4/10/2024 7:52:55 AM: This dynamic with Serenity is as much about her personal growth as well as her service and submission. If not more so. After her abusive past I don't see the need to be overly strict with her.  her first rule is about body image and how she is to love herself and she's not allowed to have negative body image. That there are punishments for verbal negative self expressions. Her punishments are usually sentences or time out.  Her second rule relates to her agoraphobia and how she needs to go out once a day at least. If she didn't have the dogs to take out or this rule she would stay inside all day and hide.  Rules about vitamins and eating healthy. Maintaining water intake etc Each dynamic I as unique as the individual but around here is more about caring for eachother and creating a healthy loving environment for people to succeed and accomplish life without fear of judgements or being stigmatized for being themselves.  We look for a good fit for our home above a strict adherence to any dynamic. Don't worry if you truly need a strict dynamic that can be arranged. It's all about the individuals needs,around here as well as my own No amount of contractual agreement is going to make you accept your position in our home. We prefer to think our true loving and  compassionate cqring environment with two people who truly love you would be better than serving two assholes. Serenity is total SUB. She will ask you to help her and never be demanding or pushy. In fact at first she will be rather shy. 

4/5/2024 12:35:47 PM: Someone earlier made mention that my lady and I obviously know what we want In a relationship of polyamory. I don't think our search is about wants. If it were a simple matter of wants there are certainly easier ways of attaining WANTS than opening up our home and lives to another human being. We found in eachother the safety, security, acceptance,  comfort, love, joy, trust, and family we always needed. Serenity grew up in foster care and I've been homeless since I was 14. So this represents a lot to us to even try to bring anyone into something we've taken our whole lives to attain. Myself longer than she. This is way more than wants for us. We only hope whomever comes understands

4/5/2024 10:39:24 AM: We all have issues that make us the way we are, or at least I believe the real ones do. There are certainly things in my past that make me feel the need to have control in my environment.  I never understood this about myself until I met Mary. The one person I have ever submitted to. The only person I've given myself that completely to. I didn't assume the role of Dominant. I didn't read a book or watch a movie and say WOW that's neat. I have lived this lifestyle my entire adult life and then some. I may not be the Dominant for you that's what vetting is for. It's OK. I don't believe in coming into this scenario with pre conceived notions of what to expect. Expectations are the quickest ways to disappointment.  I allow people to present themselves and allow our dynamic to unfold naturally. Each dynamic being as unique as the individual.  There isn't any set rule for this. Some people need that rigid structure. Personally when I served Mary and she was a controlling freak I hated it at times. I don't want this for my life, nor my home. If you really want to be adored for being a complete nasty nasty girl that I can punish possibly just because I feel like it that day. I promise you will be adored and loved fully for it. I have that alot with Serenity already. She's needing someone as well for friendship and company. We moved into our home to a city we don't know anyone. I work, she doesn't. So this is for her as well. Someone there to help around the house and spend time with a truly wonderful young lady. You won't have to work hard nor be expected to pay our bills nor do much except be real. Once you get past the vetting point our lives, our love, and our home  will be yours. This will take time. Please just be open to genuine dialog. It's life we ask for. 

4/5/2024 3:47:44 AM: I can feel you. Smell you, sense your presence. Youre close in mind and heart but not here, not yet. I can sense your excitement and smell your fear. You think you're ready for me for this life, but you hesitate. I can only offer what you say you want. Be careful what you wish for you just might get it.

4/4/2024 10:12:50 AM: I believe there will eventually be a woman that comes and completes our household. Maybe its just a hope. Someone who understands this is life and not a game. Who tries to understand that Serenity doesn't like someone who is just a pliant doormat but would like to see some personality in the interaction with her. Be her friend. Be real with her I love owning a person completely mind body and spirit. While I have an element of that with my lady, her PTSD from past trauma prevents her from going to the level I need at times. It's a source of frustration.  I will add to my household rather than break my promise to my lady. Someone who is willing to be the friend, confidant, helpful assistant,  and sister my lady needs as well as the nasty woman in my life I crave, who doesn't say no,I need that serves me well . This is about meeting the needs of all concerned to the best of our ability.  So let us know what you need from us s well. Communication is key to any successful relationship.  Above all else this is another form of relationship. With long term commitment goals.  My lady is disabled for trauma not physically.  She not an invalid. Most of a person's time will be spent with Serenity one on one around the house helping her with various projects cleaning etc. She does a great job but we have a big old house and it's always being repaired. I work alot but make sure I take three days off each week to spend time. We are not rich. But we are comfortable this isn't about money.  We have animals. Serenity and I adopt strays and I have a male pit bull and a female German shepphard.  We need help with these guys for sure. There a handful to say the least. We love animals.  We will eventually have children. If you so or want to that's fine as well. It's a big house. Right now a three one with enough room upstairs in the attic for two full bedrooms and a bathroom. A full basement that can become and apartment of its own. This will take time and money. We shoot for 10 years. We will raise our kids in this dynamic and you will be an active part of their lives.  We've both been through alot in life and don't judge people except to see if they fit into our lifestyle. We don't kink shame. Feel free to be yourself with us please.  It's life we seek. Just be real. We are.