UPDATED 6/17/24
After a long break from this site and others, here I am again.

Something has been missing in my life for years. Thankfully, my professional life has treated me well, but over the years, I have known that I need to take my life to another level. One I am unable to get to, without the firm, guiding, strong hand of a dominant woman in my life. A woman to please on all ends, to cater to, to live for, to service, to pamper...one who makes me crumble when the phone rings, one that makes my heart race from an email...one that... ummmmmmmm completes me!

I have searched on a few websites and have chatted with many, but all I keep finding are fakes, wanna bes game players and well, even men posing as women! Insane!

So I take long breaks at times after the frustration level reaches a peak...I resort to vanilla dating

Being a very private person, I am left with my online search and well, one day I shall find my one elusive gem of a domme, so here I am yet again, after a break seeking to find here.

I am a normal, sane, intelligent, professional male who lives in NYC. I have a great sense of humor, can carry an intelligent conversation, have a sense of adventure and burning desire to please a woman on all levels. I love travel, love food (all kinds) enjoy fine dining and also finding the little hole in the wall casual places with awesome food. enjoy sports, both playing and watching...theater, movies, music...all things i enjoy as well.

look forward to hearing back from you.




Where oh where is the domme of my dreams?If you seek a normal, sane, intelligent, professionally motivated, male with a sense of humor, adventure and one thats still learning to be a good sub...then please do email me!I have a lot to learn and just waiting for the right teacher...