How does a person write a profile without such heavy reliance on the word "I"?
I'm not some wild creature looking to be tamed. I'm not looking to fight you into submission. I know what makes me happy and I think that can please others simultaneously. I enjoy filling the void in people's lives.
Ethical fun is the name of the game. My BDSM tastes are varied, and I'm very open about it, but don't want to bore you with details here. If you'd like to talk about them, we can have a very detailed discussion. I tend to prefer monogamy or closed "fluid family" relationships. I'm fastidious about keeping myself clean in that respect. Single, unmarried, drug and disease free. Social drinker. Non smoker, but I don't mind smokers. Largely here to participate on the forum.
To D-Types: I basically ignore language of absolute power. "I will own you completely, you will make no choices, you will not think or speak unless ordered." I recognize TPE exists but as the saying goes "If you have to remind them you're a lady, you're not."
To S-Types: I practice a blend of SSC and RACK, I insist on having a safeword regardless of who tops. It would be a mistake to confuse an awareness of safety and reality with a lack of passion. I am patient and understanding, both during play time and outside of it. There is a difference between having a little feisty fun and not wanting to be submissive. If you don't want to submit... Don't.
I believe I'm generous and enjoy pulling my weight in a relationship, but I'm not looking to have my wallet brutally sodomized by an 18 year old girl who is fresh off the teat of daddy's credit card. It's not a selling feature that I'd have to carry someone financially. I want a sustainable relationship that can allow my professional career to continue.
D/D free is a must.
Hard Limits:
Blackmail
The words "u" and "ur".
Some things you should know:
I'm claustrophobic and am very resistant to being on either side of breath play, anything underwater, and caging. Vanilla pictures happily available by request.
