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Hi there. I am SubBoyErik. I am seeking a long-term-potential relationship with a dominant woman in the Chicago area.

A bit about me I went to college in Indiana and moved to Chicago for a career opportunity. I am very passionate about my job, but I work in an industry that is sadly still a Good old boys club. I am working on fixing that though. I like to travel, and have already been to quite a few countries. I value people based on their intellect and their ability to have an impact on and improve their surroundings.

On the kinky front There are some kinks I am into that are not listed on the list to the side of my profile. If you have questions, please ask and I will answer with respect. I have been lucky enough to have one true FLR before, in a Lady-Boy dynamic. I have found from that experience that I am not capable of being in service mode all the time. Submission is a critical part of my life, but at this point I need someone who is a peer and partner most of the time, and a dom some of the time. I need someone I can trust, who I have some stuff in common with beyond the bedroom.

Because I like to keep a firm grasp on reality, my priorities in a relationship are always going to be my needs first, then your needs, your wants, your desires, your fantasies, then, last and least, my wantsdesires. To be clear, my needs are my emotional and physical safety, my need for things like foodwatershelter, and my need to go to work and function effectively there. That does entail a level of physical intimacy and play at regular intervals.

Please do not ask for a picture of my face on this site, I just dont trust it. I will happily verify via a video chat program should you wish to meet in person. I am not interested in one time things, or a pay-to-play situation.