READ BEFORE CONTACTING ME:
1. Contact me in a RESPECTFUL way. That doesn't mean you need to be bowing while we speak, it means approaching me like you have some home training.
2. Don't contact me for sexual conversations. I realize that sexuality is a component of this lifestyle but I'm not seeking a fuck buddy. I'm seeking someone who has potential to be my slave, sub and/or play partner. If there is a sexual connection between us, in time that can be explored by it's not about sex for me.
3. For MEN: Although I'm not opposed to having a man as a slave/sub and/or play partner understand there will ABSOLUTELY be NO sexual contact between us. There are plenty of other female Dominants who would be more than happy to have a multi-level relationship with a man in service to them, however I'm not.
4. Don't ask me for a picture when I have barely gotten a chance to know who you are or you know who I am. I understand that there are a lot of people who play games and if I feel we click I have no problem verifying my identity. Also, if you are in the local community and/or go to local and/or national events, you can see me in person. That isn't to say we can't meet in a public place if you don't but if your main concern is focused on what I look like, you're probably a little bit shallow for me.
5. I'm not on this site very often at all. Therefore, when I do come on I tend to get lots of messages. Be respect of the fact that I may not be able to get right back to you if you message me. Also, I'm usually doing a multitude of things when I'm online. Patience is a virtue that I definitely look for in potential servant. DO NOT send me chat requests if we haven't even had a conversation. Have respect for me and my time and I will do my best to reciprocate that.
6. If you do contact me have something more to say than how much you want to grovel at my feet. I'm not new to this and I'm not impressed by that. Use your mind and at least act like you have some decorum. Think of a first contact with me like an interview and put your best foot forward as well as giving me a reason to want to know you more.
About Me:
I'm an African-American Sadistic Female Dyke Dom (meaning I'm not a Ma'am/Mistress, I'm a Sir/Syr). I am open to subs and slaves who are serious about the lifestyle. I have been in the lifestyle for about 15 years now. I don't post public pictures of me online however if after talking to someone awhile if there is an interest on both sides I have no problem swapping pictures, talking on the phone and/or eventually meeting in a public setting for verification.
In general physically, I'm a BBW who is 6 feet. I'm not a girly girl at all. In fact, I only wear men's clothing. I would prefer someone to live within 3 hours of me, yet I am open to those farther away if there is a chance they can relocate at some point.
For potential subs/slaves:
1. This lifestyle is just that for me, my lfestyle. Its not something I do on the weekends or just in the bedroom so I seek a serious minded sub/slave that has the same mindset. I am seeking someone to serve Me in a manner with mutual respect, total power exchange (in time), pleasure and an overall desire to want to be Mine. Mind you M/s isn't the same as BDSM. I do enjoy playing, however I find its a lot harder to find a sub/slave than it is to find a play partner. So be able to hold a decent conversation and be aware enough about yourself enough to know what you are or aren't ready/looking for. While I understand we have all had to start somewhere I desire someone who knows what they want or at the very least has clear ideas of what they want. In time I would like the relationship to be a 24/7 total power exchange relationship.
2. I am open to all genders, races and sizes for service and play. However keep in mind that I do not play sexually with men (meaning I'm not playing with your dick). If however you take pleasure in serving in a non-sexual (yet sensual) way, let's talk.
3. I am connected to the Leather community as well as its values, morals, honesty and intregity. I don't feel you need to be Leather, however these are some of the traits I seek in someone. Also I do go out in the community to lifestyle events. If you seek to serve me as a 24/7 sub/slave, you would be expected to attend some if not all of them with me (within reason).
4. Yes, I am a Sadist and I enjoy the infliction of pain. That doesn't mean you have to enjoy pain to serve me however as there are many ways to serve. It does mean that if you do enjoy pain you get a gold star next to your name.
5. I'm not seeking online relationships. I seek those who are willing to serve Me in real-time settings. Therefore, I would expect to actually meet you in person in a reasonable amount of time (according to distance and/or basic obligations). At the least, I expect to talk on the phone after exchanging emails if there is a mutual interest. If you are interested in Me, training will be required! I do not give out collars to just anyone and I don't give them out quickly. Therefore if you are seeking someone just to say you're collared...stop reading now.
6. I don't deal with those who are married and/or partnered unless their significant other(s) are fully aware and I will require proof of that.
7. Again: I am a BBW Dyke Dom (not a Domme)! I'm not going to play into any FemDomme fantasies you have so if that's what you seek, exit stage left.
8. I am also open to a NSA non-sexual strictly play partner(s) so if that is your interest, lets talk.
I do require someone with an open mind. Ignorance is a waste of a good brain and space. Good communication skills are a must. Feel free to look over My "kink" wall and if you feel they meet what you seek and want to talk send a RESPECTFUL email detailing your desires and experience level.
With Honor and Devotion,
DaddiPanther
Always Present