Recently moved into Baltimore City and can host at my new place, lets have fun!

Im open to anything from Friends, Hookups, FwB, dates, relationships, SubDom trainingsessions, etc. Ask if you have any questions.

I just got out of a relationship that lasted a few years and Im looking for someone who fits me sexually and romantically as best as possible. Ive done a lot of growing and changing both sexually and as a person over my past few relationships, but I feel that Im honing in on what I want from a solid relationship so Im back at it, trying to find someone to call my own. Im looking for someone who doesnt take themselves too seriously, who I can be crude and raunchy with that will laugh with me instead of looking at me like I just insulted their family.

I dont live in the fantasy land that is wanting to 100 own and dominate someone and their entire life and whole being, because for one, thats an excessive amount of work, and 2, its unrealistic for the vast majority of people to be able to do even short term, let alone permanently. I want a boyfriend who is moderately submissive, but a boyfriend first that likes to serve me and live the kink lifestyle when we can. Im looking for a boyfriend who is a boyfriend first someone who I can enjoy spending my time with, who can be strong for me when I need it, is capable of making their own decisions, can hold intelligent conversations, is decent at adulting in general, and is generally decently all-around put together.

I like mixing kink in with normal everyday stuff, but Im not hardcore into protocol and rules and stuff like that. Ideally my boyfriend would wear my collar and be locked in chastity functionally 247, presuming it doesnt affect their job or anything like that. I wouldnt expect you to call me Sir or Daddy or anything like that all the time, and honestly I wouldnt want you to, as it takes away the special-ness of saying that when you really mean it. Im not interested in breaking someone or forcing someone to do something.

When I fantasize or daydream about someone serving me, its not stressful, loud, painful or embarrassing to either of us in any way. Its a relaxed, trusting, calm, enjoyable time for us both. Normally it would be something like me relaxing in bed with you between my legs enjoying my cock, working me up to orgasm. There are obviously tons of ways it could be different, but in general its a chill, relaxed time. Thats not to say I dont enjoy stressful, loud, punishing, painful or demanding situations, its just that in my normal day to day routine, I like to be as calm and relaxed as possible, and would hope you want the same. I like lots of kinky, messy, loud stressful stuff, its just those would most likely be planned or pushed off until we both had plenty of time to do those without rushing so we could enjoy it together. Stretching out your hole with my cock and toys and fists would be, hopefully, a regular occurrence (probably on the weekends), as would things like long rimming sessions, sounding, electro play, cbt, bondage, etc. Things like that would probably necessitate being planned or simply delayed until the weekends when presumably we would both have time to enjoy it, but obviously it would depend on how our schedules would mesh. The overall point is that I wouldnt be a great match for someone who wanted to be punched around and degraded and abused all hours of the day, because thats simply not who I am on a base level. Im a kind hearted, if not deviant and horny, big loving Daddy.

Speaking of, I do enjoy the shallow forays into the DaddyLittle and PupHandler worlds. I say shallow because I dont tend to enjoy the tedium or specificity of delving deeply into all the minutiae of those lifestyles, or almost anything, to be precise. I enjoy the overarching themes of those life styles without having to strictly adhere to the rules that some of them for example, I enjoy having a pup bark at me, wear a tail, eat from a bowl, wear a collar, be lead around on a leash (inside), wear a mask and just generally be playful in private (or in some kink-focused settings in public), but taping up your arms and legs so you can only walk on all 4s, punishing you for speaking instead of growlingbarking, using shock collarschoker chains, making you eat pet food, all that just goes a little too far, and is silly in my mind. Similarly for the DaddyLittle dynamic, wearing onesies, having a binkysucker, being bratty and misbehaving on occasion are fine, but I dont really enjoy constantly misbehaving, being constantly padded, having a ton of adult baby clothes and the like, and just general hassle of being a little all the time. As Ive said before, Im looking for someone who, in general, just an average all-around guy, Im not looking for someone who I have to constantly correct their behavior or beg and plead to do the littlest thing.

As for non-sexual interest, I enjoy technology, computers, building PCs and occasionally customer water cooling them, gadgets and other tech, smart home and home automation, YouTube (mostly lets playsgaming related stuff, tech news, and some machiningworkshop porn stuff), some mild cargearhead stuff, 3D printing, home networkingdata storage, road trips, driving in the rain and just rainysnowy days in general, working with my hands and buildingdoing things like simple woodworking, soldering, I want to learn to weld and work metal, video games (PC and Switch), going to the movies, cooking, eating, board gamestable top games (Munchkin, Exploding Kittens, Star Fluxx, Ticket to Ride, DnD, etc).

As for genremore specific interests I like sci fi, Star Trek, StarGate, Star Wars, Futurama, Firefly, Aliens, BSG, Breaking Bad, Avatar TLATLOK, Good Eats, Fullmetal Alchemist Brotherhood, MASH, Mythbusters, The Wire, Marvel Movies, Austin Powers, Harry Poter, Halo, Minecraft, Mario Kart, Just Cause, Indie Games

The list goes on and on and on, feel free to inquire directly if you have something specific.

Until I find someone, Im open to friends, hookups, Friends with Benefits, dating, and relationships.

A few requirements I wont meet without face pics. If were getting serious about meetingdatingetc, you have to be comfortable communicating off this plat, I have Kik, Telegram, Google Hangouts, text, etc. You need to be comfortable being my boyfriend in public, holding hands, kissing, etc.


As for sexual interests, in no particular order, Im into

Moderate to heavy ass-play, toys, insertables, Fisting, etc
Oral
Anal, bareback
Throat fucking
Watersports (mostly in you, but on you is okay)
Rimming, giving and receiving
Sounding
Light bondage
Electro stim
I love the idea of locking my mans dick up in chastity
the list goes on and on and on, so feel free to ask if you dont see something specific that youre into.

If you have made it this far, please drop me a line letting me know what you think of my profile, and thank you for taking the time out of your day to peer into my little corner of the universe. We might just have something in common, so say hi. I look forward to hearing from you.