Im fascinated by all aspects the kink community (the people you meet tend to be interesting), though occasionally I have some misgivings (I think sometimes people use kink as an escape from the real world and I wonder if in some cases it is doing more harm than good).

Kink wise, I suppose you might classify me as a switch. Dominant side--Im interested in learning about rope bondage. I like teasing and a little bit of denial, seeing a red hand print on a bum, and generally trying to unravel the mystery of what makes someone tick.

Submissive side-Im much less certain about, but thats just a way of saying there are lots of self discoveries to be had. I suppose Im drawn to the idea of being passive instead of active, of having someone trying to work out how I tick, and the idea of not knowing what will happen next.

In Vanilla life I work 9-5 (jokes, more like 8-8), am stuck in an endless cycle of eating too much pasta and trying to work it off, and really enjoy a beer or wine with good company.

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