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fieryfriday68
Lesbian Female Submissive, 53, Beaufort, South Carolina US 
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fieryfriday68

I am looking for a single LESBIAN life partner.  An experienced lifestyle dominant.  Must be healthy in mind body and spirit. Mature. An Adult. 50s-60s.  Amongst the world a successful empowering leader privately a wickedly wonderful dance partner and adventurer,  Sex Positive. No B.S. Real life only. (Updated 12.20.2021)

 

Be Out. Be Proud. Be Rigorously Honest. Always.  


I am a single sporty femme lesbian with a very spankable bottom. I can be quite the merry muse and entertaining canvas.  Generally speaking I am a energetic force of nature. A fiery fierce fun firecracker when dancing on a St. Andrews Cross. Rising to the occasion is my forte. I have been involved in the BDSM lifestyle community for over a decade. Munches, dungeons, private parties demos and regional BDSM events across the US as well as previous live in dynamic based relationships. Last major event attended was back in October 2019, Whips in the Woods in TX. 

 

Even still. After all these years. Im after something different. Unique. Special. I still havent found who Im looking for, hum the U2 lyrics along the way.  


I live a rather simple quiet life amongst the tall trees and inner coastal water ways of the low-country.   "If you build it; She will come." the mantra by which I have designed my life.


Connection is everything; it is fundamental to the reveal my authentic self and all diverse colors and chords. Though it is my nature to be submissive it is not my nurture. I am not a brat, nor a switch, nor a dominant.  I am capable and independent; doing what needs to be done to get what I want out of life. In the nature of my work, I am the person of power, trust, and responsibility. I love what I do, so not really work; more of an extension of all that I am.  My humor can be brash bawdy or snarky; I can be awkwardly blunt or tap-dance around the flames until I'm tossed into the fire. Btw, I just adore the fire. My alpha armor is just that, armor. Serves a valued purpose.  I am not for everyone or just anyone. I have limits, rules, deal breakers and healthy boundaries as should my potential mate. At best, I am an acquired taste for a discerning palate with an insatiable itch to scratch... me.  

If meeting your work colleges or family as your wife/partner/girlfriend is an obstacle we will not be compatible.  That said, my belief is that lifestyle dynamics belong among the lifestyle community only. I understand and practice professional and familial discretion.

The qualties and natural sensibilities of the dominant life partner that I am looking for are head of household, rigorously honest, independent, self-sufficient, disciplined, consistent, excellent communicator, intelligent, sophisticated, health conscious, compassionate, emotionally available, loving, nurturing, maternal, romantic, passionate, deviant, twisted, sensual, highly-sexual, primal, ritualistic, and spiritually minded.

 

Poly does not work for me.  Hard limit defined by experience. Not seeking play partners nor women otherwise attached.  Your ethics and values matter. That means so does your politics. Having an intimate and dynamic based relationship requires certain alignments for me.  

The Elusive Woman

Fortes and flaws; she is all woman. Her ideal is to share her life with ONE woman. She doesn’t let life lead her, she is not ruled by the past, thus living life on her own terms. She knows who she is, what she needs and wants in life yet is open to discovering the unexpected magic that living life can bring forth. She is bold, daring, brassy, and adventurous. She is culturally aware and has a sense of spirituality that influences her actions. She inspires with strength of character, intelligence, leadership, honesty, passion, grace and kindness. She is at peace with her dominant nature. She enjoys overcoming obstacles and challenges. Chaos is not something she invites to her door; rather she is prepared to weather the storms that may come. She has a commanding presence; not demanding. She loves being in control. She has a passion for the kind of control that is forceful and specific yet loving and rewarding. She has a primal energy.  She is a loving ethical Sadist. She is fearless in letting go; revealing her own vulnerabilities as a sign of strength. She believes in love; she can receive and give love fully. She engages in the intimacy of deep thoughts and discussions sharing her knowledge and experience. She loves to laugh and live out loud. She creates; she builds. She knows the rules yet thinks outside the box and thus uniquely finds the best approach for success in all her endeavors. She is the essence of the BDSM lifestyle but it is not her whole life, it is merely an expression of all that she is. Her house (her life) is in order; she actively masters her own life. For all that she has become, all that she has accomplished in this lifetime, this woman is not yet satisfied.

She has yet to discover the one woman that can walk at her side, complementing her drive, spirit and tenacity. She has yet to know the one that can touch her soul back exponentially to all that she gives. She craves a partner for life with a fiery soul that burns for her and her alone. She longs for the yang to her yin, for mutual fealty-the merging of wants, needs, and desires in complement. She desires one as equally as she is desired in return. A companion, a lover, a life-partner, and dominant lifestyle counterpart, this elusive woman is the life mate for my fierce and fiery soul. When our paths collide, our journey will at last, begin.

I've been told I've set the bar much too high. I've been told this painting of words reveals much about myself. Exactly. Yes. Very true. 

 

fieryfriday68 here and elsewhere. 

 

 

 

 

 

1/19/2022 4:29:30 AM: i am not a role. nor a roll.  i am a person. a whole being. fortes and flaws i am source. i am powerful. always.    one has to embrace. recognize. own. their own power. to have anything of value to exchange.  though i have many dominant qualities and ects that doesn't make me 'A Dominant.' people who make assumptions often show their ignorance and lack of tangible healthy experiences.   though i have many submissive qualities and ects that doesn't make me 'just anyone's' anything. that's not how power exchanges works.  assumptions on either end of dragon's tail kiss (my favorite) is how humans get damaged. harmed. abused. broken. that's not what healthy BDSM is. nor should be.   fact: i can not nor will i ever be defined by narrow, negative, limited notions of what it means to be human, female nor what my pure purpose on this planet can be. for sure. with my track record.  beyond belief and expectations are etched in the stones that line my path. not bragging. just remembering. that's what keeps the light on. good to remember it's always there. always on. most certainly in the dark. it is there. always. people who have no power in their own lives tend to get off thinking BDSM affords them a license to abuse others. especially on the internet. the commercial porn industry (and this site) perpetuates those lies with so much content geared towards the paying customers, wank/fiddle bits fodder for frustrated angry abused and broken humans.  there is nothing sexy ( in my eyes) about women in fetish gear that pay their bills that way. rarely is it a choice of passion and interest.  rarely do they do so from any position of power. the necessity to lie and feed a false narrative is the ultimate betrayal of self.  abusers and self abuse. so not sexy. makes my skin crawl so toxic. i know too many. lost in the dark. looking for the soothe. projecting their pain and powerlessness upon anyone willing to pay. pound of flesh or cash. souls get bought and sold.  healthy minded kinky adults who are literally mastering their own experience in this fleshy meat puppet suit earthly experience are rare. we all deal with our own shit. it stinks. literally. the challenge. versus the struggle. is to stay in the light. start by being a whole person. recognize those that behave like a whole person. whole people desire whole people. not parts. avoid the fetish fantasy scene versions. the latter truly limits the ability to explore. grow. evolve. the fundamentals of mastering the human experience.   
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