I’m an experienced, intelligent, creative and realistic Dom.  I'm looking for a compatible sub for an ongoing, preferably monogamous, relationship and play.  It could range from FWB to LTR, depending on our preferences and how well we mesh.

In play I desire intimacy, focus, and connection.  I enjoy gasps, sighs, moans and giggles.

Outside of play I like to read, cook, discuss current events and culture, stroll around the urban and natural landscape and spoil my non-human pets.  I work in the sciences and can be a bit geeky.

I’m a non-smoker and drug/disease free.  I'm of medium build and in good shape.

In my kind of D/s relationship both people are of equal social standing, each with physical, emotional and intellectual needs deserving of recognition and respect.  The fact that a few women do, in their erotic life, want to be figuratively, and sometimes literally, kneeling at the feet of their partner doesn't detract from or contradict this.

If you're new to D/s or BDSM in general that's OK with me as long as you're curious and willing to experiment.  If you've been around for a while, so have I.  I remember Portland's early munches at the Blue Moon...