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StrongBlkRuler
| Hetero Male, 54, Chapelhill, North Carolina
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!I am looking for long term ownership of a subslave. Marriage is also on the table for the right woman.
Being a Dominant is about being in control and making the decisions for your submissive, but its also about making her better. A better submissive, a better person, helping her become more than what she is. Its about encouraging her, teaching her, not tearing her down or belittling her. You are her Dominant because she chose to give up control to you, she deemed you worthy of her submission. Dont take advantage of that and abuse the power that she has given you. After being with you she should be a stronger woman not one that has been beat down and afraid. Dominants should take this as a challenge, how can I make my submissive better, how can I make her stronger, how can I make her life better? She gives us this power over her because serving is what she needs and desires, its what makes her happy and fulfills her life. But we as Dominants should know that since she gave us this power over her, if it is misused or abused it can be taken back. Yes she is there to serve you at your will but not only because its what you want its also what she wants. If it gets to a point where her serving you isnt making her happy and fulfilling her life then she isnt happy and why should she continue to serve you if she isnt growing and getting anything out of it? The answer is she shouldnt. To the outside world when they look at our relationship they see an all and nothing relationship. They assume because we the Dominant is in charge then we do 100 of the taking and our submissive are doing 100 of the giving. Well we know that isnt true, its really 5050 We as Dominants need to dominate and she as the submissive needs to submit. So as I said its 5050. Without both the Dominant and the submissive then there is nothing to be had. Just remember Dominants that we are to build our submissive up and make her better because without her we are just one half of an empty relationship. It takes both for it to work.
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3/6/2022 4:19:20 PM: Looking for my one that will be solely for my mind heart and eyes only. Someone I can shared the rest of my existence with and live a comfortable life together. This is my location if you are tired of being alone and want to be held in my arms.
2/26/2018 1:19:03 PM: Sorry ladies my intentions is to relocate to north carolina during this latter year. If you don't mind relocating to be with me. I will show you my appreciation by how much you mean to me by being in my life. Do you have any age or race restrictions? let me know so we don't waste any more of each others time. I am looking for that one woman who is looking to be my best friend in this lifestyle, fetish and kink. As long as you realize that I am your Alpha!
12/24/2017 6:26:41 AM: Smile for me?
6/23/2017 5:27:21 AM: When trust is broken... Sorry means nothing!
4/16/2017 9:06:56 AM: Happy Easter Everyone, He Died For Yours And Mine Soul. Praise Him!
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