Welcome to my page! 💚

I am a lady and will only respond to a man who is a true gentlemen.  Yes this is a kink site but that does not mean we must lack class.  So be mindful of how you communicate with me.

For the men who wish to message me, please consider ‘What is it you can do for me to make my life easier?’.  If you can’t come up with at least three things then your mindset isn’t aligned with mine when it comes to your purpose within our dynamic.  If you have a list of kinks you want ticked off then please do not message me.   A sub should be thinking about what he can do FOR me, not what I can do TO him. I am not interested in any kind of feminisation including sissification so please do not contact me if this is of interest to you as we will not be a match.

I am not interested in online or long distance.  I’m a tactile person and being neither a voyeur or an exhibitionist, those options don’t appeal to me.  I enjoy experiencing first hand how my words and touch affect my slave, having them pamper me, watching them go about their chores, listening to the sounds they make while they suffer for me, revelling in their struggle, marking their body with an implement of my choosing, snuggling, the scent of their body.  Every little aspect heightens my enjoyment, pleasure and contributes to creating an easier life for me.  I also greatly enjoy domestic orientated submission which would require you to be present.  I especially love sitting in the kitchen chatting away while watching you cook me a meal.  There is just something about a man preparing my food for me that I really enjoy.  Therefore only messages from subs willing to eventually relocate are of any interest to me. 

A man whose true purpose/pleasure comes from service, obedience and devotion to his owner is the only kind of man I seek.   A man’s sexual urges do not dictate play time, my moods and desires do.  A true sub will know this, so if you aren’t aware of this fundamental fact then we are not a match.  I expect devotion and commitment in all areas of our lives, not just the play part.  I like play that is only contained by your hard limits and safe words.  I will do with you as I please, whether that is having you make me dinner, take me out, massage me or clean my floors.  Generous subs who enjoy spoiling their Domme are very much appreciated. 

I am a Domme who is naturally a caring nurturer with a twist of sadist.  I will love, cherish and care for you while I use you for my benefit, entertainment and pleasure.  I prefer the beauty in the subtleness of the dynamic so I believe power can come from just one glance.  I won’t dress in black with thigh high boots.  You are more likely to find me in a summer dress at a picnic in the park with my slave massaging my feet.

I do not enjoy cheeky or bratty subs as they aggravate and annoy me so I seek out a man who craves to be as obedient as possible. A man who strives to learn my wants and needs and eventually anticipates my wishes.  I do not enjoy punishing, nagging or belittling my sub as all of this just creates more work for me, not less. 

I am only interested in non smoking submissive men who take care of themselves emotionally, mentally and physically.   I do prefer to meet someone around my age and preferably child, drama and baggage free like myself.  I am attracted to deep voices, broad shoulders and dark eyes but there is nothing more appealing to me than a man who feels that he was born to serve a woman.  I have a soft spot for a sweet, shy man who would flourish under my love and guidance.

I would love to meet another Mistress/Domme for friendship, exchanging of ideas, support and inspiration.  I’m also very interested in couples who are in an FLR (Female Led Relationship) and have managed to maintain and grow their relationship.  I’m forever learning and growing as a person and as a dominant female and am always happy to meet positive, supportive and kind people within the kink community. 

I would love to find a slave that is SINGLE who is confident in his life but who desires to submit to me within a long term loving FLR.  A slave who believes like me that you can have a vanilla relationship with a complimentary D/s one intertwined to create a fun exciting life together.  A man who is comfortable for me to have the final say in all aspects of our lives.  In saying this, I’m not a micromanager but will change what I am not happy with and will train you to be my perfect slave/partner.  I will provide guidance, understanding and affection and truely enjoy watching how my love and support moulds you into the submissive man you’ve always wanted to be. 

I am a considerate, self aware and honest person and my relationship will never go the distance if my slave/partner doesn’t possess the same qualities.  I am an all or nothing kind of person so I’ll be completely devoted to the process of turning you into my perfect slave/partner, so I seek someone who has the same mind set.  Someone who has the time and energy to devote themselves to becoming my well trained slave/partner.

Vanilla life:

I am definitely an outdoors person.....hiking, camping, short weekends away or long overseas trips.  I enjoy it all as I love to explore places I’ve never been.  I enjoy the simply things in life so sitting around a camp fire or having a picnic is much more appealing to me than eating at a expensive restaurant.  I'm a down to earth hippy chick who doesn’t own any make up.  I love to laugh and am able to see the positive in most happenings. 

I love laughter, the planet, trees, fresh food, touching the person I love, being active, being imaginative, dogs, genuine people, thoughtfulness and walking my own path.

Have fun everyone and enjoy the journey :)