Here's a little about me: I  have a short well kept beard and an average physique. Life wise, I am a mechanical engineer based in the phoenix metro area who is obsessed with learning. I just completed a Masters degree (MSME) and am eagerly looking for my next pursuit; while working of course. Or I may follow the long-term plan I have and go to law-school and become a patent attorney, but we’ll see what happens (I know - seems like a complete 180).  spend a decent amount of time surrounding myself in engineering hobbies - 3D modeling, designing houses, or programming for example. Some of my other hobbies include: guitar (acoustic steel string), reading, card games (rummy is my personal favorite), cooking, camping, driving, and I absolutely love to watch movies/tv-shows! I would share a favorite, but I am quite easily placated and will watch nearly anything… Almost to a fault. I also recently picked up Pickleball with a good group of friends.

Kink wise… I am dominant with some switch tendencies, although I am by no means submissive. I have actual in-person bdsm experience (specifically with brats), and generally classify myself as a daddy-dom or caretaker type role though brat taming is usually involved. Some of my favorite kinks include: ass-play, impact play, bondage, orgasm control, and nipple play. Obviously not an exhaustive list, and I’m very open to exploring kinks if there’s stuff that interests you.  Overall, I am decently sadistic at times; but just as much as a sub needs after-care, I equally NEED to give it. In my non-kink life I am an extremely caring and gentle person, and will bend over backwards to help people. 

I am also only interested in people I can connect with emotionally and am looking for long-term (not interested in short-term either, I need the connection). As such, I want to avoid waisting either of our time if we’re not going to be compatible. Some of the more divisive things about me include: I am monogamous, liberal, vaccinated, agnostic atheist, and I do not want children at any point in life. No worries if any of those are dealbreakers, I completely understand.

Anyways, that was a lot. If you’re near me and think we might be a good fit, please reach out. I try to check this regularly.