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cdjudy

Transgender Switch, 68, St Louis, Missouri

Never sure what to say when filling out a profile. I have been giving it some thought and have had a few suggestion.

Recently i was introduced to my feminine side.....at first i wasn't sure what to think or how to feel. i can tell you that this side of me is changing the way i think and my behavior.

i am very new to my feminine side...so i am not sure of how i would be labeled. A crossdresser, trans, a t-girl, perhaps a sissy.....maybe all are true. i do know that i want to continue exploring my feminine side.

What i am seeking is a mentor...to help train me to become the best girl i can be.

Thank you for taking the time to read my profile.

judith


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OrlandoHypnotist

It's nice to see that the journal system finally works again. Here's wishing everyone a happy and safe holiday season

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Is ANYONE real or serious about what they say or claim, anymore. Those who have contacted me recently can not elaborate on what they are wanting unless it is text type or emojis. If you are not serious, do not waste yours or our time. Tired of the wanna bees, fakes and players.

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AShopenhauer

There is no E in BDSM. That's a vanilla construct that puts all males at a disadvantage. That's not to say that it cannot be developed over time, but it is a byproduct of a stable, healthy and growing relationship, not a critical component of the relationship's foundation.

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Tain77

First Journal Entry I am back on here after a long hiatus on this platform, fingers crossed, it works out better than the first time. I am here looking to make friends, and who knows what after that. One thing I have found so far is that not much has changed, those jumping into my inbox still manifest many of the prior encountered issues: trying to insta me, using titles before they have been earned, fantasy pushing, and having the sort of energy and vibe of trying to use me as a kink vending machine. I am a person first, before being a dominant, so please don't do this. A new one on me is seeing not being willing to jump to chat apps as a red flag, as a reason to think someone isn't genuine. To be very clear, I won't jump off this platform onto a chat app after a few brief message exchanges. Trust has to be built up, a connection of sorts created first. I am not interested in one of hook-ups, but want to build something more meaningful, and that will happen on here first. In my book trying to pull me off here, after a few minimal messages, definitely is one, and strongly suggests a scammer at work, not a genuine person. Please don't try and do that.

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littlerabbitgirl

littlerabbitgirl

Ever been to Terwilliger Hot Springs? Me either, but I'll be there next Monday, the 24th of March.

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The List Pt 2 He resumes reading: "Rubber bands...uhhh...To wash/bathe you...oooohhhh!...Rope bondage...Pussy Spanking/Slapping...UHHH..." Hearing my written words spoken aloud by him, now punctuated by guttural moans, is incredibly hot. All these dirty, beautiful, intimate things seem hang in the air as i continue to suck his cock. i don't know how he does it but he makes it to the end of page two. The last one is funny and he can't help but laugh: "To have sex in the hot tub---not forgetting the lube this time---then afterwards collapse back into the water and sip a glass of wine." The next 45 minutes are a . There is his voice. His bed. The immense pleasure of our bodies joining together. There is pain, too, and joy. There will be more, much more, as the night, the weeks, and the months wear on...

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kellybold

seams like the a only wannabees on this side and not real players

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So you got demons in your pandora's box? Laughs.. now what kind of person would I be if I could convince them to help me with you. Laughs

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Reactivated out of boredom. Did you miss me?

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commited12u

Think i will no longer initiate contact after recent abuse i am a submissive but please talk to me, learn about me, what can i offer, what can i learn, could i be pleasing! Please dont assume, judge, abuse i see no point in this. If You dont like what You see then pass me by. Regardless i always present myself respectfully and in a fitting manor of a submissive.

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downwardspirala

I haven't been on here in a while but I'm back and would like to invite all sadists to snack and even feast on me. I do ask that you enjoy the pain and humiliation you inflict on me.

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I believe that. It is seldom ever simple with such things.

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Brad88

I'm not owned anymore My previous master moved interstate.

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I cannot stress this enough. When you message me, whether you are responding to a message I sent you or you are being bold and writ me, ask questions. We are here on this infernal site to make a connection, whether it be with a sub dom or switch. And in order to buil that connection we have to get to know each other. And the best way to get to know someone is to ask them questions. But if the only questions you want to ask center around sex, I suggest you go visit porn hub.

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endorphinpusher

endorphinpusher

After a seven year relationship, and a period of reflection, I am now back and looking.What am I seeking? Probably seeking the impossible, a reliable and honest female partner who is submissive, masochistic and experimental. You do not have to be extreme just honest and real. EP

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skinprof

I've been back and forth, since before Thanksgiving , with the contract I have on a cabin In WV. Unfortunately the agent was a flake. Over the years , I've bought and sold homes. This agent was a hot mess. Finally had to get the broker involved, and replace the her. The present one is on the ball. D and I drove to the cabin and he checked it top to bottom. There were concerns from the home inspection, and he calmed my mind. He said the place had great bones, the windows were all in good shape, the hot water heater was two years old , gas furnace will out live me, metal roof is fairly new... There is a cottage on the property, off the back set back from the cabin. Its about eight hundred sq. feet , plus a screened in front porch! Perfect for my father, and he can't fall off. It has a kitchen, dining room, living room, bedroom and full bath. It too has a new metal roof. Added an addendum for a few things, we'll see if they accept or counter. Saying a little prayer and crossing my fingers. M.

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PLZKIKMYBALLZ

Finally came across a profile of a woman expressing interest in the kind of play I seek but, I made the mistake of editing my profile after I sent a message and now have to wait for my edit to clear review. :-(

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Chrisin98003

I have been on weight watchers for a few years, and I am happy to report I have lost 100 POUNDS!!!! I have more to go,. I would love to find someone that is also working to lose weight and be in better shape or someone that has and knows what it takes. Even better would be to have a friend to go walking with and support each other. having the other person be dominant would be even better to give me a push or a pull on the leash.

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Waiting isn't life. Sharing the ups and downs is life.

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Sessions so hard that you end up with a sobbing mess of a person. I have heard way too much at times and sometimes I am stand offish due to the confessions of others. When you ride the emotional state of a another person you can either create a peice of heaven or scar them with things that would take therapist a life time to straighten out. Sex with no goals is just masterbation with another person. Much like the e ticket subs, the action is greater than the relationship. It just none fulling and hollow. I rather be alone with the possibility of having a great relationship than have my life filled with a relationship that is going no where.

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KimberlyAnneG

It has been a while, and a lot has happened. I moved to NY. Now stuck here due to a contract I signed with my job. Oh how I miss home. Soon to be alone again. Not because of a relationship, but because of other reasons, ask me Ill share no problem. I now often wonder what kind of spiral that is going to send me into. Such is life I guess. Work, Karma, work, fur kids, work.... Such is life right now. Is there a respite out there somewhere?

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nytekat

I'm having of those "poor me" moments . The kind when everything is stacked against you. I HATE days like t I'm at! The kind where don't want to even get out of bed! When it's a huge effort to even shower.

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abpansy

I suppose more of an AB than a DL but very much about the control and humiliation of being put in nappies.

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Unseen

Well good grief it's about time they brought this back! Be nice if you could edit your profile too. Ah well baby steps! Just to update still in sunny Salford but the fine wine has aged a little more and I'm 46.

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slavekjay

i need a lifestyle Owner to take me into Their 247 total ownership , use and treat me as a slave should be used and treated. A slave is there to make its Onwera life easier andore pleasurable ..

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FRUSTRATION from Pretend Dommes I’m not into findom. I can see why people fetishize over it. Having a Mistress completely control your finances is very erotic & powerful. However, I don’t understand ONLINE Findom. I have had hundreds of messages from random ‘Mistress/Dommes’ demanding money/tribute. It’s ridiculous, it seems like it’s a online scam. Price is only a issue, in the absence in value….

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rick17403

I know i should update my profile but it takes to long my weight is down to 190 pounds

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Becareful who you tangle with, do not allow dreams crushers and life sucks to steal parts of you away.

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Now living in South Carolina

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nolimitforgoddes

I am so happy to be couple34's slave, they have drained me so well, I am a full time slave and happy

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Baldrick

I'm a Marionette By Abba performed by Ghost You're so free," that's what everybody's telling meYet I feel I'm like an outward-bound, pushed around, refugeeSomething's wrong, got a feeling that I don't belongAs if I had come from outer space, out of place, like King KongI'm a marionette, just a marionette, pull the stringI'm a marionette, everybody's pet, just as long as I singI'm a marionette, see my pirouette, round and roundI'm a marionette, I'm a marionette, just a silly old clownLike a doll, like a puppet with no will at allAnd somebody told me how to talk, how to walk, how to fallCan't complain, I've got no-one but myself to blameSomething's happening I can't control, lost my hold, it's insaneI'm a marionette, just a marionette, pull the stringI'm a marionette, everybody's pet, just as long as I singI'm a marionette, see my pirouette, round and roundI'm a marionette, I'm a marionette, just a silly old clown"Look this way, just a little smile," is what they say"You look better on the photograph if you laugh, that's okay""You're so free," that's what everybody's telling meYet I feel I'm like an outward-bound, pushed around, refugeeI'm a marionette, just a marionette, pull the stringI'm a marionette, everybody's pet, just as long as I singI'm a marionette, see my pirouette, round and roundI'm a marionette, I'm a marionette, just a silly old clown

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SheaSaidSo

When you decide to approach me for consideration and I trial you, your role & goal is to acquiese to MY lifestyle/desires. That "previous training" is moot to me. I give subzero fucks about what's easier for you & how you used to do things. If you're just chasing the feeling you had with someone/something else then you're an addict, shifting the ideal from tacitly serving to satisfying your own urges and desires-- hence why you perpetually fuck up this elusive dynamic you long for. That will never be worth my time and/or effort. It is MY WAY, no fucking 'or' involved... ever.

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As your devoted slave, I exist only to serve your needs and desires. My purpose is to give you the most pleasure possible in any way you deem fit. Whether it be through verbal degradation, physical bondage, or fulfilling your fantasies, my body and mind are yours to command.I am submissive by nature but also have a strong desire to please you and prove myself worthy of being under your control. My deepest fantasy is surrendering myself completely to an experienced domme like yourself who knows exactly what she wants from me at all times—no guessing games or wasted energy on my part. I want to feel owned, controlled, used for your pleasure with no other purpose than bringing you closer to ultimate satisfaction.You can take charge and mold me into whatever kind of submissive slave fits best with the way you like to dominate. If it pleases you, punishments will be delivered swiftly after each mistake or slight hesitation from my end. I will learn quickly what actions trigger rewards or discipline measures from you. It is important for me not only follow instructions but also anticipate and guess correctly at times so there's no need for corrections which could upset either party involved in this exchange between Mistress and slave.I am fully prepared to be used sexually as much as possible - whether it involves bondage equipment, dirty talk etc. I'll do my best not to let you down by giving up too easily even if pain levels are high at first until we find just the right balance between intensity and duration that works perfectly for both of us long term.

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prettyjellybean

More crabby journal posting. There are communications I receive which cause me to regard the other person and think, "are you out of your freaking mind?" Amazingly, these land in my inbox with tragic regularity. One of them is, "I'm an alpha sub. I'm not like these other guys." What they think they have communicated: I have a strong mind, great coping skills, and am not a weak individual. I am respected by other men. What they have actually communicated: I'm inexperienced and don't know fuck-all. I have never spoken to other subs. If I have seen other subs at functions, I have interpreted their submissiveness with their partner to mean that they are weak willed and could not hand me my ass in a fight. Because I have internal conflict about my own submissiveness and think it's abnormal. Common communication: "I have sent you several messages. If you aren't interested, I would expect the courtesy of a reply."What they think they communicated: My time and interest are valuable and ignoring me is rude. What they actually communicated: Even though you don't know me from Adam, I am entitled to your time and attention. By having a profile up on this site, you owe me. Me me me me me. Me me me. I will keep messaging till you acknowledge me, because I do what I want! Acknowledge meeeeee!! Another communication I receive is, "I saw you were online and didn't answer my previous message, you are mean and toying with me."What they think they have communicated: I expect respect and attention. If you are more interested in other people, let me know. What they have actually communicated: I'm not much of a geek, and don't understand that people multi task and leave multiple screens up, sometimes for hours. I am stalking your profile and checking when you are online. I'm creepy, and I think you owe me. And finally, there is this gem. "We've been chatting a …

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BklynDom7166

Hey all Happy New Year to everyone. Hope you all had a decent holiday. On a good note 65 days till spring break. I'm really hoping to chat with local kinksters ( subs and slaves) gender and age are not as important as the vibe. I'm very much the romantic, sadistic daddy , if thst interests anyone . Also if your visitinv thr NYC are say hii , I always love making new friends thanks

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I have a feeling that if someone were to just throw me on the bed and have their way with me i would love it. Any volunteers?

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SecretGardens02

SecretGardens02

Coming back after yet another hiatus for My mental health. Still hopeful I can meet someone or someone's I can click with

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Suzyswallow

There must be someone who wants a sexy sub tv for fun in the Uk 🇬🇧 xxx

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If I can not inspire and encourage you to be better, your not the one for me.

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Europa

Today I feel princess!

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DesdemonaOphelia

DesdemonaOphelia

No doms please No diapers No age play No incest roleplaying (yucky)

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MELLISSYAH1

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His 60th, age gap dynamics for 3rd year at Uni and I came out of bi, It wasnt long before I starred seeing somone. She was 50 something and everything I wasnt, she was slim, graceful, classy and experienced. I felt like a chubby idiot next to her, but for some reason she liked me and it was amazing. Early on she told me she was married and he was aware, it was all cool. We dated for a couple of months, her mostly coming back to my place and it started to get kinky. She was always the bossy one and I had accepted that and enjoyed it. But it became part of play, she told me what to wear, punished me if I didnt please her and so on. I had started wearing her collar and calling her mistress, I loved how I felt with her, so much happier and confident. She dressed me up and I wore clothes I never thought I would dare wear. We were 100% open and I told her I had not been with many men and did want to try more with men. She knew I loved my anus being played with and asked if I had ever been taken there by a man, which I hadnt. She started to hatch a plan, she explained it was her husbands birthday coming up, he was a skilled lover and enjoyed anal sex which she didnt. She convinced me to join in to make a special birthday treat for him. It was the first time in her house and it was massive, spaces for many cars on the drive and many rooms. We would wait for him in the bed and I had lots of fun as she was keen to make sure I was horny and in the mood. The lights went out and he came into a dark room with two women. We kissed touched and it wasnt long before I was bent over. It was uncomfortable in some ways, but with the wife pleasuring me, I didnt care and enjoyed every moment. After I felt spent and used. The lights went on and it was a shock as I found out my male lover was my senior lecturer at the University..

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LRF69

Feel like I gotta say this:NO TRUMPERS, no MAGAts. If you're a dom and a Trumper, you're really just a submissive twink.

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ForcefulDutch

for those who read journals..happy x-mas days and a good new year

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What do you mean I can not make my submissive awesome and special? Dressing for me pretty is sometime too much to ask for? I think not. For some a nose boop will prevent a sub from going into sub space. Yes I am that mean at times. Laughs If I can't make you smile and laugh. We are not a good fit.

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Service and submission has a body type and a gender? Strong enough to transform but wise enough to make a diamond from the ruff. Bark like you mean It and meow like the kitten you are. Dance naked in the moon light. Eat with apperication. Invest in your relationship. I still use kink and sex as a celebration of a great relationship burning out is not an option. Be awesome and spread it... do not forget ro have fun.. There is nothing quiet like a naked sub at your feet shaking with anticipation. Stop complaining and start doing..

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I would like to revisit another one of my old journal entries from years ago and answer my own rhetorical question. I very strongly believe that there is no problem in the world today that couldn't be improved by having more women in positions of power at every level and setting...family, professional, political, local through global.

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https://thisvid.com/playlist/81535/video/you-are-a-dog-obey/

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SaltLifeFemDom

Just get a Sharpie and write a love note to Me on your skin, like a normal person. Lady R

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dakota62

So to complete our little game I shared one of her pictures, as loosing the game had agreed consequences, just like rule transgressions.

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Skin1701

Ive come back to CS after at least five years away, and genuinely surprised to see a lot of the same faces and profiles. TBH, I'm not sure if that's a good thing or a bad thing...

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worshipru123

Wow, this site seems to get harder to use as time progresses.

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Msivenaistheone

Msivenaistheone

i may be a dominant but im a sucker for romance

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nymphea

Merry Christmas 🎄

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Elorin

Know your medium. The way you interact on email is different from an instant message program is different from a chat room. Know your target. If you are emailing someone who has a three sentence minimum and a mile long profile, reconsider emailing "Hi! I see you're online tonight." Just because I don't exchange emails like IMs doesn't mean I'm not interested. But that you are unwilling or unable to compose a longer message might very well mean I am not interested.

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WashGuy

For some reason, despite updating my location and having my profile approved, Collarspace will seems to think I'm in upstate New York. I'm not. For the next couple of years I'm near Wilmington DE. There's only me. Accept no substitutes!

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MstressWhipplash

I have noticed the knee high Dr Martens I have wanted for a couple of years are BNIB on Ebay. I doubt I can put the link here. I even have the photo of them on my Fetlife profile. Putting the link there is crass though. Gosh they are gorgeous 😍 I simply prefer Boots to flowers . Flowers fade unless they arrive in a pot which are nestled into the dark sod.

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ACTSolo

Lately I've had some experience on line, helping women who want to explore bondage for their men, including cock teasing, edge and denial. I'd be happy to chat to any woman who wants to explore this, as I believe I can provide some useful ideas, insights and suggestions for both the psychology of such scenes, and the techniques involved I'd love to hear some ladies' responses, all the best ACTSolo

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Tears run down my face I need to serve so bad. I need touch. I need sub space, I need to cum and be full of cum.

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spankedforgood

I just want a daddy dom type who can handle a brat and have some fun 😈 where is heeee lol

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FearandLoathyng

FearandLoathyng

Still looking for that special partner/Mistress. And since I don't want to wait for profile reapproval ill add some more interests which include anal, panties, spanking, and humiliation. I am also interested in exploring cock cages and feminization. Big fan of toys and props. And I am also pretty handy and can make and repair furniture, props, and certain toys. Im very friendly so send me a message, we can chat about kinks, life, media, or anything else.

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LRF69

I had perhaps the best experience in my life last week. I went to see a very close friend a few states away. I've known her for 20 years and there's always been an unrequited attraction between us but I've told her very little about my submissive need. Well, she sensed it because the first night we were together, she immediately bound me tightly to all four posts of her bed and she had her way with me...but... Everything was about her...her needs, her wants...her desires. There was not a single thing done or mentioned about mine. She used me as she wanted, rode me and stopped when she was done, not when I was done. I got on my knees and licked everything she told me to lick, put my tongue where she directed. She did everything to me that was my absolute desire, orally please her, CBT, whipping, spanking...insertion. The only thing she denied me was my own eruption. Finally, on our last night, she gripped me painfully and whispered her permission. It was....amazing. Nothing about me except until the end...everything for her. I was in heaven the entire week. The only thing is that it's not a permanent thing...because of the distance. I want it, she does not. And it was something she did with no preparation or warning....spur of the moment...because it was something she sensed in me.

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MissDAR

1. In your first message don't say something like. " Hi how are you doing?" and that is your only message/words. I won't even answer that. Be more upfront. 2. Please understand here is what I am NOT looking for A. Not looking for someone that is married B. Not looking for a weekend here and there C. Not looking for someone that drinks, smokes and addicted to drugs. (herb is ok) D. Not looking to change your diapers E. Not looking for attention seekers or someone high maintance F. Not looking for someone that is new and looking for someone to train it (unless your ready to go full in) G. I'm not a Pro and I'm not looking to play games. H. Not looking for someone that isn't willing to better themselves I. In general I'm not looking for a city person that is afraid to get dirty. J. I'm not " needy " I'm more interested in finding a service slave/sub. K. I'm not interested in seeing your ass pictures. I'll probably add more to this list later. But HOPEFULLY you read this and don't bother writing if ...your not what I'm looking for. I try to make things simple and to the point. p.s. I'M NOT LOOKING FOR A DOM. I PROMISE YOU I WILL NEVER BE YOUR SUB OR SLAVE. I'm not an egotistic person and I do my share of what needs to be done around here. I believe in harmony.

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KYGuyLooking23

A DOMME who is tech savy is a rare find. It changes the entire dynamic of a chat from the jump. If You can involve tech control...or at least dialoge about it in conversation..watch my mood change.

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Induction Body resting, energy moving, observing internally, peacefully soothing Heart beating, freely flowing, vitality tidal, graciously slowing Mind easing, calmly relaxing, slowly reading, consciously taxing Lungs breathing, chest lifting, filling entirely, air shifting In slowly, breathing deeply, gathering energy, holding briefly Drawing feelings, stress contained, impulses managed, steadily drained Breathing out, internal debates, adverse karma, detrimental traits Releasing damage, perception unbound, conflicts vanishing, self unfound Gently inhaling, experience clarity, focusing easily, mental dexterity Pausing shortly, untying knots, accepting text, newfound thoughts Slowly exhale, struggles ceasing, worries fleeing, distress decreasing Intuition declining, instincts subsiding, imagination flourishing, new words residing Control seeding, seeds rooted, awareness dimming, distractions muted Unconsciously lighter, consciously dimmer, spiritually enhanced, intellectually slimmer Focus strengthened, resilience weakened, submitting completely, entrancement deepened Comprehension lost, insight unneeded, cognition hindered, free will impeded Thoughts fuzzy, foggy, faint, vague, misty, hazy, red Awareness unfocused, anonymous restraint, mysteriously fading, distracted, deterred Judgment cloudy, confused, quaint, dazed, unclear, uncertain, obscured Mindset submissive, compliant, constraint, thoughts distancing, conscience unheard Intellect insignificant, state suggestible, wisdom worthless, loyalty limitless Compliance certain, intelligence irrelevant, attention absolute, reasoning redacted Sense absent, right unknown, wrong unfamiliar, instincts vacant Consciousness drifting, flying, gliding, floating away, gone completely Mind subdued, taken, drained, taught, restructured, disciplined, trained Body captured, seized, contained, commanded, composed, confined, restrained Soul devoured, contro…

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Hey there, I mean no disrespect, but why do men constantly barrage females that don't live in the same state or country with email and demands? Even if they do actually live here (sometimes very questionable), they also seem to think just because they seek a 24 and 7, everyone wants to be in that kind of relationship from the morning they wake up to the time they close their eyes. well, not everyone does. lol

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Lets all be Reborn today. +

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Does anyone else kind of admire how clever and elaborate some of these scammers can be?

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Pressie

Update! I can respond to messages now ;)

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In this realistic world, the perfect dominant and submissive/slave relation is not just to have good compatibility in BDSM set up, but also in Vanilla set up..... Unless there is a BDSM village where dominant and slave live just like Amish village

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Sessions are like parties. Everyone likes a party but true friends help setup and cleanup afterwards..

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After one gets what they want, what happens next?

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Need4Curves

Disappointed that today's Wordle wasn't SLAVE!

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TulipGrace

I might be a sub, but right now I really could make a case for beating my contractor... He is seriously just a kid (over 21), and seriously just needs it! He is an idiot!

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DevineDani203

this Morning I woke up feeling generous and decided to give out 3 tasks to online subs begging for attention. It was an epic fail. they deserve a paddle to the ass across my lap, they might enjoy it too much tho.

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JuliusC

Would be interested in having young males who want a holiday in Portugal and experience as slave for week. Period between 1 st Aug and 112th August

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Dragonguy

I find it interesting how many hetero males on here list that they are looking for a Dominant Male. When I contact them, they always go "not looking". So don't check that as someone you are looking for on your profile. It isn't a default so you made that a choice. Be an adult and quit teasing or causing drama. Thank you.

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LadyAllure

Just went on a very long vacation and most of the time I was thinking I do need to get a bag boy for the heavy lifting, however I read these messages and just get bored halfway through it. Especially when I have no idea who I'm talking to. One day someone will understand the assignment and I like. Till then enjoy typing or cut and pasting these book messages.

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imasincereslave

Seeking a realistic and dedicated1950's role reversal relationship. Please contact me if You are seriously interested pursuing the same!

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dilimiti

currently rent in Buffalo NY and going through remnants of my storage unit that I kept for five years that i spent in Colorado and California

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thicktexasqueen

Whoever I was talking to about laptops, I can't find the message thread and I don't remember the model number.

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salaciouswhimzi

salaciouswhimzi

Tonight I Want... It was Monday and Daddy text messaged her around 10am: “White knee highs” She smiled. She loved getting his texts. It made the day 100 times better because she knew he was thinking about her. At noon came the next message: “Red butt plug.” Candi gulped. The red butt plug wasn’t one of the smaller in their collection. She clenched remembering how full she’d felt the last time Daddy let her wear it. She probably should even leave about 30 minutes earlier just to work it into her ass and be ready for him when he got home. At 2pm came two more messages: “mouth” “swallow” Daddy’s Monday was probably not going so well. She was sure Daddy''s evening would be better. He came in the door and after looking through the day’s mail he grabbed a cold beer and headed into the living room where his favorite chair waited. He could smell the dinner his little girl had in the crock pot and was glad the evening was shaping up to be relatively low key and not demanding. Work had been tough and he was looking forward to the plans he’d set in motion that morning. Using the remote on the entertainment system he turned on some music, kicked off his shoes and threw his head back closing his eyes and just waited. He’d hoped she wouldn’t keep him waiting long. A whipping hadn’t been in tonight’s plans, but he’d improvise if he had to. She heard the music come on and knew he was settled. She’d gotten home early, stripped, showered and slipped on her special little girl socks. Then lying on her side and lubing the red butt plug up, she worked it slowly past her tight sphincter, some tears filling her eyes as the large bulb stretched her wide before finally pushed beyond her openi…

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O M G the journal feature is back! Great because I love to write!

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Many have the talent to burn a bridge few have the talent to build constantly build one

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xdominantx

she should check into Facebook every now and then.

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pizzapuppiescows

I am not good with dimensions and distance. How big is a room? I don't know, two and a half couches by a couch and a love seat. If you tell me something is 100 yards from here I assume it's in the next town. Which I will get lost getting to because I am horrible with directions. My brain doesn't hold space for such things. I'm okay with that. It's very busy in there.

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nytekat

I don't like to admit it? But I need my parents! Yes I know that isn't cool! However once your parents rush to your aid 16 HOURS away from you!!??? Well?! I freak out when they are away ! And they are out...I know where they are. And I will be with them next week, so I REALLY am worried over nothing? BUT STILL!!!

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I'm no longer sure that as a species, we're intelligent enough to survive. The Overton window has moved most of the way to "Are you fucking kidding me?"

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LadyLeatherman

Don't beat around the bush, ask respectfully. I'm not looking to fix your situation nor looking for any live-inservitude. I don't own slaves, don't desire them.

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skeltee9

Looking for a creative sadist / disciplinarian near the Philadelphia area. I like them mean, strict, and ones who love to see me suffer. If you have nothing on your profile related to this, please don't message or send me a detailed message on your experience and/or pics/vids that you like. I rarely open one liner messages.

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Dombozotryingagain

Dombozotryingagain

wearing a plug is an important step for a sissy. it teaches her where her pleasure comes from now. it teaches her to relax for entry and exit of it. it teaches the sissy to grip onto the narrow neck in sort of a milking motion, toning your sissy pussy pussy. OH and the plug, when replaced will hold inside the load of seed a real Man has pump ed deep inside a sissy's loins as a reward for their service to them. a sissy should be wearing a plug lomg before she has an owner.

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MakeYouMyToilet

My correct age is 36. I don't want to edit my profile. Since this website takes down one's profile offline for any sort of edit.

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HuckleberryHouse

I have one major regret in life, I once hurt somone who meant the world to me and then she told me she hated me. I think a lot about that and that I would do things differently if I had a chance to never make that regrettable decision. Sometimes hindsight is the clearest vision we have.

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MsMeowKitty

This is harder then I thought to type and do other things while being eaten and fingered and squirting. Maybe I should just use my phone...lol

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Well, I had another birthday, so: amateur paleontologists , hmu.

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dancesonstarlight

dancesonstarlight

Luna is doing much better. I have more answers health wise for myself. Upward and onward, always.

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In some relationship, the sub has to guess what is required in a relationship. Some view a list of requirements as a control issue. There is something comforting in knowing what is expected. There is a huge learning curb to learn all that is required. It takes time and commitment. There are those who just want the good stuff. Many want to have.at the feet experience but have no clue to get there..

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Flights of fancy can reveal overlooked facts of the real world. Fritz Leiber said "He who lies well, tells more truth than he knows.". There are many ways of determining the nature of the world we share. Unfettered flight of the imagination is one of them.

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Went to the podiatrist and was hit with news I was not ready for. Need to think seriously about what my next steps should be. Very unsure right now. Do I keep pushing forward working myself past the point of pain or do I take early retirement and concentrate on fixing what's wrong. This is not an easy decision for me and there is no quick fix.

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omegaslavesought

At some point, the use of restraints is either 1 a failure of commitment by the subslave, or 2 a failure of will by the masterdom, or 3 a kink only.

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cenzo07

WOW A year and a half without saying a word to Me.Should I say who ??? After many, many years of talking with eachother. Over 12 years. Deepest and Darkest Secrets W/we both shared. Just like to know if you are doing ok. You can't never trust someone or anyone once you share your pictures with them. And they share them with other's... I could never do that to you,like someone did that to you. Sent your picture to Me of you. Where are you??? Hello, well it has been just a little bit over two years now since W/we_I spoken to you. I Do hope you are ok whom you are ever with now, to be with a He, she or even they. I do hope you are serving who you are with very well. I hope you have a Wonder Holidays that are coming with your family, maybe if you can find the time that you can talk send Me a note I like to know how you are doing...

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Windsweptgold0

I read it but.... * I didn't really read the words I just looked at the pics * I didn't think when you said I had to be in the same country that you meant physically had to be * I didn't think when you said no one under 50 that you would not make an exception for me as I am very mature * I didn't think when you did not say to send the pic, I have of myself to you when I ask that you really didn't want to see the pic of myself. * I didn't think you meant you would not give me a chance, after all, how can you resist me Well, I filled out my profile and made it as simple as I can so please don't think you can get me to play a game so you get what you want. Read my profile and respect it. I am happy to chat nothing more if you don't fit the bill.

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commited12u

Enjoy the exchange of power, knowing that you are simply a thing. Cherished and respected for its submission but still something that can and will be used to please and amuse.

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jojo has been aware of its animal soul nearly all its life. It has been lucky enough to have been Owned as a pet several times. Each time, it has become more and more aware how completely that soul comes to the surface when the animal feels safe with or is overcome by, a new Owner.This animal spirit is so intense and complete, that jojo will learn quickly to obey commands and will give itself completely to its Owner. It becomes like any animal pet, absolutely at its Owner’s whim. Similarly to when an Owner takes possession of any animal whether it’s a dog, a horse or whatever, They will have complete control and will train that animal for whatever purpose They desire, and use any methods of training They feel is appropriate.

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1/11/2025 The fires in SoCal are absolutley horrific. Victims have lost everything but the clothes they were wearing. Here is a suggestion for those who may be in the path of the fires, and pretty much everyone else, too. Take some time to scan all your important documents and store the files in a cloud account.Pickup a couple 5 gallon water jugs, fill them and keep them near (or in) the car.Pack a bag with a change of clothes, prescription meds, non-perishable snacks, a radio, a flashlight and batteries, etc.Make a plan to meet family members at a specific place in case you get separated. The FEMA web site has a detailed list of what you should have in case you need to get out on short notice.Get yourself ready before a disaster hits.

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nytekat

Is driving THAT important? Because I can't.

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LadyArakney

To those who don't know (and some who do) I am very to the point and come across as harsh and rude. I know the ones I seek, am specific about that and won't settle for less than that just as I dont expect anyone else to settle for less than what makes them content as well. So to those who send messages saying they want to serve Me, aren't local to Me, tell Me nothing about themselves, as well as how and when they can serve Me, as well as reading what My specifics are ... keep on going. Sending Me unsolicited photos will just get your message deleted.

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LondonTriangle

Unless you are local to London or travel to London (at your own expense) please do not contact me. I do not have time to play fantasy with you through my laptop. I am NOT going to over use adjectives to describe a setting that does not exist. We can NOT eat a meal virtually throuh this message service. We can NOT enjoy your grasp of my breasts through this message service. We can NOT hear me squeel due to satisfaction on this messaging service. We can NOT touch our skin on this message service. We can NOT enjoy a glass of wine on this messaging service. I can NOT use my silk on you on this messaing service. I can NOT call you late on Friday night demanding you make a trip to my place for sexual attention on this messaging service. So politely unless you can ring my door bell, turn up with some flowers and lubricant and a decent bottle of red wine, politely will you F-off and go submit your horny essay to some shit literature competition that equally does NOT exist. Thank you

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uniquib

New cage, new fantasy unlocked. The fit amd feel is completely different than anything I've had before. It has me thinking maybe I really could shrink my clitty. With some time and dedication. I think I could do it.

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As those that have been here for a while know, updating a profile is not the best way to go. So, just using this avenue to provide a brief update. I am now 54. Time marches on. I am looking for a Female Led Relationship.

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LadyMaree

Late night visit here.... before bed. Will try answer some message too

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THE SHOUTIEST PRETEND SUB EVER (TM) I admit I don't have a normal or usual profile. I don't identify particularly as a sub, and I believe plenty of kinksters here feel limited with the list of titles and roles that this website has provided. So best way to get to know me, is read my profile. I repeat, READ MY PROFILE!! Seriously, I made it easy for everyone coming across my profile to know what they are getting into and if you see yourself you don't fit any or most of what you read, then it's hardly that you'll make the cut. Calling me names or insulting me won't change my mind, if anything I will emphasize on my list. Your shitty approach shows how much of a dipshit you are, I don't give a fuck if you're the domliest dumb in the world, respect goes both ways, the moment you insult because you cannot take rejection, expect an equal response suitable for you. Dismissing what you read speaks a lot about you as an individual who would not respect the limits and the boundaries of their sub. So next time take the no for what it is and move on, life is too precious to act like a jackass.

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ToriB

What part of UK ONLY are we not understanding. If i wanted a Dom abroad i would get myself a passport!!!!

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look4friendfirst

Waiting approvel from today, hope to be fully online soon.

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Finally half settled into my new home and have more than 30 seconds to spare. Feels good

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If you amp up a straight woman feminine ways, make sure she can handle getting hit on by lesbians. If I take a pup to a park and it finds another owner, it was never mine to begin with. How to keep your counter top clean, pick up your slave and drop it on the counter top. If the counter top is full drop the slave and say too bad so sad for you. A mess has stop you from having fun. Maybe next month. Laughs Some doctors won't let you take pictures when the slave is getting examined laughs. If I can't motivated you from way over here to become a better version of your self.. there something wrong with the relationship.

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What is so hard to believe or understand about a Gentleman Dom? Being Dominant doesn't mean you have to be an asshole, rude, and/or abusive. You can be kind, gentlemanly, and even romantic. You certainly don't have to be sadistic! Personally, I feel that sadistic Doms are insecure pretenders. It is completely unnecessary for a truly Dominant person to have to beat another into submission. If you aren't able to dominate and control any situation, by sheer force of will and personality - then you aren't dominant. As for the truly submissive... they are looking for dominant personalities to follow and to lead them. No beatings are necessary. When a truly submissive person is eagerly sucking my cock... it isn't because their backside is criss-crossed with red welts from a cane. Why is this so hard to imagine??

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incubus04

Alright for the those who can't seem to grasp the concept. Yes I was born a woman, I now identify as a man. I am in the process of transitioning, top surgery to be booked soon.

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DominantbbwVT63

DominantbbwVT63

this is going take some time, have dr appt with my dr end of the month.

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I don't claim to be free of the typically outsized-ego that regularly accompanies dominant types. I do claim to be good-humored, realistic, and occasionally self-deprecating about it, though. Because I'm not play-acting, and I'm not self-narrating, and I didn't see this stuff in a movie, and I'm not clothing psychotic or sociopathic traits in the convenient garb of "dominance". I will mention this, in case it's of interesting: I don't want what anyone can have. That's not me being judgmential; that's just something useful to know if you want to know something about me. Now, if you do NOT want to know something about me, why on Earth did you read this far?

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There's no better place to live than Wyoming, although the challenge of befriending like-minded folks is a bit of a challenge. While I certainly enjoy and crave the complete submission of a male slave, I would also like to find some friends, regardless of gender or orientation who share an interest in BDSM and would enjoy talking about it along with the normal chat of friends.

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MastrLoki

I need to feel the smack of my hand upon your face when you defy me like the brat you are, hear your whimpers as my belt bruises your ass, see you quiver as I make you orgasm over and over, feel you gag as I push your head and slide my cock deeper into your throat, hear your muffled groans as I pound deep into you from behind.

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Someone needs a short leash. Laughs. Dam thing keeps wandering off.

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It not the sex or the kink. It the trust and the smile afterwards

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Yes, it is venting, and rightly so. It is IMMENSELY frustrating to see "transgender" under someone's "Looking for" section only to find that 95% or better of them only mean MtF. If that is the case, you need to state that in your profile. You know, that part you didn't fill out. It is also so very tired of people stating that they are looking for transgender people when what they mean is "I'm only interested in sissies." NEWS FLASH: being transgender MtF is NOT the same thing as being a sissy. Being a woman and being forced to ACT as a woman are NOT the same thing. And if one more person expresses interest in it, that clearly states FtM in its profile, and asks it if they will dress up in lingere as a sexy woman the answer is no. It tried to accomodate several people, willing itself to be okay with this because it feels alone, but it isn't ok. It all but broke mentally and physically before making the difficult decision to transition. The price it paid was immense and it made that decision because it was the healthiest one for it. So do not for a second think that asking someone who is transgender, not a cross dresser, not a drag queen, not anything remotely feminine, is acceptable. To think you're going to force someone to go back to acting as if the worst part of their life never existed DOES constitute abuse. And if it is abuse it is not BDSM. On top of that it shows that you don't care about the person you will be in charge of protecting and it flat out shows ignorance on your part and we have enough idiots on here claiming to be Doms. Don't be one of them. If you genuinely don't know the difference between transgender, cross dressers, drag kings and queens, and other variants, please do yourself the favor of looking these up. Education is amazing and seeing someone who is invested in understanding things and growing is super sexy. If you genuinely don't care, do us all a favor and delete your profile.

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Yet again time to head to Florida. Looking to meet a grown dominant man/cpl and m/w cpl.......AND female Dom! Am here to have a great time - have my limits pushed and maybe meet that special relationship. Look good - staying young in appearance and mind! Let's chat.....and meet!

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MsBehindTheScene

MsBehindTheScene

Attention paid long enough.

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Looking for a medical trained, scientist/researcher dom who seeking a sub to be this experiment lab rat. Looking for dom who is into total genital surrender, forced clit enlargement, forced hermaphrodites mod, frequent ass flushing and squirt training. This is not a roleplay search.

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Sex without Orgasm. When we focus on orgasm as the ultimate goal, reaching a truly orgasmic state rarely happens. That highly aroused, super horny, primal state where the sexual energy is exploding inside you. That state disappears quickly once we experienced the release of orgasm. Don’t get rid of that sexual energy. Use it, let it build and then just like edging during masturbation, back off and stay on the mountain top of pleasure. Choose not to cum. When you orgasm it is your body’s way of involuntary get rid of built up sexual tension. Stay with the sexual bliss, feel it, use the sexual energy, choose to control it as long as possible. Once you have experienced the endless waves of ecstasy and a more intimate, deeper connection to yourself, your body, and your partner, orgasm and ejaculation will no longer be the most important part of sex or the end goal. Pleasure can go on for hours. That amazing blissful feeling can stay with you even after sex and you can use that energy to become more present and powerful in every area of your life.

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LondonTriangle

Phew and thank god! I nearly forked out just under £500 on the wrong specimen: 1. £295 for harness gear - custom made still lush 2. £50 for the application in 2 sizes 3. £95 rope bondage lesson but getting discount as the teacher is an old friend of mine Will still spend for myself but if I ask a man questions it means I am investing time to understand how to give you what you want. You can't give me a second, ok, harness yourself. I am good. Still investing in the supplies just finding a worthy destination. Some people like to talk forever and not act on their impulse I was thinking lets act on the impulse not just talk about it.

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TheVintageYears

TheVintageYears

Life can be very funny. Some conversations start with uncertainty but over time blossom into connections you treasure, while others can feel very good at the start but then feel as if something is off. I have been talking with a couple for some time. They were primarily a cuckold couple, with a development path of increasingly rough, forceful sex, but they had had one encounter with a professional Dominant sometime back, when she was flogged and evidently reached subspace without knowing what actually happened. Let's just say they understand the psychology and physiology much better now that we have been talking. Lately, there have been emerging signs that "he" is a sadist. "She" thinks she is a masochist because she has a high pain threshold, but she isn't. She is a hedonist who loves her husband. Turns out all they wanted was someone, me(?), to turn up and flog her arse mercilessly, driving her to sobbing hysteria on her way to subspace (hopefully). He wants her tears, crying inconsolably as she is beaten. I am not judging - each to his own - but it became clear that what they want is not who I am - not even who I might be. So today I told them. I was met with an "OK. Thank you. Goodbye." and was then immediately cut off from contact. They shared the account (I think) - of course, it could all be a sham - but I think it was "him" who did the terminating. Sometimes right is right and wrong is simply wrong. I do feel better knowing I stayed true to me, but I do wonder where they go next. Back to that Dom in Spain?

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Isolation.. a word: it's provocative, conveys certain idealism, primal

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Dombzotryingnow

Dombzotryingnow

a sissy shpuld be circumcised. the head sould be visible to see if she's leaking impotent sissy goo.

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ForcefulDutch

Vanilla people are sometimes more loyal and kinkier than the kink people. Don't only look in the lifestyle for partners..you might be disappointed later..if you didn't fish in the big ocean.

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I'll love to make new friends, and have made a few on here. I'll chat with almost anyone, be friends with Trans, men, and women, Doms, subs, and slaves. But the Slave I'm looking for is female. So if we get a friendship going, and we've talked for a while, don't get the wrong idea. Unless we've talked about ownership, or meeting up, we are just friends at this point. To those I have met on here already, thank you for being friendly. My Dom slash Master side is held back for my owned alone. I'm really a nice guy in the vanilla world.

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Bdsm vaccum cleaning. Tied in ropes naked on the floor. Submissive has to roll around so I can vaccum the carpets underneath If the sub doesn't move out of way vacuuming the privates tend to make them roll out of the way. Laughs

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68me

Another year is coming to an end and I hope 2024 is ending on a positive note for you . wishing you a wonderful new year that is almost upon us with much continued happiness.good health and success for you ,your family, loved ones and Friends !

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nymphea

I hadn't realised the journal was back. It was missed

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Partial paraplegic here remember And never had an enema before. I imagine it as... Forced upon ne. Retrained in the tub..over a block.mouth taped. Legs suspened up ftom the ceiling by spreader bar. Anling me downwards . Hands tied together and chained to the facet. Leash tied to grab bar connected to my collar. spanked hard. Til start to cry and. submit He enjoys this Takes time penetrating me Pussy first...just cuz Then my ass. With fingers. Using plugs on me. Testing it... Ill resist a bit. Yes...it stretches. Hurts... Spanked hard.. sumit again Cheeks spread..i grunt when tube is inserted. Told fluid will ve warm, but not hot,,,he will control its flow...as the fluid bag is tied to the shower curtain bar. I feel the trickle at first.. then more I squim. Grunt He shifts my hips..more upward. Slaps hard Now stay there. You need snother bag. You want it warm.. dont you? .slap!...dont you? I nod. Muffle sound f yes uder the tape Good girl...very good. He says..stroking my cheek.. then pinches abd twists my nipple Be back shortly. And adusts the flow. He returns in a fes minutes. Bag is empty. Just in time he says. And puts the new bag on...this will be warm again he warns.. He alllows my muffked groans, and squirns..as the water trickles in...then seens to gush Mmm...very nice my dear. He stands..watching me Suddenly.. he yanks the chain on the pullly...angling me more My hands pull snd tug His hand strokes my lower belly...sides Mmm...i think one more bag will do it dear You hold slot..thats ok.... The solution i gave you..will clean out your lower colon and digestive tract. Leaning down he whisoers.. all through the large intestines...into your smal. Working its nagic to bresk down food. Debris...which will ALL come out of you when im done. As nany bags as it takes. Solution.. working its way in youre body. He kisses my cheek. You wont shit for a week. And...once …

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Look4onlinedaddy

Look4onlinedaddy

It won't rain all the time. The sky won't fall forever. And though the night seems long Your tears won't fall forever.

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he's threatened to "post all my texts on my pages so that the community can see how spiteful i am being"... let him expose my pain, anger, sadness and confusion if he must. it could hopefully be a good lesson for submissives to steer clear of him. it could hopefully be a good lesson for "bedroom doms" and swingers to steer clear of BDSM submissives. i know that others who have a true understanding of BDSM will understand the pain when a D/s relationship ends, and the responsibility of the Dominant when that relationship ends.

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Tennwhiskey2025

Tennwhiskey2025

No pee no diapers no hoods. No exceptions.

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Inspired to the possibilities of the greatness of you submission.

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I cant suddenly send messages back but cant share the screenshot 1of it dont know why I try later Sorry

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DaddysDesire01

I love the end result from getting my nails done but HATE getting my nails. It's the touching and the not self aware patrons that bother me. I should have booked a weekday appointment, but got busy with work. Ugh!

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Aridgarden

thoughts from the peanut gallery i am sure that it is the insulation of the internet that inspires such trollish behaviors but the attempts at baiting are truly pointless. i know my true nature, and my place within a mutually gratifying Ds relationship, and my partner never has reason to question or doubt my submission to him. that being said, I am not particularly submissive to others, strangers with whom I have never engaged in conversation, family who would take the opportunity to walk all over me, etc, I am respectful to all but am not everyone's submissive. i do live my life in service to others, caregiving and family household management, but again, my most true and strongly alpha submissive personality is only visible to the one individual to whom i freely grant possession of myself to. should you read this and think, well she isn't really a submissive at all, or she should be on some other site, or I'm going to tell this bitch what is really up, please move on to someone else's profile, perhaps they are better suited to your interests.. i wish you all much luck and safety in your endeavors.

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There is something magical about a naked sub dropping a collar at my feet.

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lassie70

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MsMeowKitty

Just curious what's with new interest in fart smelling????

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helptofem

Omg it's Katie and I have had my orkiectomy surgery it's so awesome the effaspects I'm about healed up and I want to talk after my balls werere removed I'm not a man it lifted guilt and has opened up such slut desires

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ForcefulDutch

I am always curious how people meet after being here on CS. It is so important to express who you are and what you need else you might get more than wished for. It is confusing ( to me) when people say I am a sub slave. Or saying I am submissive or kajira. Sub, slave and kajira or 3 different things to me. To someone else they could be all the same. The risk is that if you introduce yourself as kajira (a Gorean slave) you will meet other behavior from me than when you say Submissive. We never read about this stuff. But it is so interesting.

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Pictures are on my fetlife with the same name

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Miniburro

Loving this cooler weather. Makes me miss being up north!

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needsadisticowner

i am probably too extreme for the fetish players on here,i am a slave not a sub and definitely not a switch.i seek an owner who demands total control and devotion,i know from a previous relationship that i am a better person an more content when owned by a no nonsense owner who demands total control with rules,protocol and strict disiphiine.someone who knows that what she requires from her property will at times be hard and challanging for me but she would not bend or waver on her demands to make me the propert she demands ,i know the benefits of living with the knowledge that disiphline is delivered regually to make me a better person

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slavemasterandrew

slavemasterandrew

I've recently had the chance to think about TPE more, and I decided that there are ultimately four types, three of which I consider acceptable. In order of intensity, there is first the type, which is simply pushing past where a sub/slave would normall safeword, but not pushing so far that the subconcious is actually forced to acknowledge that they are not in control. This is a stage where a slave is usually begging or angry. The second is the type that I practice currently. Pushing past where people think their limit is, past the second limit where their subconscious gives and realizes that it can only endure, but not going past the last one. The one that makes the mind retreat and can cause trauma. I just brush up against it. The third is when someone deliberately breaks through that last barrier, repeatedly doing so in order to shape the slave into what they desire, using that shaping to subsume other desires and wants, to change who they are at the core level. This is acceptable when a Master has the time, will, and facilities to manage fully breaking a slave, and a slave has agreed beforehand. The last is just the territory of psychopaths, just breaking for the sake of breaking, to do as much damage as possible, and only for their own amusement.

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So Family group chat got really weird the other day. Im ok wit over the top topics but some are downright scary. hubby has some really perveted family membere

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RoyBurn

I run a bdsm Dungeon for the local bdsm community, I´d be glad to show it to you and what's inside it, if you are interested of course. You will proably love it ! I can´t upload many pics here, but you can check me out on Instagram as @roy.ropes , or on Fetlife as RoyBurn

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switchyslave

Still not interested in long distance, I will chat with respectful folks.... aka treat you as you treat me and vice versa..... If you attempted conversation or chat with me expressing interest then leave me hanging with no communication then you have successfully eliminated any chances for future vetting or conversation.... I would think the same if I did it to you right .....I don't delete messages so I can keep track of who I talk to so I have receipts.

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bootman98125

So, now that a certain person, who used to live within 20 miles of me, has moved clear across country, he's suddenly showing interest in me. NEXT!!!!!!

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I prefer a Man my age or older. I'd really enjoy being a toy for a Dominant older Man. I forgot to include this in my profile, and thought it would be quicker to make it a journal entry. A conversation to start would be great.

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TheBigBlackCar

Formerly PrimalTallyBBC. of Tallahassee.

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sammie

Not interested in hookups. Please move along.

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Madametanya

Just so you know I am addicted to cotton school girl plaid skirts with opaque white pantyhose or thigh high nylons. Also addicted to gingham checks for skirts and dresses and blouses. These fabrics and patterns really get me excited and turned on sexually and always catches my eye when anyone is wearing these. Also addicted to white in most all feminine clothing, but especially white, tight denim fem jeans and shorts. Also get excited with cotton dresses and skirts and camisole tops in stripes. Love those stripes! Now do not laugh at this but the cotton check table cloths, like in Italian Restaurants and Pizza Parlors also turns me on. I like the smell of that type of cotton fabric along with the check pattern. Horny Crossdresser !!!

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When you are truly into it you do it and your mouth remains shut

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I have removed my photo. I am not particularly enamored with the EULA here and do not want my images used at their discretion. If you would like an image, please ask.

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I seem to get quite a bit of interest from male submissives, and I want to be direct, helpful, and clear: Guys, I sincerely appreciate the interest you show, and I am 100% supportive of you. 100%. You already know what's coming next ;) But: That's not an interest of mine; it just isn't. I don't think there's anything "wrong with you", or anything stupid like that; the heart wants what it wants, no matter who we are. It's just not something that's going to happen with me. Hope this helps you to focus on something/someone where it could work.

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An awesome submissive isnt one with out issues or problems. It the one who is dedicated to the relationship and works hard to keep relationship strong in communication and trust. Without time and effort relationships values shrink..

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LondonTriangle

Spending a month kick-starting my inner cleanse. Only eatting fresh fruit, veg and nuts and sparkling water for 30 days. Will spend 30 mins in the morning meditating and 30 mins at night meditating. I can feel myself absorb some negative energy that does not belong to me.

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Master0fMARs

ExxonMobil Corp has set into motion a suggestion I made to them in an email to the corporate offices. I rather laid into them for not embracing the use of hydrogen as a fuel to replace oil. Here's the response, In Baytown, Texas, they are building a chemical reactor which uses 2 componets, water and methane. There is pressure and heat applied but I can surely trust its less than the yield. The reaction produces all 8 hydrogen atoms involved. Leaving CO² which can be made solid by liquefied air. That would br dry ice as it commonly called. What this means is unlike as are told by politicians there is no power source for cars and trucks. There now is many. Composting manure will be one of those sourced, human waste both sewer and garbage. All agro byproducts even wood chips, as well as coal and other natural sources for Methane. There's a secondary win here because Methane that currently goes into the atmosphere is a serious greenhouse gas. Hydrogen is also able to combine with Oxygen to make water and electrons. One electron per atom. This is more efficient than a battery using far less chemicals with a longer life, faster charging, and less weight allowing electric aircraft. Let not vote our way into a Putin wet dream and kill this opportunity to have an utopia.

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I need a bare bottom spanking

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AshT

I've been a little absent for a while, I just spent 3 weeks in hospital. It was not fun. Lots of painful test & procedures. Glad it's over. I have a long term condition, multiple sclerosis (MS). Finally started some treatment for it instead of a fistful of ineffective painkillers.

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Valuptas

Getting settled into Indianapolis. Also I'm mostly on FetLife now

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Stepping back and giving up the chase for a bit. I will likely be back, but not pursuing anyone until the docs have helped me beat the cancer I just found out I have. Not all surprises are wonderful. But, just another challenge to conquer. Anyway, until I beat that I won't be able to take care of anyone else. If I'm here and things haven't changed for the better, I'm just chat''n and daydreaming.

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It was my intention to update my profile, until I saw that it would be subject to review, limiting my access until such time as the powers that be approved the update. As we all know, these reviews can take forever, so journal updates it is. It's been a minute since I had a snoop around here, and I now remember why I last tired of it...so much repetition of very basic information, so many idiots, very little connection. Perhaps I can set out some basic fundamentals here, and direct people to familiarise themselves. If you don't spark some interest, I won't be able to identify you from the others. Think about how many messages I receive, each with little to define them. The same taudry back and forth that bores me in every day life, where I am less than inclined to accept it from the general population, is not acceptable from you. If you are unable to be transparent, I have no interest. The psychological ect of Ds situations is by far the more intense element. If you are unable to bare your deepest needs, to develop a level of blind trust in me that allows me to control your experiences we probably won't have much to talk about. Kink is inextricably linked to this experience, but I am not interested in those of you experiencing this as merely a sexual experience. For me, those experiences lack depth, and give me no joy. In terms of kink, my experiences have shown me that these things are best explored when there is an established Ds bond. If I don't know you, know your hopes, your fears, the things that drive you, well, finding the ways to control you that give me pleasure will be impossible. I have spoken with many subs who imply they are more experienced than they are. Don't do that. I have no issues with novices. Whether you are experienced or entirely new to this side of life makes no real difference. If you submit to me, you will be moulded to fit me, regardless of what you have or have not experienced in the past…

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WaitingMistress

Another one. This one hurt.

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i decided to say yes. pt. 1 "Next time, I would like to mark your beautiful body. Would you like that?" Oh wow. i wasn't sure what to say. On one hand, i do have a love for heavier play that usually leaves at least some marks or bruises. But on the other hand, it had been so long. Maybe 4 or 5 years. my previous Dominant having had a style that typically did not leave more than the faintest traces of bruising, plus my bad experiences before him with men who marked me up brutally (too fast, too soon, not great situations) left me questioning. Did i want to endure that type of scene? Could i? my submissive side wanted to say yes, to please him. But my cautious side said, "i'm not sure." _________________________________ Over the next few days i think about it, processing it. Our previous sessions had been great. He seemed to be a good communicator, respectful of my limits. The type of Dominant who is in this lifestyle for the enjoyment of it---not to actually harm or damage the sub out of a sense of misplaced anger or a twisted need to feel superior by beating up a girl. i liked him, and wanted to please him. He said that he liked me, very much. That he wanted to keep me. His actions seemed to back up his words, at least in this phase of our developing relationship. As i rewound our previous sessions...the passion, the pain and the affection...my body started to ache in the most delicious way. i decided to say yes. "Sir, next time we are together, will you please mark my breasts?" i can feel the heat rising in my body as i send the text. He responds quickly. He tells me that he is pleased, and what instruments should he use. "Whatever i can handle" is my meek reply. He lets me know that i can withdraw my consent at any time. He tells me that i make him happy.

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Eslavegirl

A letter to God Is it an image that lies Cuz i believe You don't Yet looking around And what scenes i see Baffle as drivers Create accidents and We all know accidents Happen because well, Who is driving, after all And surrender tastes Bittersweet yet i have been Beat beyond what time Can tell any for many may Believe it's easy, this life That now aches inside My body and beyond mind For what i know to be true Is what a friend shared To simply live, love and do For You, for ultimately We die and no one cares And most of humanity Cannot dare heaven On Earth but from birth We learn to yearn for what Loss brought when fate Raped destiny and man Lost and woman lost And no children were Bred because soon Enough we will be Better off dead... zamarra 7/13/24

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geoOct1st

Reflecting i sit here in chastity, reminiscing on my past, contemplating the decisions i have made, rationalizing some and regretting others. It is the ones i regret which pierce deep into the soul, humbling the spirit, causing conflict within, creating a helplessness that overwhelms me into a deepening slavishness. Recollections of disobedience consume my mind, no relief, no escape, an affirmation that i am not perfect. Is it possible for me to make reparation? Are there limits or do i kneel quietly and endure whatever is given to me for my disobedience? geo

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It Is What It Is. I hate feeling like I have been played. My Spidey senses definitely were not tingling as much as they should have been. I guess it is true that, as someone once told me, time is the test of everything. Oh well, back to the drawing board.

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TuneOrTrain

Who wants to cry? it could happen today.

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I had stripped my old profile down to almost nothing and over a year later, it still had not been approved. I have no idea why. Anyway, I am putting all the vital info as a Journal entry, just so I don't have to wait another year and get the same result. Photos are available on request. I am not changing anything more on the profile.

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Boi is back and things are looking much better. The hiatus did wonders, He now focuses on me and my happiness, does his assigned chores without complaint and continually looks for things which please me. He is superb in being there when needed but never seems to be in the way. Of course his negociated return comes with the stripping of privileges which in time he can earn back. These include no clothes, no privacy, no use of furniture, on his knees except when chores necessitate his stanking, as well as no boys time like golf, fishing etc.

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DevineDani203

I think I'll be taking some time away from collarspace after my last week of interactions. Stop contacting me regarding a relationship you're clearly not ready for. If you lack the means, time and discipline surrounded around being a submissive then leave me alone. You will not change my mind on what I require or am looking for. Especially the less than well endowed... you know no woman will be satisfied from that. anyways if you're looking to connect you can join my group i run on fet. I may be back occasionally to check messages but that's it. I'll also be removing all pics but one from here. https://fetlife.com/groups/286483 Goddess Dani

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domorlando407

It seems they have listen to the group. and broght back the Journal.. Still looking for someone fun and open.

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Just a quick update as I hate that profiles disappear into the aether with any changes. As we are all getting older all the time so am I and so are my preferences. I welcome messages from gentlemen of all ages but am most likely to respond to ones in the 25-55 range. And to be fair and honest I myself have turned 47 recently.

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AdorablyBroken

I don't engage in casual play! I may play with someone if I know them well and trust them, but of course my Master (Yes I am collared and you can see me wearing my collar in my main profile pic)has the right to final say in such things. I have no interest in play with submissive men for any reason.

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I train a submissive to have strength when life gets tough. Life isn't always easy.

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BikerMaster2

I don't get on here with high expectations. No reason to do so. The vast majority are fake.

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I walk into a bookstore. I see shelf after shelf; thousands and thousands of books. I'm not interested in most of them. Of the ones that do catch my interest, I'll pick a small percentage. Of the ones I pick up, I'll read the jacket. Of the ones where I read the jacket, I may feel intrigued enough to read a few paragraphs. And of the ones where I read a few paragraphs, I may choose a book. I walk along the beach. I see hundreds of thousands of shells; pieces of shells. Different colors, shapes, sizes. I see them, but I don't really pay attention to 99.999% of them. Sometimes, the light is just right, and a shell my glint just right, and it'll catch my eye. I'll enjoy that moment, but most of the time, I won't go to it and pick it up. Sometimes the best part of it is the noticing, and the glint, and the recognition that's special, at that moment to me. And sometimes I will walk over to it, and sometimes, I'll pick up a shell that I've walked over to. And sometimes, I'll feel compelled to take it with me. Folks... people, human beings, are MUCH more complicated, much richer, MUCH more interesting and diverse than any book, any shell. Finding the right person can take time. That's how it's supposed to work.

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USGOLDSTANDARD1

USGOLDSTANDARD1

this is a message for subs and slaves, but it applies to everybody, dominant too. Stop saying stupid shit like" you don't want it to be about sex. BDSM is completely about sex, everything about is about sex and sexuality. If you don't admit that you're lying to yourself and everyone else .

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greeneyesdown

I read this quote and I like it as it makes me think... "submissives need to be told what to do, slaves need to do what they are told"

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Blkitchincharge

Blkitchincharge

Hey all you so called subs, and slaves!! There is nothing wrong with me as your Domina getting to know you as a person, prior to controlling you as my property!!!

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hardplay1952

We now own a farm. Huge live oaks, a house, barns, and a 3 bedroom dungeon. The need for a slave has become more important. Yes, live-in is possible.

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ForcefulDutch

Not sure if I am a Builder or a Destroyer. I enjoy both..and both are needed

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I like mild tit/nipple discomfort with a little thing call supplecups. Makes my nipples hurt and feels both hurty and very good. Also very sensitive. I need a service sub to restrain me and then do this to me. Then, maybe kiss and suck them to make the hurt even worse. Service sub or switch...or even a dom. Nipple stuff makes me very subby. Forget my damn name if it's really good.

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It's been a little over a year since I returned to CS after a loooong time away. So much is different; Instead of loads of Gor fans, so many want to use 50 Shades as their new bible ffs! People, its glorified Domestic Violence, please get a grip! What else? Ummm i discovered fb have many Private Ds groups, some informative and others meh not so much! But then so much remains the same; Still many seeking disgression, aka hey I'm married! Still many seeking a doormat or someone looking for a housekeeper and indicate this is slavery because the wife has left or mummy isn't available lol It's harder now because I've been out of the loop for a while, I'm older and as with everything in life others have too. Caught up with some friends from before which has delighted me. Made new friends sub and Dom. And of course those awful people who've been negative and impacted upon me. I too have reacted badly to others and been blocked or ignored, I'm sorry, I miss you x Meeting some really specials who hold my heart in place but live miles away I wish we could meet and hug for ages. I miss what might have been given the right timing, distance and all that. 11 days until Christmas Day, I hope we all get what we want, need and desire. If not, there's the future to look forwards to. Good luck all of us. starLioness xoxo

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hey everyone, sorry for not geting back to anyone yet, i didn't know my profile ahd been approved yet. i will have more details about myself on here asap, and start replying ASAP

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salaciouswhimzi

salaciouswhimzi

He Heard the Bells on Christmas DayShe waited for him by the door. He was working late today, and he’d promised they would have their celebration when he got home. Just having him there was all she wanted, all she needed. He was her star that guided her and she loved showing her appreciation for his gifts.Her cheeks were cold. The red teddie didn’t cover her ass. It didn’t really cover her size DDs that hung over the top either. The white fur trim was fun, playful and she did like the way it felt against her pale flesh. She was wearing jingle bells around her ankles and she played games with herself to see just how still she could be while she waited by the door for him. How long could she stay like that and not hear the bells? She waited, her ass in the air, legs parted slightly, breasts mashed against the floor, her head down, positioned in a way she knew he especially liked to see her. Open. Available. Waiting for him. She heard the car approach, the sound of it in the driveway. She inhaled. The door opened. She twitched. She felt dampness roll slowly down the inside of her thigh and the bells jingled as she shook in anticipation of his arrival. The door shut, the sound of the locks engaged, his footsteps approached the door. She could barely stop of squirming. The damn bells jingled and she silently cursed herself. Had he heard? She held still and listened. Where was he?Her mind drifted to thoughts of him. He was always in there with her. She never felt alone after she’d met him and he’d consumed her mind. It started friendly, but without realizing it, she found herself always thinking about him. He didn’t demand things, they just talked, but she found herself wanting to do things for him. Slowly, he’d moved in her head and she’d stopped feeling lost.She never heard him come up behind her. He’d caught her off guard. His gloved hand muffled a slap across her b…

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prettyjellybean

Heroes and villains always have the same back story—pain. The difference is what they choose to do about it. Villain says “the world hurt me, I'll hurt it back” Hero says “the world hurt me, I'm not gonna let it hurt anyone else.” Heroes use pain. Villains are used by it. - Alex Hormozi

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