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StrongDomForYou
Hetero Male, 38, Glendale, Arizona 
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StrongDomForYou

38 y/o Sensory Pain Dom who's into most everything. When it comes to kinkiness, I'm there... (Email me to find out more). I looking for someone who's kinky like me. I'm also looking for someone who loves to be touched, caressed, kissed all over, flogged and spanked. (For pleasure, naturally).

While I'm a Loving, Caring, Respectful Dom, I'm also be a PAIN Dom too. There's a huge difference between flogging someone and leaving her for the night, and flogging someone and then massaging her down with massage oils, and holding her all night. It's this distinction, a.k.a. known as Before-Care, and After-Care, that makes Me a STRONG Dom.

Also, I've found that I'm a sensual Dom. This means that I like to explore heavily in sensory deprivation. Restricting someone's movement, sight, voice, and hearing...Then, caressing her, (with My fingers, floggers, toys, chains, etc.) WOW!

At this point, I don't necessarily need sex, although, I'd never turn it down, mind you... *Smiles*

I've found purpose and pleasure  leading women into the "sub-space" they need to be in.

Allow Me to lead you to where you want to go, to complete surrender. Allow Me to love you by leading you there.

As I 'm sure you can tell, I'm only looking for submissive/slave women, (sorry guys..), and I'm looking for women that I can see often, Phoenix area (and perhaps Tucson).

If you're kinky, submissive, and in need of having that sub-space high, with flogging, love, affection, spanking, bondage and passion, then send me that message!

(Also, I'm on , so you might find me there (under the same handle), you never know...) *smiles*

12/10/2012 11:06:14 PM: Wow! So I just had the most emotional weekend I've had in like four years.So, I meet this really hott subbie on ALT. She has 'rommate' who's a 'Dom' but who's not 'her Dom' anymore...I completely trust her on this and arrange a meeting...We needless to say hit it off and she fell into My arms (and alright My heart)... She tells of how she's looking for a Dom who understands a very simple equation:Respect + Trust = Love.I can't argue with this, as I couldn't have put it better Myself.Now, when I get home, I get this email:'I told my roommate about our date.  His response was that I am allowed to play with you, so long as permission is granted first.'So, when I asked her about this, it seems that she was under the impression that she was free to date whoever she wanted. He apparantly was under the impression it would be vanilla dating and not dating another Dom.So, I sum it up for her: 'So, you were unaware you were owned?' I then further suggest that she talk to her 'Roommate Dom' and decide what's going on.This morning, after a rough night's sleep, I get this message about 10:30 AM:'I'm not allowed to talk, email, or text with you without (my Dom's) prior permission.'I then realize that her Dom does not control Me, and I can write to her and I basically wrote 'Congratulations and Good luck in your new found relationship and Goodbye'.But, I ask you...How do you not know you're owned? I don't understand it...I personally think it looks bad on her Dom because your submissive is out and about and doesn't even know she's your submissive! Ha Ha Ha! :)If I'm lucky enough to have a subbie again, I would make *damn* sure she know's she's owned (loved) every minute of every day (if I could somehow manage it...).I mean come on now people? How hard is it to let your subbie know You own her? C'mon.. It's D/s 101 here... :) ~SDFY~

12/4/2012 6:58:30 PM: While we're on the subject of punishment...Spanking, paddling, whipping, flogging can be either a reward or a punishment. However, regardless of whether it's a reward or punishment, it allows the Master/Sir and slave/subbie to share an intensive bond...I know that after a scene like that I feel so close to My subbie/slave that all I want to do is rub her down with lotion and hold her all night as she's Mine. The problem arises when the slave/subbie feels like she's not getting the attention she needs/deserves. The subbie/slave craves/wants/needs the spankings/paddlings/whippings/floggings/canings, etc. to feel close to her Sir/Master. What would she do to allivieate the situation? Well, if she was a 'clever' subbie, she would start disobeying her Master/Sir's rules that He has layed down for her *on purpose* just to get the 'punishment' she wants/craves. In My humble opinion, this is not the way a true D/s relationship should be. Also, if her Master/Sir *allows* her to do this, He's basically validating her disobedience and giving her something that she wants/needs. Then, after a while, who is in control of the relationship? It becomes *HER* because she loses respect for Him for 'rewarding' her 'bad' behavior. Now, on the flip side, imagine a subbie/wife who completes all of her chores and cooks an outstanding dinner, and all she wants is to be carried off to bed and paddled/flogged and then fucked and curl up in her Master/Sir's arms to sleep as His property? If this was Me, here's what I would want:She would finish the dishes and the rest of her reasonable chores,  come up to where I was sitting (either watching television or playing computer games, for instance) completely naked holding her favorite flogger and/or paddle? Then, she would kneel, hold out the flogger and/or paddle for Me. I would see how she's 'begging' for a flogging/paddling. I would stop what I'm doing and tell her to go lay down (maybe up on all fours) on our bed. We would then share the most intense flogging/paddling (and fucking as she's Mine) and the fact that she wanted/needed it from Me is such a turn on. :) The slight difference between these mentalities is:* 'I'm going to disrespect Master/Sir so He'll have to punish Me. It's like I'm *FORCING' Him to have to punish Me.'vs.* 'Master, I kneel at your feet with Your flogger/paddle. Please, allow Your submissive to surrender herself to Your flogger, Your paddle, Your touch, Your love. All she craves is You, her Master/Sir, her Owner, her Lover.' I just can't help but prefer the 2nd paradigm, becuase she's giving Me the choice. I can always say no. With the first paradigm, it's like she's twisting My arm... Here's a joke to sort of illistruate My point:What does a true machosist say: 'Beat me, Whip me, Flog me, Spank me, Paddle me, and above all, Hurt me.'What would a *true* Sadist say: 'No!'. :) Think about it: A *true* Sadist would want to cause the *most* amount of *true*  pain/suffering and that would be to *deny* the machosist her wants/desires/needs. So, to answer the question of 'punishment': The answer is 'No.' (Which translates into corner time, or time where I ignore her on purpose). There! I think that about sums it all up for Me. Until next time... :)

11/30/2012 6:56:12 PM: So, while we're on thee subject of Daddy/daugter roleplay and relationships...I do enjoy Daddy/daughter roleplay and after much thought on the subject, it's the innocent love and devotion that attracts Me to this type of relationship.When Daddy's baby girl walks into the room, the room seems to be brighter and more alive.That being said, one thing I'm not looking for is fake baby girls. Just as there are poser DaddyDoms, there are wannabe daughtersubs too. I would classify those fakes as 'princesses'. Those are the brats who think they know everything, and disrespect their Daddy by deriding His actions abilities and then have the audacity to turn around and expect to be loved (via flogging or sex, etc.).I may seem bitter, and that may be true, I suppose.... Is it so wrong that I would want My baby girl to surrender herself to her Daddy and love Him 'unselfishly'? :)

11/18/2012 10:12:54 PM: I also noticed at this time My profile interests were outdated and perhaps egotistical.I've decided to trim My profile interests to BDSM activities only. (Not like I have 3 pages worth! *Smiles*)Please feel free to reread My profile entries.Thanks!  

11/18/2012 10:11:09 PM: I had a great time at the Kink Karnival! :) Can't wait to play with My new toys! :)  

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