Ok ...  here  goes, Been  in the  lifestyle  for  around  10 years on and off.   had some  successes and  failures with  finding a partner in crime..

I have my own place, and a steady job, I do work overtime as a life necessity as my  job does not  pay very well.

I enjoy  cooking , and  other  things, BUT and this  is a BIG BUT..  I AM  no  domestic goddess.. so NEVER expect  the  house to  be pristine ..

I am  a massive  film fan, so if you  like the  films , wonderful... (ok I'm a tiny film  geek....)

Kink  wise, well  lets see... I know  what my  strengths  and weak areas are when it comes  to play.. 

I'm not a sadist .. but I do enjoy giving  someone a flogging .. never   drawn blood during a scene , and never  had someone  safe word (NEVER know  if  that's a good or bad thing  to be  honest)

I can cane  ,twilt ,  flog, do wax play, limited  rope  work .. 

I DON'T drive   so  only really interested in people  who  live with  2hrs traveling distance   of  CARDIFF.. FOR THOSE  WHOSE GEOGRAPHY IS BAD.. CARDIFF IS IN THE UNITED  KINGDOM, So  no americans  please