about me...i have this need to be owned and used.  i want someone that is real (that may seem obvious, but you'd be suprised).  who knows what he wants and how to extract those wants from me.  i have to admit i am probably more of a masochist than anything.  i love the way it feels when i am bound and helpless.  i love sex.  if i could do it everyday. i would.  as it is, i masturbate 3 or 4 times a day.  i have a full life.  i work and have a couple of kids, so 24/7 is not something that will be an option.  i keep this aspect of my life seperate from my family, and i would ask that you respect that.  as far as limits are concerned, the biggest ones are animals, cutting (any type of permanent scarring for that matter), anyone under the age of 18 (really 25), and anything to do with scat.    let me also add that i am not looking for a long distance or cyber relationship.  i want to be touched by someone else, i touch myself enough.