Collarspace

I am a caring, emotional, friendly, open, patient and honest heterosexual male Daddy. Some might say Daddy Dom, but I prefer fetishist for I have a huge babygirk fetish along with my craving of control and power exchange. My pleasure is derived when I am able to expand the horizons of a woman's sensuality through my control. This can be done in countless ways. I especially enjoy administering bare handed OTK spankings, light bondage, whips, crops, floggers, cat-o-nine tails and canes during playtime. With the right female I get pleasure sexualizing our experience. I enjoy control in a scene and often utilize rough, abrupt and unpredictable play, but as a gentle Daddy, I covet cool down time and aftercare.

I am a Daddy who loves to cuddle as much as spank. I have a heart of gold as well as a fun sadistic streak. I have blue eyes, a shaved head and a very sarcastic sense of humor. I was a late bloomer not only to BDSM, but to sex itself as I toiled in the confines of organized religion for the first 10 years of my adult life.

I am a good listener and demand any woman who submits to me to be expressive of her needs. I am extremely creative and have many roles in need of filling and thus the opportunities to join in the fun are boundless. Providing pain for a woman's sensual enjoyment is an intense rush for me. Consequently, I also enjoy giving soft caresses, scalp massage and erotic back tickling in cuddle time and aftercare. In scene, I relish the duty of director and am very creative in that role, thus women submitting to me have a lot of sexual things choreographed. Intellectually I am progressive and therefore find the paradox of male domination over a woman an exciting challenge. Any woman submitting to me is sacred and worthy of the same respect I am receiving (it just displays itself in a different way). As stated earlier, I relate most with the Daddy or protector persona and find I am most in my element when submitted to and given control.