I recently had an unsettling encounter with someone who threatened me physically and when I blocked them they had another account and continued to harrass me. For the next few weeks I will not be engaging in looking for someone.  I will be checking here, but if you acutally followed the directions on my profile, you will know not to message me, as I will not be engaging in conversation.

Do  not attempt to send me a chat request unless I have written to you and said it was ok to send it.   I will not engage or respond.   Chat is not a substitute for messaging me here.

If your pictures are more than 10 years old - update them or at least have some up to date photos. Continuing to have outdated photos is the same as lying.

I used to think age didn't matter, but the older I get the more I realize it does. I am not intereted in people more than 30 years younger than me or 5 years older.   I hope everyone finds who is right for them.

If you are just looking for a place to live - move along .  There has been a trend lately that people needing a place to stay think they can call themselves a sub or slave and someone will take them in - no questions asked .