4/14/2018 10:06:35 AM: Do not refer to me as Daddy. That stops any further interactions in messaging. I do not appreciate such behavior from people who do not know me. There are several other names and titles that you may not use for me. Those are any submissive titles. It is not your place to question the reasons for my rule of not being called Daddy, but it is my place to tell you that Daddy is one of my safe words. All interactions will stop when that word is used here. We adhere to safe words. We use safe signals when gags are in use. The following are our safe words. The reason Daddy is used as a safe word is our own and does not need discussion.Yellow - slow down, not so intense, or the need for repositioningRed - stop and check on the submissiveDaddy - see RedSafe signals are flipping the middle finger to get play stopped and gag removed to determine the issue and check on the submissive. 

4/6/2018 12:17:48 PM: We all have our wants, desires, needs, and expectations. These are the foundations for our relationships. If none of these basic relationship qualifications are met, move on. I have seen too many that think they can change a person or change themselves for a person. That is an irresponsible way to enter a relationship. Grab your popcorn and watch, this will usually end in a train wreck of epic emotional proportions. Wants and desires are just that. You desire or want something. These are not deal breakers in a relationship. They are more like goals, treats, and icing on the cake. This does not mean that you cannot have your wants and desires in a relationship. It does mean that you do not place a want and desire at the top of your criteria for finding someone. Needs and expectations are what must be aligned for a relationship to be something of value to both parties. Your needs are not to be dismissed or compromised from either party. If it is a need for you to be service oriented as a maid or valet, make sure your dominant has the same expectations. Their idea of service may be purely sexual in content. Taking a maid/butler and trying to make them sluts for your cock/strap on will end in feelings getting hurt, people becoming jaded to the D/s life, or worse. Communication is the key. Chat, talk, and explore the wants, desires, needs, and expectations of your future partner. Who knows? You may find that you are more compatible than you thought or not. You have control over who you serve or allow to serve you. This brings me to the reason for this post. Do not call us your master or miss until you have earned that right. Our rule is simple. We do not dominate anyone who has not asked/begged for it properly. We will be dominant and respectful, but we will not dominate anyone that we do not know. That means you must know us as well. As stated, you will have to ask for it in a proper manner. You will not know the proper way without knowing our wants, desires, needs, and expectations. This Public Service Announcement was brought to you by the letters F and U, generous donations from the Idiot Foundations, and support from readers like you. 

3/14/2018 12:58:25 PM: Open minded? Acceptance? Those are the biggest jokes to be made in the community. There are very few who are truly open minded. Even fewer have full acceptance for everyone in the lifestyle. Am I claiming to be either of those? I hope not. Being truly open minded means that I have to acknowledge everyone's fetishes. Acceptance means I have to accept you into the community with all that you are. In all honesty, that ain't happening. We all have limits. We have plenty of things that turn us on and just as many that turn us off. The acceptance that prevails in this household is this. We accept that we are who we are. We accept that you will be who you are. We accept that these ideals may not be compatible together. This is our way and the way of most we have met. Others will push limits. We all have hard limits for a reason. Do not push those. Some of you reading this are still thinking that they are truly open minded and accepting. Some of you are agreeing with me that we all have a hang up or three that keep us from the true enlightenment of knowing and accepting everything from godly dominants to shit covered dog fucking gutter sluts. I know they exist. That doesn't mean I want to see or hear about it. Godly dominants? Even God came down and involved Joseph in cuckoldry. That is when I get called out at a party for being closed minded. Some people out there are too far out there for me. Their fetish is to shock and awe. That is completely non-consensual play to me. When you involve me unwillingly and without negotiation, you have crossed the line. That does not make me closed minded. It does make me want to avoid the snack tray and find the front door when Steve starts rimming Jill trying to plunder his treat from her poop shoot. I am open minded enough to tell you what I do or do not wish to be involved with in my life. I am closed minded enough to be steadfast in that decision. It is out of respect that I discuss limits with people. I respect myself enough not to be associated with certain activities. It isn't that my fetishes are accepted or tolerated by some. It is that I will not put you in a position of experiencing them without consent. I expect the same from my friends, play mates, and submissives. That is as far as my open mindedness and acceptance will go. 

2/27/2018 2:29:05 PM: Someone offered us their gift of submission again. If they had read our profile they would have known the answer. We asked for the written return policy on that gift. Telling a dominant that you are giving them the gift of your submission is like telling your lover that you are giving them the gift of sex and loyalty. Submission is not gifted. If you are into gifting, there is a nice set of cedar handled elk hide floggers I have been longing for.I do get plenty of messages about this, usually after the fact. This may be that my journal entry on it is not on the first page. Poor you. You didn't want to read about me, but you wanted to offer that gift. This usually goes straight to hell in a hand basket with the second offense, an apology of insincerity. Do not apologize with the words 'I am sorry'. That is covered in yet another journal entry. What? I expected you to read? WTF is that about? It is simple. We want a relationship. That doesn't happen in a couple of paragraphs. If you are wanting in our pants or ropes, you need to show us that you are interested in knowing us. We have met a few from here and hate to say we are still here. It seems that people can submit very easily when it is just chat or words spoken over the phone. Once you order them to their knees, the reality sets in and they are looking for the door or calling red because you pinched their nipple. I have been around for quite awhile. I met my girl offline at work. Most of the people we have enjoyed the most were met offline. We met one in a fast food place by admiring her collar. That was an interesting conversation to have in Schlotzky's. Where am I going with this? it is simple. Do not expect to get what you want from here or any other fetish website. It is on you to get what you want by being the person you are and finding that connection in the real world. Yes, strange things do happen and kinky internet dating success stories do exist, but they are as rare as the one eyed one horned flying purple people eater. 

2/13/2018 12:34:27 PM: We are renaming this site Kelloggs. We have met Special K and sent her packing. Most of the site has been a load of frosted flakes and fruit loops. For those we have connected with and enjoy, we will still be here for chat and such. We have decided to sit back and change our profile once again. We will have nothing listed in interests. We will be removing our photos. We may or may not respond to new messages. Our friends and chat buddies are the only reason we will stay. This site has become as useless as an elevator in an outhouse or a screen door on a submarine.