47 AM
Sometime you just need to step up and be the person you can be instead of being the person you are..

5/20/2017 4:40:29 PM
Sometimes you find a really fucked up soul of a person. I wonder if a trip to the police is in order. I know therapy is in desperate need for any chance for them to be happy. Consensual is agreement between two people. Consensual is not, i give you a place to stay and food to eat and now your let me fuck you and beat you whenever i want too. There are so many that take advantage of some poor soul just looking to survive in life. Some people build their happiness based upon the misery of others.

5/17/2017 6:29:27 AM
How strong is your influence? Is it strong enough to break someone's addictions? It it strong enough to free someone from the horrible past that they had? Is it strong enough to create permanent changes?

5/16/2017 6:01:45 PM
Some crave structure and yet still want their freedom to do anything they wish. There is a certain security in knowing what is expected from you and where you need to be. Knowing what you need to accomplish that day and how to go about it. It makes for a easier life. Like knowing what to make for food every day, you know what to buy to make it happen. Now this isnt the same as going down to the local market and just picking what your hungry for, a plan meal is always easy to make. Now consider if your life was like this. You have a certain structure in your life and you knew how your going to go there and the steps you needed to take.

5/15/2017 1:41:03 PM
You would think that a picture of a naked person would catch my eye.. Nope a person who displays being responsible catches my eye.

5/13/2017 6:45:32 AM
How far would you go to have that relationship you want? How far would you travel? What would you scarfice to have that perfect life? After you found it, how would you keep it strong?

5/9/2017 8:39:37 AM
To know what your doing every single day.. To know what you eat. To know what you wear. To know how you feel. To know every last bit of you in the dark corners you hide in. While there is quiet a few who ask for this. Rarely can they stand that much of it and scream for personal space.

5/9/2017 8:31:19 AM
Can not base a relationship on your problems. I solve problems and there will a be a time when the problems go away. Once the problems are gone so is the relationship. I could be one of those people who drag out the problems knowing that it the problems that make the person stay but if I not the kind who will trick a person to stay. I understand the addictive nature of the things I do. It one of the reasons why I move slow. It is why I say happiness is the strongest binding material.

5/8/2017 9:47:07 AM
Simple question.. How do you please? On this site you run across so many different people, that think they only way to please is to get naked and have sex. Some people only please another when they get what they want. Males to female state they will do anything to become female. If there is desire for long term, there got to be more than transitioning to hold a relationship in place. Some please by enjoying humiliation, from the simple as hold up a large cucumber and asking do you think this will fit. To the complex as sending them back to school for a phd and traing them to be a slut at the same time. Some please by allow you to control them not only in the bedroom but with dealing with thier families and coworkers at work. Some please by working hard and making money so that there is more time available to do the things that bring pleasure. There are so many ways to please that goes beyond the pain and pleasure..

5/4/2017 3:58:19 PM
While you can dance naked under the light of a full moon, having some one there to whisk you away when the cops show up isnt a bad thing.

5/2/2017 12:25:22 AM
If you can't scream to the world that a person is yours. Your just fooling around..

4/30/2017 5:20:09 AM
earn the right to be at my feet and i will spend a life time binding your soul to mine. There are so many events that will suck and kill the passion for the things you love to do. You have to strong enough tonot let that happen.. I admire those who want to be something they are not. It a dam hard struggle. It a dam hard life. You have to admire those who walk the hard road the hard path. I like those who scrafice a part of life to be who they are. Yes you loose years of your life to be who you want to be..

4/27/2017 10:58:18 AM
How crazy would you become you were not allowed to orgasm for a day.. a week.. a month.. How cray would you become if every orgasm included a post orgasm torment? How far will you go to please someone?

4/24/2017 3:49:09 PM
It asked me what happened after the Pandora's box has been open. I do know it will affect you. I dont know how these changes will affect you. If you can not face your fears and your issues, please keep your box closed..

4/23/2017 12:12:34 PM
It says. I rather not have a say in anything.. I laugh.. Be careful what you wish for.. No say in the clothing you wear. No say in the food you eat. No say when to sleep or awake. No say when to exercise, No say in what you should think. No say in how you deal with your family, friends or relatives. No say in the job you will get. No say in the school or career you will go into. No say in when can reviece pleasure or pain. No say in what you think. No say in who you are or what you are. No say in body modifications. No say in tattoos. No say in brandings. No say in shaving and waxing of body hair.. No say in what tasks you are told to do.. Are you really sure you want to have no say.. Laughs

4/20/2017 4:58:20 PM
It is easy to claim to own someone. It is another to hear yours make claim that it belong to you. It is so very evil of a person who uses happiness and love in a way to bind a soul to person. Rarely do you hear that one is too happuy so they had to leave.. Why search the internet for what you want. The perverted self eliminate them selves. They are looking for the next thrill for an orgasm. The researchers want to study you for their own amusement or to create a character out of you for some role playing story or a piece of erotic story they are writting. The actors/actresses will say the right things and do the right things but when the curtains close, reality hits and it just words and actions to get a person to involded in something fake. The clueless. I always wonder how you build a relationship with a person who doesn't know them selves or what they are. The egotistical. I read so many book and been with so many people. I must be an expert and i am going to tell you how you should act and feel. Laughs. The escape artist. I hate my life and i want you to make a new one for me. This types and many more show themselves to you if you have eyes open. This shield that the internet provides really show what kind of person you are.. Smile laughs.. try to have a happy life and avoid the time sinkers out there. Thank god most self eliminate them selves so quickly..

4/20/2017 8:46:13 AM
Without strictness where is the structure it so desires, So many people produce excuses, one tends to tire of hearing them. Instead of producing excuses, produce results. On time, under budget and done well. Some people think if they give an excuse, thier failure is suddenly is wiped cleaned. Failure is still a failure even if the excuse is acceptable. Sometime a quick punishment is more desirable compare to the alternatives. Do you really want to hear about failures of the rest of your life? Compare this with a quick swat on the behind and the incident is now consider closed. What is more worse being reminded time and time again about your failures or a simple punishment to correct or modify a behavior...

4/19/2017 3:57:47 PM
Laughs stumbled across a profile and sent a message to them of saying i wished they found what they were looking for. Not that i wanted them but you get to a point in life where you see traveler looking for something.. Well can't send that message. It proofed. Laughs..

4/17/2017 7:06:07 AM
if your push someone's sexuality desires to the stronger side of things, there comes a point when they can not find satisfaction by them selves. Porn, toys and other common devices won't give them the satisfaction they need or want. Sometime giving a taste of something to a person your not going to spend a lifetime of satisfaction will send them on a path of searching for that satisfaction through other means. Just because someone is willing doesn't mean you should.

4/8/2017 11:24:46 PM
You warn someone that what you will be doing to them can be highly addictive. If they become addictive to you is it still your fault?

4/5/2017 6:00:41 PM
It tries to gets my attention by showing me it privates. It got offended when it got greeted by a foot in the face and a shove. life gives you many choices. Some good others bad. Do you really think i am going to dedicate my life and energy just because of your privates? Yea i am going to create this wonderful and trusting relationship based onnthe shape of your privates. Show me passion for the things that you do. Show me you can create a bridge between two enemies. Show me loyalties based upon what is good for the relationship. Show me your responsible enough to handle the stuff i am slinging. Show me you trust in my word and dedication to happiness. I know i demand a lot but happiness is worth it.

4/4/2017 1:56:57 AM
So an it wants me to sell it's artwork.. It looking to make a profit off of my contacts and the people I know.. Give a person enough time and their true nature shows up. Go sell your wares on your own and stop asking others to peddle your crap...

4/3/2017 11:11:37 AM
It walks like a cat being dragged on a leash. Do I really need something being dragged along the floor when I walk?

3/27/2017 11:57:58 AM
Sometime one is asked to write a story. There is a great difference between writting one and living an adventure.

3/27/2017 11:14:31 AM
If i amp up your urges, how crazy will you become? Under the influence of your urges. Would you strive to serve more or forget all that was taught to you to seek out satisfaction ?

3/25/2017 3:13:55 PM
There are those who seek perfection. It is not the same from those who create perfection. Finder look.. creators make.

3/23/2017 11:49:40 AM
It is one thing to tell someone what they are capable of doing. It is another thing to show them what they can do.

3/23/2017 11:16:58 AM
While your fantasies may become reality. It takes a strong person to deal with the fall out of what has happen and what you have become.

3/22/2017 7:45:48 PM
I don't have a miracle way to fix some of you but through hard work and effort things can change. Funny how when you mention hard work People scatter..

3/22/2017 3:22:12 PM
Do you know how hard it is to train someone to change thier nature? This isnt easy. It a great big pain in the ass to do so. To make it permanent part of who and what they are isnt easy. No isnt as simple as flipping a switch it take time understanding and reinforcement on many levels to make it so..

3/22/2017 12:30:48 PM
Do you really think showing off your privates will get you what you want? Maybe it time to whip out the ping ball shooter. Extra points for flinching, twitching, begging and screaming..

3/21/2017 3:53:43 PM
My stalker is going back into the hospital again. I had high hopes this time it would learn to stay on its meds.

3/20/2017 11:54:27 PM
Mean rotten and a corrupting Influence. Failure is an option. If you only make little mistakes you never test who you really are. Huge epic mistakes teach you who you really are and what you are capable of doing. A life with no pain is a dull life. Thoses who climb mountains understand this concept. If it takes fire to forge something useful out of iron. What does it take to forge a extra ordinary relationship? Do you really think it just happens? Funny how some people think relationships are such easy things to accomplish. It take hard work. These kinds of relationships that take good hard effort to accomplish are worth the pain and udder mind numbing fustration.. Actors and actresses just fake it to pretend. They will look into something real to pretend and to emulated what they have seen. They never put in the god dam effort into something that is so freaken important as a relationship. I find those who ask me.. Did you read that book.. Blah blah blah.. If you emulate a book is it really you? Self exploration of who and what you are in important. It is one thing to turn someone into a basket case. It is the hard road when you push someone to be better than what they thought you they were.. Self improvement is the up hill battle. It the hard road. Turning something to nothing is easy. Life is hard.. Death is easy.

3/18/2017 10:28:34 AM
Given enough time the truth will shine..

This is your journey and exploration of who and what you are.

Most advice should be chucked out of the window. Remember your life is important and your happiness is at stake.  

Life is about doing and not about what crap your going to do.

If i remove all conversation about what was on tv, computer and sports, what in the hell would you really have to say?

Finding a willing person to have sex or experience kink  is easy...

Finding a willing person who is dedicated to making you happy is hard.

You don't build a life long relationship based on nude body parts.

It is easy to submit on line cause you don't risk who and what you are but...
Very little power exchange equals very little real experience.

Zero risk.. Zero rewards...

There are plenty of people out there who just who want you use you for masturbation material.

3/15/2017 7:47:36 AM
Scream my name and curse my existence. Do what it takes to remove me out of your head. Fools open up that Pandora's box. Do you really want to deal with someone who is stronger than your addictions? One you experince something you can not un experince it. Can you cope with with what you have done? Can you live with it? Will it make you better or curse you for the rest of your life.. Rare is the person who takes responsiblity for the general shit that happens. Easy is the one who blames others

3/11/2017 5:11:16 PM
To serve with honor and respect. To rise to what ever life brings To meet challenges head on. Once you maked a jokes of things i preach. Why am i wasting my time on you? I could train you but if it is not ingrained in your soul. Your just pretending.

3/11/2017 1:27:50 PM
Pushed beyond your limits. What would you find past your limits? What stare back at you in the mirror? Some people should never open their Pandora's box. ..

3/10/2017 2:16:19 AM
If you don't want to listen, that is your right to do so but don't be surprised if I don't warn you about the pit falls along the way.. Role playing is like masterbation for the mind. While it is enjoyable, your still alone when everything is said and done. Some people can not have or handle real and the only can view what maybe through a store window. Some people are stupid enough to think once you found someone who can put up with your shit that the relationship work is done. Saying pretty words is great but it pales in comparison to real actions.

3/9/2017 4:11:34 PM
So you hate me. Like this is all of sort new to me? Laughs. Take a strong will person and bend them so your wants and needs. Being hated scorned and screamed at is nothing new. If i am stronger than your addictions and your demons run and hide when i am around. Do you really think you hating me is going to change who and what i am? Really? Laughs. Hard path and a hard road allows me to appreciate life more that most. It shows me a picture it found on the internet. I show it a picture of it real self. Suddlenly it goes quiet grabs it privates and runs to the hills to bury it's computer praying that it will never be hunted down. Some people use pictures to curry favor. If i want a naked picture of you i will strip you naked and take my own dam one. Laughs..

3/8/2017 4:21:15 PM
Training isnt suppose to be easy. It is suppose to yield results. Walk with grace not like some homeless person. If your fat, i will make you loose weight. If your fashion senses is from the walmart clearance rack, expect your clothes to be tossed out. Expect to have an exercise routine. Expect to learn how to please. You will be under stress cause you will not be in control. This is normal. I do expect you to communicate and speak your feelings. I dont expect to be love nor your fear. I do expect your trust. A naked slave at my feet. What can i do for you, it begs. Do research on creating hydrogen from methane and carbon dioxide. A naked slave at my feet. What can i do to earn money for you. Do research on up and coming ipo companies. Invest x amount. Stick profit in a 401k account with your name. I dont need a slave to make me money. Laughs. There is a very good reason why slaves grab their privates and run for the hills.

3/3/2017 10:46:57 AM
I rather hear about the demons in your head than know what your naked body looks like. I saw someone who like opera. Kind of interesting I know of a little opera house out in the middle of the desert.. sadly the woman who ran it has passed away recently. I hope her dream lives on without her. I hope where ever you maybe you are dancing for a large audience who appreciates your art.

3/2/2017 4:50:33 PM
Sometime i will block a person for what they write in their profiles, it is not cause i hate them or am tweaked for what they have written. I just know that they are looking for something i am not into it isnt a big thing. It just a way to prevent from running across their profiles again.

3/2/2017 11:49:47 AM
How to upset a 40 something introduce them to a 30 something. How to upset a 30 something introduce them to a 20 something. How to upset a 20 something introduce them to a 50 something. Laughs.. They say competition brings out the best in people funny how some people self destruct the relationship if they think they are in competition. You complete for most things in yourself your life. Yet completing for a relationship is looked down upon. Funny how that is.. Just something to think about..

3/1/2017 6:59:20 AM
I always liked the Internet. It shows the world your true nature given time.. Actors and actresses alway go away when the curtain falls. Cheaters alway cheat Time wasters will allways stall for time. Recognizing the ones who want a relationship isn't always easy but it is worth it. Happiness depends on it..

2/27/2017 8:01:06 AM
Driven crazy by too much or too little sex.. The results are still the same.. Craziness. How you deal with the craziness you created reflex on who is driving you mad..

2/27/2017 12:23:19 AM
Some submissives don't want to look at themselves in the bright light of the day.
They are afraid of what they will find. They are afraid of releasing things they can not control.  Some are deathly  afraid of the darkness they may find.

Scream loud is sometime the only way you are heard.

Sometime when you show them what and who they are, You will be hated for the rest of your life.



2/25/2017 4:16:14 PM
So many build that perfect trap to catch that perfect prey. The illusion no matter how pretty is still a trap.

2/20/2017 11:17:17 PM
Without experimentation, there is no learning to be accomplished. The fear of making mistakes prevent you to finding out what you can do and not do. Success in something the first time sometime is a failure. You learn so much more by the mistakes you make along away. So many point at mistakes and are judgmental. They are learning opportunities to be learned and understood. Find me a spirt who can admit to mistakes and I will show you a spirit that knows how to live.. 10,000 mistakes to make a light bulb.. Imagine if he quit after a few thousand.. It would be truely a darker night

2/20/2017 11:57:27 AM
Someone is interested in this old soul. It have given me it's phone number twice. I haven't call or text it yet. I do not know what is in it heart or head other than it's desire to serve me. Maybe i will have it text me what it eats and when it wakes and sleeps. Pretty dull and boring stuff but honestly it a submissive is willing to do boring and dull stuff. That is a good frist step.. It screams excite me. It is bored. I laughs not my duty to excite or be your entertainment. Go change the channel and get your easy simulation. Do waste my time. A hard path submissive knows to cherish fun time and knows how to work hard to earn those times.

2/18/2017 3:55:13 PM
I do not have a magic wand to make your wishes to come true but i can lead you on the hard path so that they may come true..

2/17/2017 10:29:52 PM
Do not expect me to give you false hope. I will not waste your time with such crap..

2/16/2017 4:39:05 PM
If you don't trust me don't follow me.. If you dont know what is in my heart, the exit is to the left.. Happiness is great bondage material. I rather see what in your head and heart before seeing you naked. So you have issues, we all do. Now tell me what your going to do to fix them. I am not your ex. Dont compare me with your ex. Eyes front..plan for the future..

2/16/2017 3:25:12 PM
Stripped of your beauty what would be left?

2/11/2017 5:14:57 PM
It is unfair to take an independent person and make them depend on you.. if you not going to keep them forever. Some of the strongest of people are the most sacred of being hurt..

2/11/2017 5:01:06 PM
Sometime the battle scars you had from past affects your future. The ability to make a person pass out from a too strong of an orgasm isn't bases of a great relationship.. Being the best slave isn't for the faint of heart or the wishy washy.. If your looking for someone who instantly gets you. Move along. You don't understand communications 101 yet. Yes, i have saved many of people but just becuase i saved them doesn't mean they are good relationship material. It means they are good in getting in trouble.. If i know i can make you happy. I know that relationship bond will be stronger than any rope, chain or cage...

2/11/2017 10:27:04 AM
It is one thing to free the demons that you kept burried for so long. It is totally different to train them to serve you.. I am Pandora you are the box. Do you really want to follow this path. Some people are happy with a full box. Yes. There is a difference from wanting and having.

2/8/2017 11:22:04 PM
How to make even the most well train submissive run... Here a weed puller and here is a bucket.. Go fill it up. Laughs Sometime those lovely speaches people say are just words with no meaning..

2/8/2017 12:57:03 PM
Just because you are under my care doesn't mean we are to going to have sex. Just because your tied naked suspended by ropes, doesn't mean i going to stick any into you this include any of my body parts..

2/7/2017 10:43:22 PM
Calling me and masterbating while I talk is not acceptable behavior. Stalking me on collarspace is not acceptable behavior either. Bugging other people I know will get you booted out of my life. Trying to wedge your self into my life? I don't think so Don't even try..

2/2/2017 12:20:57 PM
Saw a house. It a total gut job but for less than 25k it a steal. Now how many naked submissives could i keep there? Not many. There a big church next door and frankly i rather not be on the news... laughs.

2/1/2017 12:48:52 PM
Just because I like you, doesn't mean I am going to have sex with you. Just because you have urges doesn't mean everyone around you suddenly has the same urges. Life isnt like a porno or a romance novel. There is a better chance of you becoming a pro football star than marrying a prince or princes.. Saving yourself is alot quicker then waiting for someone else to pull you out of your own crap.

2/1/2017 10:25:24 AM
Some people should never have a pet. Poor thing is mistreated and it's existence is just trying to make it to the next day.

2/1/2017 6:26:38 AM
Does your orgasms serve me? Does your cumming make you a better submissive to me? Does your release bring make you strive harder to become mine? Does your sub space make you more loyal to me? Do you think really think those who strive to serve thier own needs first make great submissives?

1/31/2017 8:15:13 AM
It screams come chase me, You know this works out well if you are desirable.
If your not, well you are left alone.





1/30/2017 5:23:03 PM
What happen to your mind when it is pushed beyond it's limits? Does the maddness of the moment consumes your soul? Do you bargain for your freedom? Can you even form words to speak? Do you wonder who is screaming and discover it is you? Do you struggle to keep who you are so you dont get lost? If you run out of energy? Would you take care of until you woke. M.

1/30/2017 11:05:36 AM
Some people are too afraid to let me into thier mind. That is a good thing. Fear is important to have. Having strong influence over another is a responsible. Wit great power comes great responsibility. Something to think about when your in a hotel tied and bound. Exposed to what ever is coming up next. Laughs

1/28/2017 4:37:45 PM
I cranked up the relationship and it begged me to let it go. I never laid a hand on it. I never saw it naked.. It did scream get out of my head. I left it to its own devices and demons. even tho i wanted to stay. I still respect the safe word.

1/27/2017 10:49:40 PM
You ask me why I look for strength in a submissive. The weak give up and find the easy path. The strong while thier path is hard. Understand more about life compared to those who follow the easy way.. A intense strong relationship need strength without it. It just crumbles into dust. Pretty words have no meaning if the words are spoken untruthfully. My soul has been crushed. It is an extremely painful process but I am not dead yet and I refused to let someone else's failing cause me to fail in my life.. Strength of living the hard life..

1/27/2017 2:25:48 PM
Telling me what you think i want to know isn't the same as telling me the truth.

1/25/2017 8:02:34 AM
Oh the carnage! A box of vibrators and dildos dumped into a chipper shredder.. Why the destruction? It gives the opportunity to start fresh.. It gives the opportunity to create new memmories..

1/24/2017 9:49:49 PM
If you anger your demons.. do they torment you until you speak your safe word?

1/23/2017 10:47:09 PM
If I am your devil and your God, what kind of savior am I? Would your lost soul be in heaven or hell? If I wield strong influnce over you..would it dam you or save you? Power yielded without empathy or compassion is most dangerous.. Alway the caution approach.. I refuse to leave a trail of broken souls..

1/19/2017 11:03:44 AM
So you don't know what you are, don't know where you are going and you don't know who you are. We all been there. These qualities while true they may be makes building a forever relationship almost impossible. How do you form a relationship with a person who doesn't know these things. You build something special on a wobbly foundation and you blame everyone when things fall apart. Did you not see this coming?

1/18/2017 9:32:42 AM
Do you give your car keys to drunks and idiots to drive you home? Most people will say hell no.. Why do you let craptasic people influence your life and the direction it goes? I know we tend to avoid crap and the stress in dealting with crappy people but heck i not going to let crappy people have any say where i go in life. So what happen to a slave after it been dismissed? Is it left alone naked broke thrown outside to defend it self? This is where you you find out if your involded with a boy or dealing with a man. Emotional maturity is important when things don't go your way. You spend time creating trust so that they can lean on you and follow your lead. For whatever reasons things didnt workn out. What happenes next is important. Everything that it brought into the relationship is returned. This includes homes, cars and property. Relationship after care is important. Training what was once yours to have a reason regular routine so they can cope in life is important. Do you really want to kill and destroy what you considered your not that long ago? Do you leave in your wake happy people or crushed souls? Is this easy to do? Oh hell no. It is painful and stressful but hell life But who said life is easy going down the hard path..

1/14/2017 12:18:53 PM
They say confession is good for the soul. I ran cross some one who i knew 35 years ago. I gave it a stare and from across a large room filled with people. It blushed bright red. Must have made an impression oh so many years ago. Confession maybe good but running across someone you confessed to may not be. Laughs

1/13/2017 8:38:57 AM
Do you want me to lead or do you want someone to blame? If you want to be molded into someone else. There always comes a point when your blamed for who and what they are. It is to be expected. A lot of people look for someone to point a finger at instead of rolling up one's own sleeves and fixing it themselves..

1/8/2017 10:05:39 PM
if i turn you into something, I know I will be hated. It the nature of changing someone so radically compared to who they are now.. Do not expect the other side to welcome you with welcoming arms. Well maybe to throttle you laughs..

1/5/2017 10:23:00 PM
Training creates trust and guide lines.. It creates an understanding of what is expected.. When to eat how to dress how to walk and how to behave.. Creates an enviromental that shows a person what they can expect..

1/5/2017 10:22:24 PM
Training creates trust and guide lines.. It creates an understanding of what is expected.. When to eat how to dress how to walk and how to behave.. Creates an enviromental that shows a person what they can expect..

1/4/2017 11:54:38 PM
Crazed and confused. It tries to crawl but it's body just wont listen. The term falling down drunk always comes to mind but sexual overload gives one the same effects. A blanket and sips of warm Gatorade as the mind and body reconnects. The emotional waves start to flow.. Some are like little cuddle balls.. Others are like firey hell cats..

1/3/2017 4:36:51 PM
Pushed over the edge.. it's eyes rolled in it,s head.. It can't speak it just gurgles noises.. The normal flinging about is reduce to involuntary twitching. Sometime you have to wonder if they will come back to the land of sanity. Will their mind go completely blank and be left just an empty shell. Fluid leaking everywhere. Just a complete mess. There comes a time when the body just refuses to react to stimulation of any sorts..

1/3/2017 7:38:21 AM
If your going to brag about the stupid things you done and the long list of failures.. Don't be surprised if someone asks you about them.. Taking offense and taking off is just demonstrates a certain pride in your mistakes and failures. Some people have nothing in this world but these things and God forbid if there is an attempt to cure them of these issues.. Something you just got to wishe them well and move them along.. Some people are just stubborn in their convictions of making their life their own personal hells...

12/30/2016 2:33:06 PM
A treat for a pet.... a bag of peanuts. Why does a bag of peanuts get such a strong response? Well the squirrels love peanuts and the pet loves to chase the squirrels.

12/28/2016 5:30:49 PM
when you spread yourself thin, you become mediocre at everything.. This includes relationships. How can you hold on to special when it spread your self thinly.

12/23/2016 4:25:47 PM
Do you know what you seeK? Can you speak it so that others will know it. Running on assumptions is almost as bad as running blind.

12/18/2016 7:38:38 AM
when your service is beyond sexual base and beyond the need for new kink, that is when it become all good. With so little invested into any relationship, it can be easily tossed away.

12/17/2016 2:54:08 PM
Was asked to head up a community of submissives. While it a great honor, just had to say no. Being responsible for that many people with that many relationships? I think i will die from the stress of it all. I know i wouldn't be effective being spread out so thinly..

12/16/2016 11:31:07 PM
While I am capable of fixing most problems, it is not a bases for a relationship. A slave who strives to please is a blessing. Being a submissive doesn't mean you check your intelligents at the door.

12/15/2016 10:56:24 PM
Sometimes you have to rip some one out of their comfort zone, so they can grow and become something more and better.. Giving the gift to be happy isnt as easy as it sounds.. Easy to say hard to do..

12/15/2016 4:35:32 PM
If u stripped you if all that curses you, could you ever be free..

12/15/2016 9:59:45 AM
It sent it's boy to down load and translate my ramblings. It attempts to steal my essence of me. It will use my words to fool others and suck it into it's fantasy for it's own amusement.. When you create a false and imaginary world for your self. The farther you are from real. If all you have is false and imaginary, how do you find anything real.

12/14/2016 8:31:14 AM
When fake means real. Real looks at fake and ignores all the tricks that fake does to gets real's attention. Old real has gone through many hells by itself and by those it was lucky enough to meet. Pretty words with no meaning is just plain noise. Real is busy with a life. Fake is busy invent one.

12/13/2016 10:10:59 PM
How much have to lost by living under a rock? How much have you sacrificed to a lost cause? How much emotional pain do you have to endure to find someone worthy of a relationship. Lost souls sometime need to be found.

12/13/2016 10:07:55 PM
sometime demanding more from someone sounds cruel. How many of us really know our limits? Reaching an uncomfortable level and turning away is easy. Going beyond and seeing what you really can accomplish is that really cruel or allowing someone to not give an honest effort and turn away quickly is that truely cruel becuase they don't know they could accomplish more.

12/13/2016 7:42:35 PM
Regulating sleeping, eating and working patterns helps a person have a more structured life. There is comfort in knowing what is expected from you. Knowing where you should be gives a person direction to go if they become lost,

12/13/2016 8:39:56 AM
Don't you ever wonder who takes those pictures in profiles? If the camera person could talk, what would the camera person say? It is funny how some who offer you their body get so bent when you shave a few hundred calories off their diets. Sometimes all you need to scare a submissive off is just to mention that you include book reports in your sessions.

12/13/2016 6:05:40 AM
Sometime it is naked not because of a need for sex. It is naked because it is a reminder of where it belongs.

12/12/2016 5:13:36 PM
How can it serve when it refuses to understand. Can you keep a house clean? Can you cook? Are you even public ready? Don't you know how to dress? If you can't handle simple task, I dont need you.

12/12/2016 12:42:14 PM
No sex for a year that scatters a crowd. If you complain make that two. How difficult can you keep someone without sex..

12/12/2016 12:35:33 PM
Why do I talk about happiness, a happiness will bind a person to another which makes me escape almost impossible.

12/11/2016 3:27:52 PM
If I am lucky I will send you pic? It said. Not interested in pics with that attitude. Laughs. It can keep all of it's pics cause I have zero interest in them. Well I might have an interest if it was cold and I needed something to burn. Laughs.. Silly games that a silly it plays.

12/11/2016 9:15:33 AM
it reads my journal and makes comment in the text messages. How cute.. A year of chastity, I wonder what you would do if your were not allowed to have orgasms for a year? I bet you would grow upset and pissy about it.. Laughs. A year of teasing and tormenting it would make it upset and grumpy. it may start pulling away from my touch and not seek it. We shall see.. It it is addictive to my touch, it will strive to be touched.. Bondage isn't about always about physical restraints

12/9/2016 12:54:15 PM
It says it has no right to claim a spot next to me. Does this mean the spot is up for grabs. Escape clause and running towards the hill in 3 2 1.. Laughs..

12/9/2016 8:13:19 AM
I told it that ego will get it's self into trouble. It has spent years reading this journal. Reading is not the same as having the experience. The basic old concept of it is easy to say and it is hard to do. People who dabble in what they call the life style. Dont really have a grasp of what really going to happen. I always warn people about me cause I am a eyes wide open kind of person. I have lived through failed relationships before. It is never a pretty site. I grow cold and mechanical as things come to an end. I do not just leave or rant rave about the fail relationship. I make sure that the person who is with me can transition back away from me. To leave a it out in the cold not equipped to take care of them selves isn't responsible and it is in my nature to be. There is typically an assumption that this process is an attempt to patch things up which it is not. When the person can take care of themselves. I exit. I do not become friends. I just leave. It allows time to be freed up so they and I can have that time to find another.. While im hope it doesn't come to that, I tend to prepare for the what ifs in my life.

12/8/2016 9:52:59 PM
Roars with laughter. It complains i call it an it. Sometimes it is so easy to push it's switch. If your on fire from so far away. If you come closer do you think you will bust into flames like a moth? Time is a shows us great truths as long as we can observe them.

12/8/2016 4:52:20 PM
I have been yelling into the wind for years. Someone has answer back. Must be a cursed soul screaming to be expressed. Time will tell if it can handle intensity of a life lead by me. I expect great things from it not because it can but I know I can bring it out of it. I wonder how it going to handle being in chastity for a year. Dance with style and grace. 1 2 3 4.

12/4/2016 11:07:04 PM
You move like a pregnant yack.. Laughs Move quickly with purpose and with a sense of style. A nice fluid motion is like poetry. You on the other hand look like a dam pile of unwashed dirty clothes scruffling along. Laughs

12/4/2016 8:17:31 AM
Protocol is important. It reminds the sub, of it place. It also understands how things should be done and when. I was accused of being way too controlling once upon a time due to making a person follow a set pattern. When to wake.. It helped the person get back on a normally sleeping pattern. It helps the person mental state of being having regular sleeping time. I have dealt with people who have mental conditions before and I have found a set sleeping pattern makes a person function better through out the day. When to sleep is also applies. What to eat, if your eating habits are killing you, I will in restrictions in the stuff you eat.. It might be as simple as a salad frist before you eat your meal. It might mean 6 small meals a day instead of 3. I hate to see you loose eye sight your ability to walk. I buried a few people in my time due to unhealthy eating habits. Your life on kept on time. Simply put your time isn't on your own. If you watch tv 3 hours a day, that is 21 hours a week and more per year. If your life issues are taken care of it is ok to spend time doing some relaxing in front of the tv/ computer, but if you have issues that need to be addressed, running away and hiding in front of the tv isn't something you should be doing. Your job is giving you issues, yes, I said job. I know there are those who want a life in a cage being sexually used 24/7 turned into a mindless sex doll. I don't crave mindless people. I like a person with a brain, just how I am wired. Your mileage may differ. Back on topic. You have to be job ready, it amazing how many are not. I know of a employee who on his 1st day wore a hat saying to all the virgins thanks for nothing. Laugh he was not job ready. If more education is needed to advance you in a company you want to be in, It is important to do so. If you need mentoring, getting in contact and having a conversation with the experts in your field is important. Hiring a consultant can be very useful. Family issues, I haven't met anyone without baggage yet.. Laughs. Family therapy can give your submissive a better understanding of how to cope. Sometime the solution is to forgive so that they can move on. Sometime it is just a simple realization that they are expecting normally human responses from a person who isn't capable of a normal human response... I can go on blah blah blah and I haven't even gotten to the nake person nealimg at my feet part. Laughs. Many see that and say I want.. Few are willing to put in the work to make it happen or to keep that person there.. Going to howl at the moon.. I might be touched in the head as other accused me of but I am a happy SOB laughs

12/3/2016 10:26:34 AM
Some people just grab thier privates and run for the hills when you crank up on then intensity of a relationship. The fear of loosing one self is strong and scares many away.

12/1/2016 11:32:47 PM
I say your cursed. I dont say love. One falls easily out of love.. You really got to try hard to gender cursed. Laughs

11/28/2016 8:22:18 AM
Build you up or grind you down? Typical both happens at the same time. Why do I demand you to be a better person? Because i know what you can become.

11/26/2016 6:42:00 AM
I lead you follow. Sounds simple but as most simple sounding concepts it is hard to do. Doubt fears lack of commincation and lack of trust prevents most from following. If your going to lead, you will have know where your going too. This doesn't mean your relationship is rear wheel driven. Meaning the relationship is molded by the submissive.

11/23/2016 8:06:07 AM
Do you create someone into something else or do you make thier dark secrets come to life? Tied in some obscene position forced to have orgasm until the mind goes mad. Is it really forced? When the person tied seeked out this experince and negotiates terms of the session. They Sets up safe words and maybe even a spotter to prevent potential injuries.

11/21/2016 9:37:55 PM
If I push you harder or faster, it because I know you can take it. Life isnt about taking the easy way.

11/20/2016 3:06:43 PM
so many people screaming I am an individual yet they are looking for the same book defined person. Do you really want someone who is that easily influenced by books that tell them how they live and be? Yea that is going to get a person to know the real you.. Smiles

11/19/2016 8:47:50 AM
It is easy to speak the words but all those pretty words dont mean anything if there is no meaning to them.

11/18/2016 10:24:54 PM
Some people create their own drama and hell as a cry for help so that someone will care enough to save them.

11/18/2016 9:02:23 AM
Been reading other submissives requirements. I wonder if I applied the same standards to them. Laughs. How many languages do you speak and practice? How many Ph.D. Degrees do you have? Do you have a high paying job? Are you free from all mental issues? Can you cook well and cook healthy? Can you keep a house no matter how large neat as a pin? Can you be great parent? Can you drive well and understand that most cars need gas oil and antifreeze? Can you be sexually ready to go at with no advance notice? Are you approached by modeling agencies to become a model? Can't be too fat, can't be too thin. Can't nag. Nagging isn't communication. Got to have breast X size.. Got to have a behind X size.. Should know and understand all sexually positions. Can serve no matter what you feel like.. Can serve by being in pain. Willing to have body cramps while being tied up for hours at an end.. Laughs. Silly list.. Simple list.. Someone who can put up with me and create a happy life.

11/15/2016 8:22:59 AM
So how how can you tell when I found someone who is moldable and teachable? Simple.. This journal will come to a stop. My focus will be on that person.There won't be looking for something better. I will just roll up my sleeves and get to work on making something special. There is always that chance if you make something valuable that it will be stolen by someone who is lazy and would rather steal something special. I make it a plan. Once stolen never to be mine again. I had a few crying begging ones who fell for another person's pack of lies. Submissives speak of communication and trust, Once you make your choice to follow another. You done damage to something you had. It is never the same and will never be the same.

11/13/2016 10:41:27 PM
Not many can Stand the intensity of an all in loose your self type of relationship. Fear keep you from invest.. so many are so afraid of the emotional pain of failure. Why would anyone go through this hellish experince where your heart keeps on getting fucken ripped from your chest. How can you live pretending to be something your not so you can cover that self who feels like dieing every time you are cut to the very soul of your being.. We who scream in pain and bleed in our lives know that once we find real and find acceptance there is that happiness based on who and what we are. Those hellish experinces we suffer through are forgotten because of the completeness we feel now. Trust honesty communication happiness these are my tools to secure and bind a soul to mine..

11/12/2016 9:23:17 AM
Been here way too long. Offers of sex, gifts and other things come by. Why do these people do this? Perhaps it the only way they can get someone interested in them.

11/10/2016 10:53:31 PM
I don't want your submission just because I provide food clothing and shelter.

11/9/2016 1:45:05 PM
Many want the experience rarely do they want to put on the hard work on the relationship.. laffs

11/7/2016 10:32:41 AM
Some one wants to make a story with me. I rather live one than make one up.

11/6/2016 8:38:09 PM
If you offer me sex, back of the line you go. I am the kind of person who will put a boot in your face to kick you off. Just because a slave or submissive wants something sexual in nature doesn't mean it going to happen. Controlling a person due to sexual desires is topping. Slaves and submissive should never be the ones on top.. laughs..

11/5/2016 6:09:51 PM
Happiness doesn't come from living under a rock. Some people are looking for a solution to thier problems. This doesn't mean they want a relationship with you. They just want a solution to thier life.

11/5/2016 3:32:46 AM
Grabbed held and force to endure orgasms. It was turned into a lump of twitching flesh. Don't ask it, if it can not speak. Some god awful gurgling noise it just makes. Don't ask it to think cause rational though was stripped away a few hours ago. It just drools twitches and breathes. It just exists and it is trying to cope to what the hell just happen to it's body. It was turned into a raw nerve that just twitches uncontrollable.

11/1/2016 9:48:50 PM
I do make mistakes and some times it has costed me dearly but I am the responsible sort so I move forward learn from my mistakes and deal with the results from my mistakes.

10/31/2016 11:52:45 PM
A candle on a muffin. A little happy birthday song for a friend who has passed. Sometimes I wonder if if it knows that it's urn is being patted on it's head.

10/29/2016 1:08:02 PM
Why a half inch steel plate bolted to the floor? Cause if you wield a steel chair to a 1/4 inch steel plate it doesn't hold up to a screaming mad submissive. Anger? Upset? Mad? Why do I provoked this dark emotional response? It strips away thick walls of an old worn out slave. No bargaining.. just alot of crying screaming and cursing. Sex? Oh hell no. Not interested. It screams get out of my head. I laugh and said I warned you not to invite me in. Your ego will over shadow your common sense. Keep it in check. If you put a person through such a trauma experience. You know dam well it going to affect them. If it a positive experience they are going to stalk you for a long time.. If it is a negative experience they are going to grab thier privates and run towards the hills.

10/27/2016 7:27:15 AM
Curses are real. Do not let your past dictate what kind of future your going to have. Bad past experinces causes a person to shy away from something that was once found as fun and enjoyable. Awful and bad people in your life will curse you with bad memories. This will make it harder to have a happy life. It would be a shame if someone steals your happiness away.

10/25/2016 12:01:04 AM
We all have only so many heart beats until we are gone. How will you spend them? I have had more than one time a room full of lesbians. It doesn't make me one even if they were naked and listening to my instructions. if I am going camping with a group of submissives, it doesn't mean I am going to have any of them sleep in my tent but I am going to have the neatest campsite there..

10/23/2016 4:12:54 PM
If i sewed up your holes and remove that thing that gives you pleasure and you still struggled to find ways to be of service.. This speaks volumes of the devotion you have me. You want to be my source of pleasure, amusement and my muse. I just warn you that it isn't an easy path. There are so so many others who will give you that romance book version you seek. I am not one of them. I make mistakes by walking my own path and one of these days those mistakes will kill me. A life you live on your own terms is a better life lived on someone's make believe world.. Easy is the quickest way to hell..

10/20/2016 2:59:52 PM
What works well for one person is completely wrong for another.

10/18/2016 7:35:47 AM
Some people run away from death, other run towards. I won't help you run towards death. I am not interested in getting sucked into your madness.

10/14/2016 11:38:50 PM
Clinical depression mixed with sub drop isn't a combination.

10/14/2016 3:19:28 PM
If your going to say you have done horrible and terrible things, there is going to be someone who going to ask for proof.

10/13/2016 11:12:33 PM
Sometimes I hear the screams of a soul and I just reach out in an attempt to give a little comfort. No, I am not collecting them but I have been offered a few. Comfort is just that comfort and not to take advantage of. It is my nature to do things open palmed and not by force. Things are just more personal and permanent that way.

10/13/2016 7:40:22 AM
I am sorry that you do not get it. Others point at the person who sits by my feet as week. I laugh at them. They do not understand the amount of deep commincations it takes to get a strong normal person to sit at another's feet. Some think it is easy because it is an act of role playing. Actresses act the emotion and the act, they don't live it. There is a big difference between performance and being. While they look the same, they are not. Fear keeps actresses to keep on acting. They are darn right scared to find out who they really are and are deathly scared of seeing what or who will start right back them when they go searching. If you work hard to earn a spot in someone's life. It has value. So many people want that instance heartfelt deep relationship but refuse to invest who and what they are to get it. If your not willing to risk the horrible pain when things go horribly wrong. You will never find that strong connection you crave so much.. So many people scream I want and I need and yet refuse to invest who and what they are to get it. Sometime when you see people who run with masks and walls, I leave them becuase I see the results of exposing those who hide. Thier walls and masks are coping mechanisms and without them they have problems coping. It is cruel to strip a person of that and leave them exposed to the world like this. One of the reasons why i always deal with the forever. To do otherwise isn't the responsible thing to do..

10/11/2016 9:15:11 AM
Offering me a body part isnt the way to become mine. Like I need something weird floating in a jar. Laughs

10/10/2016 4:44:12 PM
Red rope or blue rope. If you were dressed like Alice in wonderland hanging upside down. Could you speak a few lines.. Do you think it will matter? Spin spin like a spider Alice. Do you think you will ever be free.. Perhaps a nice tea party is in order..

10/10/2016 12:08:15 PM
If I put you on a diet would you still stay loyal to a relationship. If I decide to fatten you up would you stay. If I make you exercise and go to the gym would you stay or flee. If I forced you to get a master's degree would you still be happy at my feet. If I kept you home and not working and total dependence on me would you spend your time plotting your escape. If I told you your going to make a career out of what your doing now. Will you long for the times you miss being bu my side. If someone try to steal you away would you run to the greener grasses or would you run towards home..

10/9/2016 8:58:47 PM
Do I destroy who and what you are to create a sub human who is looked down upon by the human race? Do push your alpha traits so that you react as an alpha to the everyone else but me. Do I push you to become a walking bill board of beauty to be admired by the world? Do I push you to become a doctor, a lawyer, a business owner or maybe I just push you to become more than you think you are? So many possibilities and so many options.

10/9/2016 8:50:23 PM
It takes skills to make great Danish pastries. It not an easy thing to do. It takes skills and practice. If this seemingly simple task is so hard to master, do you really think you can take on a task to please another? Some people are proud to create some one who can do sexual acts in front of anyone by just a command. For my self maybe a master pastery chief is more amusing to me.

10/9/2016 10:19:27 AM
So I asked,  How well can you tap dance?  Who knew tap dancing was a hard limit that makes a person run for the hills.. Laughs.


10/8/2016 11:39:09 PM
When to sleep, when to wake, what to eat, what to say, what to do, what not to do, what to wear, how to sing, how to dance, how to walk, how to wait, how to drink, how to breath, how to go to the bathroom, how to bath, how to shave, how to prepare a meal, how to drive, how to live, how to obey, how to think, how to study, how to run, how to be loyal, how to be proud, how to be the best and how to hold yourself. So many how's and whens and we haven't even talked about sex yet. Laughs.. Maybe the kind of sex you seek may never come, you might have to spend your life trying to learn all of these other things frist.. Offer me free no strings sex and I will yawn at you. Offer me you to be the perfect bondage sub and I will pat you on the head and have you move along. Offer me gift and money and I will be insulted and you will never experience a touch from me. Offer me yourself and all of your friends and i will think why you would scrafice your friends. Offer me your problems to be solved and I will think you just looking for a solution to your problems and you will fail to see the person behind the fixes. So many offers that are so so wrong to create something lasting and forever. When I die because I know I will, I am the kind of person who can and will say with pride that one is mine in front of God.

10/8/2016 11:13:55 PM
Sometime when you give too much attention, the submissive is forced to break away. Too much of a good things isn't always a good thing. If you are too intense like the sun the submissive will burn under the intensity. There is a reason for the darkness needs to occur and rest must be taken.

10/8/2016 10:27:26 AM
The things we do to another human being can be so extremely addictive. Try to push away someone for their happy spot and see what kind of reaction your going to get.. Laughs

10/7/2016 6:21:45 PM
Now why would I need a radio when I can get someone who can sing me a tune while I drive?

10/7/2016 3:13:29 PM
If you make a claim to be than be it. Do not lie for attention. It will cause you problems and it will not get you what you want. Dont you want to be happy?

10/5/2016 3:38:43 PM
Do you build a shrine to what was/were or do you spend your life making and sharing adventures..

10/5/2016 7:58:18 AM
So what do you do with yours? Do you hide it away only to be brought out for use? Can you put it in a social setting and point it out to the crowd and say proudly that over there is mine? Do you dress it to impress or do you force it to dress like a homeless person? If you spent the time and the effort do you create something great can you deal with the fact that others will want to steal it away from you. While creating someone who is sought after and desired by others is easy, can you instill the desire to continue to be with you. If you decide to take this route. If you have someone who isn't use to the attention and the promises of greener grasses on the other side. Your efforts will be wasted, you just improved someone to be with someone else. I tend to avoid those who have problems because one the problems are solved. They move on. They do not stay. There is that selfishness of those who have problems, they look for a solution and do not care if they consume your time, your energy and your life to find thier solution,.. Just a few random thoughts to think about..

9/28/2016 6:58:27 PM
Sometime when someone you talked with doesn't reply at that moment a person's true self is relieved. Some get angry like the little spoiled children that they are. Some start thinking the worst like a major illness or even death. Some just delete and remove like the conversations they had were meaningless. Some just hold on to what was and live in the past. Some make a shrine to what was or what could have been. Some people have the wisdom just to wait and see what happens.

9/26/2016 6:05:56 PM
I sent a message to someone who I know will never respond. Most of her ashes were given to the sea. Kind of hard to respond when your gone. Even tho she is gone. I miss her and her habits.

9/26/2016 5:36:02 PM
When you cycle a person between orgasms and pain. You have to realize this kind of sessions is mind altering one..

9/26/2016 7:46:07 AM
Cycling, No, I don't mean the riding the bike kind. There are those who seek a structured life because if they are left to themselves, they cycle between great highs and lows. During these times thier mental stability becomes unstable. I have seen these people search out those who can give them structure to give themselves the stability they seek. There are relationships based upon the mental need of structure and not they typical need of companionship and love. Knowing what you want and keeping your eyes open is important if you are searching for one type of relationship or another.

9/25/2016 6:30:54 PM
Living close to the edge mean you have a certain understanding about life and what is important. Passion and inspiration for life is important to me

9/25/2016 2:49:58 PM
Just because I know the truth about you doesn't mean I going to call you on it. Some people can not function without their lies and untruths. It is not my job to correct those people. I just avoid them..

9/24/2016 7:01:31 AM
What do you mean a bra isn't a handle? Laughs..

9/23/2016 6:46:15 PM
Many people speak beautiful words. You have to wonder if they really know the meaning of those words.

9/22/2016 9:49:57 AM
It that time of year again, time for a flu shot. It time once again to stack the person giving the shot compared to my own needle skills. Laughs.

9/21/2016 7:34:18 PM
If your trying to attract someone into your life. Being difficult and full of trouble isn't very attractive. While I can get most people out of their hells that they have created for themselves, a lifetime pulling your sorry ass out of trouble all the time isn't a life goal for me.. Laughs

9/21/2016 3:03:13 PM
Forcing someone into being something they are not is a waste of time and effort especially when they are so many wanting and willing to be. Forcing just results in fucken up human beings. I know the world already has an over abundant of them. I don't need to add to the world's problems..

9/19/2016 9:57:25 AM
If you spend your life wishing and not doing, you dont get very far in your life. Opportunities come and go. Life waits for no man nor woman. Life is about experiences and the relationships we build. Reading about them and spending time wanting and wishing doesn't make them reality. Roll up your sleeves and put in the work and create the life you want.

9/17/2016 1:41:32 PM
When you reach that mental,sexual and physical limit, If you are asked again?  Do you open up and take what is coming or do you crawl and hide? 

Laughs

9/15/2016 2:18:39 PM
Walk a little straighter and a little faster. You will get there sooner and it is better exercise.

9/15/2016 9:27:40 AM
Busy work? No, I hate non constructive busy work. Write down what you did today. Write all the little things you have done. Yes, I know this sounds like busy work. After the day is done, look at what you wrote and see what kind of changes you can do to make it easier or more simple to do. Write a weeks worth of what you have done and see where your time is being spent. You might be suprise how much time you invest in something that isn't important has it should be.. Time management is the art of knowing what you done and how to improve it.

9/14/2016 10:38:56 PM
How do you live your life? Do you watch others live their lives? What would your life be if you really lived your life. Develope skills to do the things you wanted. Accomplish loft goals. While it great to watch great moments. Wouldn't it be something else to experince and accomplish them...

9/13/2016 7:24:49 PM
It pretty easy to exit a relationship and It isnt easy trying to rekindle what was.

9/10/2016 1:53:06 PM
Life isn't easy and it is made worse by those who use others for their own entertainment.


9/8/2016 9:29:20 PM
Sometimes you see something real. It makes me smile..

9/7/2016 5:34:08 PM
Screaming only works if there is someone there to give a crap. Laughs

9/3/2016 8:09:30 AM
I am not the kind who wants to make every sub I meet mine. Some people who want to be at my feet should never be allowed. i am a responsible type , I know when being there is just going to cause you great amount of problems and grief. I won't have a relationship based upon the destruction of your happiness to fulfill mine. It a personal choice of mine. Others may do other wise.

9/2/2016 11:17:21 AM
Is or is not. Simple, after an exhausting session ask for more. Beyond it limits a relationship survive on trust.

9/1/2016 5:54:31 PM
This isn't the first time that my scribbling and badly abused English language scribing has been attempted to be transcribed and indexed. I find it amusing reading about experinces and writting them down just pales compared to experincing them.. You know? Some people are just too scared to live and they are thinking if I read about t. Will know about it.. It is hard to describe those what the fuck moments you experince in life. The sudden rush of joy and the hellish moments when it all goes south. Those who experince life understand this quiet well.. Live love and fight fr your happiness. I didn't say read about it.. Laughs

9/1/2016 8:25:39 AM
You take someone with a strong sexual appetite and you amp it up. You throw gas on thier desires. Greater orgasms and deeper satisfaction. Sex isn't just an event it becomes a life style. One has to be smart enough to understand that this kind of lifestyle isn't for everyone. It does clashes with other types of life style.

8/30/2016 9:06:30 AM
How long do you have on this plane of existence. Laughs I sound like some acid tripping hippie which I am not. Your existence with this life you lead is limited. You will someday cease to exist. Knowing this how do you conduct yourself to squeeze the passion out of life? Do you invest time in following some made up story line in someone else's made up world? Do you get the high score in some game created to just give you entertainment? Who did you affect today? How much closer are you to your happiness. Are you on the right path for a happy life or one filled with a hellish existence. Some day instead of stumbling across your happiness you will spend the time to create that long life time happiness. Happiness attracts happiness. Defend your fight for it.. Your only here for a blink of an eye..

8/29/2016 9:58:55 PM
There is the physical bondage, the endless rope, the chains that weigh a ton, the endless ways to bind a body into a pleasing shape. These are just tools to bind a soul to a person. There is no instance binding agent. There is no quick road. It is a hrad road that takes dedication and effort. These are hard to find in this instance world and the got to have it now. I mean who really want to wait a year or two to get bound? So many want that instance trust that instance full commincation, some people in thier drive to get what they want, take the short cuts, only find that the short cuts just makes thier dreams and wishes slip through thier fingers...

8/27/2016 5:47:40 PM
If you let life bog you down and steal time away from the relationship you build, what does that say about you? There is always someone who is willing to steal your time away. You have to say no to these types. They will suck up your time and energy and give you nothing in return. Kick them to the curb. While this sounds cruel and mean, we are talking about your happiness and if you don't fight for it, who will?

8/25/2016 11:47:57 PM
If you scream you want to left alone and the result of that you are cut off from the relationship you wanted so desperately in your life. Who is to blame that you got what you wanted? If you were left and replaced, why blame the person? In the search of find your own happiness, people can grow so selfish.

8/24/2016 7:39:04 AM
Background checks. It amazing how these words scatters people and makes them run into the hills. Laughs Who would have thought a background check would be such a hard limit. Smiles

8/22/2016 9:42:10 AM
Once the screaming is over, what comes next. After it's desires are filled, the true nature of a person rears it's head. The actors and actresses of the role playing kind of people come out and revert to who they really are. They pretend to be something they are not to experince something real. For them, the goal of getting what they want justifies thier behavior of acting and role playing. They typically search for something real to connect with something real but yet they only offer thier abilities to act a part and not who and what they are. Sometime they acted so much that who and what they are, they are lost to fantasy who they pretend to be. They scream they are looking for real and yet they don't know who they are anymore. They made thier own little hell. Kind of sad really. Just an observation.

8/18/2016 3:19:39 PM
Stripped of the walls you built around yourself. When reality strikes you and your facing the true you and not the person you pretend to be. What will be left? Most grabs thier privates and run to the hills too scared to look in the mirror to horrified to know what they really are.

8/17/2016 11:53:00 AM
Yes, you can be driven to madness by your wants and needs. Given a great taste of what could be and what can be. Thanks flames of desire can drive a person to madness. Taking a person who has a strong sexual nature and increasing their desires can result in a need you may not be able to handle the results. Some people will open that Pandora's box no matter how bad the results ...

8/17/2016 11:53:00 AM
Yes, you can be driven to madness by your wants and needs. Given a great taste of what could be and what can be. Thanks flames of desire can drive a person to madness. Taking a person who has a strong sexual nature and increasing their desires can result in a need you may not be able to handle the results. Some people will open that Pandora's box no matter how bad the results ...

8/17/2016 1:09:51 AM
I typical warn people about me. I tend to scare off most who approach me. I was asked why. I have found most people have a Pandora box. Opening thier box is a life changing event that is typically highly addictive. It take a normal person and creates a strong need and want for this kind of relationship, yes, relationships can be as addictive as drugs. Have you heard the phrase anything for love? Leaving a person with nothing but want and hope is cruel. It is not a positive influnce kind of move.

8/13/2016 5:07:53 PM
It is easy to exist. It is harder to be happy and exist..

8/11/2016 8:45:48 AM
Someone wanted to pray at my feet. I have told them they have to earn that place. I think I scared them off. I am not here to feed your fantasies nor to provide you with ideals for a play,book or role playing ideas.

8/10/2016 8:51:42 AM
Some people are not worth putting in time and effort into them. They just steal your tme and draw upon your emotional energy. It is good to be selfish with your time. There are way too many who want t steal your time for thier own selfish needs and amusements..

8/9/2016 8:19:23 AM
It's mind goes fuzzy and it just makes noise as it tries to communicate. Sexual sensory overload tends to rob it of the ability to talk and walk. When you pull it hair and look it in the eyes, once you speak the word "Again?" It always interesting to see what happens, Next some curl into a ball ,others crawl into a cage and a very few roll over and open up for what comes next.

8/7/2016 7:51:53 AM
If you fill your life with people and stuff. It doesn't mean you getting what you want out of life. It just means you have a full life. On the way to the pursuit of happiness, distraction are abound.

8/1/2016 8:23:13 AM
Laziness isnt something I find attractive. It is a good repellent laughs. If you put high amounts of energy into relationship and get little back. The question becomes, do I attempted to cure this flaw or do I find a replacement. Life is full of choices.

7/29/2016 7:24:11 AM
It is funny how a vanilla person wants to experience who and what I am but wants to remain in control. Perhaps they should find an actor who can act the part. If you dont want to build the trust to experience who I am. I have zero interest in letting you experience who and what I am. You need to be at this height to enjoy the ride. Laughs.

7/26/2016 1:44:54 AM
if you want a relationship based upon your own needs and not the needs of us. There is no us. All relationship need time and effort. When you sense there is no effort on the other party to create an understanding. When your interest starts to dwindle down to zero, do you attempt to fix it or do you let nature take its course and allow it to go away. Life is about choices. Chances are not forever. You have to take it when it is present. Once it goes way. It never comes back. It the nature of chances..

7/25/2016 2:38:05 PM
It screams it wants be to at my feet. If I was driven by other people wants, the ground at me feet would be covered in people who want from me.

7/23/2016 5:59:46 AM
in order to correct someone's bad habits. One need to recognize it. Being told of an event is all well and good but having to ask about the results of the event afterwards puts a person into the habit of asking. I understand this is a way to seek attention but playing games like this shows me that when you have news, you tend to keep those things to yourself and not share them. This kind of habit is unacceptable and drives the relationship apart and not together.

7/20/2016 12:29:36 AM
In this life you will be exposed to craptastic people. It the nature of some just to be that way. They are more than willing to create there own hell and share it with you.  Remember this is your life and you should not allow those people to have an influence over your life. Do not let some one curse you with a life you do not want or need.

Stay strong and carry on.   

7/19/2016 5:47:09 PM
Dress well and walk with grace. Do not clump along. Be something with style. Stop being a slob by mess. Use your time well. Understand that life will have it up and downs. It how you handle your self during the rough patches that defines a person. Be that better person I know you are.

7/18/2016 5:10:40 PM
There are people who just want to be turn into something useless. I don't have a use for useless things in my life. Useless things are just lumps. Lumps are not amusing or inspiring, They are just lumps who goals are to become useless. Why waste time on a lump? There are much more interesting things to spend my time on..

7/14/2016 7:42:03 AM
Some people complain that nobody gets them. Creating understanding between people is hard work. You need to have skills to create that understanding. The other person has to put in effort for this to happen or you are just screaming into the wind. The hard road is working towards understanding the easy road is pointing fingers blaming them and hiding under a rock.

7/5/2016 11:41:43 PM
I hear a soul screaming it is echoing through my being. Once you experinced a great emotional expression. What is left? Are you just empty and desperate wanting to be filled with anything cause the nothing is just more frightening than the issue? Are you just something trying to live at any means or are you something special worthy of time and effort? Are you just a happiness junkie? Taking shot of anything, just to attempt to cope for another day? Can you be of service? Can you performed when told? Do you have what it takes to take dark journies into what you really are? Some roads are just not for you no matter how desperate you want to go down them. Some road you just don't know until you go down them..

7/5/2016 9:30:57 PM
broken screaming and crying the foolish ones run away and the smart ones get to work.

7/4/2016 10:56:51 AM
Hold a mirror up to a person and show them the darkness of thier soul. It changes thier outlook on life. For the better or for the worse? Good question to ask the person who is holding the mirror. Sometimes leaving a person in ignorance is best cause the truth is to scarey to face...

7/3/2016 11:41:45 PM
I hear the screams of lonely souls make me into anything you want me to be. Use me anyway you want me to be. Change me and mold me I want to be in your life. So so desperate to be used in any fashion. Thier want has consumed who and what they are. Soon all that is left is the desire to be anything just to be with you.

7/3/2016 9:16:30 AM
Sometmes past lessons in life will teach you to never in the hell will you do that again but sometime the horrible things you learned in the past was a result of bad behaviors of others in your life. Don't loose your passions due to others bad behaviors. It will suck the life right out of you.. Happy 4th. Remeber happiness is worth fighting for and even dieing for.

7/1/2016 11:30:32 PM
Life isn't fair but it does give you a chance to be happy..

7/1/2016 8:46:09 AM
It is easy to change oneself to fit the image in another person's mind. While a connection is made to another human being, it is not a real connection. Someone is acting to be that image in your head and not being themself. Trapping another to be in your life is easy. Having someone who wants to be in your life based upon really are is the hard path. The hard path doesn't guarantee you will get what you want but it does give you a better chance in finding and keeping something extremely special...

6/30/2016 8:16:36 AM
Sometimes coming across as being mean just means I refuse to enable your bad behavior. While it enabling you is an easy thing to do. I know it isnt the right thing to do.

6/24/2016 11:49:55 PM
Ran across someone I knew so long ago. It stirs memories. Not sure if it is a good thing or not. A death of a friend is hard to relive. Hindsight is always so clear. I tend to remember the good suff and tend to forget the bad stuff. We all need closure. I hope this brings some. At least the person has a lifetime sentence without the possibility of parole..

6/24/2016 3:44:47 AM
someone threaten to tone it down for me? Laughs I say amp it up and set that dam bar higher. Growth typically isn't as easy and as simple as just growing. Sometime there is a great amount of frustration and pain involded. Saying to someone you expect pain and frustration normally send people running away grabbing thier privates. The ones that stay grow and learn and the ones that run Only know how to flee. So are you a runner or do you like frustration and pain. Laughs

6/22/2016 5:44:00 PM
Yes I can pour more time into a person and make them more valuable but valuable doesn't mean that thier sense of loyalty will grow stronger. It just means they are worth more. So many want this or that. Very few spend the time to figure how to really be of service. How do you serve when all you see is your self your wants and your needs.

6/21/2016 11:52:00 PM
While i have no problem of you sinking into your own hellish version of life on this planet, I do not like the idea of you sucking everyone into your drama. Blah blah blah excuse excuse. Some people just love not only creating their own hell, they are so self center that they must share it with everyone around them.

6/19/2016 12:21:01 PM
Sometimes you just have to put on the black cowboy hat not becuase your evil and have a wish to do bad things. Sometime you put the black hat on to do the right thing that going to upset a lot of people who get away doing bad things for so long that it is ok for them to act that way..

6/18/2016 4:46:00 PM
I have to be strong. I do not tolerate attempts to make me weaker. A hard life will chew you out and spit you out if your weak. I have to be strong. I have to be stronger than your addictions as cruel as that sounds. I can not have you go down that hell of a path that doesn't lead to long term happiness.I have to be strong. I need to protect what is mind from those who want to destroy the happiness that is created. Those who throw thier influence to cause drama and weaken a strong relationship. Those who throw doubts and create issues will be quickly and bluntly dealt with.I have to be strong for that. I have to be strong to lead us to happier times and avoid the typical pit falls in life of getting to comfy in a relationship and not putting in the 100 percent effort a great relationship needs. I need to be strong so I can be leaned on in those horrible times when everything else is coming crashing down. I need to be strong. I need to be strong. I need to be strong...

6/15/2016 10:54:06 PM
So your dead to me. It doesn't mean you are dead to the world. It just mean your dead to me. Call me names, I don't care. Cause your dead to me. Don't follow me or try to stay in contact. Do not try to get me to reminisce the past because life is meant to live forwards. Called me horrible names cause I won't keep you as a friend. Cause your dead to me. I won't grieve about the lost. I will move forward like you should. I wont have you fill my life with your issues. I won't be asking you to be a part of my life. I seek freedom to find my special. You should too even if your dead to me..

6/14/2016 10:34:59 PM
Left alone isnt a good thing. some wonder off.. others are easily distracted by the new and shiney. ties are testing. Observation of effort become apparent..

6/14/2016 5:28:21 AM
Some sessions can be as simple as a hand full of coloring books and a big box of crayons.

6/14/2016 5:24:39 AM
If you are going to lead, you better god dam take full responsiblites of the crap that follows. Blaming the situation or other people just makes you look like the idiot you are. Laughs..

6/12/2016 10:59:51 PM
It is aways fun to go to a hardware store and grab a clamp and give a look. Some run off.. Some cover up and very few presents you something to be clamped.. Laughs

6/12/2016 5:39:32 PM
Rattling words into the great internet space.. Sooner or later.. Your words will get harvested and processed. It is one thing to read words. It is another to live them..

6/12/2016 3:55:31 AM
If the effects of my influnce has gotten you swollen from over a thousand miles away.. Just think of what is going to happen when your closer to me. Think about the intensity. Think aboult all those dark corners of your self your going to compelled to expose. What will you too if your orgasms don't calm your passions down but just increase your desires? What will happen if your toys become useless in the pursue of satisfaction? So what will be left of you once you are consumed by your passions? As time tics by the obsession to a relationship that slowly consumes you. Pandora box is a temptation. Keep your self safe in a box or open the the box and never be the same again..

6/11/2016 12:49:35 AM
Some asked who i follow? While it is nice to see other people's journey, this is my life and my journey. Lump bump warts and all. I created my own little heaven and hell. Thier experince is for them. I create my own.

6/7/2016 12:37:37 AM
Screams are not just for cries for help. Screams can come from great emotional release. Expression of the soul to let go. To scream to the heavens about some dark deed done to you. That emotional release frees you and loosen the emotional baggage that ties you to a spot in your past.. Life is lived forwards. The past can not be changed..

6/4/2016 12:27:37 AM
Painting a group of people with a broad brush, strips the people from being individuals. Generalization reduces people to a common theme. Promoting these stereotypes and weaving them into jokes, shows a certain disregard of the person.

6/2/2016 2:03:39 PM
Letting go of old pain isn't as easy as it sounds. Sometime you have to let go so that you can continue on to find what makes you happy and not becuase you forgive the horrible crap that happen to you..

6/2/2016 10:45:42 AM
I run across those who live a life that is expected from them and not who they are. Talk about living and making your own hell..

6/2/2016 9:25:36 AM
People with great need are consumed by it. They will look upon you as a solution to thier probles and not as a person to travel through life with.

6/1/2016 1:35:05 AM
If you are not you, who are you? If you are this actor or actress who plays a role. Do you not dispense create emotional pain. What does that speak of you and who you are. Ignore me. It ok. I don't have to live your life. It is your life and the choices and the behaviors that make you are on your own head. It just an observation on my part. So many selfish people inflicting pain on to others all in the name of self amusement.. How odd. How selfish. How sad.. We all have run across those types and perhaps we were the focus of someone's amusement for a while. It best to forget it and move on. An act is just an act and it was never real. Things that are not realy should be forgotten like so many dreams we have had in our sleep..

5/25/2016 12:34:22 AM
The past can curse you to a future you do not want.. It is not easy to unhook your self from a past that was thrusted upon you. Why does an influnce need to be strong,, Why does the light need to be so bright.. Some souls just wander aimlessly without guidance.. some guidance just needs to be strong to get where you need to be..

5/22/2016 10:00:39 AM
Some collars are thin little strips of leather. 
Some collars keep the head held high.
Some collars are used like little leashes..
There is something to be said about a heavy metal chain and a pad lock.
Eyes grow wide when you take the key and grind it flat.

Laughs

5/18/2016 1:28:21 AM
Some people stumble upon a connection and hope it fits. Forging a connection is something else.. Compared to growing a connection..

5/15/2016 12:43:04 AM
Dress to please..service with a smile.. Bend at the waist. Walk in high heels. Generate happiness as you serve it binds you to a relationship you want..

5/13/2016 10:07:11 PM
A captured soul always a choice to escape..a committed soul always stays to makes sure happiness continue to grow.

5/9/2016 8:47:37 AM
If your behavior drives you to someplace unhappy, knowing that you need to change your behavior and doing it is sometime two different things. Sometime a stronger influnce is needed and anytime you have a strong influnce in your life expect it to cause you more issues. Old behaviors want to stay the same there a resistance to change.

5/9/2016 12:45:28 AM
There are people who have such a high amount of want that are blinded by the want. There relationship is base on that want and the drive to satisfaction. Thier interest in another is not who you are but what you can do for them.

5/8/2016 12:56:31 AM
If happiness is the goal why do some fight so hard against it and complain when they don't have enough of it in thier life? Connect with someone and build a rich and deep relationship if that what you know you want..

5/7/2016 5:52:56 PM
While I can force you to do something, I rather inspire you to do them instead. What easy road compared to the hard road..

5/7/2016 8:58:09 AM
Another day bring more possibilities, what are you going to do today? Do you another day just trying to get through it or are you going to spend it just living it. Days come and days go. A lot of days are forgotten into the past. There are days that person can remeber for the rest of thier life. So are you going to have one of those days you will soon forget or will you have a day that you can stick in your mind? Do something great and amazing.

5/6/2016 1:30:07 AM
Tore down and reduced to a pile. It's emotions are spend. Its energy has gone away. It was consumed. It's silly games have been exposed as games. Those games didn't protect it from the reality and the truth. It is just one used tired nerve ending. It awakens and the word again is used. A loan groan is heard and it passes out again. It got more than it has bargain for. It is the nature of reality to the crap one dreams about. Pushed broken and made to perform under stress. Do you shine or do you hide. Doesn't matter really. It is what it is. Nature of life. I rattle, sometime i make sense other times it is best just to label me and go on your way.

5/1/2016 8:51:31 PM
A session can be therapeutic but it can open door that you may never be able to close once open. Sometimes when someone really take a look at you. They find things in you that are not quiet pleasant but they are a part of you. Some people find that serving with out self exploration is a much easier task compared to letting someone take a real look at you..

4/29/2016 5:56:20 PM
Do you dance with the desires you are having or do you dance with the longing of what you had once upon a time. Pandora 's box.. sometime all you are left with is hope..

4/29/2016 8:52:40 AM
If you find the life you want, when something terrible goes wrong you lost what you found. If you build a life you want, if it is damaged. You can rebuild it. While I could push your sexuality limits, the is no point if there is no future.

4/28/2016 5:34:37 PM
finding someone who is a solution to your problem isnt the same as finding someone for a long term relationship..

4/28/2016 11:38:56 AM
If you are never tested.and pushed, how will you know what your capable of?

4/25/2016 8:08:17 PM
A pair of slaves from Africa. Really now? Had German, Swedish, Aussie,kiwi, Russian, Norway and Canada. Never from Africa they tend to send picture you can find on the web.. Laughs

4/23/2016 2:21:54 PM
Sometime you choose the hard road because it squeezes more out of life. I know special when I see it. This doesn't mean I want to posse it. this doesn't mean I want to have a relationship with it. this doesn't mean I want to steal it away to lock it up. This doesn't mean I want to destroy it if I can't have it. Just an acknowledgement that is is there and that it exists.

4/22/2016 2:37:28 AM
On the edge of Pandora's box? Some people should not ever open that box. Live a life of not knowing or Live of life of strong cravings.

4/21/2016 7:38:02 AM
The perfect slave. Has to be hot and in perfect playboy playmate body shape. Has to have a money to burn and have their own home paid for. Has to have a master's degree in several real subjects. Has to have perfect health. Has to be fluent in several languages. Has to be able to listen and take orders. Has to be highly sexual at a moment notice. Has to be around when wanted and not be seen or heard if not needed. For those who search for this type of slave, good luck your going to needed it.. laughs.. Playmates are air brushed. They are not real. Most people work hard for the dollars they have. You dont get money buy burning it. If you want someone to relocate to you, a person who owns thier own home isnt going just pick up and leave.. While a master degree is a sign of commitment to education, a master's degree does mean your a fun and engaging person to build a strong relationship with. It just means your well versed in a certain subject matter. Perfect health? Please, we all have funky werid shit that our body do from time to time. While learning a new language is fun. Language is about communication. Sometime the struggle to understand each other is more impressive than having that feather in your cap. a mindless person taking orders. While at first seems like a dream but telling someone to breath all the time gets old really quick. Sexual at a moment notice. There is a joy in finding what creates a sexual mood in another person. If you short cut the process of finding out how another person is turn on, you miss out in finding the different ways it can happen. Life is about sharing experiences. How do you share when they are not there? Yes, you can tell someone about an experience of seeing a blue sky or a star filled sky but it is just not the same.. Now get off my lawn. I got people to chase and life experiences to have.. Laughs

4/20/2016 6:18:25 PM
Just because your naked upside down in ropes doesn't mean there going to be pain or sex. Don't assume just because your naked and your want something to happen that it going to happen. Sometime bondage is just that bondage.

4/19/2016 6:47:23 PM
Saw a submissive in a restaurant.. I just stared at it. it came over and kneel on the floor by my feet.. The vanillas with me were a in shock.. I asked it.. did you earn that spot at my feet? it said no.. I asked it was owned? it said yes.. I told it it wasn't mine and to go back to its dinner.. Was there a connection there? Yes but I dont steal from others..

4/11/2016 9:26:33 AM
There are many who seek and want perfection. I call them the lazy ones. If you stumble across the perfect one, you haven't put into the hard work to create your version of perfection. Are you a finder or a builder? Most look for that perfect relationship, the hard road is building that perfect relationship.

4/7/2016 7:47:43 PM
Some people run fast but yet they never gain any distance. You need traction and know where your going to get there. Some people are just prisoners of thier own device.. Nothing like creating your own hell to keep you trapped and never finding what you need..

4/7/2016 10:41:43 AM
With most typical interviews, the person typically puff themselves up and put on a air of what they want to be and not who they really are.. I want to know the horrible and terrible things about you. There is an old story about a man growing oak trees. He use to beat the oak trees. Kind of odd to beat up a tree. Well a great storm came up and the tree survived the storm. An easy life is great and wonderful but it makes you ill prepared to handle the storms in life. I have met many fragile souls that fall apart by the l ittles bumps in the road.

4/7/2016 1:39:33 AM
Driven crazy by too much or too little, you get to see what inside. Oh my how you hide and pretend. Reality has a way of reaching you and slapping you in your face. Some people should never open that Pandora's box. Ignorance is blessful to some and it brings them happiness not knowing. It would be cruel to leave a person with an open box. If the more knowledge you know, the more you realize what little you know and a little knowledge is dangerous, the more i learn and grow means I get more dangerous the more I learn. Laughs..

4/7/2016 1:24:51 AM
With emotions running to each extreme, you know you will hit the I hate you stage.. How dare you break my walls. How dare you tell me what to do. How dare you behave that way towards me.. If you never reach those extremes, you really never hit those limits now have you?

4/5/2016 6:00:12 PM
Sometime you have to make sure your voice is louder than they voices they hear in thier head.. If you give me you.. I wont stand for your self destructive nature.. There are only a few slaves that understand the art of servicing. If you use money and power to attract something to you.. do you really want what shows up.. laughs.. After pushing someone to thier limits, a true submissive will light up when you tell them..Again. Do you really want a relationship that is stronger than your addictions?

4/3/2016 11:58:49 PM
What do you mean a bra isn't a handle? If your going to an extreme to get some one's attention, at least have something important to say. Ripping your clothes off doesn't always means your going to get some. Sometime ugly clothes just need to be destroyed. Naked and afraid the tv show is where people turn native animals into poop.

4/1/2016 11:34:12 PM
I still send messages out there to a profile I know that will never return my messages.. RIP. Years have gone on and yet I still send you messages. Not as many as I use too but there are times when something strikes a cord. A memory of what once has been come like lighting through my brain. Something happy and than come the realization of the fact you are gone. I am unsettled by unexpected departure of this earth by you. your death still doesn't settle with me. Those bad people you tangled with all three of them got life in prison with no parole. It doesn't bring you back. Your words of don't worry I know what I am doing haunt me.. Every time I tried to help and fix. You would get upset and kicked me out of your life.. Can't help someone who doesn't want to be helped. Sometime life is painful and it can be like a hell.. Life is lead by going forward and sometime you just need to go through hell to get there..

3/31/2016 4:26:31 PM
If you cast your net wide and far are you going get what you really need and want?

3/30/2016 11:28:51 PM
When someone complains not to spoil them so much because they fear thier sex toys will become ineffective, I grow fustrated cause it limits what I like to do. I am investing my time, my energy and my life into another human being, dam straight, I am picky. Just because I agree to bind you in ropes, it doesn't mean there going to be any sex. I don't care if you wet and horny. Yes, I understand you have a fetish or a thing you like to do but you can't based a relationship just on that only thing.

3/22/2016 12:11:07 AM
I don't fit in a neat square box. I know there are those who seek someone who fits nicely in a little neat box. The bedroom types. I know my nature and I know what my nature does to those who attempts to put me in that little neat little box. I enjoy being an influnce on all aspects on a person's life. This scares off many cause they need to contain an event to one place and one nice and neat little box. They fear that the more influnce the less they have a say in thier own life and they refuse to let go cause it always been disappointing and things have horribly gone wrong in so many different levels..

3/21/2016 12:21:01 PM
Do I save you or do I put you in peril? Depends on how you look at things. some people should never go down that rabbit hole. It just leads to an unhappy and tormented life. If I push your emotional limits would you ever be the same? What happens if the need I strived to grow consume you? What would be left of you if this doesn't work out. THeses are we important things that rattle in my head.

3/21/2016 12:43:12 AM
Some people freak out when food is introduced. I really don't understand why they get upset. I have had over weight and diabetic people in my life. Being the kind of person who enjoys being responsible, the health of the one I take care of is important to me.

3/20/2016 12:00:49 AM
Little paw gloves and some cat ears. Poor little thing is not allowed to talk. It tries so hard to meow and communicate a message. It gets frustrated and has to play with a ball of yarn. It tries to claw a corner of the sofa. It get treated to spray bottle. It get fed in a little pink bowl on the floor.. It naps on the couch.. I wonder.. Why does it travel so far away just to experince this.. It seems to be happy as it wanders off back to it life..

3/16/2016 10:00:34 PM
So you been trained by this person or that person, well good for you. Now if I was the kind of person who wanted to benefit from a pretrain person, This might be appealing but honestly, I like training. I like the details. I like the lows and highs. There is a point when service is like watch a piece of human artwork. Every moment being aware of what your hands are doing how your body is positioned. Yes, even how you are breathing. Training has time and effort invested into a person. It is truely an art form.

3/16/2016 3:58:10 PM
It is one thing kneeling in front of someone on some nice thick carpet..it is another thing to have someone kneeling on a bed of dried peas.

3/14/2016 11:46:14 PM
Truely having a person is an extreme delight. It more than having the ablitiy to direct another person to do kinky things. It more than training a person to endure the most painful experiences. It more than orgasms that feel like your soul is ripped fro your body. It more than having someone who will do things for you. I have seen the desperation of those wanting to be own loved and cherished. Some people spend a life time looking for special, instead of walking the hard road and creating it. There are no real shortcuts to achieving special. It is fraught with the shiney shiney of something new. Why spend the time when it is so easy to get something new syndrome. How do you connect to another? Just on one level or do you invest time and energy to connect in more than just one level? Do you value the relationship more than your own sense of right and wrong? If you understand that your influnces does affect people and thier relationships. How can you allow another who has their own be consumed by it. Give someone a safe place to be who they are. Ignite a person soul to have great passions. This kind of life isn't for everyone but it a well lived one. It is easy to find a greedy soul, it hard to find a kind one but it is worth it..

3/13/2016 4:06:03 PM
Training someone to value the opinion of those worthy is important

3/11/2016 11:15:09 PM
When the things you do to another human causes addiction problems.. it can be dangerous for both parties..

3/11/2016 11:14:39 PM
When the things you do to another human causes addiction problems.. it can be dangerous for both parties..

3/11/2016 8:01:53 AM
There are those who will want you for what you got. There are those who want you for what you do. There are those who want you for thier own selfish needs. There are those who want the free life without work. There are those who scream understand me and do not communicate. Yes, I understand want and need but I rather not spend my life just feeding that want and need. There are no instance relationships just add water..you have to work on and for the things you want and need. It makes for a more passionate life. What is life without passion, just someone who is waiting for death to claim them... Dont be one of those who live under a rock.m

3/9/2016 6:18:05 PM
Trying to post tends to make duplicate empty journal entries. Odd.. Being the responsible type means you just take care of things without asking. Tagger hit our street sign. I took my ladder and my paint remover just to clean the paint off the street sign. As I was on the top of the ladder the local police came by and asked me what I was doing. I just looked at him and said I am taking care of my neighborhood. Yes, I know the local city will clean up this mess in a week but I can keep the street clean in hours if need be.

3/9/2016 6:17:33 PM
If I punish you, it means I have hopes you will improve.

3/8/2016 4:28:59 PM
Don't tell me how submissive you are. Tell me about your hopes and dreams..

3/8/2016 11:14:56 AM
The prefect submissive? I am.not.even interested. Why? A smooth life is a dull life. How do you have passion when everything is easy? Easy means there is no challenge and a life with no challenge. How do you value something that has no challenges?

3/7/2016 10:38:13 AM
Sometime we reduce a person to a crying heap of biomass, just to get closer to what they are. Just to allow them to have that emotional release they need. Yes, I said need and not want. There are those who have so much emotional baggage that is prevents them from having the life they want. That great emotional release allows them to function without being self destructive.

3/4/2016 11:26:27 PM
If you too busy worrying about what others think and your image, you lose yourself and the ability to be you..

3/1/2016 8:52:56 AM
There are those who are emotionally spread out thinly. Thier emotional support system is based upon numerous sources. While these does give the Constance emotional support they need, it doesn't give them any deep emotional involvement they crave. Part of the many compared to part to the few so to speak. They are safe in thier little environment they created for them self but they don't have the time or emotional energy to make a strong connection due to the draw and need to maintain all these smaller emotional support relationships. Understanding what your doing and where you want to be is part of self exploration and knowing who and what you are. Going forward to what you want is better than just existing and just wanting something and not doing anything to get thier.

2/29/2016 10:51:51 PM
some people are forced to live a life they are not happy in. Theses poor miserable souls cry the loudest. They become self destructive. One need a firm, quick action or these poor souls just create their own hells. One can not lose focus or be lazy in the relationship. One has to be relationship focused. While hope for a quick fix, normally this isn't the case. Someday you have to just roll up the sleeves and get to work.

2/28/2016 10:24:29 PM
if you crank up someone sexual addiction be sure your able to satisfy the hunger you created. A frustrated person soon tires of being frustrated and leaves to fill the void you created. Of course, if it is your goal to make this person leave you than carry one. There are those who have no want or need for sexual satisfaction. They are truly not turn on sexually at all. They are just happy little non sexual people, happy to serve but just not in a sexual way. But even tho they are like, this doesn't mean that free you to have a sexual relationship with another. Just be cause someone has no sexual interest doesn't mean they are not jealous of your time not spent with them.

2/28/2016 1:28:31 PM
A little sub was complaining, I told them of one of my filters.
No sex for 6 months and No kink for a year.
The perverts will look for something easier. They will find  easier low hanging fruit.
Actors and actresses can only act for a short time..
Perverts will look for easier ways to get themselves off..
Crazies will cycle before the year is up.
The grass is always greener crowd will jump ship long before the year is up.
The catfish will run out of information or grow bored.

Time is a great truth reveler.


2/28/2016 7:50:45 AM
If you make a mess of your life, why do you expect another to clean it up? If you clean up someone messy life, why do you expect them to stay in your life? If the grass is always greener someplace else, rarely does one put in the time and effort to make thier own little patch of green, greener. Many speak with pretty words, rare is the one who actions speak louder than thier words.

2/27/2016 4:58:33 PM
If I implanted breast implants into a male sub, do you think he would just hide in the corner and play with himself?

2/26/2016 4:28:06 PM
Out of the box solution or do you build what you need or want.. It speaks greatly of who and what you are.. do you seek a great relationship or do you build one... Why do you allow someone to suck the passion out of your life..

2/26/2016 8:24:48 AM
Do you ask for a happy life or do you earn a happy life? Are your steps in life are gong towards your goal and dreams or away? Is life the biggest optical in your path or is it you? While fear keeps us safe it also keeps us from experincing new things. If you haven't gone a little insane while having sex, your just not in the same league..

2/24/2016 5:24:29 PM
Some people strive to have a rich and happy life.. others just hunt for more victims..

2/23/2016 1:30:16 PM
Do you really think boobs and a hole will get you through life?

2/22/2016 2:22:31 PM
So you had an orgasm. Well who cares, people been having them for a very long time. It isnt special and we dont need to tell the press or the pope about it. Now most remember the frist orgasm, it was special to you. A bit of the unknown and a bit of fear makes things special. Now most have accomplished having orgasms but few have accomplished working hard to make them special. Do this do that and presto orgasm. Expanding how you reach makes a lot more special ones.

2/18/2016 3:28:38 PM
Negative influences can give lessen your chances... If you allow the negative people thier influence to affect your life. You chances of finding yours is lessened. You find someone interesting and you greet them with a lazy attuitue and when asked about your self you point them to a website or link.. Now really who wants someone who only put minimum effort into something ? There isnt much interest in low energy low passion people. This place and others can curse you if you are not careful..

2/17/2016 8:53:31 AM
People who struggle through life are a lot more interesting and have a greater apperication of life.

2/16/2016 9:43:31 AM
If I move, I take what is mine with me. I do not leave it alone. It just something I do. If your relationship is worthless and what you consider yours is worthless, I suppose you could just walk away. Death has a way of putting a stronger value on the person you call yours. I tend to hear how thier last relationship was so great and than they moved. This is always a curious to me if you find something great, why leave it.

2/11/2016 8:27:06 AM
The concept of being someone's everything. It a mighty big job to be someone's everything. Adding bdsm concepts to the typical relationship naturally intensifies the relation. Being someone's everything just become more complicated. Considering the people one finds in is life style, it not one in a million shot, the odds become much greater in finding a person who is your everything. Compromises can occur to accomplish a relations but compromises leads to someone who ends up lacking. Dealing with people who typical do not have the typical normal vanillia upbringing, it isn't typical that they can handle the large job of being someone's everything. Typically it is not there fault, they are typically survivors of events beyond thier control. Having the typical male gene of needing to fix. I tend to build polly relationships. So instead of a 2 person building a relationship, it is a three person relationship. The relationship is a lot more complicated and a lot more harder work. So why? The amount of energy is simply amazing. Things that are lacking can be more easily compensated for. Tasks are easier and simpler to accomplish. If everything is working an amazing experince compare with the constant struggle..

2/10/2016 11:47:39 PM
Years and years ago it had a session from me. It was with me long enough that I knew it moods and emotions like my own. I applied what I knew and gave it a lot of time and effort. It decided to close the door and move on. No ill words were though or spoken. Like a book it just came to an end. It seems that these experiences that it had received has haunted it. It wants what was. I told it, you can not take a snap shot in time and relive it. You are not the same and neither am I. One can only live life forwards and if you live it with passion, you lived it well. Some people chase what was once and forget what they have in front of them.

2/10/2016 7:55:21 AM
Very few can endure. So many want the instance life. Do you know what it takes to build something great? Do you understand what the hard road is and the satisfaction you received for a something you put honest time and effort into? Some success comes from your failures when you brush your self off and continue on. Do you realy live a life or are you faking it? Who are you cheating when you do? What does that say about you? There are many things that are easy to say but hard to do. Do you have what it takes to work hard and endure.. Rattling thoughts from someone off center but is very happy in his skin..

2/9/2016 8:16:43 PM
It seems the last of the three was sentenced to life to prison without parole.. I wonder if they believe in an afterlife of sorts. I wonder what thier God will say to them. I wonder if thier dead victims will extract revenge on them. People are dead due to the excuse of well this is bdsm and the lifestyle. Just because you are what you are doesn't mean it gives you the right to terminate another person's existence. If you don't value life, don't suck anyone into your hell your making for yourself.

2/9/2016 12:44:58 PM
Not quite human, not quite pet, not quite one way or the other. Its should makes sense..

2/8/2016 5:24:43 PM
Some people hide in the shadows..afraid that they may be discovered what they truly are.. I use pleasure and pain to demand the best from you. That in itself scares the crap out of most.

2/8/2016 10:30:27 AM
If no one demands the best from you, how do you what is your best? Life is filled with traps called the easy way. Are you sure the easy way is not robbing you of something truly worthwhile? Life is littered with tragic stories of those who took the easy way.

2/7/2016 11:21:42 AM
a pile of rope that once held someone tight.. Now sits in little short peices. The submissive pulled in a direction that wasn't planned. It is amazing what the body can do under stress. A limb was changing colors. Out come out the rope cutters. I chopped the person out.what took hours to weaver is now sits on the floor. I ignore the submissive. I made the choice when everything comes to an end. Instead of being cradled in ropes, the submissive is now giving me the evil eye. Was this a failure? Not in my eyes. Just another opertuity for another design change. When things go wrong. It shows me what kind of person I am dealing with. As it walks out the door, it calls me a tease and grumbles away.

2/4/2016 10:24:03 PM
Found someone's limit.. I called them kiddo.. smiles laughs

2/3/2016 9:46:36 AM
If I dont know what your doing today. There isnt a lot of hope that I will decide that you will be mine. I know there are those who can neatly box a person in and make them fit into thier life. Your only going to fit here and your only going to act this way there. I am just not build that way. This doesn't mean I going to tie you naked in the middle of a presidential event on live tv and just fuck you silly in front of live cameras. Going to jail isnt and dealing with the drama it will cause just isnt very appealing to me.

2/2/2016 9:01:14 PM
It says it can not sing or play a musical instrument. I can change that. Show me what in your soul. Sing for me.

1/31/2016 10:28:21 AM
There are those who will act a certain way in order to have a relationship. They been acting this way and that way for a very long time. They have lost who they really are.. Thier need to have something special has warp who and what they are. So if you don't know who you are and you change your spots to acquire a lie of a relationship, do you really think your going to find something real and solid to build your happiness?!

1/29/2016 11:28:14 AM
Easy road is to setup rules and apply punishment for enforcement. hard road is holding them accountable for thier actions and give them an understanding of what will happen if they continue with thier actions. Everyone wants to have thier words to have weight and meaning. Trying to connect by repeating your self over and over just results on words being more worthless as time goes forward.

1/28/2016 9:40:38 PM
I ran across someone who stated they were in this life style all thier adult life.. I kind of wonder without a choice, how do you know this is the path you want to be in? Were they real? Who know just some odd soul.

1/28/2016 2:42:02 PM
Just because I can see the image in your head of what you want doesn't mean I going to change to fit that image. Images are unreal and are never based in reality..

1/28/2016 8:54:25 AM
Sometime I ask for a leap of faith, to see a reaction. Reactions, tell me a lot about a person.

1/28/2016 1:01:56 AM
I wonder if I can teach a soul to dance.. We shall see...

1/26/2016 1:01:26 AM
So many princesses looking for a prince, one has to wonder what in the heck is a prince doing on a bdsm site? Laughs..

1/24/2016 10:19:23 PM
If I don't frustrate the living crap out of you from time to time, there is something wrong.. We are a desert eating kind of culture, We want it now and we want desert frist. With out passion, life is just trying to get through it. Just trying to exist for another day.

1/23/2016 12:26:36 PM
We eat. It makes one of the primal things we all do. Controlling someone's food intake is important. Sounds simple? Monday x Tuesday y and Wednesday z etc. While a fixed meal plan sound simple, it isnt. We thrive on variety and what is fresh and in season. The out of season or items picked green isnt very good. A meal based upon a farmers market what is fresh is a meal that takes more time but is healthier for you in the long run. Feeding junk food to your submissive is just going to get you someone with poor health.

1/22/2016 6:14:01 PM
I could trick someone to be naked at my feet but tricks are for kids.. I could pay for someone to be at my feet but that personn is motivated by money.. I could give away the spot at the frist person who wants it.. What does that say about the space at your feet? Things have value and this includes relationships. How much do you value yours? Hi ow much do you value the space at your feet

1/21/2016 11:55:09 PM
The mind wanders... I could amp up that person.. I could give it a happy life.. I could train and influnce it to become something more special.. I could give it the courage and security to completely let go.. I could make it's relationships stronger.. I could push it to a higher level.. I could amp up it passion for life. There a lot I could do. I wonder how deep of a rabbit hole it can go? Control, influence, training, trust, commincation, loyalty and passion these are the things that are important. In the drive for happiness, laziness isn't something anyone needs.

1/20/2016 10:59:16 AM
If you sign up for bondage, don't get upset if there is no sex before, during or afterwards..

1/19/2016 11:13:43 AM
Dressing to please.. Some people never learn or accomplish this feat. Some people have no style or haven't found what works for them. Sometime you need to do a little training because of the sudden rush of attention. The old story of the grass is greener on the other side because of the bs.

1/18/2016 9:09:20 AM
If your not responsible for your own behavior, who is? Sometime a person needs to put the blame on someone in order to be come what they want. They need that escape clause. In their mind, they can still lie to themselves and call them self normal. It is the other who makes me do these dark and shameful things. They cling on to the image that they are fit into that neat little normal box. Omg the shame of being you, blaming others for being what is really you.. Laughs

1/15/2016 10:15:31 AM
I get opportunities to start a relationship.. I look at what they are seeking. Some seek just an experince , other seek long term and other have not a clue. Since I am long term, I look how that person might fit into my life. Do they have the time to put into a relationship? Relationship dies due to the lack of time. If a relationship is that important to you, I wonder how many hours do you put into it?

1/14/2016 12:06:29 AM
So you want a happy life? Find someone who wants to have a life with you. You will be tested in horrible ways. It hard to remember that happiness is the goal.. So many things will distract you.. Short cuts to happiness will give you a hell you may not recover from.. Some people will fuck with you just for there own amusement. Sometime you have to fight other for your happiness.. Sometime you have to fight yourself.. All the crap you have to go through will seem like a bad dream you will forget about.. Once you know what you got is real, solid and not going away. You can create that life you want.. Happy life..

1/13/2016 5:13:39 PM
What do you mean a bra isnt a handy control device? Pulling on the back strap is a good warning device. a snap is a good ways of saying I am not happy with your behavior. a.good grip on the back side of the bra and a skateboard is a fun way to get around. A good grip in the front is a good temp collar. Pulling on the shoulder straps makes a good boobies marionette..

1/9/2016 11:31:07 PM
Why the older sub? They understand reality relationships and have experince. Newbie have a fantasy to fulfill. They want you as long as you fulfill thier fantasy. Barbie syndrome even occurs in the bdsm world. Laughs. I have lived through my own hell and have helped other with thier own hells. It gives me an odd perspective of life. If you inivte a strong influnce into your life, if your seasoned by life you understand that your actions will have unforeseen results.

1/9/2016 10:20:02 AM
A ream of paper and a few pens. I have been told, these are a horrible items for a session. This is beyond cruel. Tell me about you. It sounds like a simple question but how do you fill a ream of paper with nothing but you in it? It not an easy task, it is a lot to ask from someone. Some will try to game the question. The trash can is a place for those.. It is amazing to see the results of those who rise up to the challenge but those people are rare.

1/6/2016 5:13:35 PM
I am such a mean and terrible person, I forced it's eye's upon it's own soul.
As far back as it could go, I pushed it to relive the good and the bad.
Tell me your pains and joys. Tell the dark places you hide.

Sometime the loudest cries of pain are never from physical pains. 
It is from the mental anguish on experience in life.

The expression of that much pain does have an affect.  With emotional support and a little guiding, It does get better. 


1/5/2016 9:49:19 PM
It has mellowed because of the hell it has been through. If I give it a safe harbor and the emotional support it needs, I am sure I can fire up it's passion. Would that make my life easier? Oh hell no.. Than why? A life of passion and fire is a well lived life.. Do you want that little shaking toy dog on a leash or do you want that tiger on the leash? Yea the tiger might decide to eat me but life isn't about playing it safe. It about really living..

1/4/2016 5:41:05 PM
So you been cursed with a terrible experience, why do let someone do that to you? if you can not overcome that experience, you will carry it with you for the rest o f your life. Now your handicapped in reaching your happiness..

1/1/2016 3:57:09 AM
A New year and a new beginning for some.. Perhaps hope for some.. Others it will be the same thing different day grind. Some will stay safe under that rock they live under. Some will play the got to catch up game because they missed so much before. Some wont find what they need because they don't know how to ask. Some will be fed a line of BS just because it what people do to trick you in to sex. Some will just use you and spit you out. Rare are the ones who will spend the time to create trust and understand. Do you really understand what your behavior and action does to your life? Have a hard look at your life and ask yourself.. Is this getting me to the heaven I seek or am I just creating a hell around me? Happy new year in 2016. Learn to live life fully and well.

12/30/2015 12:12:31 PM
If you create a hunger in someone soul, you should be responsible enough to satisfy it. A good relationship is highly addictive.

12/29/2015 5:19:09 PM
If all you offer is sex.. move along I am not the one for you.. I am relationship based.. I am a hard road kind of person.. I the kind of person who will find your faults and still claim you. I will frustrate and piss you off. I will find different ways to push you to your limits.. I am not for everyone. I won't fit inside the mold in your head.. If your looking for the easy way out. Take your sorry ass out of my life. I have no use for you. If your model cute go and find someone who wants a trophy. I have zero interest in models. They live a life of easy and never appreciate what hell can bring.. If you dont know what you look like tied upside down naked, we are not a match.. If you never had cramps from being tied too long, your not going to cut it in my world. Dont care how many toys you have or who has trained you or which group of perverted you belong too. I dont get impressed that way..

12/29/2015 3:26:44 AM
So someone wants me to transform them into... Blah blah blah.. Slight crazed laughter. I am capable of doing many things and what was requested I am more than capable of doing. It was consumed by it own wants and needs. It has no idea of mine. It can not be service in my life because it doesn't know my life. Silly little person. Odd how some people think if they give free and easy sex that this wil get them Time with me..

12/29/2015 12:51:01 AM
Even after the relationship is dead and gone, there is some part of me that still considers them mine. Odd how that is. I put in that much effort into something you want to work tends to make it impossible to return to the feeling of it being unowned.

12/25/2015 11:30:21 PM
happiness is in short supply. I hope you find yours.. Merry Christmas..

12/23/2015 2:17:37 PM
If you scare someone it tends to bring out thier true nature put someone in panic mod and all those pretty words melt away and you are Dealt with the turth..

12/23/2015 9:12:43 AM
Human ashes and tattoo ink. It a nice way to remember someone who has died. There is a certain permanent thing about that I do appericate.

12/22/2015 7:22:57 PM
Happiness can be simple It can be a bag of yarn balls and a saucer of cream. It can be a soft warm spot in front of a fire places. A pat on the head and a nap. You wouldn't think someone would drive over 300 miles just to experince that.

12/21/2015 4:01:18 PM
I look for strenght because I travel a hard road. If you allow fakes and fools to distract you from what your looking for, you just allowed a fake or fool to have influence in your life. They should have zero influence and zero impact on your life. If your looking for yours dont let them curse you with a bad day. Dont let them make you hesitant to invest in real-time relationships you want. Happiness is worth fighting for.. dont let them steal away your opportunities for your happiness.

12/20/2015 8:55:38 AM
You have to be the same in order to get along? Oh hell no.. What do you learn from being the same? Very little.. How does that challenge you in your life? Not very.. How can you create this strong relationship? Not very easy.. Finding a good a great fit into your life means finding a fit not the same.

12/19/2015 7:33:43 PM
My hands are cold. Some will give you gloves to wear.. Some will give you coffee to drink. Some will give you tea.. Some will not care and walk away.. A few will stick your hands on the warmest bits they got.. Just to be of service. Smiles

12/18/2015 11:17:18 PM
If you put time and effort into a relationship, it is worth something. I find it easy to bring a vanilla person into a D/S relationship. Given comfort security and trust. They are willing to step into the darker side of things. You explore who they are and what they are capable of. Never forgetting relationship is first before anything else. Trust and communication, allows me to explore a very special person. I do love the deep connections I make. It is one of the reasons why I am here and not on some generic site. It is frustrating when someone who is desperate for a connection, try to force to be who they think you want to be instead of just being who they really are. Love a person or an image? How do you build upon something that is not real?

12/16/2015 1:17:43 PM
401k and a heath plan for a slave? These and many things you talk about when your in it for the long run..

12/14/2015 10:25:46 AM
Happiness is a drug. It makes you put up with shit you wouldn't normally do. Comminication is the key so that people will get you. Great relationship are not found but are created when both parties put work into it.

12/14/2015 12:20:02 AM
Woman have the God given right to nag? I have zero tolerance for people who nag. If you only know how to nag to commincation expect to wear a ball gag until I can figure out a way a way to train you so that you can commincate in a better fashion.

12/12/2015 8:38:44 AM
There are those who lead in thier life. They make head way and reach the goals they seek. There are those who exist, thier life is a change of events of things that affect them and influnce thier life..

12/10/2015 10:26:40 PM
Some people needs become so great that they become self centered. This doesn't allow the exchange of exploring each other's wants and needs. I hear the words I want you and need you. This always triggers the simple word of why? A place to run too cause you can not handle your life? You can not afford to live the lifestyle you want so seek someone to give it too you. You are tired of being the supportive one and your looking to be supported. You have a life problem that you need to someone's help with. The reasons are long list and most of them are horrible reasons to have a relationship. There a big differences from I want a better life and the phrase we can have a better life.

12/10/2015 10:03:19 AM
If you separate the sexual aspects of D/s suddenly a website full of people narrow down to almost none. If the mind is the perfect play ground to play in, does showing off naked body parts really show off the what kind of brain you have? Transformation of a person is a hard and up hill battle. It is not a path for someone looking for the easy way. It is also not a good idea to make transformation a bases of the relationship. Failure and problems wil occur afterwards. If You know your a strong influence, don't tangle with someone who life will collapse under your influnce. A past life filled with broken people in your wake is no way to live. If I can not say with pride to the world, This one is mine. There is something seriously wrong with the relationship. If I want naked pictures of you, I am not going to ask. I am going to strip you naked and take them my self. Most would accept a naked kneeling person in front of them. I would be thinking why is this naked person trying to influence my choices in life. Do you really think a major life choice should be influence by a nake body? I could behave in ways to attract someone but I rather show my true nature to someone than pretend and trick someone to get involved. Flowers candy rocks and metal are gifts that are given but it good to understand the why behind it. Sometime I do things I know that I am going to be hated for. Just because I know they are the right things to do.

12/9/2015 9:49:16 AM
Time reveals a lot of truths. It just takes way too much time.. :p Are you really trying to base your relationship on bags of fat? ;p Yes, I can make you do dark things but it more fun to inspire you to do them instead. They said bed need replace every 8 years. If your active make that every year or two. If your untruthful to yourself finding your happiness get a lot tougher.. Some will mold you into nothing cause they are destruction based. Scars are proof that you know how to live. Scars on the heart shows that you know how to love. Rejection is part of life, live with it Death is proof that life is only temporary. Don't forget to growl at those who waste your time. Jealous and bored people rather see you like themselves instead of learning to create there own fun and investing themselves in a relationship. You can be scared of life or live it..

12/7/2015 11:44:44 PM
Routines little learned behaviors gives a person comfort. Comfort with in routines give a person the knowledge of what is expected of them. some people don't do well having too much freedom. There is comfort in knowing at this date and time I am expected to carry out this task. Know what to do to please and when is important. It keeps a person on track. I tell you to do things not because I am not capable of doing them myself. I just love giving you that structure life you so desperately want.

12/6/2015 10:12:43 PM
You have to be a bit mean to egde a soul to what it wants and needs. Frustration and lead to anger rather quickly. Wanting can turn to hate quickly. Bargaining typically happens. If you let me I will do xyz of course that never works. Expect high blood pressure. Expect high amount of screaming energy. If your into bondage expect the ties to be tested extremely. You will be the suprise in strength even from the Rolliest of polliest of people. You have to becareful some people can pull joint out. The ER is not a fun place to visit.

12/5/2015 12:15:41 PM
Yes, I am hated and I am Ok with that.

The easy path is go with the flow to get what you want. Taking the hard path means a more harder existence but a better appreciation of life and strong relationships. 

If I don't fit into that neat little box you created in your mind. I am ok with that.
I just don't bend that way. Do you want real or fake in your life? 

When you lead, You will stumble from time to time.  It is want you do after you stumble that speaks of who and what you are. Say No to someone and see how they react. It cut through all the B.S. you sometime encounter in life.

If you attract someone with your body parts, Don't get upset when your relationship is built upon that.

A zero picture profile is better than a None existence journal.

If you nothing good to say about an Ex,  You are not taking responsibilities for your own actions.

If you scream no one gets you, Ask yourself what did you do to create understanding?  Did you point and scream like some kid? Did you use information in your head to tear them apart?  Did you go on a rampage to tear them a new one? 

If nobody stick around you, no one is going to understand you.




12/4/2015 10:34:52 AM
I am happiest when I am building. I tend to build a little world around the one I take care of. Yes, i know could just let reality come and dictate what is or is not. But hell, I am happiness driven And reality dictates that life is about survival at all costs. I like the kinder world I create.

12/2/2015 12:03:50 AM
Transformation don't bother me but they do bring up issues. Increase amount of attention is a real test of character. Temptation is extremely high to leave. They typically take the easy way out.

11/29/2015 5:38:15 PM
If you have a desire to belong.. I deal with any other issues that might exist or come up later..

11/28/2015 12:29:42 PM
One can argue a point but with out the goal of understanding the argument become usless.

11/26/2015 11:26:10 PM
Thanks to all who make life liveable. Burnt turkeys to those who share thier hells.

11/24/2015 11:00:09 PM
Sometime I go quiet just to listen to the bullshit that some people sling. Given enough time a person true nature comes to the top. Sometime doing right makes you the most hated person. If you pull someone from thier own little hells , sometime they try to recreate thier own little hell once again.

11/23/2015 12:25:33 AM
Life in prison was handed down to a pair of scum, a few days ago..maybe the third will get the same. Under the guised of bdsm these trio was convicted of murder.

11/20/2015 2:58:01 PM
Simple questions... Are you happy? Are you fulfilled? Do you have a passion for the things you do? If your not happy why are you not? Are you in your own way of being happy? Funny how many people want happiness and yet they stop themselves from being happy..

11/20/2015 12:23:22 PM
How much do you allow others to influence you? A screaming cursing person is a frustrated soul. Do you allow that kind of person suck up your time and emotion energy? It not worth getting upset or agitated. Some people just need to be ignore and left in the past to be forgotten.

11/19/2015 4:57:09 PM
Sometime I see a soul and I just pat it on the head wish it well and let it wonder off to find it's happiness.. Once in a while I get a bloody stub back but mostly it been a positive experience..

11/17/2015 11:18:51 PM
I dig into it soul. I leave a mark. I live to become a stronger and stronger influnce in your life. I push you to become the better version of yourself. I make you take a hard look at yourself. I force you to be what you desire. I force you to share those dark and hidden things you have in your soul. I can make you scream so loud you run out of breath. I understand that the things I do to you is very addictive. Addiction makes a person scrafice themselves just to have it. I am not a prize. I am living my life as I see fit. I know where I am going and I am enjoying influnce others I have encountered.

11/16/2015 8:37:29 AM
How to make a no limit slave run away... Push it in ways it never imagine it could be pushed. It came to me broken and with many bad habits. It claimed it was a no limit slave. I took it to the doctors to have it checked out. It was put through a battery of test and was poke and prodded. It has a slight heart condition. It wasn't happy to find that out. I took away it coffee and removed process surgar from it's diet. It went through with draws for two weeks. The morning exercise routines were rough on it. Jogging to the local gym and spending 30 minutes on various machines with a walk back to home. I know what was the last straw. It was the books I told it to read and the one page summaries it had to write. Who would have thought writting a report was it's hard limit.

11/16/2015 1:10:39 AM
Trained is not the same as is. I can train you to act one way or another. It is not the same as just being who and what you are. I can train you to be have empathy but it not the same as being empathic. If I strip all of what you hold on to as a security blanket, what would you find when you look into the mirror? Are you scared what may stare back at you? If all you offer is sex, what kind of response are you going to get? How can you handle intensity if you have a fear of going forwards? Learn from your past and do not let it control your future.. Do forget to fight for your happiness

11/15/2015 11:17:51 AM
Saying no to someone really shows what kind of person your dealing with. Pretty words and fake promises are the stock and trade of some. Once you say no, it interesting how they react.. The bad attitude..the angry..the lashing out. Do you really want a life with someone like that? No thank you..

11/14/2015 8:05:50 AM
A smart person uses thier intelligences as shield. It thier security blanket. They have a death grip on it. It you remove that part from them you find a very fearful person inside.

11/13/2015 10:13:46 PM
So tell me.. What kind of happiness will you find if you allow crappy people to dictate which direction your life goes? Crappy people should have zero say in your life. They should be wiped and flush and forgotten. This is why I say fight for your happiness and don't let crappy people steal it from you.. Happy life.

11/11/2015 7:58:38 PM
Saw another soul struggling.. I gave it a few kind words... What was my motive? Sex? Naaa. Kink? Naa. Striking a conversation? Naa. Naked pictures? Oh hell no.. In this angry mean world, a few kinds words to bright a person's day is a good thing to do. It puts a little postive energy out there.

11/11/2015 7:40:24 AM
If you train someone to associate orgasms with pubic hair plucking, there going to come a time when the hairs are no longer there.

11/10/2015 9:06:11 AM
Funny, how I rattle on here and rarely raise and eyebrow. And yet at a party, I am rattling on about d/s relationships and I grow an audience with tons of questions.. The dynamics of face to face is too real for some.

11/8/2015 10:43:54 PM
Some people are just toxic and very unfun to be around. Toxic people spread their hate and angry to those around them. They give those the who come in contact with them a bad day. Who really wants that in thier life?

11/4/2015 11:25:19 AM
Just because you see something special doesn't mean you reach for it and grab it. Sometime you just admire it and let it flutter past you. An eternity of being pin in a glass case or a blink of an eye existance. Life has many choices..

11/3/2015 7:52:43 AM
When things don't go your way.... I like those times. Why? It an opportunity to see who you really are and who are theses you are dealing with.People who have gone through thier hells or other people hells have a unique view point in life. They have a certain appreciation of the importants of life and relationships.

10/31/2015 12:05:47 PM
Happy Halloween.. I know traditionally this is a wonderful night to have fun. For me it a day a grieving for a lost soul I knew once upon a time. To all the tricksters and treaters have fun and be safe.

10/29/2015 11:19:40 PM
Some souls are bright. They are like bright little stars.. Some souls are ugly. I petty them. It is said we make our own little heaven and our own little hells. Some people turn themselves ugly in a way that no makeup or change of dress can change them. Sad little hellish life they lead.

10/27/2015 6:52:44 PM
The stream of idiots and fools are never-ending. You can spend a lifetime pointing them out.. Or you can concentrate on finding building and creating your happiness.. Do allow others to steal your energy and time away from.you? I already posted enough on this subject smiles.. Off to create a little happy mayhem...

10/26/2015 11:56:50 AM
Hail hail to the great label god. Laughs.. At some dungeon event some thing silly comes to annoy me. It an ego driven self satisfaction kind of soul.. submissive yea right.. more like a buzzing fly... it rattle the lenght of time and drops names and events as to try to impress.. silly ego.. blah blah blah.. It rattles the latest trending bdsm terms blah blah blah.. Buzz buzz buzz.. I look at it and say.. your not mine.. go to someone who cares.. Silly youth ego. Takes it as a challenge.. It rattle the rules and states how great lives up to the .. insert label... If you strive to be that in which you define as a label. Why would I have any interest in you? Since I take people on who they are and what they are. Why would I spend time getting involded with a label? Labels are for people who dont want to get to know you. Some people dont take no very well.. laughs..

10/26/2015 11:39:51 AM
What gender is your soul? Some people.are too sacred to look in the mirror because they dont know what will look back at them.. There are those who denies them selves of who and what they are..they look for those who can force them to be what they know they are.. It the ability to be without the accountability. Their escape route.. I am.not that I was just forced to be that.

10/25/2015 8:49:16 AM
Some people just want to be an empty shell with no thought and no feelings. While I am capable of making that happen, it does not something for me,, Some people want to forced into doing and acting a certain way, I am old enough to know if I force after a time they will revert back to what they are. If I inspire them, they will try harder and changes will be more permanent. Some people think this is a way for free and cheap sex. I can find sex and that that includes kinky sex BUT I search for something better. I could have a harum of slaves, if I never question their need or want to submit but since motive is important to me and those who wish to submit are not throw aways, this isn't the path I choose. I look for someone moldable, where I can have great trust and communication with. If your a have a worthy dream, I will push you to accomplish it. There is certain amount of pride watching someone that is yours getting a master degree, being on stage singing, going to medical school and just becoming someone of worth in general. I typically take the hard path, so if this isn't what you seek. It best for you to grab your privates and run to the hills.. I know happiness is the best bondage material out there. I search for someone who know it, grows it and protect it to the death. While this might not your thing but this is mine. I define me and take responsiblity for my actions or inactions. It just how I roll. Happy life..

10/22/2015 2:14:04 PM
Tpe slaves? There are two who just got convicted of murder including the dumb idiot who put them up to it in san Diego. Long may they stay in prison.I hope they get life.

10/21/2015 3:43:58 AM
I was having dinner at a resturant. I really shouldn't tease vanillia people.. Laughs What is ds? Do you get off on beating some one? How can you get pleasure in tormenting someone? Blah blah blah.. Typical uninformed vanilla .. Laughs Let me demonstrate, I said being greeted with wide eyes. What is your favorite desert? German chocolate cake.. It replies.. So I order the cake.. I told it, you can op out of this at any time if anything I do makes you feel uncomfortable. Trust and commincation is important. So the cake shows up and it try's to dig into the cake. I move the plate away and say. I am going to show you how to get a little more enjoyment out of your cake. So I ask it to descripe the cake The shape and form and how it is pleasing to it eye. I ask about the pleasant memmories it had about the cake. I ask about the texture of the cake.. I asked about how it remembers how that kind of cake taste like.. I ask how does the cake smell? What does the aroma reminds you of.. I said now take a small bite of cake and let it sit on your tongue. Now slowly chew the piece of cake and feel the flavor spread through your mouth. Now tell me I asked how was the little piece of cake? It said it was great and I shouldn't have tease it with cake. I said you now have a new experince about the German chocolate cake. If I didn't tease you with the cake you wouldn't not have had this experince. If I didn't influnce you on how to eat the cake you would not have the experince you just had. Exploration of one self and having experinces is part of life. You just found out if you took your time to enjoy cake you would have a better experince. You know know just a little more about yourself.. And if you noticed, there was no beatings and you could have op out at anytime.. There was trust and commincation and you came away from this with a positive experince. Now go enjoy your cake.

10/20/2015 1:52:01 AM
Pandora's box.. If your give someone a great sexual experince that is stronger than the one they can get with a toy or them selves. You curse someone with a strong hunger that they can not satisfy by them selves. So off they search looking for satisfaction.. and they say real life zombie's don't exist.. Laughs

10/18/2015 11:43:25 PM
Telling someone who thinks they are special that they are replaceable.. Anger is normally the frist response. Fear of the truth will send them running. The tear down and burn them into the ground reaction is common also. When you start messing with the one and only concept in some people's heads. Expect a lot of negative feed back.

10/17/2015 3:46:38 PM
While most gladly accept someone naked at the feet of them. I don't it cheapens that spot. It a spot that has witness much greatness and much failures. Extreme happiness and devastating sorrow. To give that spot away is a great disrespect to those who tried tobe in that stop and those who earned the right to be in that spot.

10/16/2015 12:39:12 PM
No is a great word. It prevents drama, it prevents you from becoming involded in drama. It helps prevents drama. It might even save your life.. No I am not going to bail you out of jail. No I am not going to put up with your drug addictions. No i am not going to train your submissive. No I am not going to waste my time on your role playing fantasy world. no I am not going to help you cheat on your partner. no I am not going to teach your irresponsible ass how to trick people.

10/13/2015 9:05:45 AM
Yes, I am more than capable of having a vanillia relationship. They just don't bring the intensity that a d/s relationship does. I must know where your heart and head are. I like knowing that you are striving to make this relationship strong happy and healthy. I like being intensity into a relationship. I just know most can not stand that kind of level of intensity. I need to remeber to not to come down on a person with a ton of bricks. Too much too soon just becomes way too overwhelming.

10/12/2015 4:05:56 PM
Some people to think they are some sort of prize like in one of those carnival games. You spend your money to get a chance to win that prize. The funny thing about prizes is that once won, there is no more effort needed to acquire it. The prize tends to sit on the shelf collecting dust. Find me a person who is not a prize. Who is willing to invest into a relationship to make that happy life. Someone willing to defend thier happiness. Now you have that real prize.. Happiness is the best bondage material

10/12/2015 12:15:15 PM
No matter how great an actress or actor it maybe.. it is still pretend and still is make believe. I rather have a real person with major faults and issues than a perfectly acting submissive.

10/10/2015 12:11:49 PM
Some people speak words to listen too and yet others just produce human noise..

10/10/2015 11:50:11 AM
Influences, there are those who are a positive and negative influence in your life. A good strong look at those around you is important. Removing those negative influences or minimizing thier affects is important to Having a better life.

10/8/2015 3:45:17 AM
Do you walk the path that others have or do you blaze your own trails? Dealing with an older submissive, there are time when they wish you walk the same path as others. They want you to be that image in their minds so badly that if your smart and listen you can follow the path that other have left in their minds.. Frankly I am not that kind of person. I blaze my own trails. There going to be tons of mistakes made along away. It is one of the hazards of blazing. Knowing how to deal with mistakes is important. You never learn anything by being perfect. Most people can't handle mistakes they tend to blow up. Do they ever learn?

10/6/2015 9:34:26 PM
Sometime you have no choice but to go to war and to fight but with age comes a little wisdom. Sometime you have to wonder who is the bigger fool? The one who starts a war or the one who get sucked into participating into it. You don't have to play thier game. Sometime you have to be strong enough to say I am not playing your game cause it is a waste of my time and efforts. And life goes on.. Have a happy life..

10/6/2015 12:58:42 AM
Don't clutter your life with things and stuff that don't bring you the happiness you seek. A home full of stuff doesn't allow new things to be brought in. A busy life doesn't allow anyone new to be welcomed in.. Filling your self mind with silly things does allow you to concentrated on the important things. Don't let clutter, stuff and people steal away bits and pieces of your life. Happiness is serious business.

10/5/2015 1:46:58 AM
Once upon a time I had a little pet doggie. We would spend hours playing tug of war with it's favorite towel.. We spend an afternoon playing catch. I would bake these bone shape cookies so it could do tricks for these treats.. It would nap on the carpet where the sun shined in the window. It was playful and barked with joy. I was happy during that time.. I found out it was married. That little fun world we created all came crashing down.. I can not sneak round. It just not me.. I walked away, I had to. It was the responsible thing to do. Sometime I hear a bark, the mind goes right back to those times.. I smile but it turn to sadness I know that life is lived forward AND NOT BACKWARDS... Forward I go...

10/4/2015 6:28:47 AM
I am not your ex. Funny how people compare what they have now with an ex or a past relationship. They get upset when they are reminded your not an ex. I know it is our nature to compare in order to prevent crap from happening again. It is unfair that your current has to compete with or against the ghosts of your past. Just because your ex cheated on you doesn't mean the current one will cheat on you too.

10/3/2015 6:45:26 AM
Now that is a submissive... It's body is tired from performing and giving orgams. It's mind is gone from way too much stimulation. It can't think anymore. It babbles in incomplete thoughts. It's lack of energy makes crawling away impossible. It is just a lump. It struggles to stay away. It is just a hot sweaty mess. And yet.... The word again? Is spoken... It spreads its legs happy to service once again..

10/2/2015 8:55:46 AM
Welcome to the instance, I want it now. Life is like a porno and fast forward it to the best bits. Instance trust and 100% disclosure on all matters big and small. Constance communication all the time. Full attention given all the time. All resources that were hard worked for and earn over time just handed over like it has no worth. Really now, is this what you seek? You haven't found it yet? I wonder why? Good luck in your search.. If you don't know how to build and work on a relationship. Perhaps you need to learn. Trust respect commincation and having someone who get you, takes time and effort. Lazy people don't put in any effort. Relationship you invest in has a sense of worth. You invest your limited time and it tick by until your gone. Why invest in something that can be thrown away in a blink of an eye? Dealing with unstable people in your life, Just sucks up time you can invest in something place else.

9/29/2015 8:25:30 AM
If I do not know what in your head and heart, there is no way I am going to give you a session. Much like putting sex before a relationship. It is something fun to do but it doesn't get you that relationship you want or need.

9/29/2015 12:51:33 AM
People tend to forget we are different. If you think the world thinks like you, Your going to get a rude surprise. Ego before the fall.. Laughs.. Can't experince life love and passion living in the past.

9/28/2015 5:11:59 AM
The addictive nature of things.. Bored? I am never.. Boredom is a warning sign. It is the first step into this Pandora's box .. You do something different to remove the boredom. Something a little out of the norm. A little slap on the bottom during sex, That holding of the arms while sex or just that little delay before an orgasm to get a better one down the line. These little things add that little spice of interest in your sex life. The problem with a little spice is that it too becomes boring. Excitement and something new become something you desire. A little more and a little more. You get to the point where all you think about is sex and getting your fix. I get offers from these type. Give me more, used me hard and give me what I crave types. I want my fix from you cause, I crave excitement and more.. They view me as an excitement and thrills, it doesn't matter what I look like just that I can fill in that void in their head.

9/25/2015 8:58:22 AM
I won't stand for you leaving your responsibilities just to flee to me.. Being responsible is important to me.,

9/19/2015 4:22:00 PM
While i can inspire someone to be naked at my feet. Inspiring some to be better than they think they are. is harder..

9/18/2015 1:55:42 AM
Set fire to the souls you meet,, Spread passion like there it only going to happen once.. Inspire to do greatness.. Some create roaches and zombies.. Create heros and heroines.. Be thier leader and inspire them to be more than they think they can be.. Not an easy path... You learn so much more taking that extra step.. Do what you know what needs to be done...

9/17/2015 12:16:31 AM
Those who take the hard path are always more passionate than those who take the easy way.. Life sucks without passion for the things you do...

9/17/2015 12:14:38 AM
Why do I seek strength? Simple.. Some people see happiness and say wow congrats and move on. But.. Others see it and spend time and effort to destroy and damage it. You have to be strong to protect your happiness.

9/14/2015 6:08:59 PM
Bdsm is not some magic cure all.. Sometime it amplifies already existing problems.

9/13/2015 9:55:54 PM
There are pit falls in having an intense sexual encounters. As time progresses and the mind is learnt and the body signs are readable like an old favorite book, What once was satisfying may no longer be. Toys and masterbation cease to satisfy. One tends to create a strong need for satisfaction from you. people tend to grow a little crazy with out satisfaction from their own little addictions...

9/13/2015 9:46:59 PM
Teach me and I will let you blah blah blah. Kink for lessons? If you offer your naked body for lessons in exchange, what does that make you? Tilts head and gives a strange look..

9/10/2015 12:34:43 AM
I do have some madding tendencies. Amping up someone sexual drive until the desire is maddening.. Given them more stimulation then they can handle.. Toys become useless because they don't bring satisfaction. Self masterbation can not quiet get you there. Sessions with someone who know your buttons. It can be a blessing.. It could be a major curse..

9/9/2015 8:15:32 AM
If I am a strong influence, how cruel would it be to walk away from someone who invested them self to please me.

9/7/2015 9:15:55 AM
soap operas are made up characters and situations to create an emotional response to sell ad space. Now if your emotions are toyed with and stimulated by these events, what affects does this has on the subject emotional status? Removing this kind of influnce from one's life will result in what? What kind of life would you have if the emotional numbing effects are removed?

9/6/2015 11:42:51 PM
Some people walk away from someone they claim to own. This tells me that what you own wasnt special enough and was disposed of like old newspaper.

9/5/2015 5:11:34 PM
Self elimination game.. Time is a great truth revealer. Actors and actresses can act up a storm but in time the curtain falls and the stories they tell you are worthless. Just something spoken to get a real response out of you. As soon as we find the truth, we toss them to the side. Investing more into them doesn't get what you want or need.. Mean and cruel? Sometime becuase there are those who are more than willing to steal you emotions and bits of your life for thier own amusement and ego stroking desires.

9/3/2015 8:48:54 AM
I slap it's face. I get it's full attention. It is Kind of rare now a days. When your talking to someone and your smart phone calls, most people will leap to answer that call. What does that say to the person who you are trying to seriously make a connection with. It means this potential forever kind of relationship is not worth your undivided attention. Your actions speak louder than words. I know I will hear the excuses but excuses are a way to ask forgiveness for something not done. A life full of excuses is not a fully lived life.

9/1/2015 4:43:22 PM
Sometimes, I just like to drive those who grammar correct absolutely crazy.. It is just something, I do,, Beeps your nose..

9/1/2015 3:29:10 PM
Jealous? It not such a bad thing. Jealous energy funnel on a better relationship isn't a bad thing. A person who doesn't care is never jealous and never goes above and beyond to protect something that has value and worth.

8/31/2015 6:54:30 PM
It is said that after certain amount of time, Past crimes can no longer be reported and dealt with. Laughs only if you follow the strict letter of the law. There is a higher law I follow and time doesn't wash those sins away.

8/30/2015 2:38:11 AM
You don't have to be close to touch a life.. It just not as satisfying and you can't go far..

8/29/2015 12:10:18 PM
I know I need a smart one to be with me. Smiles.. If you spell words correctly and in proper grammatical format, yes you can communicate more efficiently and effectively. It also means your written words can be indexed and added to a database quiet easily. Search on words and phrases can be done and your entry can be called with a simple search. Variations on spelling mistakes causes issues when search upon. Simple searches are not so simple and easy. Omg you need a search has to be more sophisticated to search on odd expression and completely screwed up sentence structure.. Just a simple man with simple thoughts.. How do you look like upside down naked? Dont know perhaps your too common for me. If you pet fried Chicken and go meow meow, there is hope for you yet.. Laughs

8/28/2015 5:43:00 PM
Sometimes the answer is no. It come not from being negative, unfeeling, nor having no heart. It comes from being one those responsible types. If your married and won't let go of something you know isn't right for you. Ok yours created your own hell. Now you want someone to get involved in your hell. Someone is going to get hurt. If you seek a strong influence, you know it going to cause issues sooner or later. Saying no to these types avoid future great pains. Saying no to a problem riddled person. I know it sounds cruel but there are some who are not looking for a life time commitment. They are just looking for a solution to thier problems. You can't build a strong relationship on solving problems. Saying no for easy sex through the instances relationship. I know we are wired to want and need it but instance anything is never as good as relationship that has time to develope. Say no to the wrong choices allow you to say yes when the time comes..

8/27/2015 8:30:39 AM
Did You know if you bolt someone into a corner, they can fall asleep that way. Not much of a punishment if your snoring away in a corner.. Laughs

8/24/2015 11:58:10 PM
If you nag someone long enough they will learn to zone out when you speak. Communications and understanding can not occur if you put someone in a zombie brain mode. If you create a relationship where you are being ignored, who fault is it? You never listen.. Laughs..

8/24/2015 5:12:40 PM
Time is the great truth revealer.. But sometime you have to deal with a lot of time wasters before finding the truth. Lol If you take a large person and make them skinny. Suddenly they get a lot of attention. Many will bend it's ear and invade it mind. Many will attempt to steal its heart. Most will run to greener pastures.. Cant base a relationship on weight problems Cant base a relationship on solving it's problems...

8/24/2015 10:30:55 AM
if you earn something it has value.
If you are given something it has less value.

If you are given a great relationship, what is it worth?
If you create and build a great relationship, What is it worth?

A lot of people expect something great to fall into their laps..

Not many can build great..




8/23/2015 11:07:45 AM
Some look at accounts that no longer exist as something to get upset about. I dont. It opens doors to other opportunities and other relationships. You can't live a full life looking backwards.. Laughs

8/22/2015 4:55:31 PM
I had someone moo for me today...
It was a sweet gift..
It made my day..


8/22/2015 3:58:00 AM
Corner time for some is a breeze.. Next time given them an espresso and some chocolate and see how they handle corner time. All that hyped up energy and nowhere to go..

8/21/2015 8:41:50 AM
There are those who will steal my ideas and claim them for themselves. But time is a great truth revealer. Those who steal never get inspired to try something new. They never seem to come up with something new to experince. They just keep stealing and pretending. A blind fold which seems pretty tame can give you a thousand uses.. The simple act of I lead and you follow. The submissive is blind folded and taken for a walk. It a simple thing really. It does build trust. It does show how well you can communicate. Tripping and saying oops doesn't show how well you can lead.. Laughs..

8/20/2015 11:55:23 PM
If you stretch someone's emotional state and pluck at thier soul, you will hear what makes them sing. Some are so desperate to serve, it doesn't matter what they are attracted to. Given the opertunity to serve they will serve even tho it not in thier nature to serve someone they are not attracted to. Some look at the naked person at thier feet and only see the kink and sex. I see the special relationship and the effort it took to get that to happen. A relationship based on a body part. Great for short term but very silly for long term. A zero entry journal profile means you don't get to see how a person thinks. If happiness is your goal in life, why do you do things to prevent it? There are many willing to waste your time and energy for their own amusement. Some terribly hurt people become so self center due to thier own pains. They forget about other people's pains and inflict pain to others. They don't know and don't care what they do to others. You get odd reactions when you call them on it.

8/18/2015 4:30:17 PM
Some don't dress to please. It just a function of keeping them warm and not being arrested for being naked. Some dress to get attention.. Rare ones dress to please who are important in thier life..

8/18/2015 10:20:55 AM
Many people are great in painting a picture in other people's head. This is great for people who like to stay behind a computer.. Finding someone who can bring that painting into reality is not easy to find but very worth it. Life and passion is out there. The safety of the computer, Well it like the ballon in the other posting. Some people will never let go and will always be stuck..

8/17/2015 9:47:47 PM
Some try to go down a rabbit hole with a rope tied to safety. You never touch bottom. You going go as far as the rope you have.. A balloon tied to the ground never really flies. It never travels where the wind blows. It never goes anywhere high.. Yea it is safe but is that really living?

8/17/2015 8:14:41 AM
Pandora's box. If you open another person's box, leaving them with an open box is pretty irresponsible. If a person tangles with you and become unable to function in life, what does that say about you? What do you leave in your wake in this life?

8/15/2015 7:16:03 PM
It's existance to itself has little meaning. it goes through life just making it day by day. it has no goals.. somewhere and sometime it lost it passion for life. it has pretended and acted the ways others wanted to be.. 1st step take it out of it comfort zone.. keeping it guessing.. Shake it's safe harbors.. Make it think on it feets.. Make it learn how to express it self in dance.. or if your cruel mime it out.. There are many things with that will steal your passion for life.. if you allow it and not fight for it.. you will end up like some.. just gong through the motions.. I maybe odd I maybe scarey to some.. but I do have a passion for life.

8/14/2015 11:39:12 PM
My stalker called again..
It seems it is in a government half way house.

It wanted to see me..
I said didn't the therapist say not to contact me again? 

It said I have a new therapist.
I ask what does the new therapist have to say about you contacting me.

It made some excuse and it had to go.
Laughs, it seems the word therapist is a hard limit for it..


8/13/2015 8:10:12 AM
The goal is happiness.. It not orgasm, while there are orgasms in happiness, just a plain orgasm isn't happiness

8/11/2015 11:21:34 PM
I look for strength, which is kind of odd since you look for a person who is willing to trust you to bend toward your leadership. This world isn't puppy and kittens, while I could create and environment that is as such. There are other people and other sources that pull at a relationship. If you create happiness, there are way too many who are willing to sabotage it. Just for their own amusement. You need a special kind of strength to protect your happiness. People will try to steal what you have and if they can't they are more than happy to watch it burn to the ground..

8/10/2015 6:17:50 AM
It is very cruel to take a highly sexual person and amp up it's desires. If it has school, it can't concentrate on studies, it's works suffers greatly. Poor thing is consumed by passion and if not satisfied . It starts to look for ways of feeding it hunger. It's behavior becomes riskier and it becomes more extreme.. Poor thing doesn't have a happy life.. It life is just filled with nothing but want and little satisfaction..

8/7/2015 6:25:50 PM
Just because a warm hole opens up to you. Doesn't mean you should rush to fill that hole.

8/7/2015 10:44:55 AM
So once upon you get what you want. What comes next.

8/6/2015 12:20:10 PM
If it can't polish you into a jewel of a person. I am not the right one for you.

8/5/2015 10:15:45 PM
Some people create their own hells, I am fine with it, it just when they share it with everyone else is when it becomes and issue with me.

8/5/2015 10:39:13 AM
laughs, why is it my responsibility to straighten you out?
When did BDSM become welcome to free therapy?

While rescuing lost and damage souls is in itself self satisfying, It not a great way to find someone who at your same level to build a life together.

I know, the is that stupid thought that if you save one, It will be grateful and be loyal to you.   Ha.

A relationship build upon solving a person problems, fall apart when the problems goes away.  The thrill of the problem solved is no longer there and the person who had the problems is now thinking what now?  Happily ever after?  Ha.



8/3/2015 4:04:14 PM
spray tan a hard list item? Depends if you uses the spray tan as body paint and use a stencil. A bdsm take on tan lines. Grins..

7/29/2015 9:11:05 AM
If you give a person an extremely strong experince, you have to live with the consequences of your actions. If you know it will affect them deeply, you can just say well they wanted it and suddenly your responsibility of your actions are magically taken care of..

7/28/2015 5:49:05 PM
there are many sad and unhappy people. They need to feed thier ego. They think it ok to sacrifice your time to do so. Selfish unhappy people are such a time sink.

7/27/2015 12:41:09 AM
To inspire someone to please you is not the same as demanding it. Both parties need to have a sense of passion and a thrist for life..

7/22/2015 9:51:44 AM
if you allow yours to act badly, it a reflection upon you and your relationship. If yours acts and behave wells other become envious of your relationship. While you shouldn't be living for others outside the relationship approval, one shouldn't be saddled with an embarrassment followed by excuses.

7/21/2015 10:13:04 PM
Curses are thought to be casted by an old gypsy woman or by opening a mummy 's tomb but curses are real. A horrible experience can curse a soul to a life the do not want or need. People who are cursed tend to try to self medicate. Sometimes instead of getting the help they need, the curse becomes stronger and they get further away from the happiness they seek..

7/21/2015 7:58:55 PM
some strive for power, some strive for money, other strive for stuff. The smarts one strive to be happy..

7/20/2015 10:34:13 AM
A screaming crying mess, sobbing uncontrollable, Sometime those emotion releases are huge. 


7/18/2015 11:55:28 PM
Sometime you run across a soul that has been damaged so much that you know. You don't have it in you to reach them. Sometime you just have to give them a little comfort and a little rest before they search again.

7/17/2015 8:35:58 AM
Some asked why I am here.. Simple I need a soul to explore..

7/17/2015 8:07:48 AM
Funny how some people scream I am leaving collar space.. Yet they still here and complain when others give advice.. Just another attention seeking waste of time person. some people never grow out of throw tantrums.. Laughs

7/16/2015 1:06:26 PM
Saw a security guard making her rounds with her face burried in a cell phone. But i had to fight the urge to smack her behind. If I pinched her love handle I bet I would be sitting in jail. I need to stop harrassing vanillia people. Lol

7/15/2015 12:03:33 AM
It funny how people complain about the behavior of others on the net in general. I tend to look at it as a blessing. Face to face most people act civil. You pull away the normal constrants and they start acting like thier true nature. How many time have you said, if I knew what kind of person he or she was. I would have avoided them and all the crap they introduced into my life. Bad behavior is a blessing. Laughs

7/14/2015 11:54:21 PM
And another person leaves collar space.. Sometime people try to fit into a label and they just don't fit.. As I stated before don't live a label or a life style. Live a happy life.. You wish people well and you wish them a happy life.. Kind of wonders what has cooled it passions that it once found interesting.. A question that will never be answered but it the nature of life never to give answers but just a lot of questions.

7/14/2015 8:42:28 PM
Some are willing to take anyone who wishes to submit. The reasons why are important. Selfish reasons are never a good enough reason.

7/13/2015 12:20:26 PM
If your not moving forward, your wasting time. way too many people are willing to waste your time for thier own amusement.

7/13/2015 1:04:00 AM
One should never have a filler kind of relationship.

7/12/2015 7:21:20 AM
There are those that pain is a form of self medication. It flushes the brain and clears the emotional baggage so they can go back and function as human instead of a tight little ball of flesh hiding in the corner.

7/9/2015 9:10:17 AM
Playing for show is much like watching a porno.. Fake response due to other eyes.. One on one is worlds apart. Riding another emotional waves is amazing.. Little peaks slowly building to larger peaks.. Suddenly there is that huge emotional release.. Thier brain can't think.. Their body is spent.. Thier emotions are spent.. Thier walls are gone.. These things we do are highly addictive. You don't want to create an stocker and you don't want to create a person who wants you just becuase you can do what you do. There is a very good reason why that kind of play doesn't show up until after a year.

7/5/2015 10:27:25 PM
Sometime an orgasm just gets in the way of having pain. Just becuase there is bondage doesn't mean you get an orgasm.. Sometime bondage is simple just bondage.

7/2/2015 10:14:35 PM
In your head and in your heart who do you give weight too? If you allow silly idiots to rule your head and heart, do you really think your going to find what you need and want? People will attempt to use you for their own silliness. If you give silly people a voice and weight to what they speak of. Who is really to blame when they cause issues and drama in your life? Silly people making silly noise trying to get a reaction out of you. Yes, you could argue the point but really what is the point to trying to have a conversation with silly people. Sometime it best just recognize what it really is.. Just noise from a silly person who is just looking to boost his or her fragile ego.. There is way too much life out there to get sucked into silly noise.

7/2/2015 5:43:06 PM
Your are or are you trained to be, There is a big difference,

7/2/2015 9:50:07 AM
We all have met and dealt with crappy people. It is best not to allow thier influnce deny you the happiness you seek. Crappy people are waste of life and time, time you could be spending on something way more important.. Being curse by a bad experince is when that bad experince prevents us in finding the life we want to make us happy..

7/2/2015 9:11:18 AM
How to pissed off a submissive. Tell them. I can take care of it myself. A submissive who doesn't feel like it is needed will either get into trouble or wonder off. Sometime what attracts is a great need.

7/2/2015 2:02:19 AM
Investing time is something to consider. Something short term doesn't hold any interest. A lot of people are looking for that short term thrill ride.. Funny thing about short thrill rides, while fun they maybe you never get anywhere far taking them. Unleashing intensity is fun but honestly it not for everyone. Most people run and hide once you light up thier dark corners. An in tense relationship is highly addictive and highly rewarding with the right person. It marks your soul and makes you crave for more. If you pick unwisely it marks your soul and curses your life, With closeness comes risks.. If you risk little you gain little..

6/26/2015 10:11:07 PM
I dont mind people creating their own hell.. I just dont like it when they share it with the rest of us..

6/25/2015 1:24:15 AM
in this life there are many reason why not to care. Some people are dead set in thier mind to drive people not to care.. Once they have made it to that point they crow about it. Some people create there own hells and have this lemming like addition obsession to achieve it.

6/22/2015 11:55:00 PM
Things that as instance are normally not very good. This includes relationships. Time effort trust and commincations are important, these are things I know about. It is funny that some think that pleasing another is about anytime access to the holes. Loyalty is important. Being responsible for your own actions is important. Trophies are something that look pretty and do nothing but look nice. A life a trophy is rather dull.

6/22/2015 7:52:47 PM
Pump up someone's sexuality and there is a phase were they grow mean with fustration. When pleading and begging doesn't work. Their mind goes into over drive into getting what they want. When they can touch them selves to reach an orgasm they will rub up against anything. And everthing. Even in bondage they will attempt to have one.. Laughs.. who would have thought a heart monitor would be such and evil device.

6/22/2015 2:04:05 PM
To teach to train to watch you grow, it a fun thing I do. So many things in your past trap you into a life you don't want to have. Learn from the past but never get trapped by it.. If sex and kink is all I wanted. I would have be satisfied a long time ago.. Remote control sex toys and a body cast. Been there done that! Don't mind the drooling person restrained in a wheel chair making odd noises. I am just taking this mental person out for dinner.. Laughs

6/19/2015 12:53:14 AM
Orgams to complete and utter exhaustion.. There is something to be said special about being a puddle of human goo. When all your energy is spent.. That is a special time just to experience existence. ,

6/17/2015 10:39:30 PM
There must be more than pushing you to your limits.. There must be more that teaching you a lesson.. There must be more than pain and orgasms.. There must be more than a room full of sexual toys.. There must be more than a hole. There must be a relationship that worthy to live for..

6/16/2015 9:48:27 PM
Easy bondage is with ropes and chains.. Hard bondage is being told to stay in position.

6/13/2015 10:15:32 PM
Sorry you can not sit on my sofa. I do not like the idea of my sofa smelling like your naked ass.

6/11/2015 6:54:38 PM
Weeballs Wa balls tied in a ball. Sitting in a half metal sphere weighted at the bottom. Blind folded.. Now where is that wand.. Laughs

6/11/2015 6:48:07 AM
Edged to the point of insanity. The body shakes and the mind babbles.

6/3/2015 10:14:11 PM
Who would have thought an imaginary spider is now on someone's hard list. Laughs Did you know that a human tied to a chair can hop across the room in less than 8 seconds while still in the chair..Laughs.

6/1/2015 4:52:15 PM
Strike a pose.. Take a snap shot. If your lucky you capture lightening in a bottle. Most like a snap shot before. The hair in place. The bed is made. Everything is neat and pretty like a magazine. I like a snap shot afterwards.. The hair is a mess, the bed shows it been well used. That I made it through it look. A glow of something well done. The scared look of no not again look.. Laughs.

6/1/2015 4:43:16 PM
Pointing and screaming and storming off. Laughs.. So what does that tell those around you about who and what you are.

5/30/2015 6:14:12 PM
Going through a hardware store is so fun. Grabbing a clamp and squeezing it. I caught a woman looking at me. I shot her a look and her eyes went wide.. Laughs.

5/29/2015 7:51:23 AM
Fear of failure will stop you from having and experincing life. I have yet to run across anyone who has never made a mistake. When you do make a mistake, this tests who and what you are. Some run for the hills, others blame anyone or anything, rare is the one who owns up to it and deals with the results of her or his actions.

5/29/2015 12:09:39 AM
I see drama fits almost every other day. To me it is an emotional outburst. I think why before listening to the drama. Some people cause drama cause they don't get thier way, Some people cause drama cause they need to get attention. Some people cause drama Cause they need to feel in control. Some people cause drama to feel an endless hole in thier soul. Some people need to grow up emotionally but that is only my opinion and since they are not mine. I keep a health distance away from them. There are those who are not happy unless they are complaining. There are those who can not stand the silence of no drama. To each their own..

5/28/2015 8:07:47 PM
You can read all the books and ask everyone thier opinions but when you get to the core of it. It between you and yours. Happy people stick together. It is a better bondage material compared to rope chains and shackles. There is a huge differences between offering sex and offering yourself.

5/27/2015 4:58:55 PM
Be careful for what you wish for cause wishes do come true and you will have to live with the consequences of your wishes.

5/26/2015 6:22:38 PM
Furry little people are fun.. They will play fetch. They do enjoy a nice scratch. They live in the here and now. Kind of a charmed life.

5/25/2015 10:10:49 PM
If you don't know what you look like upside naked, don't tell me your into bondage.. Laughs So many guys hit on this one cute woman. I handed her a fly zapper. I told her if anyone bothers her just give them a zap. She look kind of puzzled and said she couldn't do that. I asked her what kind of domme are you? She turned red. I honestly need to stop teasing vanillias.. I going to get my self kicked out of that store. Laughs

5/24/2015 11:16:58 PM
Funny, you rarely see tap dancing on a hard limit list. You rarely see painting on a hard limit list. You rarely see reading a book on a hard limit list. You rarely see sewing and knitting on a hard limit list. You rarely see donating blood on a hard limit list. You rarely see researching and reporting on a hard limit. Your rarely see going back to school on a hard limit list.. And the list goes on.. Smiles

5/23/2015 9:54:28 PM
Every once in a while you run across something special. It doesn't have to be yours to be special but you know it when you run across it. Sometime it is just good enough just to admire it. Sort of like watering the lawn and a humming bird fly in to have a bath in the water spray.

5/23/2015 4:19:01 PM
People complain about others not living up to thier own idea of a label. Labels are for the lazy who glaze over others with a label. Life is an experince, if your lazy in your life you don't have much of one. If you live a life as a label might as well get someone to lick you and stick you to a wall. What's kind of person are you just hanging on a wall being a label? Living breathing creatures we are. We grow when we do and interact. We grow crazy and stupid when we don't. Sometime you have to be hard headed and stubborn to protect and be who you are. As I always say, If you hear crap advice even from me, Use your own brain and common sense. We are all human we make some really major mistakes. What makes you stronger is when you get up and work a little smarter and harder.

5/22/2015 12:44:16 PM
If a relationship is that so highly important, you make time for it. No excuses. Actions speak louder than words. Saying you don't a lot of time, means you don't have time to invest in something you say you really want. Why get involded with someone who has already stated they don't have a lot of time to invest in something they really want?

5/22/2015 9:43:00 AM
Some people scream for help on here. It not help they want just the attention is brings. More problems equals more attention. Once thier problems are solved, there is no attention. The craving for it becomes stronger. The problems tend to get larger and more tragic. It a slippery slope when you seek attention at all costs. Cost of worth, cost of self and cost of life.

5/21/2015 7:41:23 PM
so you want me to rip you out of your life and shove you in a dark hole. So I can tend to your needs 24/7 or leave you in a hole and watch you slowly go crazy. Oh yea that sounds like a happy life. Tending to a thing that is going to get worse and depended on me. Worse than a pet rock. You don't have to feed a rock. Sound like a hell to me...

5/20/2015 10:32:24 PM
Amazing how fast the site it after a reboot. Wow amazing. Let's see how long it lasts smiles

5/19/2015 11:29:52 PM
How do you get your self heard? If you scream rant and rave enough, your word will be worth less and less.. Soon your screaming will just be some noise to be ignored. Limit someone's speech make them choose thier words carefully. What they say will be thoughtful and to the point to create understanding. Creating structure is not always limiting one ablity. Sometime it is needed to allows change to happen.

5/19/2015 5:49:59 PM
So what would happen if we combined all the parties of the goverment to one party. A funny thing would happen.. It not always these people who are causing issues or those people are causing us problems. It would be hey you in the goverment stop fucking around and do your job and don't blame anyone else for your own failures.. A lot of people take the easy way by blaming others for there own failures.

5/19/2015 1:32:07 PM
Some people run to another and throw thier problems at the person. Sometime it is good to tell them your like gasoline and thier problems will just increase if they throw thier problems at you.. Laughs

5/19/2015 9:12:31 AM
Addictions, we all have them. Things shift and change in this world. Addictions get stronger and those who feed those addiction get richer. You might think addiction to sex drugs drinking and other typical addictions. Heres are a few addiction that we don't always recognize. Books. Books that tell tales of human emotion and drama. They are design to tease and delight the reader. It a pretty harmless addiction for some for others it build this fancy world that reality can never compete with. Gasoline. Gas and oil companies are on every corner like drug pushers. Hey do you need a little gas buddy? We get use to driving here and there on a whim. Much like drug pushers it very hard to live without the use of gas. Good old TV. A eletronic box design to entrain us and to lie to us. Buy this it the greates thing in the world. Tune into the next exciting chapter of.. Did you see what this made up character did in this made up plot did? If your emotions are toyed pretty soon you grow numb to the crap you see every day and you have to be more extreme to cause a reaction.. Sounds like an addiction to me..

5/18/2015 6:39:37 PM
There are times where you need to put your foot down. Some people are so affected by others it just drives them bonkers. Thier lives are so filled with other people's issues that they can not think feel or act upon thier own problems. One angry event instead of being dealt is transmitted from person to person. Some people just can't deal with anger and they just need to spread it around. Putting your foot down means, you don't transmit it around. A quiet happy life needs to be defended..

5/18/2015 2:30:54 AM
There is a difference between approaching someone for an experincing and approaching someone to get to know them. There are those who think life is like a check list.. Did this done that... They never invest too much of them selves and than complain life is not full filling. They grow bored of who and what they are. They are looking to change. Hoping it will solves the lack of something in thier life. Do I point it out to them? Nope. Ears's and mind are shut and nobody is going to interfere with thier self created dream in thier own head. Sounds like I am judging. To be honesty, it just an observation and since it not mine. My opinion doesn't matter in other people lives. Just a passing thought.. Just passing by.

5/15/2015 5:09:52 PM
Some people look for answers. Just because you need and want one, doesn't mean your going to get what your asking. Life doesn't always give you what you want or need.. But it does give you opportunity to try..

5/15/2015 4:33:22 PM
Screams are not always cries for help.. Screams are not always do to some physical pain, Some screams occurs when you they are finally allow to express the pain and hell they have gone through in life. All that back log pent up negative feelings finally found it's way to express it self. Angry fear grief betrayal pain and suffering finally found a way to be expressed. The emotional out pour is amazing. It can go on for weeks and even months. The dam has broken and the crap is flowing. Too late to buy flood insurance and pray for the breakable in arms reach. You will hated and evil eyes with burn into your soul. How dare you make me feel again. You such a horrible and terrible person. The devil must have put you here, cause you made me feel all this pain. After the storm has come and blown away, it is time to clean up what was broken and move forward. Funny after all the screaming and ranting. A little peace has been achieved. Smiles...

5/15/2015 4:08:43 PM
Spending money on someone I have never met? Guilty as charged, Does that mean I am a player? I use to belong to this little group of people. It was a nice little group sort of like cheers were everyone knows your name. One who was part of the group had a mother who was sick with cancer. She being a single mother couldn't afford to vist her mother. The little group gave until she was able to vist her mom by buss. Did I expect anything in return No? It was a act of kindness. I was proud of that little group of people that day. Understanding someone motives for doing the things they do. Bring you an understanding of who and what they are. Some people just get a kick from doing a random act of kindness.

5/15/2015 9:33:07 AM
Some people can not stand being naked and alone with thier own thoughts. They fill thier life's with noise and things and filler relationships, just to avoid facing thier own thoughts. They get use to running away from them selves that the thought of being left alone with thier thoughts scares them. Quiet time in a corner is extremely tormenting to them. They will do almost anything to avoid it. Understanding the why and how things affects, bring you a better idea of who and what they are.

5/15/2015 1:08:55 AM
Sometime the hazy is lifted and I can see clearly through the noise.. These moments I truly enjoy..

5/14/2015 7:24:43 PM
boredom isn't always boring... Sometime it a little rest between the crazy times... Smiles

5/14/2015 9:47:13 AM
A well crafted profile is fun to read but never one to get involded with. Profile that are well crafted are simply that they are crafted. Words that are designed to attract rarely are the same words that describe. It is easy to fall for a dream, it is harder to fall for reality...

5/13/2015 10:13:41 AM
If you know your being played, just walk. Don't get angry or upset, Just walk Don't waste your passions, Just walk Don't try to fix the other person, Just walk Don't plot revenge, Just walk Don't keep tabs on them Just walk Don't invest your time in them Just walk Being alive is amazing don't waste it on people who will gladly waste yours life. Just walk.. Happy life..

5/13/2015 1:24:21 AM
Sometime you don't need a reason.. You just got to do. No asking, no warnings, no hints or codling. You just got to do. Don't think about what might happen. You just got to do. Don't worry about the trouble it will cause. You just got to do. Don't care about the pain it might bring. You just got to do. In life.. You just got to do. In death.. Nothing happens.

5/11/2015 6:18:10 PM
If your going to move to a new city or a new place, You take your property with you... If you leave your property, either it was trash and it had zero value. Or you were wasting it time and life by using it as a throw away play toy..

5/10/2015 9:13:05 PM
Opportunity doesn't always remain open. That relationship door closes once a suitable person is found. Nature of life. When you find some special , you grab them tight and make a relationship that makes others wish that they had.. Never put up with filler people. You will loose the opportunity to find what you need and want.

5/10/2015 2:15:23 AM
If I don't bring out the best in you, find someone who will.

5/9/2015 5:12:53 PM
I wonder how many would go far as crimial check. Do you really want to to be a safe harbor to some thief or someone who is up on murder charges?

5/9/2015 9:27:43 AM
The hard way of getting to know someone... Strip them of whatever freaken label they gave to themself or other gave to them. Start from scratch. Do not correct them or attempt to modify thier behavior. Put in the time to understand them from the best of them to the worse of them. Way too many people behaviors are based upon their label and the definition of what thier label means to them. If you are a label, you not yourself.. It is a hellishly hard road I choose but it wrings the most out of the life I have...

5/8/2015 1:09:59 AM
Bungee bondage for submissives who need to scratch their nose and who kind of sort of trust you but not that much.. Laughs

5/7/2015 10:37:28 AM
A waitress said, if I forget to bring out something just smack her aside on her head. I said we (since we were in a crowd) . No, but we should bend you over and smack your behind to teach this little bad waitresses to learn how to serve property. She turn the prettiest colors of red. We laughed.

5/6/2015 6:27:19 PM
A lesson that many should learn. There are those who have no control in thier life so instead of fixing thier own issue they act out. They enjoy getting a raise out of you. They do not have your best interest at heart. Thier opinions and words should have zero worth and should have zero impact but yet to some they do. It is just human noise, don't get suck into thier games. Don't spread there emotional bullshit to your friends and those who care about you. They are noise that should be ignore and promptly forgotten. Concentrate on what is important in your life and don't get sucked up into an argument that just wastes your time. They are here to waste your time and efforts.. Walk away cause you have more important things to do that to listen to some bull shit that has been design to spark a response from you.

5/5/2015 9:29:28 AM
As the comfort level increases, the chances of growth decreases. A person who is comfortable in thier life has no reason to change even if they are unhappy with their life. If you remove everything that they can complain about, would they be happy with zero things to complain about?

5/4/2015 5:20:39 PM
If you fall in love with a label you never get to experince the real person. Life is about experinces and not labels,,

5/4/2015 6:55:25 AM
Happy with the boredom.. Once the problems are solved and the submissives fits like a well worn glove. Some are just not happy with the quiet times. The chase is gone and nothing is left but the having.

5/4/2015 12:49:32 AM
I scare the crap out of most people. It not the Halloween boo kind of scare or the surprise orgasms after a shower. I take down wall searching for the inner core of a person. You have to understand that wall protect us from the crappy people we run across. Those who willing to steal our good moods and our positive energies. One crappy person can make a whole room full of people fell bad and waste too much time taking about it. But back on point. The less walls the more scared a person becomes the fear of if he see something he doesn't like he is going to flee to the hills. The more the another person become a part of your life, the more the fear of loosing one's independence. The lost of the feeling of security is hard for a person to take. Funny how some desperately want to become more that just one lone soul struggling to survive. Yet they have a death grip on a life that doesn't give them the security and happiness they want and desire. Fear of failure is strong with many. Many have left this kind of life style because the experince of failure left them with the need to flee. It is kind of a shame. They thought failure from one relationship is equals to failure of all of bdsm type relationships. It is a shame that they didn't find what the needed and left. It a shame something they once found exciting and fun is something to avoid at all costs. I keep on talking about not letting others steal your happiness away from you. It happens way too often.. We have two stand strong on what really matters and not let fear chase us through life..

5/2/2015 11:35:45 PM
You need to do more than too just expose those bad experinces that tend to stay with you through out your life. Some people are so forgivening of others and yet expect perfection from them selves.

5/2/2015 1:52:38 PM
If you run when there is a problem, you will never learn and will alway have regrets. If you roll up your sleeves and work on it, even if it doesn't turn out well. You don't have those regrets..

5/1/2015 10:22:59 PM
Your urges don't impress me. Your submission does..

4/30/2015 2:43:17 PM
I can give you structure in your life but most people who get structure. Start to hate the one who gives them structure..

4/29/2015 6:03:22 PM
With age we get to know some special people in our lives that has passed away. It good to share a bit of who they were. Celebrate life.. Death comes way too soon,,

4/28/2015 9:20:50 AM
Healthcare and 401k, An automobile, car insurance, mortgage payments or child support. Name something that will send most online dominates running to the hills. If having a bdsm relationship is deeper that a vanillia marriage. Shouldn't it also have a deeper responsibility? When sex and kink is cheap many will run towards it, add responsiblity and the players run for the hills and hide under a rock..

4/25/2015 8:10:49 AM
It is always funny in adult events there are much more submissives and slaves.

4/25/2015 1:14:45 AM
Who are you and what makes you worth time and effort? Many people blow themselves up in order to impress others.. Odd way to get attention.. Does it really matter what other people think? To some it does.. Lemmings come to mind..

4/24/2015 7:56:46 AM
Sometime it kind of sad to see your good work get undone. It wasn't never a small female. It's size was so large, it was a Heath concern. I rolled up my sleeves and got to work. It's health improve with the right motivation. More activities, less dependent on food for feeling.. Enough weight was lost that a full body lift was in order. Little bags of body fluid draining is not very sexy. Laughs. It looked and feel better with a heathier attitude towards life. It got more attention and it hide that fact from me. I knew that this relationship was done. It deny anything was happening but I knew different. It decide to follow someone else' sweet words and poor actions.. The Years roll on and I saw it once again. It wasn't heathy and most of that work that was complish before was gone. I wasn't angry, just a little sad that all that effort Had gone to waste. Just a fleating though..

4/22/2015 9:06:20 AM
Fear of loosing oneself is strong in many people. The fearful ones don't put in a lot of effort into a relationship. Some spread out their attentions to many people. Others use methods to keep that relationship at arms length. Without attention and effort, relationship slowly grind to a halt.. We typically put 8 hours of work into a day trying to make a living.. Imagine if you put that kind of effort into a relationship.. Yes there is fear but if your let fear run your life. Your just going to end up living under a rock looking and lounging for something to happen..

4/21/2015 10:27:21 PM
We all hear about the horrible things that go wrong in relationship that is going south really dam fast. Rarely do we hear how great things are going.

4/21/2015 12:54:47 PM
If all you do is peek into what it takes to have a bdsm relationship, you will never know what it takes or If you have want it takes to have one. It like having ice cream by looking at it Or smelling it. Cyber ice cream eating. All the tease and non of the satisfaction. Laughs..

4/20/2015 9:50:01 AM
Everyone knows happiness is a drug. Without it a person goes through with draws.

4/20/2015 12:34:28 AM
Who is affecting you? What kind of value do you put on to them? Should not those who have zero value Should Have zero effect on you too?

4/15/2015 8:52:18 PM
Sometime people think having a session is about pain or unlimited sex on demand. I laugh. Sometime all you need is a blind fold a little rope to ties the hand behind and a bowl of ice cream. How much ice cream does it take to know what flavor it is? How much ice cream does it take to be satisfying? How long can you edge a person into wanting ice cream? And of course. How much drool can a person create wanting ice cream? Laughs. It amazing how some will whine, others will beg and some just get stubborn and have a fit. All over a little ice cream...

4/14/2015 3:43:14 PM
Words are easy to say. Showing that the words you speak truly have meaning is another thing. Walking on the edge mean you will fall more than most but it also means you truly understand what it means to live...

4/13/2015 5:26:15 PM
If your give power to your enemies, they will give your more problems. Giving them little power they become ignorable and not really important in your life.. Smiles. ============ Showering alone? I don't think so. How you interact with someone in a shower tells you a lot about the other person. Don't mind the eye hook in the shower.. Yea yea it just holds up the soap on the rope.. laughs. ============ Just because you offer your sexual organs for my amusement. It doesn't mean I will jump at the chance to use them. I might just get offend and walk way. ================= There is a huge difference between a submissives in the us compare to submissives from other cultures. ==================

4/11/2015 9:31:18 PM
How silly is it to have another person to train your submissive. How many bad habits do you have to break. Do you want that new car smell or do you want someone slightly used car? We all start our journals with blank pages. We should be picky on who we should be allowed to write in it. Some journals are filled with written noise, much like the graffiti on a wall. Other journals are filled with thought and care. Still other are like poetry, fun to read, write and to add to the experince.

4/11/2015 2:54:22 AM
Marking what is yours is important. It does give a sense of belonging... But only if your in it for keeps.

4/10/2015 5:31:29 PM
Misery love company? Funny how the miserable crap that happens to us from time to time affects us. Bad day at work get brought home. Bad events cause us to choose a path we know won't get us the happiness we want.. Life isn't all roses and happy memories. It also filled with sorrow pain and fustrations. It is how we deal with it and how we affect others around us that speak volumes of the character and the maturity we have.

4/10/2015 12:39:10 AM
To assume that another thinks like you is silly and foolish but yet I see this happen all the time. Funny how this mistake happens so many times over and over again.

4/7/2015 2:10:29 PM
some one ask why I am controlling.. Some people are torn in many directions. A clear loud voice that drowns out the rest give a person a quieter and happier life. It gives focus and the ablity to accomplish the goals and dreams they want.

4/6/2015 4:31:03 PM
Who would have thought that pink eye brows would have been someone's hard limit.. Laughs

4/6/2015 3:10:30 PM
If your want to leave this little cyber space call collarspace, Why dont you just leave? Why announce to the world your going to leave? Posting your going to leave because of insert reason just doesn't make much sense. Unless you doing it to get attention. Like people who have to announce to the world they are going to the bathroom. Do the rest of us really want to know? Maybe they are hopping to be tied to the toilet. Laughs..

4/5/2015 4:23:05 PM
I do not have snakes for hair. I will not turn you into stone. Taking something and turning it into nothing doesn't interest me. It easy to accomplish. I take nothing and create something. It interest me because it the hard path and a worthy experince.

4/5/2015 4:02:25 AM
Tied with rope kind of bondage is easier that bondage without rope and the body is held in place by a word. The fear of disappointment can keep a person in place..

4/4/2015 11:03:16 AM
Pandora's box of bdsm. Some people should never open that dark box up. You risk loosing the life as you know of now. With that extreme amount of trust that is generated, there is the real issue of major harm and damage that can happen when things go wrong. We don't normally hear about the success but we typically heard a lot of the failures.

4/4/2015 9:20:11 AM
Having an experince is quiet different from having a relationship. An experince is like taking a roller coaster ride. It design to be entertaining.

4/3/2015 6:27:29 PM
Reading about bondage is not the same as experincing it. Life ain't a porno moive. Dealing with someone mentally can be like taking a stroll through a mine field. You can be happly strolling through the field and. Boom. Your need to do damage control and there is no way of putting things back they way they were. What works great on one soul is the wrong thing to do to another. The players just say sorry like that going to make it better. The responsible ones understand the risks take responsibility and do thier best to fix thier messy. One should never leave basket cases in their wake when they stroll through life..

4/3/2015 1:08:11 PM
Once you understand that life isn't fair but it does gives you a unique experience. How you take it is up to you.

4/3/2015 2:37:09 AM
Time doesn't doesn't wash away your bad behavior..

4/1/2015 9:43:09 AM
If you spend too much time complaining, your wasting your life. There are more important and fun things you can be doing with your life. Applied creativity and imagination to bondage. It tends to make submissives nervous.

3/31/2015 8:00:49 PM
Sometime we do what is needed which is the opposite of what we want. Being responsible is not just taking credit. It is being the go to person when the shit hits the fan.

3/31/2015 1:31:08 AM
If you spend your time screaming at fools and idiots, you allow them to have influence in your life. Giving fools and idiots zero influence in your life makes for a happier life.

3/30/2015 9:20:47 AM
Emotional maturity is a breath of fresh air. The urge to Understand is important. The striving to be happy and to take others along with you is important. Preventing others from stealing bits and peices from you. Strange and random hook ups are a waste of time.

3/29/2015 9:36:41 AM
Kind of sad when someone thinks the best thing about them is a hole.

3/28/2015 9:09:11 AM
Some people can not stand an intense relationship. The fear of loosing themselves sends them running under a rocks to hide. Being involded in this kind of relationship. It will bring out the best and worse out of you. Some get realy upset and start showing passive aggressive behavior in order to escape. Some just smile, pretend and plot a way to escape. There is something special when you really connect with someone. If you find someone who is willing to spend the time energy and defend it. It is amazing. It is worth investing your time and your life into it..

3/27/2015 8:12:30 PM
something bad and terrible has happen to you in your life. I don't deny it and I do realize it has a terrible impact in your life. The curse of the hells and bad experinces we experienced is when we allow it to dictate where we go in the future. How horrible of a curse would it be, if we allow it to rob us of the happiness we seek and need,.

3/27/2015 7:38:38 AM
Some people think being naked is humiliating. Sometime all you just need is a short skirt and pink fuzzy leggings..

3/26/2015 5:04:13 PM
There is a difference... A bucket of ice cold water.. Giving a person a limit to how long a shower is suppose to take.. Time up and tossing an ice cold water on them. While the point is made that long showers is a treat and not a right. Reaction to the buck of cold water is interesting.. Some come out angry and upset. They are full of spit and fire.. Some come out shocked that you did that to them and get emotionally hurt. Some get passive aggressive and attempt to cause issues later on. And there are special ones who grovel at your feet and beg for forgiveness because they know they have disappointed you.

3/24/2015 4:18:27 PM
It the funny things you miss sometimes. The excitement you get when you buy your little puppy girl a new chew toy from the store. Finding your sleeping puppy girl sleeping in a sun ray from the window. Whispering walkies and getting a very excited puppy girl ready to go on an adventure.

3/24/2015 7:37:51 AM
Relationship intensity is addictive. Once found it is a slice of heaven. Lost and it feels like you lost a part of yourself. People build walls to cope with the lost.. People become skittish around closeness. For some people they never recover and the closeness the seek is lost to them. They live under a rock and peek at the world as it whizzes by them.

3/23/2015 5:24:54 AM
If you remove what you can do sexually for another, do you think you can keep a relationship strong? I refuse to be told to force you to do anything. telling people about your needs isn't the same as telling people how you can serve them. Some people are so afraid of loosing themselves, they fail to know what they can become. One should always pick and choose who they allow to influnce them and by how much..

3/20/2015 3:53:42 PM
What works with one person doesn't work with all. Like people who enjoy eating hot sause. Some like it really hot and some like ketchup. You can not always assume that what ok for you is ok for another. One method doesn't work for all.. But than again there are those who never listen and continue to do needless damage to others. The excuse is but i tried it on my self or others and they were just fine with it. People are not cookie cutters.

3/18/2015 5:54:16 PM
Why do you settle for something you know is not giving you what you need. Let's not talk about the simple things you want. Never take preoccupy yourself with a person who is a filler. It best to be alone so when you find your special or your one you can give that relationship your full attention. Certain amount of cruelity and selfishness to use another when you know they are not the one for you..

3/18/2015 2:22:28 PM
Do you matter? No? Do you want to matter? Do you want to be special? Can you offer yourself? Can you still care? Can you still trust and believe? If you give 100 precent and only get back 10 precent soon there will be nothing left. How is that going to get you the life you want?

3/16/2015 4:37:24 PM
Sometimes I like being a bit silly and goofy. It keep the serious people unbalanced and it creates humor and laughter in others.

3/16/2015 8:28:30 AM
I still don't understand somethings. If you spend time and effort into a relationship and it has value to you, why do you leave it behind when you have a new job or if you move away to another state. Perhaps the relationship did not have great value and was easily tossed aside. I find those kinds of relationships a kind of a waste of time and effort. Those your not the one but you will do until something special shows up. Wasted time, emotions and life. Just sad..

3/15/2015 5:26:20 PM
some people spend a life time trying to find the right size and shape peg to fit in the right size hole. In nature you rarely find that perfect match. Most well fitting pegs and holes are due to effort and over time it becomes a better match..

3/14/2015 1:28:19 AM
Some people read and interpretate what bdsm means to them. They learn other people lessons on what should be or not be. While I do show respect to other who have forge a path before I, I tend to forge my own way. It not a easy path nor does it make me a more perfect leader but It does teach me a lot about my self and the others I have had the good fortune to run across. Life so far has be a great learning experince. I look forward to learning more.

3/13/2015 8:59:03 AM
A collar that has been fought hard for has a value. The same is said for a relationship.

3/12/2015 10:10:05 AM
How one acts after a session is typically more important than what happens before.

3/12/2015 12:28:17 AM
There are some real pieces of work out there, sometimes we have the misfortune in running across them. They can be like a curse. You have to recover from dealing with them. If you dont you end up carrying a part of them with you for the rest of your life. it ends up being a heavy weight you drag with you for the rest of your life..

3/11/2015 9:00:29 AM
It is all right to have a high sex drive but you shouldnt let your drive control you.

3/11/2015 1:31:15 AM
It begs to be of service. It rattle a list of things it will do and won't do. Like it is some sort of magic ticket to get involded in my life. Bags of fat or holes are not impressive. Those are not some sort of magical ticket either to get me to spend my time getting involded with anyone. You have to be something between the ears. You got to have passion and heart. Simple things impress me like playing fetch with a human puppy. It was fun. It made me happy. There was a real connection. Seeing a happy puppy was fun for me.

3/10/2015 10:53:41 AM
Human noise. We all experience it from time to time.. The same words spoken over and over again start to become noise and carry little weight. Understanding how to commincation to create understanding is important. Mind readers are few and far between..

3/8/2015 3:07:43 AM
Everyone at one time or another gets on someone's shit list. Sometimes it is a big thing and yet other times it is no big deal. If your afraid to get on someone shit list, you never get anywhere.

3/6/2015 7:35:30 AM
Moives are design to create an emotional response with an artifical people in a artifical sence. This is Typical done for profit. Basically a bit of fun for the money in your pockets.

3/4/2015 10:19:49 PM
where is your head at? is this is where you need to be? Is this a step forward in your life? Are you falling backwards? Are your achievements giving you satisfaction? Do you feel your passions? Aren't you tired of running away from youself? Strip of your sexuality is there anything left of you.. Stripped of your responsibility. Does that free you or curse you? If you got want you wanted, are you addicted or satisfied? If allow someone into your head can you kick them out and move on? Ghosts of relationship past, can you learn from them and keep them in the past?

3/4/2015 7:13:29 PM
Are you that lazy that I have to always push you to do your best? Sort of like pushing a car to make it go where you need it to, No matter how fancy and expensive the car is, soon it become very tiresome.

3/4/2015 5:44:07 PM
We all run across fools and idiots from time to time. Sometime we are lucky enough to spot them and quickly give them the boot out of our lives. Sometime we fall for the slick line and fall for the button pushing idiots a bit late. It is more painful to get rid of them then. How we deal with the damage afterwards tell us what kind of person we are. It is easy to touch that hot stove and claim never to go near it again. Doing so denies us the pleasure of a hot meal. Understanding that we will fail from time to time makes us a little wiser. Saying no to fools and preventing them from intefering with your happiness is an important skill to have.

3/4/2015 10:33:39 AM
A victim twice.. One when its happens Second when it prevents you from having a life you could have.

3/4/2015 12:07:14 AM
If it Orgasm so hard that laughter is heard.. Is because the brain is having trouble expressing the sensations or perhaps a bit madness due too much sensation.

3/3/2015 2:34:17 PM
If it has to nag.. It has to be naked. Laughs

3/1/2015 7:57:45 PM
Why the black and white view points? There world has too much grey in it already. It is nice to know where a person stands. Right or wrong.

3/1/2015 5:17:24 PM
Sometime removing of clothes is not to see the naked body below. Sometime it to bring down the walls a person puts up.

2/28/2015 10:49:56 PM
Easy bondage is with ropes and chains.. Hard bondage is unwillingness to move due to fear of disappointment.

2/28/2015 12:16:22 AM
There is a funny effect of having some one tied up in the same work shop while your making custom wooden bondage furniture. Over the course of a 3 to 6 months. Arrousal can be trigger by the smell of saw dust.

2/27/2015 2:43:30 AM
Given enough rope... Given enough rope you can bind a soul.. Given enough rope you people will show their true natures. Given enough rope you keep a person safe and secure. Given enough rope not only can you hang someone but yourself in the process. Given enough rope you can move a heavy load, Given enough rope you can create a hammock. How much rope is enough for you.

2/24/2015 1:06:18 AM
There once was a woman who had the nickname of puddles. While most would freak out after too much stimulation, puddles would just continue to make puddles. Hers would just get stronger and longer as time progress. There would come a point where she would just pass out.

2/23/2015 12:15:52 AM
Curses are for real. Deal with a broken soul and you will understand. It's life is not about it accomplishments. It life is not about the good deeds it has done. It life not about the great relationship it has.. It's life is about all the horrible things that happen to it. It's life is about trying to cope with the memories. It's life is about tryng to remove the pain. It's is about trying to self medicate. It's life is about try to find someone to fix it. There is so many things wrong in this world. And sometime we grow tired,, It is good to have support.. It a cure if your alone.

2/22/2015 10:12:03 AM
I have run across the broken before. There are some who exploit the broken for their own advantage. There are some who roll up their sleeves and spend the time and effort to or attempt to repair them. Some broken have a death grip on what makes them broken. It becomes a part of them, they learn that carrying around what makes them broken. Thier behavior Draws the kind of people and attention they want. In their mind if they keep being broken, it bring them what they need and want. There is no way they are going to change. Some broken relationship don't last very long. It odd how problems and keep a relationship together. Without the problems the relationship falls apart. Some broken use thier baggage as a wall to cope and yet what keeps them safe prevents them from finding what they need and want.

2/22/2015 12:12:25 AM
Some people are just not ready to experince thier darker side. Some are too scared. Some can not cope. If you are going to lead, you can not used the excuse of she agreed to it. You have use your own common sense and take responsibility for your actions or inactions. If you tangle with someone who doesn't understand your methods, your just asking for trouble.

2/20/2015 11:13:06 AM
The easy way to happiness? What so easy about it? Easy way of happiness through chemicals? Check out rehab clinics. Do they look happy? Listen to the tales of what they lost and the struggles they have trying to keep clean. People think it a breeze changing genders. Females to male and males to females. The lost of non understanding people is typically great. Your life as you know and the role you build to deal with it is gone. The things you go through to be happy, it shortens your life. The amount of money it takes can buy you house or put a big down payment on one. The older one becomes the less passable one becomes. This is not an easy life.. You think multiple partner in a relationship is easy? Your time you put into a relationship for a one on one is simple and small compared to the time you invest when there are two or more. Your failures or wrong choices are now epic. While the emotional rewards are great, the amount of time invested goes up even more. You have to be more organized and pay attenstion to details cause there is a tendency to get sloppy when you have way too much on your plate. Happiness is hard to keep a hold of and so easily lost. Ignore it and it goes away. I walked through many many hells and will walk through more of them. Hard earned happiness is the best and last the longest.

2/19/2015 9:18:55 AM
Defining the relationship and what is expected gives security in the relationship. Being too independence causes a problems of wanting to serve and not being able too. This sometimes manifests it self into passive aggressive behavior. Basically I am not happy so I am throwing a fit.

2/18/2015 10:31:29 PM
experiencing the rain is not the same as sitting in the shower or reading about it.. Celebrate existence and life.. Do not read about it... Do not role play about it...

2/18/2015 12:59:41 AM
Don't spend your life waiting, It wastes your time in the here and now. Avoid artifical drama. Real life offers you more.. Avoid things and people who suck your time away.. There are better things to do. Learn to do and not to watch. Stop pretending..life satifaction doesn't come from unfilled dreams. Don't let other people steal your happiness or your ablity to find it. I am not impressed with a warm hole or a picture of it.. Bondage is an art form. It takes time, practice and passion. I don't want a freaken prize. Prizes and trophies just sit on the wall and shelf collecting dust. Don't let others curse you with a life, you do not want or deserve. Great happiness is not something that falls out of the sky.. There are way too many princesses.. Looking for a prince.. If people don't get you, maybe you need to learn how to create understanding. If you nag, expect a ball gag.. Life and love are not for the lazy.

2/17/2015 4:48:39 PM
If I open you up and let your demons escape. Would you spend the rest of your time chasing them down pandora?

2/17/2015 9:39:05 AM
If your build a life together, clingy is not a problem. It a requirement.

2/16/2015 7:38:08 PM
It takes time and effort to catch a soul on fire.. Most just want instantius satifaction, rarely does anyone want to take the hard path to it. Short cuts! Only give you a window shopping feel of something that is of great Importants. If something has no value, it is easily replaceable.. If your topping from the bottom, you not getting what you want.. If you think your that special prize on the shelf. Prepare to get dusty and wait for a very long time.. I rather live with passion then play that silly waiting game..

2/15/2015 1:25:39 PM
Given a chance people will steal your happiness. Just for thier own amusment.

2/14/2015 1:40:47 AM
If I wanted sex, I can find it. If I wanted someone to torment, there are way more willing victims. If I wanted someone to transform, I can find that. If I wanted someone so I can fix thier problems, I can find troubled souls. I seek something quiet special. Something of a muse. Something with common sense.. Something that can generate happiness and not suck it away..

2/13/2015 3:40:08 PM
So I asked, how much time do you put into your abilities to communicate to create understanding? Are you silly enough to think the world thinks in the way you do? Can you really let go of what you are to experince what you can become? If you feel nothing how can you put passion into anything you do?

2/13/2015 3:32:26 PM
Do you put stock in what others say? Who cares? If your secure and happy, it doesn't matter what kind of noise other people make. It is just noise. There are more important things to deal with and to work on. Do not let others steal your happiness. It is worth fighting for..

2/12/2015 7:49:45 AM
With today's technology, you can really amp up the closeness. Where you are, what your doing, and a number of many things you can now keep track of. While this is all good in the right hands, it not the same as having a strong relationship and being there face to face. High tech toys are no substitution for a working relationship..

2/12/2015 12:19:28 AM
Sometime it is the bit of nothing you find that give you the most satisfaction. Everyone can admire that huge bonfire. People will Sing songs and dance around it. It give warmth and light. It is obvious how useful it is. Every made fire by hand? There is a huge amount of effort just to get just a small spark of an Amber. You feed it and nurse and watch it grow. You blow softly and gently and feed it small little things that it can handle. Soon you get a flame. You still have to tend it. After a while it provides warm and light. Funny how we forget these thing when we strike a match or flip on a light switch.

2/10/2015 7:59:22 AM
While it good to be body proud, it can not be the focus of who and what you are. What is more important? Bra size or heart size?

2/9/2015 10:20:13 PM
I reach out and grip your soul. Some people can not stand being that well known. It freaks them out.. They lie and scream, They run holding thier privates..

2/8/2015 6:18:12 AM
I hear a common theme about how great the old relationship was. Blah blah blah.. Honestly, if it was so great. You would be still in it. If I was moving, I would be talking what is mine with me. If there was some reason why, it couldn't follow. I would just run two house holds. Tossing away a great relationship because of simple crap is just plain silly..

2/6/2015 9:22:37 PM
Prefect spelling and punctionation? It is like choose a partner in crime based up what kind of shoes they wear. Laughs, if your looking for perfection, move along you don't have enought life experince to be messing with the likes of me. I walk through hell more than once and I make huge mistakes. I have a certain outlook on life that most miss out on. Life is never boring.

2/6/2015 6:45:43 PM
If you don't feel safe with me. You should leave..

2/6/2015 2:55:22 PM
Some people just hate to be understood and known. Fear of horrible terrible things that might happens prevents them from just letting go. Do you know how strong of an influence you have to be to compete against the ghosts of the past? Sometime it may seems it is on the borderline of being mindless and thoughtless cruelty. There is a goal there is a plan. Sometime you have to break the grip of the ghosts of the pasts to free you to feel once again...

2/6/2015 12:26:36 AM
One should never fall in love with the action of change. Change is challenging and Interesting. It an unopened christmas box. It is adventure to be experienced. So what happens when change happens? The christmas box is open and the adventure comes to an end. Not many things ends in happily ever after..

2/5/2015 6:52:07 PM
You can spend your life reading and following the feet of others into this kind of a life style.. It is your life, you do what you wish with it. Reading and following is a pale comparison to doing and being and following your own path.

2/5/2015 12:27:29 PM
We grow old and we start to carry the battle wounds of relationships that have blown up. As we search and seek, we find other battle worn people. We trade stories of positive things and the horrible things we lived through. The young have very little stories and look for that billionare Rich person to keep them in a life style they want. They don't have a clue about taking the hard path on anything. Many people design thier profiles to attract and gain the most attention. I search for something that has survived a few battles. Something unquiely special.

2/4/2015 11:59:51 PM
Anyone can create crap. It is easy to do so. Making something usefull with a flair of style and artistic eye is the hard path. Very satisfying.

2/4/2015 11:59:49 PM
Anyone can create crap. It is easy to do so. Making something usefull with a flair of style and artistic eye is the hard path. Very satisfying.

2/4/2015 8:52:36 AM
Shoulders out, stand up straight. Walk with meaning and purpose.

2/3/2015 11:44:58 PM
it is easy to be a villain to most.. It is hard to be a hero.. Hero don't get much respect and are soon forgotten.. Hero are torn apart. Any crack or miss step is like blood in the water. How soon we forget that hero are people too. With all those annoying flaws that make us human.

2/2/2015 7:44:38 PM
Word Can be fun.. Think very carefully what you want to say. Think on how it will be received. Think of it's impact. Did it create understanding? Was the words you chose effective?

2/2/2015 9:43:40 AM
some people are. Some people are not. Some people are not true to thier nature. Some people are just lieing to themselves. Some people are looking for escape. Some people are looking for a solution. Some people are just looking for structure. Some people are self medicating using bdsm. Some people are here cause they fail at being vanillia. Some people are here due to horrible things in thier past. Some people are here trying to live up to a label. Some people are here to feed thier ego. Some people are here to reap souls, Some people are here to dance to music that nobody can hear. Some people are here cause it is the hard path..

2/2/2015 12:39:21 AM
If I stripped you of your past and made you live in the present. Could you cope with what looked back at you in the mirror? If i gave you my full attention, would you slowly go mad from it? Can you risk everything to get what you want? Do you risk loosing yourself to become something greater than you thought you can be. Do you still have satisfaction from a job well done? Do you work on your skills to become better or do you grow bitter when you fail? There are more than a thousand different ways to get into your head, explore them is a life long task. While a mindless trophies are pretty to see on the shelf, collecting them just means more clutter on the shelf. If wearing a collar and a leash naked at my feet doesn't bring you happiness. You don't belong there. Saying no is a good thing. It prevents others from filling up your life with crap. Quiet corner time help some to focus on what is important in life. Do you understand the differences from what you want and what you need? Most people what to feel special but the truth is that most people can replaced. Sometime waiting means you just missed an opertunity that will never show up again. If you live a lie, your just cheating yourself and wasting your time and the time of anyone else. There are more people out there who are willing to scrafice you for thier own happiness.

2/1/2015 10:33:18 AM
Even tho you can, doesn't mean you should.

2/1/2015 12:18:16 AM
Some work very hard to find keep and grow happiness..

1/30/2015 4:06:48 PM
Getting what you want doesn't always mean your getting what you need..

1/29/2015 11:11:34 PM
If your willing to walk away from something special, it wasn't so special after all.

1/29/2015 6:00:46 PM
Some just don't understand the concept of fetch.

1/26/2015 6:57:32 PM
A lot of people shine when things are going great But it the ones who roll up thier sleeves when things go wrong you should keep..

1/26/2015 11:48:46 AM
Some people can handle no. It makes their whole world crumble.

1/26/2015 11:47:45 AM
I like it when things go wrong. It test who and what we are. Better to know before hand than when you are really are accountable..

1/26/2015 2:49:43 AM
If you find something broken, you fix it. After it is fixed, it leaves. It just the nature of broken things.

1/26/2015 2:45:56 AM
If you focus on what's important the rest fall into place.. Focus on drama and bad experinces will rob you of the better life you seek. If I just wanted a hole, I could find one but life is more than a need for a hole. Way too many define them self to a word or a style instead of just being who they are. Some people are just too afaird of what they might find under their masks they wear. It takes more than commincation, it takes understanding. Rarely does a person leave if they are too happy,

1/23/2015 6:36:01 PM
Happiness and joy are the best bonding agent.

1/23/2015 1:46:17 PM
Don't let crappy people and craptastic events in your life steal your happiness away. Sometime saying HELL NO is a great way to avoid the crap in your life...

1/22/2015 2:39:43 PM
Some stupid young thing ran up to where I was at.. It dropped on the floor face down and ass up. I planted my foot on it face and gave it a shove away. Silly ass kid go find some other stupid ass who will fall your childish tricks.

1/21/2015 7:14:59 PM
If your get bored don't contact me. Boring people suck the fun out of life. If your a slut, move along. Sluts are only looking for thier next thrill. If you want experince a fetish? Move along, loyalty to a fetish is not the same as locality to a person. If your looking for a free ride, I have won enough trophies already and don't need something that sits around waiting to get dusted.

1/18/2015 11:56:33 PM
Some people have a life time of dealing with issues.. Imagine a life with out those issues and those problems. Where would you be? Yes, sometime you need to fight to be happy..

1/18/2015 2:25:27 AM
If you dont have time to invest in a relationship, what makes you think it going to be great.

1/15/2015 1:13:09 AM
Stripped of your insecurity, where would you be?

1/15/2015 1:12:08 AM
Some relationships are like steel. A lot of extreme heat.. A lot of banging. A lot of shaping. If done right you get amazing steel. If do it wrong you get rusty and weak..

1/13/2015 12:35:46 AM
So what amazing thing have you done?

1/12/2015 8:32:01 AM
So what makes you stand out from the rest? What is your best feature? If it is what you where born with, what does it say about you and what you invested in yourself?

1/12/2015 8:26:40 AM
Instead on focusing on drama, people should focus on the job at hand and get it solved.

1/11/2015 2:13:13 AM
If you want someone to get you. Create understanding..

1/10/2015 9:51:43 AM
We are not equal and thus should not be treated as such. If you turn your back on your country, it is your choice but we should not welcome you back if things don't turn out the way you want.

1/9/2015 7:25:12 PM
Your life has meaning, don't waste it on crap. Don't get sucked into another person's hell.

1/9/2015 12:23:21 AM
If your want to see how well your rope skills are, give post orgasmic torment. You can tell very quickly what works and what doesn't.

1/5/2015 9:03:22 AM
A leaf is a kind of person who gets blown this way or that way in life. We are all a bit of a leaf and we are all a bit of a leaf blower. We make an impact by interacting with others. How many good days have gone bad due to other people's own bad attitudes? A mad person speaking garabage should not be in charge of how good or bad your day is going...

1/4/2015 6:47:05 PM
Life get refocused when you have to burry someone... Enough said..

1/4/2015 8:43:29 AM
Some people search for someone who just gets them. I always ask them who do you understand so well that you get them? Just because you have a want or need, doesn't always means you know how to get it satisfied.

1/4/2015 1:45:52 AM
Sometime you are hated just becuase your are. No your not a bad person.. No you have not done anything bad. Your just hated for being.. Sometime you have to struggle to find acceptance from one... And all you need is one..

1/2/2015 12:19:38 AM
A dancer learns how to dance and with time and effort it becomes graceful and a thing of beauty to watch and to behold. A submissive needs time and effort, to be taught and learned so it too can become a thing of beauty to watch and to behold.

12/30/2014 12:17:42 PM
Some people are just looking for thier bdsm fix. They are just search for that feeling they get when they are being used. If you stop giving them what they need they typical have a backup plan. It best not to get involded with those. Putting time an effort into something that you know is not going to last is silly. It take up your time. It prevents one from searching and finding what you really want and need.

12/27/2014 11:27:04 PM
Pushed to your limits. Do you find yourself or do you loose yourself..

12/27/2014 11:22:48 PM
I was asked, how to find out a person's true nature. Put them to task, make them deal with stress. Make them mad and upset to determine emotional stability. Push hard and fastt. You will know quickly..

12/27/2014 9:52:48 PM
There is a lot of people who are more than willing to steal your time away. No is a good response.

12/27/2014 9:04:17 PM
Do not let past failures dictate the course of your life. Once you find what you need, all the craptastic epic failures will just melt into the past to become meaningless and humors stories.

12/27/2014 8:59:27 PM
it is never worth getting upset over fakes. There are more important things to do with one's life.

12/27/2014 12:20:47 AM
Some people create their own hells by attempting to recover from a bad experince.

12/26/2014 12:54:35 PM
Some have great fear that keeps them where they are. Pushed to beyond thier control. They fear what they may find.

12/25/2014 5:47:09 PM
Saw blue arm pit hair. I wonder.. Pink body hair might be fun to experment on someone.

12/24/2014 2:11:39 AM
Take pride on how well your serve and please.

12/23/2014 9:23:27 AM
Some are worthy of extreme investment of time and effort. Others are just empty holes. Letting go the wrong one is important, so it can find what it needs. It is easy to turn a nothing into a something. It is harder to turn a nothing into a something.

12/22/2014 4:09:10 PM
Strip of the things that tie you down.. What would you become? Free or lost?

12/20/2014 5:46:12 PM
Never let current relationships compete with the past..

12/20/2014 5:45:40 PM
Is what your doing going to get you what you want? Some people are way too scared to look in the mirror for they fear of what might look back. When the soul is on fire with passion, rarely can a person think straight. while most are thrilled to be chased, others dread being caught. Screaming orgasms are all fun and exciting until the police are called to quiet things down. Some people are just to scared to fully allow another to control them complete. They fear being lost and being reduced to nothing.

12/17/2014 4:25:23 PM
Sure, I can complain about the fakes and the time wasters, but what the point? Laughs.. I rather talk about more important things. Like why only use a single color rope or just one size? Yes, you can spend 6 hours weaving rope around the human form but not many enjoy that. Not many enjoy getting cramps. Laughs While nude people are fun to have in the house, you have to clean the chairs and sofa's more often. Laughs.

12/16/2014 3:18:13 AM
There are some who will run away if your hands are cold.. There are some who will give you gloves to warm them up. There are some who turn up the furness to keep you warm. There are some who will get you coffee or tea. There are special ones who will rush to you and put your hands on the warmest spot on their body to keep your hands warms.

12/14/2014 12:14:19 AM
What kind of life do you want? It is important to know this., How do you search for something you do not know of?

12/10/2014 5:31:51 AM
if your looking for a prince and someone who just gets you. Just move along. Understand, trust and great communication takes time and effort. If your looking for Instance be prepared to get disappointed a lot. Honestly when is the last time instance anything tasted or lasted as long as something earned by hard work. If you worked hard for something really special, you understand it has worth. Typically instance mean a crappy imitation of something really earned. Fast food is quick and cheap. A real meal has effort and real taste, fast food will kill you in the long run. A real meal will extend your life.

12/7/2014 12:52:01 AM
It is damage beyond repair. Battle bruised it is a shell of what it was once. It is a tormented soul. Some by choice some by chance. The mind reels as it try to make sense of what has happen to it.. It looks for something solid something to hold on to. It screams in need and want and doesn't know for what. Will sex and pain give it what it needs? Or will it just medicated it for a while... Time will tell Time is the great truth revealer..

12/5/2014 6:44:38 PM
In this world there is a lot of hate, there are those who think they have the right to kill you becuase your different. While I may not agree how some live thier lives. If they cause NO problems for other people. I have no issue with them. You can think your a vampire or howl at the full moon. If your not bothering anyone or creating victims. I do not care. Other people hate so so much that they think they have the right to find the different and take thier life. There was a murder of a transgender person today. Someone who in thier twisted mind thought it was ok to kill some one. It is a cold cruel world out there. Be careful. God bless.

11/29/2014 9:51:01 AM
Imagine what can be accomplished if you were held more accountable for your actions.

11/25/2014 5:00:29 PM
Rip bondage.com it has gone away.. A story of a thriving community that died due to the inability to understand it takes people to make a site..

11/23/2014 10:12:53 AM
Scream so you can feel.. Scream so you can release.. Scream to stay sane..

11/22/2014 9:07:48 AM
Some people hold on to what they were and forget what they can become.

11/17/2014 1:51:08 AM
Putting pressure on someone to dress better is fun. Having them document other people's reactions is a great way to understand that dressing better does have it's advantages.

11/17/2014 1:36:22 AM
if you think sitting on a fence will get you the best of both worlds. It does not. If you stand for nothing, you are nothing.

11/15/2014 9:21:15 AM
Getting a person out of thier comfort zones promotes growth and exploration of who and what they are..

11/14/2014 1:44:05 AM
While the thought of owning a zombie might be fun, you realize that there is only a certain amount it can achieve. Zombies don't run and they don't sing very well. Zombies don't have an original thought in it head. It can not read or write. It doesn't care what it looks like. I am smart enough to realize that I need something better than a zombie. Laughs

11/11/2014 8:57:24 AM
Why is it easy to throw away someone? If you invest nothing into a relationship, there is nothing to loose. Nothing is gain and it is just a waste of time and emotions. The more you invest the more value the it has. The more trust and the more you invest of yourself the more you risk of having it blow up in your face. Some people are too scared to invest in the heavy emotions it takes to have something like this.

11/10/2014 12:42:46 PM
isn't it odd that someone asks for a strong influence in thier life and yet won't believe it will affect them. Maybe they want a weak influnce so they can still maintain control.. Shrugs..

11/9/2014 12:51:01 PM
Did you know that curses are not just stuff from fairy tales? The modern day curse is still alive and well. If your open your eyes, you see it around you. Something horrible and terrible happened in your life and you end up making it a part of your life and a part of who and what you are. There are those who struggle with that event for the rest of thier lives. They have been effectively cursed. You have to be strong enough to over come the curse. It not an easy path to do so but sometime you have to fight for yourself and your sanity. You have to be that boat that steers and not a leaf that get blown around..

11/9/2014 12:37:23 PM
Instead of getting mad at other people attempts to get under your skin, just Pointing and laughing just gets them mad instead.

11/9/2014 12:33:20 PM
Ropes tops chains needles fire thumpers stingers wands and clamps are just tools and does not reflex on the person's character of the person who has them. Just becuase you have a car doesn't mean your a driver. Just becuase you have a car doesn't mean your a mechanic. Laughs

11/8/2014 11:35:02 PM
Are you running away from something or towards something? It makes a big difference.

11/7/2014 2:54:16 PM
Sometimes it is better to want than to have.

11/3/2014 7:59:10 PM
Better faster new and improved submissive. What comes next?

11/3/2014 12:04:32 AM
Most people know that instance anything isn't as good as the slow and steady. This applies to food and to relationships. Time and effort need to be spent to develope something great. If you don't have the time or are unwilling to put in the effort. You just going to get crap..

11/2/2014 1:39:50 PM
There are those who want to be forced into something cause the are tooscared to be what they are. It gives them an out when things don't work out. Shifting blame to a person doesn't get you what you want or need.

11/2/2014 1:40:07 AM
If you fill up your time with junk, you don't have time for the important things in your life.

10/29/2014 7:45:30 PM
There are some truly evil people in this world who are more than willing to steal your happiness just for their own amusment. I seek strenght not to crush it. I seek strength cuase I know there are forces out there that will rob a couple of thier happiness.

10/28/2014 9:45:37 AM
Artifical happiness and fun will always bite you in the behind in the end.

10/27/2014 8:50:00 AM
Happiness is a great bonding tool. Rarely do you hear, I left the relationship becuase I was just too dam happy.

10/25/2014 2:33:19 AM
Sometime it not the successes we have had that shape us but the epic failures. Talk the talk and walk the walk. When everything goes wrong. You know who your friends are and who really are what they say they are. Sometime walking through hell gives you a better understanding of who you really are and what you are really capable of..

10/23/2014 9:31:38 AM
If you don't protect your relationship and it falls apart. Do you spend your time pointing blame? Or do you roll up your sleeves and work on it?

10/22/2014 5:57:18 PM
If you live up to another person's label, you are not you..

10/22/2014 2:05:25 PM
I do not expect you to get me. Certain things have to be experienced to be in the know,

10/20/2014 1:08:10 AM
Do not let your desire to submit strip you of your common sense.

10/17/2014 3:44:31 PM
A profile without a journal is like a blank mind. Hard to excite over the blankness lol

10/14/2014 4:19:35 PM
Odd how some think if They offer no limits kink and sex that suddenly they will find someone of quality to build a life together.. Kind of sad really..

10/14/2014 2:20:57 AM
Getting acceptance on who and what we are is difficult at best. Being different can be a lonely life. Do not fall into the trap of creating a false world for yourself. While it will give you comfort and fill up your lonely life. It robs you of finding acceptance you really crave..

10/13/2014 12:13:19 AM
No is a great word. More people should learn how to say no. Saying no to the people who rob us of time, Saying no to people who just want to use you for a warm hole. Saying no to horrible people who just spew negative crap. Saying no to those who steal our chances to be happy. Saying no to those who lie. Saying no to those who want to give us a crappy day. No is a great word..

10/12/2014 12:51:07 PM
What influnces you? Do you know how it affects you? I hear people say nothing influences me. I tend to laugh. Let suppose you had a friend, who tries to change or sway your mind to buy stuff. Who dramatizes events and oversteps the boundaries of good taste. Who create false stories to get an emotional response from you. Who tells you almost everyday that it know better than you. Who takes hours away from your life per day, Who takes your money per month to do this to you. Who you have to buy special expensive equipment to have this friend. If you really had a friend like this you would kick them to the curb and your life would have more time for real accomplishments. Who is this friend? It is call television.

10/12/2014 12:38:49 PM
Knowing when to shut up and listen is an important skill. Arguing with idiots just wastes your time that you can apply in furthering your happiness.

10/8/2014 7:42:01 PM
While I undestand you want to be you are, I will give you an gardening analogy. If you just feed and water a plant. It will grow this way and that way, A strong wind will blow and it will cause branches to break. While the tree will survive it will also have to survive with the wind damage that happen to it. Trimming the planet and training it will prevent it from wind damage that occurs. I swear that branch trimming isn't very fun for the plant nor training it to grow straight when it just want side ways. The things we do are not always fun for the plant but we do it for the general health of the plant. Yes, I know people are more complex than plants.

10/8/2014 6:16:52 PM
The ablity to learn and to grow is important. Frankly being dumb as a box of rock is not fun nor interesting. The ablity to understand and the ablity to grow is a heck of a lot more important to me.

10/8/2014 10:38:07 AM
Understanding that some behavior is just a way to test the relationship is important to know and understand. With a relationship that is highly intense, fear of loosing it is a strong fear. People will test the relationship to make sure it is strong and real. The person who is testing must understand the risk of doing so might end the relationship, we all reach a point where we had enough and move forward. It so important to over come fear and break walls to make a real connection..

10/8/2014 2:16:49 AM
Are you going to allow fear to dictate how you live your life? I understand the need to be safe and sane but living under a rock doesn't get you want you want or need..

10/6/2014 8:47:46 AM
We all run across horrible terrible people. The incident of meeting someone toxic leaves us running toward the hills. We use use out emotional supports and repeat this negative encounter to others. Training allows us to assign a value to a person. The opinion of someone who has our best interest at heart is far more worthy than the opinion of a self severing jerk. Learning to ignore the screams of the emotionally immature is not always easy but worth it. If you assign someone who is desperately trying to get an emotional response from you for it's own amusement a rating of a noise factor. It is just noises, it is to be ignored. It has no meaning. You don't have to go through the process of dealing with all that negative crap. The toxic encounter steals your time and your emotional energy you could have put into something that was more worth Whille. You don't have to use your emotional support system to defuse all the negative crap. You don't have to let it decide where you are going through life. If you assign it just noise. Simply ignore it and move along. Some people are not worth getting upset about. It steal your time and energy away from finding that relationship you want and need..

10/5/2014 7:22:41 PM
It easy to point out faults in others. It takes little brains and far little effort. Finding a fix or a solution to the problem is where the fun comes in. Sit up straight, walk with purpose, Dress well, turn off the tv and do something else, tell me your accomplishments.

10/4/2014 2:42:55 AM
Screaming at del taco employees doesn't make you a dominate person. Just an ass Laughs.

10/3/2014 2:40:55 AM
Uses needs a purpose, Uses without a purpose is useless. Uses with uncommonly sense produces amazing results. Use with a goal typical comes to an end. Use as a growing experiences never finds the end.

9/30/2014 9:44:43 AM
When someone wishes to be guided, I typical give them a journal and tell them to make an entry at least 4 to 6 times a day. When you wake, when you go to the bathroom, what do you eat, etc etc. the more details the better. A daily review of the journal, Will give you the ablity to get the kind of details you want. It will cure journal entry's like. I woke up, I ate, I went to the bathroom and I did stuff. I went to bed. Kind of entries that tell you nothing except that the person who writting the journal is lazy, the person is seeking negative attention, The person is clueless in what is expected and or the person is testing you to see if they can press your buttons. Yes, I know people have a busy lives but if your not willing to invest some serious time into a something special. Happiness does come easy to the lazy... After a week is typically easy, after one month typical the enthusiasm has left. This is a little bump in the road. How they handle it will tell you what kind of person your dealing with.

9/29/2014 6:09:53 PM
Will you suffer for me? Before you answer make sure you understand what's suffering is. Laughs. Suffering is not a swat on the behind. Suffering is taking the hard path..

9/28/2014 11:42:10 PM
We all walk throught the forest of idiots and fools on a daily bases with time we grow wise enough to avoid the crapfest and useless drama they generate. Your happiness is important why allow idiots and fools to have any influence in your life? It makes no sense. Others will use you and suck the life out of you. Step forward and with purpose and avoid falling for the typical crap you find on any place. Find what you need build a happy life and move forward. Do not let others steal what you want for surely they will if you do not guard and protect your happiness..

9/28/2014 3:21:54 PM
Sit down and shut up. Sometime people just need to listen. In their great rush to tell what is on their mind, Their desire to tell you what is important to them over rides their capacity to listen. Commintication happens when understanding is created. Yelling and screaming while is effective in getting attention rarely creates understanding..

9/28/2014 9:52:17 AM
We put walls up to filter out the crap life gives to us. Walls protects us from others who wish to do us harm. Walls keeps our sanity safe. Walls will prevent us from gaining what we want out of a relationship. Walls can curse us to a very lonely live. Walls can makes us seem not interested in another. Walls can filter out so much of life that there is none and your just going to the motions until a you die..

9/27/2014 8:55:40 AM
you might wonder why this profile and why I speak of fear. I seek strength. Not the lifting strenght or muscles that well defined a body. I am taking about personal strenght. Life is not easy nor is it fair. You need strenght to be who you are. A lot of people freak out and run when you put a mirror up to really who and what they are. When you break down walls, typically you will find a lot of emotional scares behind them. These things don't scare me. I roll up my sleeves and get to work. I been through my own hell and went through hells with other people. It gives me an insight that most seem to miss. In this life unfortunately some of us have run across horrible and terrible things and people. We lived through the event but for so of us the tragic events curses us through out our lives. It sends us down a path that robs us of the life we could have.. You need support and strenght to not be a leaf to be blown without direction in life.

9/25/2014 10:29:32 AM
Relationships need time. If you don't have time, Your not going to get the relationship you want or need.

9/24/2014 11:09:06 PM
Yes, I know I am intense. A life without passion is a life that is just waiting to die. Yes, I know I demand a lot. It bring out growth. Without growth you have decay.. yes, I know I love bondage. I like how it binds you to me. Yes, I know I can find sex. I know there is more to life than a warm hole. Yes, I know I can find kink. Kink without the other parts of a relationship is the difference between playing and being. Yes, I know I am stronger than your demons in your head and your heart.. Going through hell either makes you stronger or kills you.. Life is an opportunity. It was never desgin to be even or fair..

9/22/2014 11:34:47 PM
Be careful want you wish for sometime wanting is better than having..

9/22/2014 7:06:05 PM
Take a highly sexual person and amp them up. Keep on pushing up the levels. Keep demanding more. Start to make everything they do a sexual event. Train them to have longer and stronger ones. Keep on amping up the want the need to I got to have it now.. Some burn bright in this way of being.. Some burn out and run towards the hills.. Some just grow in fear and hide away. For some it is just too much and too strong and escape is their only hope...

9/19/2014 8:15:19 AM
Your mind is my playground. Your body is my play toy. Your emotions are what bind you to me.

9/19/2014 1:38:44 AM
I break it's mind so it can not think. I break it 's heart so it can not feel. I break it's soul so it has no hope. I break it's legs so it can not run. I break it's voice so it can not scream, If the things we own represents a bit of us. A life of broken bit and pieces is no life.. It just hell. Waiting for death. I teach it's mind so it can think, I mend a heart so it can feel and have passion in life, I create a harbor so a soul can be safe and have hope for things to get better, I give strength to it legs cause running towards happiness I give it a voice so it can sing and inspire. Time effort and creation is a hard path. It is worth something. It is worth personal investment . Growth is always better than decay..

9/18/2014 9:18:39 AM
Some mark are visible. A scar here a tattoo there. Some marks are not seen but felt.

9/15/2014 1:58:16 AM
So you want to be a trophy? You know what happens to trophies? They get put on a shelf.. They get dusted.. They get forgotten.. In the beginning,a trophy's life is filled with fun excitement. It is sought after, chased. It receives a lot of attention. Once a trophy is won.. The chase is over, the intense attention it received is over. It gets put on a shelf to be dusted. Never to be chased again. Some trophies miss this so much they do what ever it takes to experience it once again. There is so many time that a trophy can be won. There are many old trophies out there. How do they compete with newer and shine ones? Those who want trophy, only want a shiny one. This is a throw away society, unfortunately and sadly this applies to people too.. A trophy's life is it's own kind of special hell. Hard to be happy as a trophy.

9/13/2014 10:31:55 AM
Bad horrible events can curse you to a life you don't want. It takes strength to over come it. It pulls you out of your safety zone.. Why? Cause happiness is worth fighting for..

9/12/2014 4:31:03 AM
Some bring troubles to a relationship while others bring joy. If all you bring is the physical aspect, move along. I regularly turn down offers. If your seeking to remove your emotions, move along. I seen way to many people who are dead inside. If your looking for perfection, I am far from it, move along. Dancing naked in the moon light is fun until a big cloud of Mosquitos decide to try to make you their midnight snack..

9/10/2014 11:53:51 AM
Pretend all you want. It still doesn't get you closer to the reality you need.

9/10/2014 11:52:51 AM
The deeper you hide, the more painful the cure. Is it cruel to cause so much pain or is it cruel to leave it alone?

9/7/2014 7:11:29 PM
The hard road is such a pain. It delights if you fail. It goes out of it way to make an easy thing hard. If never just fall in place and just works out great. Sounds Like hell doesn't it? Hell teaches you to be stronger and be adaptable. It give you the strength to stand up once when you are beaten down. It give you the ability to doge trouble better. if you do get in trouble, it gives you the strength to see it though. It give you the strength to be truthful and take responsibility when things go terribly wrong. It gives you understanding and compassion when others expecting hell. I don't have an easy life. Don't look for an easy life with me. It is never boring and it always demand full. To have an interesting life is better than watch another have one on tv..

9/7/2014 1:23:55 PM
Creating a structure life doesn't mean you live in a box. Without structure you can not build to higher heights.

9/7/2014 12:48:31 AM
Picking someone just because they have a warm hole makes as much sense as picking a person because based upon a body size.

9/6/2014 4:34:48 PM
Are you busy creating a life or busy wasting it?

9/4/2014 5:00:50 PM
Dress nicely. Good will has these lovely clothing drop off boxes.. You just better hope I drive sanely.. The cops don't like nudist in the car.. Laughs

9/1/2014 5:46:08 PM
There are things in our past that would make hell just a warm vacation spot. The curse of going through hell is not always just getting through it. Sometime the curse is dragging that experience with us all the time and having that experience dictate the path our lives take..

9/1/2014 3:11:13 AM
There are those who can not stand being known. To be known is to be exposed like a raw nerve. The fear of being known and understood is so great. They run and hide. Some people just can not look at them self in the mirror for the fear they might see the truth.. Full of fear and just acting and performing to get by..

8/31/2014 3:57:54 PM
With a little stress people perform better.. Too much and they fall apart. Too little and they slack off.

8/30/2014 1:35:32 PM
So many tossed away when someone moves. How sad. If time and energy is invested into something that has value. Tossing away is never an option..

8/30/2014 10:56:21 AM
Life is short no matter how young or old you are.. Sometime you just need to seize it and not wait for it to happen..

8/28/2014 7:22:00 PM
It is not the slap across the face that is important. It is what happens afterwards. Do you use that intensive highly emotional charge event to drive away a person? Express anger and rage for failure? Do you use it to stop the rants and rave and create focus on what is said next. What happen next Is extremely important. It easy to burn the bonds that tie us close. It hard to tighten those bonds and to bring you closer.. Some people can not handle that kind of closeness. They go running and hiding under rocks. The peek out from the safety of the rocks and wish it was them who are experiencing life. Sometime the more scarier thing is not the ropes chains and props. It is creating the trust and the communications..

8/28/2014 11:17:44 AM
For some it is better to want and desire than to have. Having something to want bring out the best in them and makes them strive harder to achieve it. For some once they have it, they become lack and lazy. It take discipline to take what you have and continue with the same passions. Exploring another is fun but not only step in a long term relationship. Once transformed and trained. There has to be growth. Which direction and to what future.

8/27/2014 8:31:40 PM
Submit to me cause your bored? Don't bother me. I am not here for your amusement.

8/26/2014 9:55:41 AM
It easy to burn a bridge. It is much hard to build one..

8/20/2014 12:57:13 PM
Don't let stupid people waste your time. Don't let stupid people steal away your happiness. Don't let stupid people rob you of your money. Don't elect stupid people..

8/18/2014 6:18:50 PM
Happiness and security are stronger than any rope or chain. A happy person will put up with a lot to retain something that is hard to find.

8/18/2014 2:21:11 PM
I like journals, it shows you what kind of person you might be getting involved with. You can not base a relationship on a body part but there are those who are saying to the world. This is the best part of me. It was something i was born with or got surgically enhanced. Are you really saying to the world. This is the best part of me? Really? This tells me nothing of what in between the ears.

8/12/2014 8:21:23 AM
It is funny that many wish to be happy but yet don't know how to achieve it. If you attempt to reach it by artificial means or the easy way. You will find your self worse off and find that short term happiness is replaced by long periods of trying to cope with depression. Some people create their own demons who are stronger than they are. Sometimes even with extreme bdsm techniques those demons can not be removed. Some people should never attempt to open that Pandora's box of short term happiness cause The only thing that ends up left is hope.. Sometimes it is us who blocks our own happiness. Sometimes it the demon we create along the way. As I said before, happiness is worth fighting for and protecting. Rip Mr. Williams

8/11/2014 9:17:33 AM
Odd how some want to be mine just to become something a useless. Why do I need useless in my life? Simple answer is I don't.

8/6/2014 2:48:36 PM
It funny how some people have this great need and yet don't know how to express and communicate their need. Sometime a heart to heart works wonders other time a good jolt will get communication flowing. Laughs

8/6/2014 11:13:52 AM
No, is a very good word. It stops people from wasting our time for their own amusement. It stops people from crapping up our day. It stops people from giving us a bad day. It stops people stealing from our pockets. It stops people from dropping their drama into our lives. It stops people from interrupting our peaceful happy times. It stops people from sending us down a path of unhappiness and frustration. People should use No more often and not maybe... Laughs

8/4/2014 3:14:12 PM
When you spend time fixing issues of another, there comes a time when the issues are no longer there. What comes after that? It an important issue to understand. Sometimes it the issues that is the binding in a relationship. Once the issues is resolved. There is no binding and people tend to wander off.

8/4/2014 8:45:05 AM
An actress or actor will tell you all the lies you want to hear. You got to wonder and Imagine what kind of life they could have if they based their life in the truth.. Think of effort it takes and for what? To have the truth come out later and to have everything fall apart? Your wasting your life..

8/3/2014 9:27:06 AM
There is a large difference between read and doing.

7/27/2014 9:29:44 AM
I like to think that I am replaceable, it keeps me on my toes and sharp. It stops me from taking things for granted. Everything in moderation keeps a balance life..

7/27/2014 9:27:14 AM
A lazy person life is a hard life. Correcting that behavior is a hard path to take. Pushing them to over come behavior that was learned so early on in their life take a huge amount of effort time and correction. As you push for correction they typically fight and argue and use all their skills to stay as they are. Sometime correction has to be increased to be effective. The pat on the head or praise has to be more rewarding that doing nothing. Doing nothing has to be avoided at all cost. They need to self realize that a happier life is one of achieving goals not of avoiding work at all costs.

7/25/2014 1:12:58 PM
Pandora's box. oh look how beautiful it is. It is begging to be opened and explored. Do you open it? Knowing that who you are will change your environment? Do you open it? Knowing it will change you? Do you step off eyes open or eyes closed? Are you running towards or away trying to hide who and what you are? Some people are too afraid to open the box. Some people are too foolish and open the box. Some just grab their privates and run towards the hills..

7/25/2014 11:19:28 AM
Odd that when someone moves they don't take what belongs to them with them. If something belongs to me, I take it with me where ever I go. Yes, I know it is replaceable but relationship represent time and effort and I hate tossing time and effort way.

7/21/2014 5:34:02 PM
Do you really know how to please? It is not easy to do that.. It is one of those things that is easy to say and hard to do. Is sex all that you offer? Maybe kink is all you offer? There is more to a relationship than kink and sex. Any muse know that.. Laughs

7/18/2014 8:41:53 AM
Is your happiness worth fighting for? If you tangled with someone who left you mistrusting and unwhole, do you allow that to curse you with a life of living under a rock?

7/13/2014 12:35:11 PM
If your so worried about your reputation that you let something special slip through your hands and out of your life.. Who fault is that?

7/13/2014 10:06:52 AM
Acceptance support and appreciation, such simple terms and widely known but very few practiced.

7/7/2014 4:01:41 PM
It a lump of flesh. Will it reactive positive or negative under my influence? Yes, it is that important to know and understand this.. I do not want to be a leader of a zombie.. laughs

7/2/2014 11:05:21 AM
The joys of 20 pound ankle weights. Now let's run up some stairs...

7/1/2014 9:34:34 AM
I am a curse and a blessing. Increasing your sexual desires does not mean you get to be dumb as a post. I been called way too cruel because of this.. Laughs

6/30/2014 9:29:32 AM
Instance anything rarely last. I see many people who are consumed with want. They desperately what that instance relationship. Something that takes time and effort has more value and is better equipped to handle up and downs of a relationship.

6/29/2014 1:03:23 PM
I like journals. It allows me to see what in other people's minds. Sometime I will reach out., sometime I know better not too.. Laughs.

6/29/2014 7:20:46 AM
If you don't have trust and respect. It is useless to get involved.. I rather be me than your idea of perfection.

6/28/2014 8:53:04 PM
Life is too short to waste on fake people,,

6/25/2014 8:35:17 PM
Some people offer money to take them. sorry I can not be bought. It cheapen the experience. Some people offer drugs. Sorry, I know way to many tragic souls to go down that path.. some people offer power. I am happy with my responsibilities. More power equal more responsibilities. I don't want to take on too much and get sloppy.. Some people offer sex. Random sex has looses it draw when you been in a great relationship. Some people offer Extreme Kink. Once the great need been satisfied.. There has to be something else. Rarely does a person give the offer of them self, faults and all with the promise of a happier life.

6/24/2014 8:22:27 AM
So your into bondage? Really? Hmmm let see... Let put you into leg braces.. You don't have to hear their words. Their reaction will tell you quickly enough..

6/24/2014 12:58:29 AM
Someone offered themselves to endure pain from me.. Some people should never try to open that Pandora's Box. If you think sex is addictive, mix it with pain add a very deep relationship... I am a strong influence. Some people lives will thrive. Others will wilt and will change in a negative fashion. There are way too many that leave broken people in their wake. I refuse to be one of those..

6/22/2014 3:53:01 PM
Sending a body part is not a way to gain favor. It didn't work for Vince Van Gogh.. Now did it? It is a sign of desperation to force something that is not there.

6/22/2014 3:48:43 PM
Can't find what you need? Keep looking. What are you trying to attract? What are you doing to attract that kind of person in your life?

6/22/2014 3:39:33 AM
If the prefect master found the perfect slave. What would they learn? Nothing.. Imperfections teach us a lot

6/21/2014 9:09:21 AM
I thought this was something to share. These are my words but part of this was sent to a person. For some people.. They allow this life style to define who and what they are. Personally I define who I am. I don't care if I do or do not live up to someone's else definition of a label. We all must strive and find what we are. It the best way of finding what we need.. If you live up to a label your acting, you can be lost in acting. Meaning that you can be confused on who and what you are. A lot of actor and actresses forget who they really are. It is easier to act a certain way. My version of BDSM is relational based.. meaning there has to be a connection and as time progresses that connection grow stronger Actors and actresses change to be what they think you want to be. There comes a time when they look at themselves and wonder why they are not happy. It is because they made a connection of not who they are but who they pretend to be.. I tend to run across a few.. It is in my nature to rip off their masks. They all have a death grip on their masks.. Why do that? Is it because I am cruel beyond belief? No.. Do you think it is some control issues I seek to inflict? Nope. It is the old man knowledge and understanding that life is short and pretending to your self is a sure way of having an un happier life.. Some people cry because of physical pain other cries because they are free..

6/20/2014 11:48:57 AM
Are you a lump or a muse. Do you inspire or do you suck the life out of the things you touch,, If your called upon to step up.. Do you? It is more than just a warm hole or a naked body willing to do anything you wish..

6/19/2014 11:51:40 PM
Sending a slave to dance naked in the moon light might be fun but not during mosquitoes season.




6/18/2014 9:19:16 PM
Increasing someone need is not alway the wises thing to do. It makes people do irrational acts. There are always consequences in your actions,,

6/18/2014 10:44:45 AM
The passage of time tells a lot of the person your dealing with. Actor and actresses can only play a part for so long until the curtain comes down. Telling someone it takes a year before the physical aspects of bondage will occur. Scares off those who just want to use you to masterbate. Laughs

6/16/2014 11:06:47 PM
Prizes are not for those who put in zero effort..

6/16/2014 4:22:28 PM
It is easy say this person is my hero. It another thing to say, I am a hero to some else.. Life on the hard path...

6/16/2014 9:18:37 AM
Some wonder why I am so into relationships. Very simple. If you view relationships that binds people together. It Is wonderful and delightful bondage with out the ropes.. It is a harder way to bind someone. But those bounds are way stronger than chains and last a life time..

6/10/2014 10:35:59 PM
A master with the prefect slave never earns his wisdom by dealing with perfection. A hard tough road teaches you and rewards you with things that you really value in life..

6/10/2014 4:44:47 PM
A submissive claim to be fat ugly old and stupid.. I can cure fat but you won't like me. I would up your exercise and lessen you food intake.. Do that to a no limit submissive and suddenly they have a limit. Laughs.. Ugly or have you stop caring what you look like. Some simple plastic surgery nothing extreme. I won't give you breast implants that look like balling balls. Just doing a tuck here and there will work wonders.. Old is how you feel and how you act.. Sometime a bad and sour attitude will make some age way before their time.. Stupid. Hardly. Maybe you just haven't found the right person or the right motivation to be taught.. When bdsm techniques are applied it is amazing how the mind is able to learn.. Smile Sometime you take the hard road not because you have something to prove. You take it because you know after the hell you been through you be that much wiser..

6/10/2014 3:38:50 AM
Don't let others make you lose sight of why you are searching... Don't let others push your life where you don't want it to go.. Some read only about bdsm and assume it what a book or a person dictates.. Find what works for you and ignore anyone who says difference. There is a Huge differences in being compared to acting and living up to a label.. Labels peel with age and actors leave when the play has ended.

6/7/2014 11:18:55 PM
Can you have the romantic side and the BDSM side? Of course. Happiness is an addiction...

6/2/2014 11:26:40 PM
Sometime a moth would dance around a fire. Staying far enough way give it gets warmth and light.. Too close and it get burnt.

6/2/2014 3:28:32 PM
If you had too many orgasms and were reduced to crawling. Would you crawl away or towards?

6/2/2014 12:14:49 AM
Yes, happiness is worth fighting for.

6/1/2014 6:48:14 PM
Needs fulfilled does not equal happy life.. There are many who have their needs filled and yet Happiness eludes them. Understanding what makes you happy is important..

6/1/2014 12:44:22 AM
Good enough is not equal to the best you can do.

5/31/2014 2:01:05 PM
Consumed by want. There are those who are consumed by great want. All they know is want. Want alone is a very selfish.

5/30/2014 7:52:07 AM
Anger is a great truth revealer. That raw emotional out pouring is rarely filtered.. Laughs

5/27/2014 4:25:34 PM
How strong of an influence can you handle? Some can only handle just little bites of it here and there.. Some have to keep parts of them selves in reserve. Because they spread themselves out too far,. Some only give the sexual and kink part of themselves to others... Some only want to give their best parts only.. Some only want to fixed so they can move forward,,, Some only want to be taught so they can apply it to someone else,, One has to pick the right one for the right reasons

5/25/2014 10:22:45 AM
Some people lock their demons in side a box buried deep inside them.. Some people as tormented by their demons on a daily bases. Some people hide them from others in fear what would they think I'd they were exposed. Some people let their demons sabotage their happiness. Some people use therapy to kick those demons out of their lives.. Sometime you just need to train your demons to your advantage. Laughs

5/24/2014 9:57:38 PM
You don't know what will,happens until it happens.. Sometime you have to try... What if is always a question.. Was is the answer..

5/23/2014 10:23:46 PM
It wants to be nothing.... If you make a nothing.. Doesn't that make one a master of nothing? Rather be a master of something special...

5/22/2014 6:23:25 PM
Demand too much and they run towards the hills screaming,.. Laughs.. Demand too little they think you don't want them.. Laughs..

5/16/2014 10:35:02 PM
Tools in the proper hands can make living and breathing art.. Tools are not evil nor are they good. It depends on who wields them and how they are used.. Sometime you have to do a little demolition, breaking down walls and such.. It is amazing how strong of a bond can be created by creating a happy life,,

5/4/2014 11:28:20 AM
The lazy life, It has learn to only put little effort to get anything done. It has learn that just enough is the norm for it. How sad. It will never know the satisfaction of a job well done. It's skill level will never grow. This habit will give it a hard life. Comparing it to another, it will always come up short. It can not compete. In it strive to be lazy, it has curse itself with a hard life. Fixing this take a huge amount of effort. It will have to be push to do better. It will look for the easy way out. Quitting and running away is the easy way. It will live a life of the lazy. Never knowing what it could achieve in life. Is this what you call happiness? A life you can not be proud of is not a life. It is just an existence waiting for an end.

4/21/2014 11:58:47 AM
If your Walking like a moppy person dont be shocked if you get a swift kick to the Ass. If you look like a walmart reject when you dress expect your clothes to be donated or burned. Proper training will give you a certain pride in saying this is mine. Do you really want to point to a moody and homeless looking person and say that is mine? Laughs

4/14/2014 12:05:30 AM
With your hands what do you create? Some create a mess and destruction because it is easy for them. I rather create art. If you invest time and effort into something special.. It comes out awesome,,

4/13/2014 3:43:08 PM
Your a label.. You must live up to that label., the label is now your god. You must pray to it and worship it. You must change your self to conform to the label. You do not matter. You must sacrifice who and what are to become this label. The label is all important. Laughs.. People who slap labels on other are too lazy to get to know the other person.. Be you.. Stop acting like a label,.

4/13/2014 12:57:21 PM
If you respond to praise punishment is not needed. But Sometime tied to a chair, suspended by the ropes in the air and even being bolted to the floor is not punishment..

4/12/2014 5:31:40 AM

If you choose someone, Make sure they don't much around with your head and heart.

Physical damage will heal to a point. The emotional ones left by bad choices can linger through a life time.

 

 

 


4/10/2014 12:59:25 AM
I lead you follow.. I enjoy getting you to follow If it is in your nature to belong. I enjoy creating the environment and the bond that makes you understand what being owned is about.. Many see the naked person kneeling before another and wish they had someone like that. Very rare do they see the relationship and effort to cause this event to happen.

4/7/2014 1:07:15 AM
We all run across people who wish to do us harm. They will go out of their way just to cause you grief and unhappiness. During the after math of the even, there are those who allow this experience to curse them to a life they do not wish to live or want. They carry the ghost of those experience with them for the rest of their life. Still allowing the experience to direct the direction of their life. Tragic event happen, sometime you have to fight for the right to be happy. There are already too many people and event that are more than willing to steal your bit of sunshine. Life isn't design to be fair but it does give the opportunity to be happy..

3/29/2014 3:22:03 PM
I learned a new word today...Zaftig Refers to a woman who is pleasingly plump. Always nice to expand ones vocabulary. One can never learn enough I say. In this world we can discriminate against so many, it really a shame. Basing on income, race, clothing, height, weight and anything you can think of. How so many strive to be part of the same group. These people loose their individuality. How weird since we admire the individual who strikes out on their own. The man who made his own path and his own way. Just kind of odd..

3/27/2014 6:31:18 PM
What defines you.. Do you let others who have no interest in your survival or happiness define you? Do you live up to a label instead of living up to you? Who you are is more important than who you pretend to be. Pretending is never a forever thing. If it not a forever thing, why waste your life on pretending..

3/26/2014 9:49:36 PM
If your a leaf in life you get blown around Never going where you want to be, hard to accomplish anything this way.

3/26/2014 9:08:43 AM
The simple question really. Is happiness worth fighting for? The typical answer is yes. So if this happiness is worth so so much to you. Why do you allow others and things to steal it from you? Why do you allow other who created a hellish existence to share it with you? There are so many others who are not happy unless you are too. You need the strength to fight for your own happiness. You need to surround yourself with others who are willing to fight for your happiness. What do you bring to the table, What does your behavior say about you?

3/19/2014 8:22:39 AM
I could spend my time complaining but I rather do instead of complaining.

3/18/2014 6:34:03 AM
No is a powerful word that should be used. I don't care if you live to be a 108 years old. Life is too short to be dealing with a person who wants to waste your time. Telling these people no give you time to spend it your way that gets you what you need and want. Tell rude people No means their problems don't become yours. Their rotten attiude doesn't affect who and what you are.

3/17/2014 9:44:23 AM
Part of the fun with chastity is being in control of another's sex drive. You can drive a person until the drive for sex is zero. I tend to go the other route. Pushing and increasing another's person drive. Flame the fires so to speak. It is a great motivator to stop bad and destructive personal habits. It can bind a person to a relationship. It typically can drive a person to a point where masterbation does not give you the satisfaction you desire.

3/17/2014 9:33:45 AM
The act or the relationship? What is more important to you? Mental bondage is more important than the ropes and chains.

3/14/2014 5:50:14 PM
Sometime you have to scream loud to be heard. Sometime all you need is a well placed cane. Other times just a poke with a stick will work..

3/9/2014 12:29:54 AM

Powder peanut butter dust  equals Magic dust that makes dog poop vanish!

 

Laughs


3/8/2014 10:38:43 PM

Without the emotional attachment. What is life without passion for the things you do.

 


2/27/2014 11:56:10 AM

I don't do anything heavy until a year.   I have found time is a great truth reveler. relationship intensity should only be spent on those who can handle it.

 


2/22/2014 9:43:32 AM
There are those who push their own agendas. I find arguing the points with these people are a waste of my time. As selfish as it sounds, my time is important. I am not a leaf that floats in the river of life. I am that boat that steers life. You only have so much time in this life, wasting your time on some one who only point is to waste your time. Is like giving a thief a chuck of life away. Sometime walking away doesn't mean your wrong. It just means you refuse to waste time on garbage that steals your time.

2/21/2014 12:39:31 AM
To make a sub human is easy destruction is always easy. Creation on the other hand is a way more harder road to follow. Once you create something special it has value and there are a lot of people who are willing to smile and try to steal away what took effort to create. Most things worth taking has a great deal of time and effort invested into it. There are many who look for the short cut the easy way. They never appreciate the effort or time invested into making something great. Not only do you have to have the skills to create something special. You have to guard it. Destruction can come quickly and once was build to last a life time has all been sweep way and lost in time.. Sometime you need to seek the strong ones be cause your understand what it takes. it take more than the ability to survive a session. It take more than sex and kink. It take the ability to be loyal have understanding and trust.

2/20/2014 10:34:20 AM

I understand I have an affect on other people. I do take in consideration what my involvement in your life  is going to cause.


2/19/2014 11:25:31 AM
You could use Velcro and bungee cords to tie someone down but using metal clamps and an impact wrench... Gives a way different reaction.. Laughs

2/19/2014 11:15:57 AM
How to scare away most. Tell them no sex or orgasms for 6 months or tell them no kink for a year. Laughs.. Tell them you are going to do random check on their computers, tell them you will be checking their phone logs. This makes many run and hide.. LoL

2/18/2014 12:49:24 AM
Ghosts in my past echo into my present.. How odd. They seem to want to capture something that doesn't exist but once was..

2/17/2014 8:27:29 PM
Some people can not stand to listen to them self. They are addicted to the constant stimulation of what a smart phone has to offer. It use to be the radio, TV, computers that use to create this stimulation. Today it is the smart phone. Take away some one who addicted to it and you the classic reaction that an addict will have. Giving the brain stimulation without work, doesn't stimulate it to develop skills to accomplish much. You can not learn to be an expert by read but only by doing..

2/17/2014 11:06:08 AM
After being any emotional hell, do you wait until you recover from it or do you leap into something else. Emotional healing take time even more so with SAD and PTSD. In my past I have been lucky enough to have many old vets as friends. I understand what they were going through and how important it was to bring them together for a BBQ. They would just sit around and just talk about what happen. It was kind of group therapy to find others they could relate too, While it true you should not bury your emotions and you do need to find an effect way to express them. After you get burn or hurt. You do learn how to step back and serious think about how another person affects you and your life. You have to learn to avoid people who share their own versions of hell with you. Since you have SAD and PTSD, you can not expect yourself to have a normal response to emotional situations. Getting your self emotionally involved in a unhealthy relationship will always cause you pain and suffering. Understanding why you behave the way you do and developing ways to cope or to avoid people or situations that will cause you more problems is important to have a better life. It is important to identify your problems and to search and seek out solutions to those problems. Going and finding help is important. There are many That I have encountered have who are still dealing with the same issues and are still saying" I know my issues but I can fix it myself. " That is no way to spend a life. They ones that have happier lives are the ones who got help and now have those heathy relationships they wanted.

2/17/2014 12:40:19 AM
Never put energy into a relationship where the energy is not returned. It a waste of time and effort.

2/16/2014 2:11:33 PM
Dress to impress. Offer a dam good reason why you want to be involved in another person's life. Don't let others steal your passions in life, Find those who add fuel to the fire. If it won't listen, understand that it can be replaced is an option. If I can't get into your head, I don't want your body! I am human and make mistakes, deal with it. just because you pass out from too many orgasms doesn't mean your the best submissive! Seeing a picture of someone in rope does not represent the 3 hours it took of experimenting to make that one shot look great! Laughs..

1/21/2014 11:08:32 PM

Life is rewarding when you take the hard and hellish road.  When you take the easy way and simple way you don't learn as much.. . Instance gratification does not give you long time success. Relationships based in lies soon fade into the past. It is easier to destroy and so much harder to create.


1/20/2014 10:01:42 AM
Typically when a person screams, you hear it with your ears but there are other ways that people scream. They scream with there actions or inactions. They scream with their emotions. Understand how a person screams allow one to listen and take the right actions..

1/17/2014 4:40:06 PM

Sorry your not allowed to beat yourself up.  If yourself belongs to another it doesn't mean your allowed to beat yourself up. Your attached and have a responsibility to that relationship,

 


1/5/2014 12:00:21 PM

Sometime you have to fight for trust in order to make changes. 

 

Some of us have gone through hellish experiences, sometime it changes us for the worse. So sometime you have to fight for trust in order to change. 

Being cursed by bad relationships or bad experiences should not dictate what kind of life you will lead for the rest of your life.

Yes, your life is worth fighting for.  

 

 


12/31/2013 4:40:10 PM

A collar that is hard won and fought for has more value than any sum of gold. Not many want to risk the time and effort  into something that is important.

 

In this easy I want it now kind of sociality these important things are harder and harder to acquire.

 

 


12/29/2013 9:38:29 AM

if you don't know what to do with your life become an epic awesome positive influence on yourself and others..


12/25/2013 1:47:07 AM

Merry Christmas.

if you are going to have some tied under your tree, make sure there are no squirrels in the tree.

 

laughs 

 


12/17/2013 12:17:20 PM

Without concern for personal safety?  If I put in extreme amount of effort into a relationship. I rather not see it wasted on person who would leap off a bridge. So to speak.


12/16/2013 6:52:35 PM

Given  time and effort I bet you could reach greatness.

I am still cocky enough to think that laughs..

 


12/13/2013 2:30:28 PM

sometime instead of stomping on passion that pops up at odd time. Would it be nicer if you could redirect it into something more constructive than destructive.

 


12/6/2013 1:43:05 AM

Understanding that mistakes will happen is important.. It doesn't mean we should actively search them out. some mistake we can recover from Other we can not.. It is just the way life is. 

 

 


12/5/2013 9:25:48 AM

Punishment is not the same a session. There  are behaviors that are destructive. The ones that were created by the betray of trust are really hard to deal with. There are many ways to deal with it.  The soft ways are with conversation and a build up with trust and communications. The hard ways are with strong punishment that can be physical and mentally extreme.  Which one to use. The one that works of course.  why waste time with something that does not work?  

 

Weight lost is easy, I amp up your activity.  I don't believe in the gym.  I do believe in hard work.  Tasks are timed, you will have to do things a bit faster and with more quality.  none of this faster sloppier work.  It will burn off more calories and you have the gift of more time on your hands.  


12/4/2013 1:36:58 AM

If your running with a pack.. you can't always see what is in front of you.

This is not a problem if your pack is strong..

If your pack is weak, you might as well be lemmings and just dive over the cliff.

 

 


11/29/2013 9:29:02 PM

Will you fight for your happiness is that relationship you long for worth fighting for? 

Some people wont defend it from the attacks upon it..


If this is what you want. You have to protect it and fight for it.

 

If you don't surely it will be stolen and you will go without..

 

 

 


11/27/2013 11:38:12 PM

some people have a death grip on their own version of hell. It takes a very strong force to have them let go.  some people are just not brave enough to let go and trust. they been cursed with a hell of other people making and have been locked into it by there own actions. 

 

sorry can not change the past, only can change the future With actions today..


11/26/2013 9:21:21 AM

Did you know that  you can hide an electronic dog collar in a neck brace? 

laughs...


11/23/2013 5:46:10 PM

Long term relationship differ from short term.

short term it all about the wow factor. 

Long term is about growth and commitment.

Cant base it on things that don't last a life time.

 

 

 


11/23/2013 11:58:39 AM

You have a relationship with the person. Not the body. 


11/20/2013 11:01:20 PM

If someone can steal something special alway from you, it wasn't yours to begin with.

one should never waste time in something or someone who is just temporary.  


11/19/2013 5:04:37 PM

If you have something special, Working hard to keep it. It is a worthy cause.

 

 


11/18/2013 5:27:47 PM

Alcohol doesn't turn people into somebody they're not. It just makes them forget to hide that part of themselves. 


11/16/2013 6:37:52 PM

Someone who ache to please must have their release or they will go wandering to find A way to have their release. 

Understanding how yours think and what makes them happy is important. Happiness is a great bounding agent.

 

 


11/16/2013 1:49:11 PM

if you real want something? how far are you willing to expose your self to another?

how far do you trust? how far risk rejection?.  With great risk come greater rewards and a boost load of pain at times..


11/13/2013 11:43:29 PM

the life you touch. You pluck it and it rings with your influence.  Sometimes you can make sweet music sometime it is just out of tune..


11/12/2013 1:42:35 AM

A hard collar?  Is it sometime made of iron or stone?  A hard collar is one that was earn through struggles. Earned by hard training.  It not earned by the lazy or the simple flashing of body parts.  It is earned by trying your hardest, listening, growing a relationship.

something that is so hard to earn can never be thrown away.

 



11/10/2013 7:29:23 PM

Experiencing everything is not always a good path to take. Some experiences will not enhance who and what you are. Some experiences can be destructive and cause you issues  through the rest of your life.

 


11/9/2013 7:35:55 PM

The training word freaks out many people. 

How many people do you know that are instantly and expert on anything? Laughs.


11/7/2013 11:54:08 AM

Why bring out the best?  Do I really want to surround myself with empty shell of humans around me?  Laughs


11/4/2013 2:46:28 AM

Sometime you create structure not to restrict but to give the person the ability to reach further and higher than they thought they could.


11/1/2013 9:49:25 PM

I am scary but not in the ghost boo kind of way.  I am scary because I poke ,prod  and explore a person.  I want to know what makes them tick. I want to know all of your buttons. I want to know parts of you that you are most proud of and the the dark parts you hide from everyone.  Building trust is important and is an on going effort. it never stops. your emotional well being is important to me. Watching you accomplish something you never thought you could  brings me satisfaction.  This is not an easy life. It will test you in so many ways. Some people use flogger and sex toys to get a reaction. I use life, emotions, social interactions and other things as my tools in dealing with you. It not the easy path I choose But it creates a greater satisfaction. 


10/31/2013 10:56:29 PM

Are you going to allow bad events in your life dictate what kind of like your going to have?

 

There is a difference in being a leaf in life compared to being a boat.

 


10/31/2013 1:01:27 PM

We all run across those who are more than willing to push us over the emotional edge or to complete and utterly failure for their own advantage or simply just for pure amusement. 

 

My point is, do you allow someone who has no interest in your happiness send you down a path way where it would be harder or even impossible to obtain it? 

 

Some people build up thick walls and filters to deal with the crapfest that others generate. Other finds another to protect them from the bullshit that destructive people spit out. 

 

 


10/31/2013 9:26:17 AM

Someone asked to serve me. It is not an uncommon event to be asked. I do warn them of course. I am like a pandora box of unknown things. 


Serving me is not an easy thing.

You run the risk of loosing you.  You run the risk of becoming addicted to me.  I will get to know every little dark corner of who and what you are. I will explore all your weakness and strengths.  I will amp up your sexuality. I will punish you when you done wrong. I will expect a lot from you. I will let the world know that you are mine. You will become so valuable others will attempt to steal you away.  


If this does not scare you, you are not for me.  Your asking someone to invest a huge amount of time to create something truly unique.  This is not an easy life. It is a much harder life to live and a more extreme one.  There are great risk to it but there are great rewards to it also.  You can not have the great rewards with out risking a huge amount of you. 


10/30/2013 10:13:58 PM

Dance under the moon light and howl at the moon.  If you never have, you never have lived yet.

 


10/30/2013 12:03:27 AM

Giving someone an intense experiences can turn someone into a very selfish person. Instead of striving to please, They strive to regain and continue the experiences.

 

Everything is sacrificed for the act. They become one large need trying desperately to be filled.

 

 

 


10/29/2013 9:07:28 AM

Some people can not stand the intensity of a strong relationship. If your lucky you can ramp things up slowly an ease them into it but even if you go very slowly it might not still work out. 

 

 


10/27/2013 11:01:53 AM

There are something that should never be written down.

There are a few things that should never be video taped.

 

A knowing look and a smile should be the only recorded history of some events.


10/24/2013 9:35:25 AM

It is best to avoid those who focus on the act and not the person.  People who focus on the act will try to shove the square person into  a round hole.  


10/22/2013 12:31:20 AM

Some people's wants are so great that it blinds them on how it affects those around them. 

An understanding of who we are and how we affect others around us is important when creating and building relationships.

 

 


10/21/2013 1:47:18 AM

To bury someone in the sand typical vanilla fun.

To bury someone in the sand with remote control toys.

Well that is just cruel.. Laughs 


10/20/2013 10:27:12 PM

sometime a little craziness spices thing up. 

Sometime too much just makes people run to the hills LOL.

 


10/19/2013 7:07:07 PM

Living this way is not for everyone. Is that a bad thing? No it just means you have to find what works for you. While it easy to shove a square peg into a round hole, rarely is the square peg is happy. 


10/19/2013 11:12:01 AM

The curse of living under a rock. You see something new and you have an urge to try it out. Great wonderful life is about exploration and trying new things. It is in our nature to react to negative events by pulling back and never doing that again to prevent ever feeling that pain again.  It is a part of the survivor mechanism we use when we explore so we don't kill ourselves. Sometime event happens beyond our control and it pushes us in a different direct or makes us want to hide under a rock. While I understand a save place is a good thing it should not be used as a crutch. You allowed your event to push your life in a direction that what you need and want are harder to obtain and find.  This is the curse of living under a rock.  


10/17/2013 11:00:59 AM

If you want to get involved, a simple question? What do you have to offer?

Sex? Power? Money? Position?  All of these things are pretty petty...

 

fun, excitement, loyalty, trust, communication and an adventure in life.  As corny as it sounds these last longer And are more fun and interesting to deal with...

 


10/16/2013 11:25:55 PM

If you go forward by always looking in the past, you end up going through Life with your butt facing your future.

 


10/15/2013 11:03:03 PM

The problem of finding a good one is that you get dam spoiled really quickly.

It is fun to see who can take care of who better..

the submissive who give all it has or the Master who brings out the best.

 

 


10/15/2013 3:10:59 AM

youth doesn't mean you can keep up.. Laughs

pushing someone too hard and too fast just makes them scream and pass out.. Laughs

while you can teach someone, it doesn't mean they are one..laughs

role players are not real, they are actors. Laughs

major fuck ups will teach you more than everything going smoothly.. Laughs

some people way too wrapped up in themselves to be a good..... Laughs

Some appreciate the effort it takes to have a great relationships, other have no clue..laughs

Sometime learning to forget is a good thing, old baggage will keep you from getting what you want.. Laughs 

if you wear something I don't like, I have the right to rip it off your body and throw it out the window.. Laughs

if your smart, you would use happiness as a bonding agent...laughs

 

 


10/14/2013 5:08:33 PM

If you light a soul on fire, Can you keep it fed and keep it burning?  Sometime instead of finding some one who can light it, Maybe you need to find someone who can tend it too.

Consumed by your fires there is nothing left but cold black ash.

A fire tended will give you heat and light for as long as you tend to it.. 


10/14/2013 11:58:03 AM

Leashing a dog, you get excitement and energy of lets go and walk and have fun..

Leashing a cat , you get claws and teeth marks on your leg. 

I rather have fun personally.. Laughs 


10/13/2013 11:52:09 AM

Understanding how strong of an influence you can be is important.  While great things can be accomplished, there is also great harm can be caused.  A strong relationship can build a better life and even extend it. 

 

With great rewards come great risks.


10/13/2013 2:37:57 AM

The pit falls of instance gratification. I want it Now.  Removing effort to reach a goal sounds great to many. I understand that with out effort and trial and failure.  Your goal worth to you is lessen and  can be discarded quickly because of the little value it holds.

 

Things that are hard won have great value and are worth fighting for. 

 

So when is the last time, you fought hard to accomplish something or a goal?

 

 


10/13/2013 2:31:10 AM

I am driven by my passions. People who suck the passion out of you should be discarded.  Do you want to explore and experience life or do you want to spend your time dealing with someone who is sucking the passion out your life.  


10/12/2013 11:46:19 AM

We are affected by others on a daily bases.  Sometime it is a positive thing and sometime it is just in the wrong direction.  Sometime I am loud to drown out the other voices and experiences that have a negative impact on you. 

 

If you do not have that, Putting a value on those around you based upon trust and their motives is important.  There are way too many who want to steal your Life and your ability to be happy just for their own amusement.  Someone who has no value in your life should rank zero and Whatever it speaks should be discarded in the the trash and forgotten.


10/11/2013 9:45:01 AM

Music connects to something in our souls. Mixed with training and effort will result in training that sinks in further. 


10/10/2013 4:12:47 PM

Some people just get amused by the destruction of others. I find satisfaction in taking the long hard path.  I find satisfaction in something well done.  if I find destructive person in my mist, I actively kick them out of my life.  Cruel as it sounds. I really don't like it when they share their version of hell with me.


10/10/2013 10:17:57 AM

Sometime what I want is getting a better you. The path I take is the path that you respond to.  While it is understood that destruction is much easier than creation.  Creation is a much prouder accomplishment than a waste land of what was once a human. Having great power over another is always a telling tale. Without the normal checks and balances some go mad with power and just create their  own little hells of broken people, broken dreams and broken promises. 


10/9/2013 12:14:18 PM

 Getting a drink. It sounds like a simple act but it is not. You can tell a lot from a person when you tell them to get you a drink.

 

Some will grab themselves a drink and as the walk back sucking on their own drink they will ask you what do you want.  Selfishness is clearly on display and must be dealt with or the other will assume that this is acceptable behavior.  

 

Grabbing a can and tossing at you. Laziness is an issue. Doing as little as possible to skate on by. Procedures must be put in place. Short cuts and laziness have to be dealt with. It is hard to be proud of the lazy. 

 

Grabbing a can and dropping it near you is more of the same little effort.

 

How much effort one puts into simple acts can tell you a lot of who they are.

 

 


10/8/2013 4:53:57 PM

Do you want to be that wanted and needed? Some people can not stand being that involved in another person's life to have some one know you that well.  Some people can not stand being exposed to the core.  It scares the living crap out of them.


10/6/2013 8:10:35 PM

If you don't have a passion for the things you do or the relationships you have. You kind have to wonder what are you doing wrong?


10/5/2013 11:06:33 PM

I don't want dirt under my feet.  Earth does that quiet Nicely already.

If your looking for perfection. I am not it nor do I want to be it.

While I am quiet capable of solving many of life's problems.  Life problems are not the bases for any relationship.

While I can train most, Investing time in something that going to go away doesn't make sense to me.

You better have a sense of humor and a mind cause human holes and bags of fat are never last long term.  Yea, fun to play with but never the bases of a relationship.

 

If you can't build up trust how can you create a relationship.

 

If you work 12 hours a day at work and spend zero time on your relationship. When it goes away who are you going to blame?  the person who beats their head against the wall trying to get your attention?  Or the idiot who thinks a  job  will make them happy.

 

 

 

 

 

 


10/4/2013 7:23:16 PM

Sometime a desire that is not fulfilled is better than being bore and satisfied laughs .


10/4/2013 7:22:04 PM

Be very careful for what you wish for. If you get addictive to it, how is that is going to a.

 

 

 


10/3/2013 8:47:39 PM

Some people live up to a label. Others are just who they are..


10/3/2013 3:47:00 PM

Screaming at dick does not work...

why? 

They have no ears..laughs..

Now where did I put that mouse trap..  Laughs


10/3/2013 10:11:21 AM

D/s is by it's nature is very strong relationship. Thinking you can keep one it from influencing other aspects of your life is silly. If you pour that much of yourself and expose your self to the core to it, how can it not influence you and how you react to other relationships. If you do not put that much effort into it, I suppose you could compartmentalize it. If you do not put yourself into it and just act, it is without great risk. Not putting an effort into something lowers the value of it.  If this is what you want and need, why do you lie to yourself and not put gret effort into it? While you may not get what you want, You will surely prevent yourself in finding it by not putting and effort into it.


10/3/2013 1:40:25 AM

Some give up on their search for what they need and want. They grow tired and frustrated at times.  While there is no guarantee that you will find it through your struggle. It is dam near impossible finding it under a rock.. 


10/2/2013 12:15:43 PM

So you made a mistake, some mistakes are great learning opportunity. Some mistakes can not be undone and you must live with them.  How you deal and cope with them echoes what kind of person you are. 


10/2/2013 12:12:35 PM

Leading  does mean you ignore others needs Nor does it means you close your mind off to others.  Leading means you take responsibility of what your choices bring.   


10/1/2013 6:46:46 PM

The gift that keeps on giving.

so you run across a bastard, he made your life a living hell. You finally get rid of him but sometime you still carry a bit of his negative influence with you in your life his actions and influences has reduced your chances to find what you need and want.  Sometime you need  to flush and sometimes unlearn those bad experiences, so you can move forward..


9/30/2013 10:13:53 PM

if your overstimulated do you run away or do you try to run with it.

Some just pass out. Some get loopy. Some get high. Some just want it again and again. Still others just grab there privates and run to the hills...

 

laughs 


9/30/2013 10:12:46 AM

Some one offered me sex. I politely turned them down.  Do you really think sex is a motivation for me?  Laughs.  I live  in a wonderful city filled with eager people to please. While I do have a higher than normal drive. It has never driven me to pick someone just because it has offered sex.

How strong of a influence can you stand in your life?  Some can only stand so much. It is unsettling to some to risk being that exposed.  There is this remarkable trust one builds.  to expose oneself with all the flaws and faults.  To show another all the coping mechanisms    One uses to react and deal with life. The more trust and exposure the greater the fear of losing something you want and need.  The more trust you need to compensate for the fear.  After a time with work and effort there is a certain acceptance that what you build and have is not going away.  You get strange comments about what a great relationship you have found and you have to correct them and say. It was not found it was created..

 

 


9/29/2013 2:13:34 PM
A body under stress tends to tell the truth.. Laughs

9/29/2013 1:30:03 PM
If you run away from obligations and responsibilities,, you not suited for me. I just don't need flakes in my life. It a waste of time to invest time and effort into something that just disappears with a fart.. Laughs.

9/24/2013 2:23:50 PM
Happiness is a great bonding agent

9/24/2013 9:52:20 AM
Control is just another tool to shape and mold another. I enjoy watching a person improve over time. I enjoy the deep trust and better communications.

9/23/2013 11:08:26 AM
Bound up and face first in a corner.. Blind folder and gagged. A fist full of jiggle bells. Once the bells drop, the session is over. It is funny how some will just quickly drop the bells and whine about how short it was. Others will have a death grip to keep the sensation going.

9/21/2013 11:47:54 PM
I am an odd nut, I know this. I define who and what I am. I am not perfect. I have flaws. Don't like it.. I don't care laughs.. So the subject matter tonight is your happiness. No I am not talking about mine. I am talking about yours. How many crappy people do you have to go through to find someone for you? Many if your typical. Do you think of the crappy people when your in a good relationship that makes you happy? Hell no you don't, You are too busy working on something special to care or to be bothered with it. Do you allow crappy people to dictate which direction your life is going? I hope in the hell you don't you don't want to compound your bad choices. Think about it, you allowed some crappy person to suck your time and your life away. Once you kick them out of your life. You should kick out their influence on you out too. Do you really want to be cursed for the rest of your life? Do you want your chances of finding someone for you to slip away cause of the actions of a crappy person? Hell no.. Fight for your happiness and forgive your own mistakes. Life is design to be lived forwards. Enough said. Enjoy your life

9/21/2013 12:04:21 AM

Funny how some just want to be trained as just a hole.While digging a hole is easy. It not very impressive. Is this is all that you can create? Creating walking and talking art. Now that a good challenge.  A mixture of what it is and time and effort. Creating something special is always fun.

 


9/20/2013 7:21:28 PM
Nothing like sending someone to get training for a nice formal Japanese tea ceremony.

9/19/2013 4:33:06 PM

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Something fun..


9/18/2013 12:14:09 PM
Nail gun, leather belts and a wooden floor. Bondage blue collar style.

9/14/2013 8:33:27 AM
Sometime bondage is just plain bondage. There are no orgasms ending. There is no sex. There nothing but rope time and effort.

9/14/2013 8:27:37 AM
The problem of being a solution to a problem is once the problem is solved the solution is not needed.

9/9/2013 9:04:48 AM
You create happiness in yourself and others around it. For you see, happiness is great bondage. Laughs

9/8/2013 2:12:27 AM

It always fun to push someone to do a little better. It is terrible to waste someone's time. It like training someone to fetch a drink. Day in and day Out this gets very old soon. Now having them learn to mix a drink gives them a more useful talent.  Having them understand there are difference in the spirits. From brand to brand and country to country gives someone more valuable skill. 

There is more to wine then just red and white.  Laughs.

While balancing a glass on the small of your back is one talent. Knowing about it and what food goes wit it is a valuable skill too..

 

 

 


9/3/2013 2:55:55 AM

The thicker the walls, the harder it is to break them down.

but

Once you break the walls down, the hard work really begins. 

You rarely find a happy person behind those walls.

Normally you find a person who is quiet anemic.

If you make a mistake, you run the risk of even bigger walls and thicker walls being  built.

 

not work for the faint of heart..

 


9/1/2013 12:10:58 PM
Funny how when i am presented a picture, It is not always the person or body part you look at. You look at the environment they are living in. Sometime is not only who they are which is important but how they live.

8/25/2013 11:52:11 AM
Intensity.. Very few can handle it. Some run in fear of loosing themselves. Some run in fear worried what others finding out what they are. Some run in fear because when role playing meets reality, reality always win.

8/19/2013 5:44:30 PM
Pushing someone beyond what they think they can handle is something quiet fun and enjoyable.

8/12/2013 9:44:42 AM

Ran across a lesbian, It seems so defensive in it's life style. I think it wanted to justify it to me. 

 

It's behavior started to escalate and I had to put it in it's place. I am into things that would make most grab their privates and run for the hills.

 

I don't judge others. If it between to consenting adults and you don't want to shove it into other people's faces. I don't care what you do.

 

I didn't tell it what I do exactly but I think i scared it enough to give me a wide range.

 

When you flame the Need to have it, got to have it and will do anything for it, 
Beware of being burned or consumed by it.

 

 

 

 

 

 


8/9/2013 11:47:38 PM
To own do you understand the meaning? You own it whether it is broken or defective. It is yours to fix or to break. The good the bad and everything in between.

8/7/2013 9:44:11 AM
Good bondage take time and effort. Each body is different. Not everyone is flexible. Sometime you spend hours just to try to capture what image is in your head. Sometime the results are a few pictures and a person who is going to be sore for a few days. With anything experimental, keeping an eye out for pinched nerves and skin discoloration is important. You can not go by the people you tied up in the past. Some people can not stand being worked on for 8 hours. Sometime it almost like knitting and just as mind numbing to the person who is tied up..

8/4/2013 5:39:03 PM
There is something special when someone give you thier all. When you able to squeeze out of them one last orgasm. Their mind is still in a cloud. Their body has turn into a rag doll. It is a special time.

8/3/2013 12:38:23 AM
Sometime you just have to be a hero, a hero's life is not easy nor does it get the thanks that it deserves. It just the way it is.

8/2/2013 8:51:43 AM
If you showing a certain kind of bait, you will bring to your self that kind of attention. It tells me what kind of person your looking for. What is funny is that there are some who show off bait to the kind of person they don't want and get upset when they get that kind of attention.

7/30/2013 10:38:36 PM
There is something fun and magical about food. Feeding someone tied up is and experience and will tell you so much about the person who is tied and the person who is feeding them.

7/30/2013 4:10:19 PM
When you reach out and grab a hold of a soul, you know it and feel it,

7/29/2013 4:52:24 PM
Someone seeks to be open. While the concept sounds wonderful. It will just attract way too many who seek to destroy who and what you are.

7/29/2013 3:07:05 PM
Have no use for people who can dress and act the part. Laughs Acting is pretending and why would you want to build anything on a pretend?

7/28/2013 5:03:27 PM
Shut up is effect. It cuts those off at the knees who want to waste your time for their own amusement.

7/28/2013 12:33:17 AM

You warn people about playing with fire and yet they do. 

If you already have a relationship, and you seek a strong personality into your life. It is going to affect the other relationships . 

 

With breaking down walls and pushing limits activities,  Do you really think you can contain that in some neat little box and ways from others?

 

Good luck your going to need it.

 

 


7/27/2013 10:09:48 AM

Don't let your past rob you of your future.

There are things in your past that rob you of your future. Breaking those things that prevent you from achieving is a slow processes and yet there is no guarantee of successes. So Why do it?  Simple Happiness is worth it. 


7/27/2013 1:12:03 AM

If your looking for stress free living, Avoid a person like me.  There are always things to do and accomplish. There are always new things to learn.  All these things will cause a person stress. The more radical the change the higher amount of stress you will go through.


7/16/2013 4:08:50 PM
Becareful what you wish for too any orgams wil turn your mind to mush and make it impossible to walk or crawler away. It will make it hard to go back to a quiet calm life. The need to have that again will drive you to do things you that you will start to question your own sanity. Having someone who delights in increasing your sexual appetite is dangerous. Your passions will consume you. Having someone enjoying playing with ebs and flows is dangerous. It a pandora box of things once you release it you never quiet know what you will have afterwards..

7/15/2013 10:24:57 AM
Why do you wade through the craptastic people, the trolls and the fakes? Simple, because once you find your connection. All the stuff you went through to get there will soon be just forgotten. Happiness is worth fighting for. Yes, it is that important.

7/15/2013 1:43:12 AM

The cure of Instance gratification, Recognizing a great relationship is easy. You see the dynamics of the relationship working and every person involved is quiet happy. What a lot of people do not understand that it takes effort, Investment of one self and the ability to work out things when they do fail.  Instance  means there is a quick judgement and if an issue comes up instead of working it out. It more simpler to reject and move on. 

 

 


7/13/2013 7:51:48 PM
A profile caught my eye. It was someone who was building a table. In this world of buy it now and shop from an on line store. It nice to see someone who actually like to build something,

7/13/2013 7:05:55 PM
When did it become the job of a submissive person to define the role a dominate person is? Laughs. Hard to lead if your are following. A person submissiveness changes how you behave? Doesn't that mean your submissive to their submissiveness ? Your laugh for the day..

7/12/2013 7:37:48 PM
Someone ask for transparency, I had to laugh. There a reason why almost all user names are something other than their real name. Silly people and their silly games.

7/12/2013 12:19:56 AM

The tit for tat attitude, If you do something I should do the same thing in response.  Monkey see monkey do.  If Ok if your looking for a monkey. Laughs

If your looking for someone to lead.. finding your exact match is much like having two left hands.  Smiles..

 

 

 


7/9/2013 5:39:31 PM
It screams take control of me. I will be you sex slave. Train me , train me, train me it stomps it's feet in frustrations. I laugh. You have to add something quiet special to warrant that kind of attention.

7/8/2013 8:50:31 AM
Some people invest their life into wants instead of investing their life into fulfillment. It easier to invest into want it take very little effort. Fulfillment take time and effort and hard work.

7/8/2013 4:32:44 AM
You see a dancer displaying it craft. Some people see the act and they are amazed and pleased. You should realize the hard work and many hour and day and even years to it get to that point. Great relationships are easy to spot but many fail to realize the work it take to make it happen. They see the dancer and not what it took to get there.

7/8/2013 4:27:42 AM
Destruction is so much easier to do. Creating sometime better is dam hard work but quiet a bit more satisfying. Easy to say hard to do.

7/7/2013 3:46:28 PM
Are you crazy? You want to follow me? I am the kind but I do delight in pushing people quiet hard. I find people under stress do perform much better. Nothing is worse that letting someone getting too comfy. It does not bring out all they can be pampered.

7/7/2013 3:39:02 PM
Under great sexual stress a person will tell you anything you want to hear. They will babble on and on trying to say anything to stop the over stimulation they are receiving. Lieing is a punishable offense. The seconds that tick on by at this state are like minutes. Orgasms that were once a source are fun are not quiet painfull. Expect a lot of tears, you have their attention and thier focus. What ever you say at this point in time with be with them for a very long time. Their body will contort in shapes to avoid being stimulated. The bonds that would normally hold during a regular session will be stresses. Steel welds have been broken before. There will come a point were they will just pass out. They end up being just lumps of skin and sweaty mush. Expect sore muscles pulled and sore joints. While a bucket of ice cold water might be a fun thought. Don't it might send it into a body shock state that will require medical treatment. Warm towels. Plenty of electrolytic fluid on hand is important. Keeping and eye on body core temp is important. Under great stress the body might find it hard to keep it core temp stable. So a hard cold stone floor will be an issue. After the experience expect to be hated quiet intensely, after the hate they will try to comeback to experience this again.

7/2/2013 5:13:51 PM
Some people live this lifestyle because that is who they are. Others read and try to emulated what they have read. There is a difference.

7/1/2013 2:16:24 PM

Silly question of the day.

If you are strong and won't change for anyone., why do you seek out a person who will change you? 

 

 


6/26/2013 4:22:42 PM

To be pleasing one need to hone their craft.

The simple things that need to be practiced until they become second nature.

Services with a smile.  Having things prepared and not thrown together at the last minute.

It amazing how many don't cook or even clean.  Laughs

 

 


6/25/2013 12:29:24 AM

Walk with style and grace do not walk like some one who has their pants   falling down.

 

Think before you speak.  Words have impact. saying sorry does not mean your automatically forgiven.

 

Shine for me for me cause the effort that I put into you is worth something.

 

 


6/24/2013 12:24:16 PM
Sex and kink are easy to acquire.. Submission and trust is another thing.. Just because your willing to do what I tell you to do doesn't automatically mean I am going to become your master..

6/21/2013 11:24:02 PM
When you have that trust then the fun really starts.. It not the kink and sex but honestly that improves.. It all the other fun things . Here a snow crab. Go peel it for me.. Lol

6/20/2013 12:53:28 AM
I use a good strong relationship as bondage. It is stronger than any rope or chain. The more I know the deeper the relationship the more I demand. I am the artist you are my canvas. I create walking art. It a long process. Good art is rarely good slapped together..

6/20/2013 12:43:01 AM
To simple put it. The save me kind of person are looking for a solution to thier issues. Once thier problems are solved the interest in the relationship evaporates.

6/12/2013 9:47:38 AM

if your thinking safety comes with distance think again..

Laughs.


6/9/2013 7:46:07 PM
Mold a lump of clay into art that all admire.. Mold a human and they call you a control freak.. Laughs

6/8/2013 5:22:30 PM

We all seen people shrubs along. They walk with out a sense of who and what they are. The look down and at the floor hunched over.  Feet scrapping on the floor as they wonder around .

 

Putting metal tap on their feet reminds  lift their feet. If you look examine the taps after a day you can tell very quickly if they scrape their feet on the floor.

 

 


6/8/2013 3:00:41 PM
Once you have that moldable trainable soul, What you do to it reflects what it is and your efforts in training. Do you great something silly and useless? Do you great art that just hangs on the wall? You create something that fits into your life..

6/8/2013 3:39:04 AM
Someone trainable is a delight.. I am tough because I know that you can perform well. If always nice to see someone put great effort into something.

5/31/2013 1:09:51 AM
A simple thing of cooking and cleaning. How funny how few know how to do those things.. Laughs

5/28/2013 11:26:38 AM

There is a big difference between someone who is forced to do something they hate to do compared with someone who strives to find new ways of pleasing.

 


5/23/2013 5:31:21 PM

If your in a Great and wonderful relationship, How hard do you fight for it to keep it?

Things with great worth are worth fighting for.

 

 


5/21/2013 6:49:18 PM

Anyone who has great skill understands it takes practice.

Rare is the person who can do something in the beginning.

 

When you first drove your car, did you Jump into traffic and sped along the freeway zipping in and out of traffic? 

 

Those who seek instance gratification rarely find satisfaction. 

 


5/20/2013 10:51:39 PM
If you spend your time making door mats, what does that say about you. If you create living art, that is admired by many. How does that reflect toward the creator?

5/20/2013 6:45:24 PM
When you chase after someone, always do it with purpose and always with the intent of making it a forever. How can you have passion for the temporary?

5/19/2013 12:48:26 PM
In this world we are visual people. We enjoy seeing sometime pretty. Dressing down is not acceptable. It disregaurds the people around us that has to deal with us. If you dress like a pirate, people are going to assume your are one. If you dress like garabage, who are you going to blame when people treat you as such. Dressing well is important.

5/18/2013 2:37:08 PM
Someone posted. "I found something in my belly button and I ate it. It was gross. " I laughed. It was funny.

5/18/2013 11:16:03 AM
Gratification is very satisfying. A job well done, a skill you learned or a project you completed as satisfying when they are done. In this world driven by instance gradification, it can prevent us from reaching long term goals. We all admire a well run good working relationship. We know it when we see it. Many fail to realize that it take a lot of time and effort to reach that point. Those who are cursed with the need to have things instantly do not have the ablity to invest the time and effort to have that relationship they want. So the relationship they want and need just slips away, with very little honest effort, the thing you desire the most just slips through your fingers.

5/17/2013 11:39:59 AM

Why Clutter your life with uselessness? If you seek someone special. Why fill it full of people who disappoint you?  Relationships take time to grow and blossom. If you clutter up your life with these kinds of relationship, It will distract and remove the importants of the relationship you really want and need.  


5/16/2013 3:35:22 PM
We all have pride and egos, what is your based upon? If your ego is based on creating doormats. What does that say about you? So let say you created an army of doormats, now no one can deny your ablity to create one but why? Door mats are easy to create. Creating beauty class and style is not very easy but it is worthy of time and effort invested. There is an ego stroke in creation. There is pride in seeing success. Life needs to have passion...

5/16/2013 10:58:17 AM
Walk like you have worth. Walk like you have purpose. Walk with style and grace. Head up looking forward. Shuffling along looking at the ground is not acceptable. Corrections will be applied.

5/10/2013 11:00:45 AM
Door mats are easy to create but why would I want a door mat? If I am investing my time and effort into a person just to create a door mat, I view it as a waste of my time and efforts.

5/8/2013 11:29:49 AM
Relationship with zero or little passion, while they maybe easier to deal with are a lot less challenging and fun. Got to have passion in the things you do.

5/5/2013 8:56:42 PM

Do you realize what happens when you introduce a strong influence in your life?

It will change you. It will have an affect on your other relationships. You might lose what you have.  Somethings just can not be Undone Unseen or Unexperienced.  Innocents that  opens a Pandora box rarely stays innocent.

 

 


5/3/2013 2:13:01 PM
When the act is more important than the person or people your with. You are just masterbating..

5/1/2013 7:38:11 PM
If you give ownership of your body it means it mine and you better learn to take care of it because it is mine.. Change of diet and change in physical activity will send most running towards the hills.. Laughs..

4/28/2013 11:48:58 AM
If your submissive has a weight issue,that is routed because it is used as comfort, it is really easy to change the weight of someone with a more structured life. It simple to mold another person body to a point. Either by surgery or of life habits changes. Dealing with a self destructive personality is much tougher and required a much heavier hand to deal with.

4/28/2013 2:26:14 AM
The stuff we do is dangerous and should be done with care. It is easy to find someone who will say yes to you. It not easy to find someone who will say yes for you for the right reasons.

4/24/2013 3:13:23 PM
Transforming a person into something is not that all hard to do. It the hate that is tricky to deal with. Hate from it's friends. How can you do this to our friend attitude.. Hate from it's family. We didn't raise our kid not to be yours in that manner. Hate from sociality. Your turn it into a What? Your sick and should be in jail for it. An out cast life is not for everyone. Be careful what you wish for.. .

4/23/2013 6:04:44 PM
So you do all these horrible nasty things to a person, what makes them a keeper? When you say again and their face lights up. Laughs

4/20/2013 12:38:55 PM
Face down, ass up.. It not wrapping you up in ropes or putting pushing your limits that is hard to do. It having you come back to experience it again that is more important.

4/17/2013 10:54:10 AM
How Important is your relationship? Is it worth fighting for? Is it worth protecting? If your relationship have no value, it easy to flush me away.. If you invested hard work into it, it is worth something. Something special to work on, to protect and to enable it to grow stronger.

4/16/2013 12:46:28 AM
When transforming a person, whether it be from male to female or females to males, A vanilla to submissive or submissive to slave. You will will have to deal with a lot of hate. Sometime from the person who is being transformed and sometime from all the people they know. Convert one vanilla person into a pleasure driven person who thrives on passion and a strong desire to please. There going to be a lot of people who will hate you...

4/15/2013 12:43:57 PM
Never let a bad event or person curse you with a life your going to hate.. Many time you see people who still carry around the damage that someone did to them in the past. Instead of healing and letting go. It like an anchor that drags them down to a life they are not happy with and do not want..

4/15/2013 1:17:24 AM
The art of service, funny how many start with the i want list instead of this is what I can do. Do you strive to please or are you a lump? A passion to please is amazing. A lump no matter how much you polish is a lump..

4/13/2013 11:45:30 AM
We all know special when we see it but rarely do people see what it took to become special.

4/12/2013 4:00:12 PM
So who stole your passion out of your life? And even after they are gone, why are you still allowing that ghost to suck that passion out of you? So many people cursed with a life they do not want. Sometime you have to be heavy handed to remove that ghost that is cursing you.

4/11/2013 7:57:06 PM
Stare into someone's eyes. And see what they are under the mask they created. See what shell they created for them self. Rip it off and they become a raw nerve. What you say and do will sink in and become a part of them. Choose your actions well, choose your words well.

4/11/2013 5:25:32 PM
It silly to base a relationship based on body parts, Yet you have many people trying to attract attention