I lead a very fulfilling life. In the several things that interest me I try to indulge myself completely. Whether its my professional career, my sexuality, or anything else I care about, I always try to learn more, explore and most importantly enjoy the process.

Im 50 years old and have more than 25 years of experience in BDSM. Im a Dom, and had several long term (many years) relationships with submissive women. Some of them from the scene, while others were introduced to it by me. Ultimately a Ds relationship is where I always find myself.

I was in a loving polyamorous relationship for 12 years that ended a couple of years ago. I sometimes have an occasional or longer term relationships with other women, but in general I believe relationships and sexuality improve over time.

While I would love to meet submissive women for fun, exploration and enjoyment, I ultimately seek having a lasting relationship. 

As for me, I enjoy especially Ds aspects of BDSM. Service and submission are major turn ons for me. I enjoy bondage, spanking, whipping and exploring the depth that BDSM can offer. I enjoy extending my pleasure within my limits more than pushing my limits further, but reaching the unknown is always fun. I believe Im caring and thoughtful. I enjoy inflicting pain when I know that gives pleasure to my sub (and then I enjoy it immensely), but I admit to preferring have my sub concerned with my pleasures first).

I dont separate BDSM from love. Im looking for someone I can love and enjoy.

Other than the above Im curious to explore some aspects that I didnt try before, or just have limited experience in. They can all be fun, but they are not a must.

- Owning a slave in a 24/7 setting for a limited duration - I never tried it but I'm curious whether I can enjoy it.

- Pet training - with someone who is really into it and role plays well.

- Strict protocol - As anoter of bondage and mind control.

- Public servitude - (for the exhibitionist among you) Im usually pretty private in my BDSM affairs.

If youre feeling that we may connect, please write to me. I promise to answer thoughtfully.