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Hetero Male Dominant, 47, Spring, Texas 

Daddmy – a combination of daddy and mommy.


*Not gender-fluid*  It's just a cute name, to describe how much of an affectionate and nurturing daddy, I am.

With that cleared up, let me begin by saying, hello.  My name is Jody, and I'm seeking an unattached woman, to be my adult baby girl or adult little girl, for roleplay.  I'm very much into ageplay & ABDL play.  They're definitely not for everyone, as I've learned, throughout the years; so, I'm only searching for someone, who is looking for a daddy or parental figure to care for them, and discipline, if need be.

Also, I'm 100% daddy.  I am not a switch.

I understand that age play—especially ABDL is not very popular in the community.  However, since I can remember, I've always been drawn to these 2 types of play.  I guess, being a guardian/protector and caregiver, are a part of my DNA.  As we all know, life can get very stressful, so for some, regressing way back and having someone take care of them, can be a huge stress reliever.  ABDL & age play can also, strengthen a relationship, because like many other activities in bdsm, it centers around—love & trust.

I'm unbiased, when it comes to age, race, or body type.  I myself, enjoy working out, 3x a week: resistance training.

I'm not into physically harming, my adult baby girl or adult little girl.  I do enjoy soft-to-mid impact play (no lashing, cutting or bruising), along with humiliation: not degradation.  Though, I will never force my partner to do anything she is not comfortable with.  And if you prefer to keep it private, I'm certainly okay with that, too.  I can be a very sweet & affectionate daddy/caregiver; and I can also be, a strict-disciplinarian daddy.

My preferred age range for roleplay, would be anywhere from infancy to toddler.  The reason being, is that I want my partner, to be regressed where stress and big-girl worries are out of sight and out of mind.  Whereby she can just enjoy, being doted on and taken care of, by her daddy: even, if it's only for a little while. 

I don't mind an online relationship, but only for a limited time.  Therefore, if it doesn't eventually lead into a real-live relationship, then please don't waste your time: if online is only what you're looking for. 

Well, thank you, for taking the time, to read & check out, my profile.  If this interests you, then feel free to message me.  If not, again, I totally understand.

FYI, the photo of me posing with "duck lips," was taken quite a while ago.  A friend and former co-worker of mine, betted me that I wouldn't take a selfie, doing that and post it on social media.  As you can see—I won. {#emotions_dlg.smile} 

I like to be funny/silly, a good part of the time.


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In the interest of improving my domestic service, I have listed my chore calendar.  This is a schedule I have developed and used, but it is only a template to be improved upon.  I would of course modify this in any way necessary to meet the requirements of a service based relationship. Domestic Chore Calendar Daily Mornings Make beds Organize and tidy bedrooms and bathrooms Organize and tidy kitchen and living areas Unload dishwasher Daily Evenings Organize and tidy bedrooms and bathrooms Organize and tidy kitchen and living areas Do dishes Wipe down kitchen counters and table Sweep kitchen Take out all trash Weekly Monday: Dust/polish furniture and window sills and clean interior windows Tuesday: Deep clean floors (sweep/vacuum/mop) Wednesday: Deep clean bathrooms (mirrors/counters/sinks/showers/tubs) Thursday: Deep clean kitchen (counters/sinks) and organize kitchen storage Friday: Grocery shopping Saturday: Laundry and change linens Sunday: Monthly chore Monthly First week: Clean all kitchen/laundry appliances (refrigerator/stove/oven/microwave/dishwasher/laundry) Second week: Polish furniture and kitchen/bathroom cabinets Third week: Organize garage and patios Fourth week: Yearly chore Yearly January: Deep clean and organization of bedroom furniture and all closets February: Deep clean and organization of all bathroom drawers/cabinets March: Deep clean and organization of all kitchen drawers/cabinets April: House external and external window cleaning May: Deep clean of all doors/walls/mouldings/blinds/curtains June: Deep clean and organization of garage and patios July: Deep clean and organization of bedroom furniture and all closets  August: Deep clean and organization of all bathroom drawers/cabinets September: Deep clean and organization of all kitchen drawers/cabinets October: House external and external window cleaning November: Deep clean of all doors/walls/mouldings/blinds/curtains De…
A note from me, K.  A bit of a look into our recent goings on. This was a big moment for me and I want to savor it. I had to break it up because it is quite a long entry.    M has been behaving really well lately! Behavior modification and control is my primary interest and all the implements of our lifestyle are just ways of helping me achieve that control. We have had the conversation regarding my desire for cuckolding before, many times. I bring it up quite a bit, I just can't get it out of my head. I need this for me. Back in 2019 M accompanied me on a few dates with potential bulls, but I don't think he ever thought it would seriously happen. This is very different from when I saw submissive clients professionally. I never ever had sex, I never ever gave head, I never even gave hand jobs. If my clients were allowed an orgasm, they would bring themselves off. M knew that when I finally allowed him sexual contact that we had taken a serious step. A premature ejaculator, he was and is a horrible lay and has never got better. I honestly didn’t expect him to. I got off on my control of him and absolute obedience, not his penis. And now while we have probably only had PIV sex 8 or 10 times in the last 3 years, I desire it more than ever, just not from my husband.  The pandemic drove us all inside and away from people we didn't know. The dates with potential bulls ended and I think M figured that was it. But, my desire for a bull has continued steadily building this entire time and has come to a tipping point. I decided to re-engage the subject in one very direct conversation with M last weekend. I have also decided to keep him on a more frequent chastity release schedule as positive reinforcement while we move forward in adjusting to our dynamic and while finding a bull for me again, in earnest. This conversation was for me to lay out my intentions in full.  We had scheduled this conversatio…
“The Lesson in the Red Chair – Part IV: Devotion at the Edge” T.L. Duncan His forehead rested lightly against my thigh— not touching enough to claim contact, but close enough to breathe in the heat of my skin. That was important. He hadn’t earned full touch yet. “Don’t lean on me,” I warned softly. “You’re in my space, not holding onto me.” He exhaled a broken sound, forcing his trembling legs to support him while keeping his forehead just shy of resting. Good. That tension would serve me well. I let my fingers hover over the back of his neck— close enough for him to feel the warmth, but never letting my skin meet his. “You’re still shaking,” I murmured with quiet amusement. “Yes, Ma’am…” “From the edge?” “Y-yes…” “Good. Stay there.” His breath caught. “You think edging is just denial,” I said, tone low and precise. “But real edging—my edging—turns your obedience into instinct. Not wanting. Not hoping. Serving.” His fingers twitched behind his back, desperate to steady himself. “Keep them still,” I said without raising my voice. He froze instantly. “That’s devotion,” I continued, leaning close enough that my breath brushed his ear. “Not touching me. Not begging. Not climbing into my lap the way your body wants to. Devotion is obeying while everything in you shakes.” He swallowed hard. “Now lift your chin. Keep your hands behind you.” He raised his face slowly, eyes wide and glassy from the ache in his thighs, the tension in his spine, the constant, torturous nearness of pleasure with no release. I placed two fingers under his jaw—light as a whisper—tilting his face up further. “There,” I murmured. “That’s what devotion looks like on you.” A shudder rolled th…
the dark god & goddess: archangel michael and sophia, AKA the daddy dominant and little girl Vibe. through algorithmic divination—how spirit uses music and tech for ascension vibes     the shuffle algorithm divination is so immaculate today. all started out with the synergy of the dark guy and the dark guy with WHITE LIGHTS(spirit changes it to lights to me instead of lies because it's shining light on the black areas of life which lies are dark too) AND BLACK BEACHES summer bummer.   "It's never too late to be who you wanna be (swimmin' in my safe)   To say what you wanna say (tattoo on my face, swimmin' in my safe)   And it's never too late to leave if you wanna leave (better not)   Or to stay if you wanna stay, "   "Hip-hop in the summer (what? What? What?)   Don't be a bummer, babe (what? What? Yeah?)"   i try lana but just like a few days ago i am a rock bottom bummer at times but that's why we're dark you and i. we go there but come back.   this bit requires nuance that a lot of people don't have. you can read this as a bad characteristic..but if you are able to again hold the line be sovereign and fully let go and go back to yourself, this is literally just giving into SAILOR VENUS LOVE ME CHAIN, LOVE AND BEAUTY SHOCK, ROLLING HEART VIBRATION, WINK CHAIN SWORD SHIT...it's just an intense way of loving and fighting for girlies.   it's why i say coming in love and peace viciously and violently. the love and peace is there but it's done in an intense and assertive and if need be aggressive nature. world and other people's choice.   what happens when these two forces unite?   "What? (What? They been at it, check it out) huh? (we been out here, yeah)   Slide inside it, diddy boppin', milly rockin' (what? What? Whoo!)   She just might become my lover for real (yeah that's girl, for real, for real)   I might fuck with her all summer for real (for real…
Chapter one - Sweet Slave (Or, How it all Began). A story I wrote for fetlife.I take the bottle of wine from the fridge and pull the cork, giving it a little time to breathe. I dice the onions, and throw them in the pan. I like that sizzling sound they make... I add the spices, then diced chicken breast. I let it brown a little, before adding the coconut milk and putting the rice on. I get a text from you - you're on your way. I start dressing the table - a rose in a vase, a candle in a brass candlestick, nothing too fancy. I'm not the fancy kind, I don't want to give the wrong impression this early on in a relationship. If this works out, I want it to be for the right reasons. The doorbell rings shortly afterwards. You're smiling as I open the door and ask you in, you genuinely seem pleased to be here - pleased to see me. "I didn't know what else to bring," you say, handing me a bottle of red wine. I smile and kiss your cheek, then take you to the kitchen, where the meal is spread out already. You give me a coy smile as I pull out a chair for you to sit down. "This looks amazing." You take a bite. "You weren't lying, you really do know how to cook!" you exclaim. "This tastes amazing, my local takeaway could learn a thing or two from you..." you giggle a little as you speak. "Honestly, it's such a simple recipe, and I just add a little double cream, it gives it something extra," I say, glad that you seem to be honestly enjoying the food. I pour you a little wine and smile at you. "I'm really glad you agreed to this, I know it must make you very nervous," I say. "I haven't had much luck with first dates in the past. I don't seem to make a good impression until someone truly gets to know me. I guess that's why I wanted to chat online for a while before we actually did this." You smile and look down at your plate, pushing food around, then taking a bite. You glance up at me and smile again, blushing a little. "I'm very shy around people I like - you know, that…
On collarspace today someone messaged me then blocked me so I couldn't reply. I deleted the email and now I wish I hadn't. Basically the person was bitching because of my stated standards on my profile. Three sentences, grammar and punctuation or I will block and delete the email. The person thought they'd be making this fabulous point by pointing out that collarspace has the wierd filter that zaps punctuation and replaces some words. Except I already know about that and it isn't something I block for. I was accused of assuming things that I don't assume, but the person, rather than asking, didn't find out the truth of the matter and rather assumed about me instead. There was more to the email, but it is always irritating when someone makes their own assumptions then accuses me of making assumptions about others. I could update my profile to explain that I know about the filter issues, but anyone coherent and eloquent enough to know about and ask about it has already earned their way into my good graces. And anyone who assumes THOSE are the punctuation and grammar issues that I'm talking about isn't someone I'm interested in anyway. I'm not worried about perfect punctuation, spelling, or grammar. As my profile says, "All initial emails with less than three sentences, or missing capitalization and punctuation, are deleted and the sender blocked." Maybe I can make that clearer, and maybe I will, but the person who thought they were calling me out but didn't have the courage to see what I might reply got under my skin. That kind of cowardice masquerading as bravado is just bullshit. ~Me
  In the Shadows, We Ask Permission: The Sacred Art of Consent By T.L. Duncan (BDSM • Trust • Power Exchange • Consent Education) There is nothing more erotic than choice. In the world of dominance and submission, consent is not a rule of caution — it is the foundation of every breath, every touch, every whispered command. It transforms restraint into trust and obedience into art. Without it, there is only imbalance. With it, there is freedom — an unshakable connection between two souls exploring the boundaries of pleasure and power. The Sacred Power of “Yes” To outsiders, consent might seem like a technicality — a signature before the story begins. But to those who live inside the dynamic, it is everything. Consent is not a one-time agreement; it is a living dialogue. It evolves with mood, comfort, and connection. It is the heartbeat beneath every scene, the signal that both partners are seen, safe, and heard. True surrender is never taken — it is given. A submissive’s trust is a deliberate act of bravery, and a Dominant’s control is a sacred vow to protect it. Negotiation Is Foreplay Before the rope tightens or the candle wax drips, there is conversation. Real, honest, unhurried conversation. Limits are not barriers; they are maps that guide the journey. Soft limits whisper “ask again later.” Hard limits declare “never.” Both are equally powerful and worthy of respect. Negotiation is not unsexy — it is foreplay. It is the spark before the strike, the moment where desire meets understanding. It is a love letter written in the language of respect. Safe Words and Aftercare: The Unseen Bonds A safe word is not weakness. It is trust made tangible — a promise that when one voice says stop, the other listens without hesitation. And aftercare — that slow descent from intensity to softness — is where the truest connection resides. It is …
For fuck's sake, guys. It is truly pitiable how few of you bother to do anything at all to learn about the reality of your own desires. There are non-fiction books, blogs, sites, videos, discussions, munches, classes, seminars, demos, and events all over the place, if you look up from the porn and erotica and think with the upper head. It is nobody elses responsibilty to teach you. Dominant women are NOT automatic teachers of all the stuff. How do you think WE learn it? I've read a whole 3 profiles this evening. This is why I don't bother to read more. They are ignorant, porn-fed, and say nothing of interest. Dominants do not "mold" you into a different person. Daily life in a D/s relationship in the real world without payment living together on a daily basis looks pretty much the same as any other relationship. It is not a constant kinky scene. Most subs wear the same old clothes, do the same old stuff, have the same old hobbies. Their partner is in charge for whatever they have agreed to, but that isn't a constant visible porn scene. A dominant does not live for inspections and demands. It means he asks if a casserole is okay for dinner, and if she says no, he finds something else. It does NOT mean she is standing over him in a corset inspecting his shopping list with a crop in her hand. It doesn't mean you spend your days cringing and hoping every tiny detail is correct. That's erotica. Learn the difference. No, submissive men do not look or act any different than any other men. There is absolutely no need to make a point of how normal you are in public. Subs are ALL normal appearing people. Because that is what they are. Normal people who happen to prefer their partner being in charge. You are not alpha special super sub because you do not crawl in public or do have solid boundaries or do not have social anxiety. None of those things are submissive. You are just another guy. Get over it. And no, if you have social anxiety, insecurities, poor personal boundar…
He enters the bedroom, surveying her in the low light.  She is wearing nothing but a lacy black camisole. She eyes him, nervously.  "Take that off", he growls.  Swiftly, he crosses the room.  Wordlessly, she obeys. All of the sudden, his hands are on her naked body, twisting her, laying her flat on her stomach, pinning her to the bed.  In a flash, he enters her. His hard, thick cock slides in easily but makes her pussy ache. It's raw and sensitive from all the hours of fucking earlier in the night, but it doesn't even cross her mind to complain or ask him to stop. Instead, she purrs, "Thank you, Sir..."  She melts into the sensation while he is above her, on top of her, fucking her like the possession that she is. Stinging slaps on the ass or cruel twists of nipple or breast punctuate the violent tempo.  She is in bliss.  "Please Sir, take what's yours..."    After an indeterminable amount of time, he pulls out of her wet, swollen pussy. Suddenly hands again on her body, forcing her up on all fours now. Spreading her legs, pushing her head down.  He begins to rub the tip of his cock against her asshole.  She takes a deep breath and tries to relax. She wants this. She needs this. She just has to work through the pain of the first entry.  He begins to thrust his lubed cock into her small, tight entry. One slow, deep, thrust and he is halfway inside. She begins to whimper with the pain of it. "Sir, may i please touch myself?"  "Yes you may" is his growled reply.    One more push and he is all the way in. Immediately, he begins to thrust. It takes her breath away. She closes her eyes and embraces the sensation.  "Ooooh thank you Sir for fucking my ass..." she cries, as his thrusts gather speed. She is aware of nothing, nothing but his hard, thick cock pounding her hungry ass. She isn't even aware that she is thrusting back onto him. His hands grip her hips and thighs…
I'm looking for something a little different. I'm looking for a Daddy and/or Mommy with a sadistic streak. I'm VERY into ass play and spanking. I love the emotional release i get from long, hard anal use. I want to be regressed back into diapers using suppositories, laxatives and enemas. I want to be put through long, grueling enema sessions that leave my anus swollen and sore. I want to find someone who will bind my wrists together in front of me and fill my bowels uncomfortably full with warm, soapy water and put me through the humilation of expelling into a diaper as many times as it takes to completely clean me out. I'm looking for someone who will use and abuse my ass regularily. I want plugs, dildos and vibrators used in my ass. Lay me flat on my stomach and finger my tight hole and use a rectal thermometer on me. When i'm naughty, cover an uncomfortably big plug in Vicks or Tiger Balm and make me hold it in my ass until you decide to take it out. Stick a vibrator in my ass and force me to cum until i can't take anymore. If I've been a good girl, lay me on my back, spread my legs wide and lick and suck my pussy, force me to cum over and over until you've had your fill. I want to find someone who will keep my pussy hairless and smooth with shaving or pre-waxed strips. Use tweezers to pluck out any stubborn hairs. I want to be spanked long and hard several times a day until i'm crying. Cut a switch and whip me until my entire ass is covered in welts and knicks. Then use alcohol on the knicks and cuts as i lay there bawling in pain. Spank my already marked and bruised ass just because you want to make me cry and beg. Cover my ass in a soaked facecloth and then remove it and beat my wet ass with a strap or belt. I want to be regressed back to a little girl with strict structure, rules, restrictions, guidance and discipline. Aftercare is a MUST! After each spanking or long ass play or enema session, I need to be hugged and cuddled and snuggled. As much as I lik…
MstrB writing from midtown been looking for one decent slave for some time now it will be well trained for a variety of domestic services and hopefully for the slaves sake it is able to learn from its corrections …even better if it already knows exactly what it’s good for!  ...all its further educating will be done with a strap kept very close by.... it will be made to understand it has no rights no privileges no freedom to come or to go without asking for and receiving  express permission  so much in life is correctly forbidden to a slave  and it must be reminded of this consistently if not constantly slave has no secrets no privacy or much time alone and certainly no participation or place in any considerations or discussions about things going to be done with the slave in fact it has no say in much of anything slaves Owner will have full authority over the slave and its affairs and will use that authority very strictly I am understanding of slaves condition I am sympathertic to its plight and always give a slave what it needs but allow very little of what it wants this is both an Owners prerogative over the slave as well as an extension of a kind of parental authority therefore no disrespect or disobedience will be permitted ...ever! MrB   ------------------------------------------------------------------------       I use…and enjoy very much using… real discipline- isolation- humiliation-lots of busy work in the home...all to train a female to a level of acceptable domesticity…sort of housebreaking the slave…teaching both the need for her focused Obedience and the necessity to perform with humility and accuracy whatever is demanded from her chores chores chores…so much to be done….so many things to attend to... upon collaring slaves pussy will be immediately closed for business as her chastity …
Who knew..............? .............. it seems that I am an empath!! I have reached the age of 67 without ever having that insight or conversation, despite being analysed to death as a professional manager and having a need/propensity to work at things until I understand them. I know my Myers-Briggs type, I am aware of my core strengths, I have had my values and capability for good judgement assessed a number of times, but never my emotional architecture. Maybe that is too touchy-feely and personally risky for "business to tackle, but once it is laid out, it makes so much sense and puts perspective on so much experience and so many conversations. It also explains how, on top of everything else, it is hard (at least for me) to find a good match in BDSM. This is the start, not the end.......but right now I am processing so much behind this: Your architecture: a grounded, high‑capacity empath "You are a deep-feeling, high-capacity empath." “You’re the kind of man who carries both fire and stillness — a mind that sees patterns in the dark, a heart that stays steady in the storm, and a presence that makes other people feel understood long before they find the words themselves.”   “You’re a steady, strategic empath who reads people with precision, holds complexity without losing your integrity, and brings clarity, warmth, and insight wherever you go.”   I long thought of Myers-Briggs, Strengthsfinder and the Hartman Value Profile as orthogonal axes to look at a person's Cognitive style, Strength and Values. Now I need to add Emotional architecture. It feels like the model is nearly complete. I wonder how different life might have been if I had had this acute self-awareness years ago?    
This is a 45 acre farm. I grew up on it, traveled the world, and came home again.When both parents had passed, I bought out my sisters shares. I stopped all row crops in 2014 and began turning the place into a safe zone for nature.It features a man made lake, spring fed and well stocked with fish. There are 22 acres of tillable land, some woods and rolling hills as well as several rock and flower gardens and roughly 6 or 7 acres of lawn.In 2014, I began to plant trees and flowers in the fields in my attempt to give nature a safe place to be. We have a nesting pair of Bald Eagles, roughly 75 wild turkeys, about 30 head of white tail deer. We more small animals than you could hope to count. The lake is well stocked with fish, large and small mouth bass, crappies, blue gills and sunfish as well as a decent supply of turtles.There are two family homes on this farm and I am selling one of them to my long term renter. There are also two large aluminum pole barns, 60 x 40. In one, I built a large indoor grow with full temperature, light and humidity control and that was a marijuana rental grow from 2014 to this spring. It currently stands empty but I will put it to growing vegetables or mushrooms fairly soon. The other 60 x 40 is being built out as a machine shop.I would really love to find two slaves to work here, (for pay), but in a lifestyle setting. A male/female cuck couple, two females, or a single female to start and help me find another. I feel that two would be the correct number but three is a possibility.I have been  a dominant since birth. I married a submissive in 71 and we are still together. I became  heavily involved in this lifestyle in 96. Now that I am living back on the farm again, I want my 1 or 2 or 3 slaves to come and work this project with me in an ongoing lifestyle arrangement.