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Thattoychick
| Pan Female, 27, Winston-Salem, North Carolina
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~*~ Happily COLLARED by RandomOne1 - I'm not available or interested in any play, sub, Domme, or otherwise. Thank you for your interest, though! ~*~
I am Fox, and I don't put up with nonsense. Be real, be chill, and be literate, or be gone.
Bear in mind:
1.) I don't play with partners past 31. Just not my thing. Don't care how "good" you are or what you can "show me".
2.) If you routinely replace "you" with "u", we likely won't click. Ditto for unchecked drinkers and drug users of any variety.
3.) If you can't manage more than a sentence or two in initial contact, and begin it with "on your knees, slut" or something similar, don't bother. Excuse me? I'm a person first, a submissive second. Bugger off and learn some manners..
I'm a newly-transplanted Jersey girl (sans accent, thank you) that's still getting adjusted to the Palmetto state. I love wit and intelligence above all things, followed closely by living life in a constant state of wicked, teasing arousal. I like to play, pure and simple, and I'm linguistically talented - take that as you will.
I'm just as turned on by the smell of old books as the smell of leather, and I have a spirit in me you'll never see the like of, before or after. Older than my years, with a heart that still delights in the beauty of everyday, I am a very willing student of the erotic arts, and learn more each day.
I'm ideally looking for a switch my own age, in the local area, to play with. Intense eyes, long hair, pagan sensibilities, penchants for PDA, and a desire to lounge naked with a cup of tea after sex...move to the front of the line.
Likes:
Fetishy - Hair brushed/tugged/pet/pulled, Massages, Sensation Play, Thuddy Floggers, Bondage, An Eloquent Dom, Glasses, Long Hair, Vocal Non-Verbal Appreciation During Sexytime.
Dislikes (As in I DON'T LIKE THESE):
Fetishy - HUMILIATION (no, no, and no), FEET, Watersports, Scat, Overbearing Doms, Cross Dressing/Dressers, Being Called Derogatory Names, The C Word, Subs that fling themselves at my feet and expect me to Domme them.
Likes:
Non-Fetishy - Singing, Good dental/body hygiene, Gardening, Cooking, WoW, Roleplay (when it isn't campy and overdone), Writing (!!!), The thrill of the chase, People playing with my hair (with permission, of course), Long hair (huge plus if it's well kept.), Massages, giving and receiving, Hugs, Laying about in bed doing crossword puzzles with a special someone, Tying said special someone to the bed post or pre-crosswording. Jazz, Coffeehouse atmospheres, A full moon, An autumn night, When someone does something surprising and sexy that makes your naughty bits go...hey...well, this is a little bit of awesome, Vampires and Werewolves before that idiot mormon woman ruined them all with her stupid glittery undead.
Dislikes:
Non-fetishy - Drugs (Hard limit. This includes pot.), Seafood (can't have any!), Racism, People who can't spell or write with moderate fluidity, People who "don't read" (Hard limit.), People who don't respect boundaries or try to weasel in despite a firm no. (Not only is this a hard limit, I am *not* afraid to send a more painful message if words aren't working. I've never had to, and I'd like to keep it that way)
There's other stuff too. I'm a quirky, easygoing pagan who has a strong sense of duty to hearth, home, and feeding anyone that passes through my kitchen. I love to laugh, explore nature, and absolutely revel in every day of my life if I can remember to let the little stuff go. Want to know more? Ask :)
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8/27/2010 5:19:47 PM: Falling in love is easy. Everyone, at heart, is lonely somewhere,
looking for a body to fill the void. Lust, however, is a volume to
love's pamphlet, a vast and varied, nearly archaic set of steps and
rules to discovery, and lastly, to satisfaction. You can discuss over
coffee a potential mate's political leanings, their goals for the
future, and to a certain extent, what is in their heart. You cannot know
if the taste of their mouth is pleasant or not, if they cry out or make
quiet whimpers when they come, if they will cherish the body before
them or merely gloss over it on a quest for a selfish orgasm. There is,
after all, nothing so heartbreaking as a partner who will not return a
lavish and languid oral delight, subsisting instead on a cursory and
mechanical act to fulfill their side of the lovemaking, or worse,
relaxing after their own joys and making stammering excuses that they
"don't do that sort of thing" when you expect reciprocation. No one
should ever have to ask for reciprocation, at worst, they should merely
worry about how to decline it if they aren't in the mood.
Sex is a balance, after all: we steal energies from one another with a
delightful little spark each time they are passed. We pass the energies
back and forth until each is with its rightful owner once more -
holding onto both (or several, depending on your pastimes) at once, with
no regard for your partner's need to have it back, is a travesty. When
we give our energy to another to hold for awhile, we are entrusting them
with something greater than our heart, we are giving them a piece of
our very soul to admire and caress. Much like the phenomena of the
mundane becoming intensely interesting when viewed at slow speed, the
longer the act of play and lovemaking, the more time we have to watch
these energies, to appreciate the sacrifice and the gain, and the
humbling presence of something greater than ourselves, something that is
in reality ourselves. Once more, as we could not possibly live a full
life watching everything around us in slow motion, it is unrealistic to
consider making love for hours each time - but the long form is
something to be cherished and deified, bowed to frequently between more
hurried bouts.
8/27/2010 5:18:28 PM: Snap. Snap. Snap. The cockring I wear around my wrist was a desperate
tether between my worlds - something benign enough to pass for a simple
accessory, but with a trio of snaps that might attract the attention of
someone who knew what it was. Perhaps they'd follow me, sit down too
close to me in Starbucks, look at me until I looked their way, and lay
my intentions bare with their eyes.
This band of black leather marks me and steadies me as much as an
even-handed Master might; a tether to remind me of who I am, to not lose
myself to a vanilla world again, which made me sacrifice everything
that made my heart skip beats in favor of what was "easier". I am kink, I
am dark and different, I feel the core of me stir at the thought of a
collar being fastened around my neck, and this was no passing fancy.
They told me, when he left, to "find myself" - take classes, join a
bowling league, travel. How can I tell them that finding myself involves
nothing more than a twisted smile from someone who is about to do dark
things to me? That being owned, and slipping the cuffs off to own right
back, is where my heart finds peace? I live for the erotic - it blooms
my world into color where the vanilla is mere shades of grey. I want to
play, to twist and turn and uncover and cover all the subtle nuances of
someone else - to twine around each other like vines climbing under and
over one another.
I want to discuss poetry with an idle cock in my hand, spent from our
latest bout. I want to hear delightfully wicked whispers about what
he'd like to do with me in my ear, wholly spontaneous and unrelated to
our surroundings and conversation, while we're standing in line to pay
for a magazine. I want to live my life like the shimmering inconstant
surface of a soap bubble is the only barrier between living and breaking
into sex at any given moment.
I'm looking, this bracelet whispers. I haven't given up on finding you yet.
8/27/2010 5:17:36 PM: What I'd be, if I weren't me
Writing, beauty, and buttered raisin bread toast and hot milk tea in
the wee hours of an icy cold winter morning. The smell of old books and
the air right before a thunderstorm, the look of freshly brewed tea and
autumn leaves. Harmonious singing as proof of some higher power,
somewhere, the ability to learn new things each day. The feel of a silk
sash through my fingers, the way the light plays on the water of a lake,
and being around people who can live for the moment.
Lavender buds dried in a muslin pouch, a twist of leather, a cool
drink of water, the twist of a sheet around an ankle when you fall into
bed. Crows rising to flight over a harvest-ready field, chases in the
moonlight, and all the words a look can convey.
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