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beautysfantasy
Hetero Female, 59, Boston, Massachusetts 
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beautysfantasy
Desirable, educated, sensual submissive seeks intelligent multifaceted, straight DOMINANT MALE who is LOCAL *LEGALLY SINGLE*, age 50+ to build an invested, longterm relationship. Sorry, not interested in subs, switches, females, couples, or married men - its not the dynamic I seek. No cyber, one-liners or long distance as I will not relocate and need someone close by.


IMPORTANT I only correspond with men who wish to know me first as a woman BEFORE they learn about me as a submissive - and who approach me as an individual- and not with the same intro that could be sent to any submissive. I have been in the life many years Im not a Stepford sub, or a novice. I wish to meet a man who I would find in the vanilla world and date, but also adds the dynamic we both enjoy.


** Please do me the courtesy of reading my complete profile before reaching out I will be able to gauge whether or not youve read it. Thanks!


For me, its all about connection. I crave that extraordinary intimacy experienced when we connect on multiple levels cerebral - spiritual - emotional - as well as the physical. You NEED the same.


I find intellect to be one of the strongest aphrodisiacs and emotional intimacy allows a true connection to be felt. If you do not engage my mind on an intellectual level FIRST, you will never captivate my ... lust.


I am a single female - no children - committed to my career, but with a longing for more. Im told I have an exotic, Mediterranean appearance - extremely pretty with soft features, dark brown eyes and an alluring smile. Sorry, I cannot include a full face photo here for professional reasons.


I appear youthful, have a good figure, and I am feminine, warm and loving. Im a true romantic, cultured and refined - yet I can be playful, sexy, spiritual, intuitive and creative. I love to laugh, tease and touch. You will be happy.


I am by no means a wallflower. I am educated, intelligent, a recognized leader in my field and an accomplished communicator. I care about how I look and carry myself in public. I engage people actively, and I am told I am very sensual in both my presentation and my interaction.


Music, creativity, and the sciences are personal passions, and I appreciate good food, the arts, and meaningful conversation on a wide array of topics from philosophy, psychology, and poetry, to many of the soft and hard sciences. I am always learning. Admittedly a sapiosexual, I find intelligence extremely attractive and sexually arousing.


I have a deep appreciation for the beauty of nature, animals, and the natural world and find peace and harmony working in my garden during warmer months.


While the above qualities provide a sense of my public persona, they are a study in contrast to my inner desires. I am a natural submissive, and I am happiest when I can let go of the responsibilities and expectations of the vanilla world and immerse myself in the intensity of a man who can envelop me completely.


I am a sensual submissive, not a pain slut or an edge player. I appreciate the role that some sensual (light) pain plays as part of the Ds dynamic, and I actually crave e-r-o-t-i-c s-p-a-n-k-i-n-g-(s) from practiced hands! Please understand - if you enjoy constant discipline, are a dedicated sadist, or prone to verbal abuse - I am not for you.

Although I will always be submissive to my Dominant, I still wish to be appreciated, respected and cared for as an equal, and have the kind of relationship where I can interact as a partnered couple and as an accomplished individual within the vanilla world. I seek my best friend, kindred spirit and soulmate.


About You

You are intelligent, with relaxed confidence and poise, with a sense of humor and a romantic side.You may have been called a Renaissance Man, or a Daddy Dom (and youd be able to bring out the little girl in me while treating me as the fully sensual, sexual, adult woman that I am), although you would not approach me about anything overtly sexual until you got to know me. Chivalry and thoughtfulness are gratefully appreciated and bring out my feminine yin to your masculine yang.


You are accomplished in your own life, but because you are naturally wired as Dominant, you are seeking a fulfilling relationship here. You reside in the greater Boston area so we may get to know one another more easily and distance will not be an impediment to spending time together.


You invest the time to gain a solid understanding of me and my motivations, and you will claim my mind as your first prize.This will provide me with the deeper levels of trust, intimacy, and passion that will allow me to surrender my body and soul as well. You will know how to make me hunger for you and understand that this is a prerequisite to my submission.


The Dominant I seek is strong and confident, while intensely sensual and erotic in his desires and his actions. He will safely guide me to learn more about myself and my own hidden cravings. Your calm demeanor and quiet, in control confidence will enable me to pay attention to your whisper.


You are supportive of my personal career growth, respect me as an intelligent woman, and have the time and genuine interest in providing guidance, protection and being a mentor in life.

If you are the right Dominant for me, you do not turn on or off in session, but you consistently maintain your natural Dominance. Needless to say, you could never entertain the idea of switching or being attracted to a man in any way.


You are attractive, keep reasonably fit, Safe, Sane, and Consensual, STD Disease, Drug and Smoke-free, and love nature, pets and animals as I do. I particularly enjoy fit men in their 50s to early 60s for their maturity, worldliness and life experience.


While I appreciate hearing from much younger men, it is doubtful we will have the same long-term goals. Sorry, but I am planning to find a lifetime relationship with someone in sync. With kink. (Smile).

Also, if you are politically conservative, then we most likely will not get along as I am liberal in my politics and I feel as strongly about my viewpoint as you do. CNN is my go-to station for national news. I wish to share both my Ds and vanilla world together with the Right One.


If you have read this far and are interested in a discussion, please mention the word, *rainbow* so Ill know you are sincere. I hope to hear from you soon!


Please read my January 21, 2012 Journal Entry, The Style of Domination that Resonates with Me THE EQUALITARIUM DOM. If you do not relate to being an Equalitarian Dominant, it is doubtful we would match.

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1/21/2012 10:54:46 AM: The following essay is on the styles of dominance.  I have learned that I resonate and respond to the third style, which I am sharing here:   STYLES OF DOMINATIONc. Owlm48 As originally appears on http://www.cyberbazzar.com (Note: For those who wish to copy this essay, please include the author's copyright).  Dominants fall into three general categories, Authoritarian, Democratic, and Equalitarian. Each category has its sub counterpart. Because these are generalities each category has many variations. What these variations may be are left up for you to conclude.The Authoritarian Dom:  Rules with absolute power and total control. He makes all of the decisions and there is no questioning by the sub of what is asked or what is done. The only recourse a sub may have, if allowed, is a “safe” word. Generally there are little or no limitations binding the Dom. The subs attracted to these relationships are the “slave” submissive. The sub that wishes to be totally controlled. This form involves the voluntary surrender both emotionally and physically on the part of the sub. Generally the limits are pushed through heavy S&M activities. Some of the strongest relationships exist within this category. The couples that live a 24/7 D/s relationship are usually found in this realm. Unlike with the Democratic Dominant, there are no long training sessions to affect certain behavior. Things are done with no negotiations, limits are pushed and both parties accept this. The feeling of closeness and coupling is generated by the relinquishing control and the wielding of (almost) absolute power.This Dom’s implements (toys if you prefer) are usually highly crafted, sometimes intricate, wielded both with proficiency and effectiveness. The Dominants are skilled in their use and their sub is generally highly skilled at receiving the results. The implements developed by the Authoritarian’s are often borrowed in kind by Dom’s in other types of D/s relationships.It can be a profound and sobering experience for someone not yet familiar with this type of domination to watch an Authoritarian scene. Authoritarian Domination is what is usually referred to as “real”, when D/s aficionados use the term real, this is of what they are speaking. This type of D/s is not only S&M but encompasses a wide variety of  D/s conventions and behaviors. This is the generally accepted and also the stereotypical definition of BDSM. Remember that this is only the stereotypical definition of “real”. Authoritarianism is only one aspect or area of D/s. So “real” is what you are involved in and feel comfortable with and not what others do.The Democratic Dom: While it might sound like an oxymoron this Dominant is one who controls by agreement. Limitations, conditions, safe words, and times & places are all agreed upon beforehand and strictly adhered to.  Discussions between the Dom and sub are the norm and written contracts are not unheard of.Punishment is both a training tool and very often a reward. It is dispensed by the Dom to achieve or reinforce a certain behavior in his sub and at the same time as a pleasurable (sexual) stimulation for the sub. While both punishment and reward may be two distinct areas in the relationship, many times the lines blur.Submissives who are attracted to these situations are those who want the same agreed condition and especially the limitations. They can be called feisty, bad little girls, spoiled, hard to tame, because they like to challenge the limits and/or rules. Or because they have certain fears.This can be a game area where fun supersedes the Dominant/submissive operative. The Dominant and submissive like the actual and varied activities and enjoy each other when participating in them. In many cases the submissive does not actually want to surrender but likes playing as if she does. These relationships seem to be less long term, as this is the area where “thrill seekers” usually reside. Many like this type of situation since it is a convenient and safe way to play with D/s. It is fun and it makes it easy to feel like they are indeed practicing D/s. These same people while enjoying D/s related scenes are not as into the emotional side of dominance and submission as are others.On the other hand this type also serves a very good purpose, acting as a safe passage into other variations of D/s, or for learning, especially among those who are doing this for the first time with someone new, or they are trying it for the first time ever. After some experience is gained in D/s activities these people begin to learn the “rules of the road”, so to speak. Sometimes leading to a more intimate and stronger D/s relationship.The Equalitarian Dom: Is one who controls by teaching, mentoring, and leading. This Dominant knows that when he finds a comparable submissive that things will happen as a natural progression of the interaction. Usually just a short learning phase is required to receive the correct response from the submissive. Both the Dom and the sub “get it”, there is very little need for so called “training” and they naturally know what the other needs and is looking for.The Dominant does not like the situation of constantly repeating and forcing a particular behavior (submission) to occur. Besides the activities (sexual and others) it is the surrender as a result of the Domination that is the objective and enjoyment. Creativity is an important part of this situation. They tend to intellectualize and be more into the philosophical and psychological mechanisms of this life style. They understand the concepts and resultant interactions and can put it into real life. They do not need many rules like the Democratic type, nor do they like the heavy S&M activities of the Authoritarian, preferring submission to occur as a result of an instilled desire in the submissive to surrender. She “wants” to submit as a result of the Dominant’s knowledge and skill in dominating her.Sensuousness is the rule. Pain is given and received as a form of sensuous stimulation. Light pain as opposed to severe. Sensuous torture is a popular activity in this area. Both the Dominant and the submissive must naturally be this way. These are the people who will claim to be “born that way”. They fully understand the concept of D/s, it comes to them naturally and easily. They attract a submissive that truly and naturally desires to please and who will observe and sense what it is that the Dominant is communicating; and be able to translate that into the right thing to do. The “doing or saying without having to be told” type. The submissive begs easily and surrenders sweetly. They understand the concept of respect and surrender and can make it happen after initial learning with little or no additional instructions. They embrace the surrender gratefully and lovingly.These individuals usually form very intimate relationships. There is not much downside to these relationships, because they not only grasp the concepts, but can make it happen as well, and their attraction is based on a strong mutual respect. Their strong relationship is not readily apparent to the unobservant, but they are always subtly in the 24/7 mode. The fact that these things come forth naturally and without the need for orders is a great source of pride, satisfaction, and loving. They are the opposite side of the coin from the Authoritarian. Whose pride, satisfaction, and love come from strictness and forbearance.

9/19/2011 3:23:57 PM:  Sensing Sensual, Wondrous Autumn ... The season's changing and with it my schedule ... with plenty on my plate - and yet - I'd like to spend that proverbial quality time with someone to explore the climatic changes ahead ...   The senses invigorate as everything evolves to the next cycle, responding to the subtle touch of Autumn upon us. The unfurling, re-energizing chill in the air, the still-present warmth of the Autumnal sun seeking to caress our exposed skin, the scintillating scent of charcoal and wood burning, and the tantalizing visual display of living leaves - ablaze with color - in a last, final attempt at a grand, kaleidoscopic farewell ... Nothing changes, but change itself. Could there be an intelligent, accomplished, fully Dominant man out there to share New England landscape and pleasures?    Walking in a scented woodDriving along the seacoast Finding fall festivals Autumnal roadside stands Stopping for a steaming cup of clam chowder Exploring Rockport King Richard's FaireNewport in AutumnSalem and HalloweenAnd other places I've not yet seen? All invigorating events to share; a portent to more ... Sinful not to experience ;-) ... Perhaps I may hear from him yet!  

2/25/2011 5:36:39 PM: It has been an interesting week, to sum it up mildly.  I almost wish I had not posted the photos, despite the deluge of compliments.  Lots of email correspondence, even several have offered collars - without even meeting me!  I can't understand that; how do you know there is real physical chemistry until you meet; at least I can't tell ... I understand that men are visual ... and sexual surrender is the motivation for them ... yet ... women like myself respond to more.  We are seeking a D/s bond that goes beyond the sexual.   I want to know the real person inside; I long for the intimacy, depth and closeness that I once had with my Former Master.  In my past D/s relationships, this aspect was even more intimate ... I could share ... everything.  But, I find myself here now, in newer terrain, searching again ... I am disappointed when so-called 'legitimate' Dominants who are seeking One true relationship and professing that is their goal, would continue to seek - once they feel they have my 'interest?'  Probably just the thrill of the hunt.  Don't they understand that being desired is necessary to a submissive's long held interest and that our seeing them back on line, or on IM, or in other ways is going to send the message 'I found someone more interesting?'  As a result, it only motivates us to become cautious and to go slowly with others too. Deeds earn trust, not words.  Actions do speak.  I have been in this lifestyle many years now; I am aware of much subterfuge.  And, so I imagine, are others, sooner or later. Is it fruitless to try here? I suppose that is why there are so many other sites ...   It appears the sincere are a very, very tiny minority. Thanks to those of you who have been supportive; I do appreciate your correspondence and friends within the life ... Good luck to all, beauty    

2/17/2011 2:48:04 PM: Thanks to those of you who have mentioned which photos of the newly posted pics you liked best! I've never done such a 'public display' before ... to this extent ... so it helps to know. Maybe I'll get brave and post others ... one day! :-) (It must be the exhibitionistic side of me being nurtured ... but, it was fun)! Deepest thanks to my Mentor!

9/21/2010 11:21:31 AM: And, for those who enjoy the writer in me:Does your spirit ache for the intimacy that flows from connection, intensity, and passion? Are you a Dominant male with an Alpha personality, but also loving and didactic? Does your mind relish stimulation, conversations of substance, and meaningful discussion - beyond the expected sensuality and romance of D/s seduction?I am that whisper in the dark .... unanswered. I crave that deeply seductive connection found only in an intimate D/s power-exchange relationship - from a Dominant searching for a confident, accomplished, still developing submissive who craves and seeks positive guidance, and leadership, along with “an edge.”

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