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BareHandSpanks
Hetero Male, 57, California 
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BareHandSpanks

If you are a student or professional, or journalist/writer looking to write a book, paper or study of any kind, let me know when you contact me or please do not contact me. No part of my profile, none of my communications, photos or text may be used without my expressed written consent. No photos on my page may be copied, transferred, duplicated in any medium without my expressed written consent and are copyright protected.

 

Myers-Briggs indicates I am an ENFP for what that's worth. I only took the free test this time, but that is similar to an earlier result I took that was an actual test conducted for a job sometime ago.

 

 I am NOT looking to have a submissive at this time. I like to meet people and socialize. If you are looking for a Dominant for your personal pleasure, to have and to hold as your own, I am not he.

I will however always look for new friends and perhaps mentor someone under the right circumstances. I will also offer my protection to special selected individuals from time to time.


That said, I am an artsy guy. I am all about creating lovely images that people can enjoy. I am also a story-teller. My mediums of choice are photography and video.


I am very much a heterosexual Dominant. I do not sub, switch or do anything of that sort. If you are a Domme looking to convert someone, I am not he.

Also, I am not gay or bisexual. I appreciate anyone thinking I am attractive and am always flattered and thankful, and even willing to be friendly. However, if you have or had a penis, we can only be friends, no 'benefits'.

If you are an artsy person, I am particularly interested in speaking with you. I like fellowship with other artists, regardless of the medium (hope that statement does not come back to haunt me).

I am not looking for anything. The mere act of looking for something can blind you to the something that might be just what you want/need/desire. Looking usually has some preconceived notion attached to it so that you completely miss what is there in front of you because it does not fit your idea of what it is you are looking for.

I will NOT dominate you online. I will not expect you to use any type of protocol except for simple respect. I do not know you nor you me, and as such, I do not expect you to submit to me. More to the point, I am not sure I WANT you to submit to me.

Just because you have a vagina does not make you worthy of my attention. Just because you are considered 'attractive' does not mean I will be attracted.

I want mind, body and soul connections with real people. That does not mean we are going to be intimate or play, but it can open the door to the possibility.

I am not here to 'play'. I can play in real-time and prefer meeting people I can 'meat' when I want to. That does not mean I will 'meat' them, it just means if I am going to get aroused, I can choose to act or not.

Anyway, let's keep our focus on the mind for now. All of the extra curricular activities involving the touching of the flesh can be discussed if and when we should meet face to face and there is some kind of mutual attraction.

I am looking for people who will engage my mind and possibly serve as muses for my creative soul. I am looking for people who will bring more of that sense of wonder and awe about being alive. If this sounds like you, please, by all means write.

Know this- I am not here for Booty Calls or hookups. I can get those right here in the Southern California area. I don't cyber, I do not beg, I do not do any of those 'little dick' activities so many women here complain about. If I have written you it was because I found something in your photos and profile that caught my attention. I travel sometimes and like knowing where 'the spot' is or where I can hang out with some other kinksters, NO STRINGS ATTACHED. If I invite you to the Lair it is with the understanding you just want to hang out and there are NO STRINGS ATTACHED from me to you or you to me. I have no expectations of anyone I meet on this site. I do like to flirt because the energy exchange is nice. I like making people feel nice about themselves because that lift in their energy makes me feel nice.

So Ladies, don't get it twisted, I am not after you for anything but conversation. Beyond that is a whole other proposition...

Also, just because I am 'nice' do NOT mistake that for weakness or for a lack of willingness or ability to be that dark dirty bastard who would make you afraid of going into darkened rooms, or even a well lit room for that matter.

I pick and choose the time for the level of intensity and alternative behavior as it suits ME. I am in this world to fulfill my fantasies, wishes and desires. If your desires and wants happen to intersect or, more importantly, happen to be something I want to share and explore we can discuss that and see where it goes.

If you have not figured it out, communication is most important to me. I prefer knowing who I am dealing with. To start any kind of relationship without ground rules, wants, needs and desires being addressed is simply undesirable to me.

I am also looking for ladies with a desire for some bondage and e-stim play to be photographed for some fine art images. Are you one of them?

To reiterate:
***WARNING:
Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current
and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my
privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.


More later...

7/19/2012 12:50:04 AM: I do not demand anything from anyone unless and until we have agreed upon a relationship of some kind. I will admit to having a 'standard' or watermark they must reach before I will even begin getting involved. The thing is, I do not demand or require you to reach that level. You either are or are not at that level in your lie experience. I have no contempt or disrespect for anyone simply because they do not meet my criteria or expectations. The beauty of people is that they can change and grow, sometimes in a very short period of time, under the right circumstances. So to disrespect someone for not meeting my standards is really self-limiting. No one is here to please me unless and until we decide it is so, and thankfully, I am in full control of my part in this decision making process. I leave others to their own devices...

6/10/2012 1:06:30 AM: I love it when a woman whom I have never met tells me, with certainty, that she is more than enough woman and the only one I shall ever need; especially when she is 23 or even 30 years old... I understand they might want to be the only woman I need, but that will have to be determined by the process of getting to know them. Contrary to what most of you women would like to believe, it is not all about the 'vagina'. Because you have been able to bring most men to their knees with your 'sexual prowess' using your 'taco',  does not mean that all men, more specifically, this man, will bow down at your 'alter' and be content (and goodness knows I love me some taco salad!). I need more than that one dimensional aspect of your Beingness to satiate my appetites.That is why some people need several people to fulfill their desires (had you not guessed that?) Mind, soul and body are required, with emphasis on ALL three. The mind is the playground of choice, because with the right attributes, a beautiful mind helps form a beautiful soul and makes the body a beautiful temple. All wise men know where the mind goes, the ass will follow. Pretty faces age, bodies wither, youth fades, but a beautiful mind can inspire a beauty that transcends time by the countenance it can bestow upon one's Beingness and the presence of the individual. Ever wonder why people like to trade in for newer models? The older ones lose their allure, especially when looks was all there was to them in the first place. There has to be a great mind to support that bangin' body. So people, this includes men as well as women, you really need to work on those skills, not readily apparent to the untrained eye, to insure that, indeed, you are 'enough' to satisfy all the real desires that need fulfilling... Otherwise, you will be replaced, or not enough to be 'the only one'. Then again, sometimes, people just like a little variety now and then...

6/9/2012 9:26:39 AM: Just read the profile of 'uninhibitedwench' that proves an earlier point I was expressing, anyone wanting attention on any website, simply create a profile saying you are a woman, without showing anything much about yourself and the boys' will flock to you profile.. I love a good photo and clever messages as much as anyone, and reading her mocking tone clearly shows her contempt for all those 'little dick' minded guys who are SO desperate to get her attention, correct or express just how much they are 'the one' who is 'right' for her, without so much as knowing if the profile is created by a woman of any sort. One need not wonder why there are so many women who are frustrated and who prefer the company of other women over these little boys who have to respond to a a profile or why there is a proliferation of fake profiles online... Desperation is such a weakness and sad state to live in. Women can see the desperate from blocks away, or at a glance, sitting in the bar, driving their car or anyplace these guys go to attempt to 'get some'... Online, they post some kind of photo and sit back and watch the puppies try to wrestle and get a teet... Silly boys... Nothing is more satisfying than having real meetings with people you can look in the eyes and see where the energy flows.

6/8/2012 6:54:57 PM: 'Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results...' -Albert Einstein    Writing people here on CM is much like that quote. I prefer meeting people in real life. It is quick and to the point. No bullshit, one knows what's up rather quickly... at least I do...   Writing someone, I take the risk that someone has the same level of competency and understanding (or better) of the English language as I, but that is not an assumption I dare make, so I keep initial emails short.   If someone REALLY wants a lot of attention, all they need do is post a female photo of any reasonable attractive body part and sit back and watch the little dick guys try to get a piece...   Some females do not even post any words or info at all and are inundated with emails...   No, I am not jealous, on the contrary, I understand that for most guys on here pussy is stronger than dick (cock) all day long. These 'submissives' understand that too...   The Domina's are banking on it (some literally), not to slam Domina's. They are doing what is only right for them and those who choose to serve them. So, the world is good and all is as it should be...   I will see you at the Lair sometime, maybe...  

5/31/2012 4:05:28 PM: I am only interested in REAL TIME meetings. I will not waste valuable time chatting for weeks or months trying to determine and/or establish trust behind the veil of the internet. If you live in the Southern California area, I usually suggest meeting during the daylight hours at some public place, like a Starbucks, Denny's, etc. Better still, come on down to the Lair de Sade on a Saturday Evening. If we arrange to meet, you will not have to worry about anyone 'bothering you', as the Lair is a Safe, Sane and Consensual private members only club. Kane, the owner, takes personal security of patrons very seriously, and we members will not allow anyone to ruin or upset the wonderful energy that has been established at the Lair for more than 15 years.   If I invite you to the Lair, you will need to let me know when you plan to visit, so I can make sure I am actually there. If I am not there, I can still arrange for your name to be on the guest list so that you will be able to enter.   So enjoy yourselves. I hope you can appreciate my desire to keep things as real and safe as I can possibly arrange to...    

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