New to the lifestyle, and trying still trying to learn the ropes (literally and figuratively). I'm not really sure what I am looking for right now, but I do know that I would like to try being in a 24/7 relationship with a mistress above me and a submissive of any gender underneath me. I'm still trying to learn what my interests are, but I am willing to try anything once or twice. If you are someone looking for a skinny well built frat boy, you need to look elsewhere. I am a bigger gentleman, but, due to a semi-consistent regiment of fencing and other sword play, I'm not entirely out of shape. I'm a renny and a nerd and I'm proud of both.