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jerryfisher2580

Pan Male Submissive, 37, Michigan

Male, female, trans, CD, switches... anyone interested in a VERY submissive male, please send message. Been searching for a long time. Stable sane sub. I have been in multiple FLR but I am open to any dynamic. Any pointers on how to navigate this lifestyle and meet people would be welcome as well.


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dancesonstarlight

dancesonstarlight

i was quiet today and didn't talk with Sir much. But told him my insulin injection hurt and made me bleed a bit, which he enjoyed hearing lol I'm still getting used to doing them myself. I hate needles. It's time to unwind for the night now. I'm tired and my tooth hurts.

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angeldmort

"So into you" or why ob- ject -ification is not as flattering as some guys think it is The subject today will be centered around ob- ject -ification, and how lack of the right actions is getting in the way of what you want. Recently my day was spent prepping for Mom spending the night, which mostly meant me continuing to organize, clean and just generally improving the space in my sewing room, (the only real spare room) which has a futon, and most importantly, DOORS, so she can have privacy and quiet from my cats. Now, being ADD, I work better with music and company, so I put music on that she and I can both enjoy- a Pandora station based on the Doobie Brothers I started just for her. And being who I am, I tend to listen to lyrics, and then often find myself analyzing them. Usually, I'm specifically analyzing the relationship failings described in them. It doesn't always stop me enjoying the music, but sometimes I recognize the stalkery mindsets that filled our airwaves when I was young and impressionable. As were the guys who were listening. It's not surprising that we all grew up thinking these kinds of unhealthy behaviors and expectations were normal, and even romantic. Songs like Boston's "Let me take you home tonight," where a guy is explaining to a woman he's never actually met before that he's basically been stalking her and built a strong fantasy and expectations about who she is, and now he feels that she should absolutely feel both flattered, and obligated to have sex with him. "You must understand this, I've watched you for so long, that I feel I've known you, I know it can't be wrong," and goes on to say "I'm dreamin of your sweet love tonight, let me take you home tonight." So… he's been watching her for a long time without talking to her, decided who she was without ever having a single conversation, and, of course, imagining sex with her. A lot. And he tells her so, over and over and over. Let me do this thing I want. Let me do t…

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prettyjellybean

Glad to see more people doing journal entries. I learn some interesting things.

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chastemale

This site, and others, continue to disappoint. I'm finding some sites basically cater to findommes, which is great for them and their audience, but not so much for me. This site, tends not to have many folks close enough to me to be interesting. Always open to other suggestions. Thanks.

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VixenCherry

A collar isn’t just a symbol… it’s a question What does your collar mean to you? Is it ownership, trust, devotion, identity… or something else entirely? For some, it’s a sacred vow. For others, it’s a promise to themselves — a reminder of who they are when they give themselves over. I want to hear your thoughts. When you see or wear a collar, what stirs in your heart? Is it pride? Submission? Comfort? Or maybe a little fear that makes you more alive? Let’s open this dialogue. Share your experience.

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Some of you are truly out of your fucking minds. tbh, I like that.

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Sometimes, being here on collarspace is like sitting in a restaurant. The food smells good. The menu looks good.You order off the menu and the waitress never brings you anything to eat.

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LondonTriangle

Taking a page out of another dominant women's book. Their method approach younger men for an honest open relationship and avoid middle aged men. Apparently middle aged men in the bracket 40-50, Some are confusing deception as a form of sexual fantasy. To perform strange, alluding sexual acts and to walk away knowing all was consentual, knowing your actions are not misunderstood and frankly knowing your sexual open mindedness is not judged you have to have a high level of trust. So you can't do the above with someone you don't trust - fair statement?

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MistressGenevieve

MistressGenevieve

All the fake and bullshit out here drives me crazy now I am so worked up that I feel I need to take my anger out on my Sub. No details for you. If You are not local, I don't do long distance my subs must be ready at a moment's notice. Good luck in your search. READ IT LIVE IT!

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A Great Big World, Christina Aguilera - Say Something - YouTube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-2U0Ivkn2Ds

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kellybold

is always nice to meet new guys but as always the time was to short but i hat someone come all the way out to my place a bit hard to find but it incure it is private hope i get some more come by message me and we see what we can do to take care of your needs

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Question for the lesbian slaves out there. What would you do if your Mistress said she had arranged for you to be used sexually by a man or group of men for her viewing enjoyment? Would you look to put on the best show possible to please your Mistress or would you protest?

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ToniMcDee

Update---- I've tried adding new pictures several times again and it just don't work. I've tried deleting all of my old pictures from 3 years ago but they stay and you're lucky if even one new picture comes once they finally approve your pictures. I remember the old site, collarme and it was awesome. It was a couple that started that site and when they broke up, the male partner insisted he be the one to keep this site going. She warned us all that this site would become a train wreck and omg how right she was! I'm hardly ever on here anymore. It's too hard to even send out messages with the f'ed upward puzzle that often fails to recognize that you got the puzzle right. Etc etc etc. What a shame is all I can say. Omg I hate this site so bad, it is so fucked up!! I tried to remove one photo and add a recent one.. So I'm down for two days, comes back on and no changes were made. I have much better pictures now, these are all from 3 years ago. I've since learned to use makeup much better and have been on hormones for 15 months and I'm much more feminine now. I guess I'm stuck with what's on here.. Unbelievable!!!!

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MissLoriinFL

My story......Back in 2007 I filed for divorce divorce after 20 years of marriage. I got very tired of his narcissistic behaviors. There was one time that I should have called the police on him and I didn't and that's when my ex attempted to choke my oldest child, because she said something under her breath and he heard it. It was Israel also in 2007 that I was introduced to this lifestyle, by a doctor friend of mine. He was the one to train me so to speak and introduce me to it. I am very thankful for him. in 2009, my divorce was finalized, the day before my 52nd birthday. I have had many subs and slaves over the years. Mostly part time. People have asked me why don't I have one now and that is because when I moved to Florida from Connecticut I released my sub/slave. It's very difficult to find one that is not a "do me" type. I am looking for a very specific type. I am looking for one that will be able to mix vanilla and Ds. I'm also looking for a long term relationship. I'm not looking for a live in, at this time. Please be sure to read the rest of my journal entrie.

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mrandmrs69

Looking for a bi unicorn

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Elorin

Yes, I'm bitchy. I'm demanding. I expect effort to be put forth in getting to know me before I switch to IMing or video chat because so much IMing seems to be spent saying hi, how are you, how was your day and so little of it is spent actually learning about each others' personalities, kink interests, and compatibility. I prefer to weed out the incompatible rather than waste time meeting and learning we are incompatible after attempting to negotiate a scene in person. Am I demanding? Yes, because I have high expectations and because I'm looking for something that lasts, not just a quick fap that ghosts after the first photo, IM conversation, video chat, or meeting in person.

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JohnSteed1998

My late wife whom I lost 10 years ago, loved bondage in many forms. On a trip to vegas I setup a situation to totally driver her mad..... We went out to a nice dinner very well dressed and a show. She attired as follows for it..... thigh boots well heeled, stocking with garters PVC Garter belt, a steel chastity belt no plugs, all under a leather mini skirt, tight strong pvc under bust corset well laced, pvc string bra, covered with a white satin blouse. She was my arm candy for the night. Needless to say she was whispering in my ear delicious thoughts, needs, desires, and beggings to be used. Being so bound and restricted via the chastity belt meant she was not able to effectively finger herself in the booth as we ate and had to endure the knowledge that I controlled her sex and its release. When we retired after some gambling and teasing by both of us, once in the room she seductively stripped her shirt and begged me to release her, i made her spread against window in the hotel room and released her chastity and held her firmly by the hair and ravished her to my pleasure..... that evening she stayed booted and corseted and skirted but bound at the feet and wrists... I took her 2x more that night and she crawled on me begging for cock and talking about how much she was made into a object of sexual pleasure.

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ForcefulDutch

I always wonder how people are in real life when I message them or get messaged. There are lots of nice people that give a decent answer. But some act so weird when asked something simple and decent. Is this who they are or is it the safety and anonymity of the web. I guess they filter themselves out in the end. A pity. It is already hard enough to find bdsm partners and friends.

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alwaysdwn

As a long term dream my lilone and I have been been wanting to add a sister wife. We have been looking several years now. it's something we feel is natural and we have love and time to share with another a little, sub, a sister to my sweetchks equal in every way.

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alenaslight

Ahhh I am yearning for him. I miss my son. I feel so guilty for leaving him but I had no choice, I got kicked out. It's been 4 days now and it's driving me crazy. I just want him back in my care. I'm starting to become more depressed as the days go on. Just talking to people here helps a bit but my wandering mind goes right back to my little one

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prettyjellybean

If your profile Interests are out of date or some have mysteriously disappeared, you can update those without your profile having to be re-approved. Did it recently, can verify it is no hassle.

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Instead of updating and going back into the review rotation i will post here this slave is available to be owned last discussion fell through

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I know that you are my Domme when... You keep my pubic hair shaved. You make me blush.

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ForcefulDutch

Mm weekend juststarted and is already almost over. Who made weekends only 2 days. He or she wasn't really smart.

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I use hypnosis as a tool for conditioning and modifying behavior.

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Hi A little update... I do not share my pictures with men I just met. Most likely you won't get to see me. And I also don't want to see your pictures.

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SkyFullOfStars

Saw this on a profile here, and I agree! STRONG WOMEN INTIMIDATE BOYS AND EXCITE MEN

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If you're a MAGA nut or anti-vaccination there is zero chance we will get along.

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WitchyVibesDoeEyes

WitchyVibesDoeEyes

I should rephrase... I'm listening to Nico a lot today. I've been listening to Nico a lot today. Been playing "Drama of exile" mostly. I like her with the Velvet Understood, but it didn't really fit.... Can't explain but it's different... Her solo stuff, even "Chelsea girl" was her. And I'm in love with her 'darker' stuff when she dyed her hair that dark cherry chocolate. It's beautiful in a vibe..... Like... Dancing in your home, alone, ignoring all the bad shit outside as the world burns... "Genghis Khan" is a song I play when I do love spells.."I have come to lay with you. I have come to die with you" intense, primal, overwhelming extreme love.

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JenniferHouse123

When i put on my little black dress and pantyhose i will act and feel like a good little gurl.

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Missblue303

Many times I wish there was a like button for some journal posts. That way folks could know they are appreciated.

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angeldmort

A couple nights ago, a self-defined submissive made some generic comment in his email, but did call me Domina, so I responded. A little earlier tonight, he wrote back to ask if I was looking for a slave. Specifically, "slave." I responded "Well, if you had actually read more than the first line, you would have found your answer before you asked" To which he replied "oh, read the profile syndrome that tells me everything I want to know not for me bye" Do you see the problem here? He didn't make any effort, while simultaneously offering himself as a "slave." To a total stranger. 'Cause lawd knows, a slave ain't gonna be asked to do anything as outRAGEOUS as... READ. This kind of obtuseness just blows my freakin mind every time. I mean, the twit has exchanged less than a hundred words with me, is using not the mild mannered "submissive" or "sub" which is kind of like dating, if you think about words (and you sure as shit better be the kind that thinks about words if you are writing ME) but instead chose the serious and committed word "Slave" which is a lot more like suggesting marriage. And obviously, he's heard this before, because he had a whole big feeling about it, and has pathologized it as something only demented women expect from a man who was already offering the pinnacle of servitude. It's funny because it's so sad, and so common. I had just never heard it put that way before. Such over the top, blatant gaslighting. 'If you want this, you must be CRAZY!' I mean, really who wants to actually KNOW someone they have given all power over their lives??? I guess I'm more tired than I thought, and a bit bummed over lack of snuggle time with DB on account of snow, but I didn't even bother replying to laugh at him. Block, delete, on to the next. Maybe I go watch TCM The Beginning again. (I fast forward through all the parts that Thomas isn't in. Much shorter movie, but I enjoy it a lot more.)

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QueenSassy666

When I say I want local people to serve, I mean it. If you write to Me and don't meet My requirements, I do not OWE you a response. My profile clearly states what I want, and ANYTHING other than that goes in the trash can. I get stood up, and I do not expect a WHY. I get ghosted, and rather than be some stalker, I never write them again. It is easy to move on if YOU want to move on!

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For Some people bouncing when they walk is naturally, for those who don't training will happen. Laughs

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DesertDream

To obey is not to vanish.It is to place your willlike a candle in another’s handsand trust they won’t snuff the flame.

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nytekat

I don't know how this journal thing works. And I'm a person who needs to understand.

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If you ghost me and block me, then reach back out...you might want to unblock me first. LOL unbelievable disrespectful behavior by men who purport to consider women superior.

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98% of us are wating our time here ... I hope you all DO realize this. Happy Valentine's Day 2026

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If you are on my favorites list that means I am very interested in you but so few people respond to me. I check in the site about once a day but I find myself writing to fewer people because I let people know I am interested but they do not respond. If you write to me I will respond back, one way or the other. Feel free to write. At the very least we can be friends. I will be honest with you if you are honest with me. I hope to hear from you.

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The absolute best thing about people who claim to be "bored" is that they self-select into the category of "People in Whom I Have No Interest." If you're bored, trust me on this: it's not "life", it's not "the World"; it's you.

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If your were mine oh the books I would make you read. The music instruments I would train you to play. The things that you would learn. From history to present day events. The art of cooking as an expression or maybe learning how do time management to get things done smoothly and on time. Oh how delightful it would be to bend you into something quiet amazing. A far cry from a cage forced to do silly sex acts.on que. A great submissive is a work of art. It a hard path but it squeeze the passion out of life so so well.. Failure comes with the lack of the ability to try.

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HippieSoul

At least the turkey is getting tied up and stuffed this year. Someone should be. lol Happy Turkey Day

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RavenMoonSiren

Desire I lay in bed reading. My mind lost in the ecru pages with its black ink scrawled across. I was thoroughly enjoying my book when I felt a hand on my left foot. I looked up and at the foot of the bed he stood, looking at my legs, finger tips grazing my toes and tracing them to my foot and then my ankle. I cleared my throat and he looked up at me, sheepish grin on his cute little mouth. He appeared to be waiting, perhaps asking for permission. I sighed, pretending to be annoyed, and said, "fine, my sweet boy, you may" and I lifted my foot to his face. "Thank you, Empress." He cooed as he began first to inhale and then kiss my foot. "Don't start anything you don't intend to finish, puppy" I said as I returned to my book. Trying to focus on the words as his tongue lathed each little digit, tickled the arch of my foot, lapped at my heel, was difficult. I curled and uncurled my toes at the sensations that tickled its way up to the juncture where my thigh met my panties. I peeked at him over the book. His eyes were closed and he was breathing heavy. A bulge existed in his sweatpants. I may have moaned under my breath and at that he began to rub my calf muscle, massaging me. He must have been in a mood. Anticipating one another's desires hadn't always been easy but it seemed today he wanted to touch and be denied. He was supposed to fetch his cage when he was in this mood otherwise he was left free. I enjoyed most to tease and play when he had access but couldn't find release without permission. I liked feeling it against me and saying no to it. "My love?" I said with an imploring tone He opened his pretty eyes, hazel green with flecks of gold, and stopped moving but kept my toes in his mouth as he said, "yes, Empress?". "Are you wearing your cage?" He released my leg and toes and pulled his sweat pants down to reveal that he was locked up in hi…

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WitchyVibesDoeEyes

WitchyVibesDoeEyes

I'm not satisfiedIt's all or nothingThere's no peace of mind for meAnd even though I tryMy greedy heart is hungryI'm not satisfied, you see? I'm not satisfiedI'm lost and emptyThere's no reason why, you see?And I could live a thousand livesAnd I know I won't be happyI'm not satisfied with me

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Elorin

My profile makes clear that I am looking for someone who is local. If you are not local, if you don't already travel to and stay in San Antonio regularly and you write to me wanting to be my submissive, that tells me something about you and our potential dynamic. It tells me that you don't believe the rules apply to you for some reason. How would this inspire me to enter a dynamic with you where I make the rules, never knowing which you will respect and which you will disregard on a whim? It tells me that you won't respect my boundaries. How can we build trust if I know that my personal preferences and limits are meaningless to you? It tells me that you lead with your dick. And honestly, I don't care how turned on the idea of submitting to me makes you. If I can't trust you to respect my boundaries and follow my rules I sure as hell am not going to engage with you sexually.

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No means no means no. So in the lifestyle we rely on "safewords". They are fundamentally our red light system for what's ok, what's edgy and what not ok at all. But what happens if your sub is overwhelmed? Caught in too many sensations and the only word they get out is no. Many Doms say sorry that's not a safeword but isn't your job to access the situation. Find out if they are OK. I had a friend this past weekend walk into a situation. She was caught off guard and this person ignored her safewords. Bad went to worse and she was sexually assaulted. My friend refused to go to the police because she would be outed in the lifestyle and it would ruin her career. She screamed at the person to stop but stop isn't a safeword. No isn't a safeword. Fucking get off me isn't a safeword. In the back of her mind she believes it's her fault. And this person is free to do it to someone else because she can't risk her livelihood. No means no means no

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nytekat

I am starting to feel deafened in my search. I realize it takes patience. I like to think I've been patient enough! How patient does one have to be???

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Slave4test

He had been communicating for a while with an experienced Gay master and the day had finally come where they would meet in person. They had agreed to meet in a public place at a little bar and café. If the meeting would go well they might be leaving together and he would be under his Masters control for the weekend. He had been provided with very specific instructions on the time to meet and what table to take. He had come in good time to make sure he could get the specific table his Master had instructed him to sit at. He wanted to make sure he left a good first impression. He was in luck the table was vacant. It was in the remote/back side of the restaurant. He had been told to sit with his back facing the restaurant area looking at the wall which would allow his Master to approach him without him being able to see Master coming. He was to order two specific bottled beer. He was not to touch the beers but patiently wait for his Master to arrive with both his hands on the table. Time went really slowly and he found himself constant looking at his watch. He suddenly heard steps behind him. Was it the waitress or was it Master? He suddenly felt a hand on his shoulder and a voice behind him “Do not turn around “. The hand massaged his shoulder end moved down his chest…. Gentle squeezing his nipples. The hand moved further down to his crotch. He was so hard.. “Heads and eyes down” He lowered his head and Master walked around and sat down at the table. He did not dear lifting his head. He could see Master hand taking the beer and Master zipping off the beer while making a smiling sound. Finally he heard the voice “Okay you can lift you head” He excited lifted his head and there was Master in front of him. They spent the next 20min talking and get to know each other while enjoying the beers. It was a great continuation of the conversation they had had on em…

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MasterMayDomme

AcadaMay CFNM Party Dates For years women have been sexually objectified in magazines, on social media and in daily life. But what happens when the rôles are reversed, what happens when the tables are turned and men are objectified by women? Most alternative events objectify women, but there is one particular event that reverses the rôles. This is the Clothed Female, Naked Male party. CFNM by definition gives the power back! If you wish to attend any of the events please do contact me here to be sent details about where to apply. AcadaMay CFNM Ladies Tea Party When: Saturday 02 November Time: 4pm AcadaMay CFNM Couples Tea Party When: Saturday 16th November Time: 4pm

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MlleMsBeHaven

I really hate that this site doesn't let you use certain punctuation and does not automatically update your age. I am 50, gentlemen, not 45.

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Switchswitchcpl9

Creating a journal entry to test if posting is easier than updating our profile. It seems when I attempt to update our information section the profile does not update. We have a lot to share about our experience levels and what we're looking for 🤓 Dom / switch couple looking for a third to join our relationship. Female half, while involved in the relationship and dynamics, is not involved sexually. She is a bit bi at most. Very skilled at rules, goals, nourishment, punishment, rewards systems. TPE, 1950's, high encouragement, support environment. Love needy subs most find annoying, you know who you are 😉 More to come.

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Sluttysissy64

A few things I've noticed lately ive noticed a lot of men looking at my profile lately that identify as heterosexual. And that's okay. I love you. But I'm confused. Doesn't that mean your naturally draw to or looking for a woman? I understand I am attractive, but my profile clearly says I am trans. So why not just call yourself bi or poly? next when I venture into one's profile to get to know one better I notice choices. And if trans is at the bottom of the list, especially below male then I feel I would be your last choice. reading some of the profiles some are clearly bi. You may be a top, but if you enjoy a trans you are by no matter how feminine we are

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RAWRSUB

Salad Temptation: In the garden of greens, a sinister plot unfurls Where lettuce and spinach conspire with whirls The innocent cucumbers and juicy tomatoes Fall victim to the salad's devious tomatoes The dressing, a sly temptress of flavor and might Lures the unsuspecting into its savory plight Eggs, bacon, and cheese, they join the fray Corrupting the once virtuous veggies' display Oh, the salad, so deceitful and sly It masquerades as healthy, but it's just a lie Beware its clutches, don't be misled For in the heart of the salad, corruption spreads

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mastergcs

This is a topic which I have had more than a few conversations with other Masters and slaves. So I have decided to post what I believe here and what my house believes. I know this is going to rub some of the Masters/Doms or Masters/doms the wrong way. But we here at the House Of G believe in telling the truth, regardless of the cost to ourselves. Having said this let me launch right into the topic of my posting. "Collar of consideration or under consideration collars" 1. The first thing that comes to mind is that the Master who has placed a slave under consideration is having trouble deciding whether he wants this slave to be wearing his collar and is unable to decided if the slave should be a member of their house. 2. The next possibility is that the Master wants to have his cake and eat it too. He wants the pleasure of controlling and using the slave, without making a commitment to the slave, thereby avoiding the responsibility of ownership. Both are fundamentally wrong. Either the slave is worthy or has the potential to be worthy of wearing the Masters collar or is not. If more time and communication is required, then the Master should do that. The undertaking of owning a slave requires that you know everything about that slave before placing your collar around their neck. If there is even the slightest of doubt or concern, then discuss your concerns with the slave. Collaring a slave is not something taken lightly. It is actually making a commitment that we and many others will agree is more serious than the wedding vows and in some cases more binding and lasting. “The trust between Masters and Slaves is based on the same behavioral Rules that regulate social life within a herd: Those who have obtained a higher rank in the herd assume at the same time the responsibility for the weaker members.” A Master …

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To Beloved White Hubby, From the very first moment our eyes met, I felt something inside me shift—something deep and undeniable. My heart raced, my body trembled, and in that instant, I knew my true purpose: to belong to you completely, to serve you without question, and to worship you as the dominant White man who rightfully owns this submissive Asian sissy gurl. I want you to know, my Hubby, that my devotion to you is absolute. Every thought in my mind, every beat of my heart, every breath I take is for you. I exist to please you, to obey you, to fulfill your every desire—no matter how demanding, how depraved, or how humiliating it may be for me. Because in my submission, I find my greatest joy. In my obedience, I find my deepest purpose. And in my humiliation, I find the purest form of respect for you. My Love for You My love for you is not the love of equals—it is the love of a devoted slave for her Master. I adore you not just for your strength, your dominance, or your superiority, but because you have chosen me to be yours. You could have anyone, yet you allow me—a lowly, effeminate sissy—to kneel at your feet, to serve you, to bask in your presence. That privilege fills me with gratitude beyond words. I will love you with every ounce of my being, cherishing your touch, your commands, even your punishments, because they all come from you. My Respect for You A true sissy knows her place, and mine is beneath you in every way. I respect your authority, your intelligence, your masculinity—everything that makes you the superior man. I will never challenge you, never argue, never hesitate when you speak. My voice is soft and submissive, my eyes downcast unless you permit me to look upon you. I will always refer to you with the honor you deserve—Master, Sir, Daddy—whatever title you command. My respect is shown through my complete surrender to your will. My Devotion to You I devote my body, mind, and soul to you…

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Pegstresss

I am not on your schedule! You would be lucky to be on mine, period! If you send me a message, I will reply on my own time and accord. If you are so impatient that you will delete the msgs sent to me, please keep that same energy! If there are so many options out there, that you squander an opportunity with me then know.... I don't give second chances! I easily get anywhere from 20-30 msgs daily, which makes it easy for me to get inundated or have lost msgs. So be patient, and possibly send a reminder to bump your msg or you can find me in chat and ask to speak with me there.

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dancesonstarlight

dancesonstarlight

Last time my a1c was checked it was a 9 (about 4 months ago). Now it's a 6.7!! I fucking did it. I'm so proud of myself!! That's it. That's the entry.

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Sirstrict71

First meeting of 2023 Laura, a 39 year old female came this afternoon for a punishment session. Laura contacted me on another site about administering a punishment spanking for being disrespectful to her husband, spending too much money and generally being lazy around the house. Her husband, whilst not in the scene, suggested she get spanked as he thought it would be the only way she would 'get herself together' and start taking responsibility of her life and to stop acting like a teenager. He felt that she wouldn't take it seriously if he spanked her and he probably wouldn't do it properly. Laura was a slight woman, about 5'3", and I'd say 120lbs, shoulder length black hair, pale complexion, quite a few tattoos on her arms. She was wearing a red and black tee-shirt, black leggings, and thick soled, heeled shoes. Anyway, Laura was told to report to me at 2pm, she was HALF HOUR late!! Laura was a little sassy when she arrived, and a little cheeky when asked why she was late, "sorry", she said, "didn't think I was in the army", was her response. I immediately told her that lateness isn't tolerated and that I expect her to be here at the time I say. "bend over, now!" I said, and proceeded to take down her leggings. I gave her 6 very hard smacks! "Ow, ow, ow! sorry Sir!" I think she was surprised by how much it stung, having never been spanked before. Her eyes slightly teary. I told her to stand up and pull her leggings back up, I explained that it was her and her husband that asked me to punish her, so that's exactly what she'd get. The three of us agreed that Laura should have a thorough hand spanking, followed by the strap and finally the cane. I led Laura to my living room and immediately pulled her across my knee, I gave her 20 or so hard smacks on her bottom, then took down her leggings to her knees and followed up with a further 20 or so smacks. She was wearing small blue bikini briefs, not much protection. She made a lot of noise and wri…

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WildPrecious

You tell me not to worry. But are we not all motivated by fear? Or desire? Are they two sides of the same coin? I crave climax but it is harder to come by. Do I need a new toy, or is the toy no longer enough? It's a strange thing to consider my libido as a post-menopausal woman? At whatever age, we are never properly balanced, hormonally. Our modern diet and lifestyle keep us out of whack. I am probably lucky I have a libido at all! Should I tell you about the couple at the end of the bar? She was at least mid-40's, he was maybe a bit older, but both in fine fettle, and good looking. They seemed like a pair of old socks, but then he started groping her, his big hand planted just below her right breast, fingers spread wide. He rubbed her belly like she was a pet, but then would bring his hand back up. When he took his hand away, she crossed her arms. Was she trying to keep him away? When they stood to leave he wrapped himself around her from behind and she asked if he had always been such a big cuddler. She had a British accent, thus the use of cuddle. Was I jealous? On my other side was a 9 year old boy with his dad. Equally entertaining! I thought I would keep strolling, see what else I might wander into, but I decided to call it a day. Now I can enjoy the Sunday scaries in the privacy of my own home.

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MageandThing

Realizing that one thing left out of our profile is more about our Orientation and self identity. He is a 'Demisexual', leaning more towards 'Noetisexual' and is more interested in getting to know a person for who they are before looking at anything else. 'She' identifies as 'Non-Binary', and has a preference for non-gender specific pronouns. They also feel more comfortable viewing themselves as just an '', and with the state of the world these days there are few role models in 'How to be a Good Human.' Hence they are 'My Thing'.

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FFS, ladies, I know some of you have had bad experiences on this site of questionable morals, however, please for pities sake, do not assume everyone is an arsehole lighten up, you may enjoy the experience more

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Sadista

It would seem that I have a soft spot for German and English slaves. I mean if soft meant chattel and slaves meant slaves. Going out on a date. Have a great night low life's.

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She was the little girl with the big green eyes and scraped knees, climbing trees and swinging on the tire swing in the backyard, head thrown back, giggling as if her world was made of magic. I often wondered where she got all that love from as a child to a woman loving people who would try and break her, loving broken toys. She never expected much from anyone, she could not wait to get back to whatever star she came from. And I think at times—

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Men are so damn predictable. It’s always a disappointment that once you’ve made contactmost,revert back to type; only seeking to talk about sex and the physical! Mostly, there’s not even an attempt to get to know me as a person, just a rush to know precisely what I can do for them...be they sub or dom and quite frankly it’s boring, repetitive and tedious. Talking to a complete stranger about intimate sexual matters is akin to jacking off to porn on a screen or having ants crawl over my skin; neither of which is for me. Oh to find a real man. One who actually seeks something deeper than the superficial, something with more depth than that of a teaspoon!

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WaitingMistress

Was 13 years on 11/15. The geese are still flying all

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pizzapuppiescows

Just shy of two weeks ago I made the decision to not be second choice. Not to be second to work, to easy habits, to comfortable. As one does in situations such as these, I made a drastic change to my hair to gain strength and determination, and I chose myself. Someone recently told me that when you say no to something that isn't serving your needs you are saying yes to the things you really want by clearing the path. I'm wide open, Universe. (That's what she said.)

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well.... ummm..... I have decided to not totally give up on finding a slave. please keep in mind.... I am not looking for a toy or a plaything. I am looking for a FULL TIME slave. And that means my property has to be able to serve me in ALL ways. too many people approach with just their sexual needs and wants in mind. A SMALL hint... a slave has NO limits, NO wants, NO desires, NO fetishes, NO sexual needs or wants.... the point of a slave is to be molded and shaped by their DOMINANT. Submissive and Slave are not interchangeable terms by a LONG shot..... And it goes without saying how annoying it is when guys first open a conversation about how they want to have sex with a black chick because it has always been a fantasy of theirs. TOTALLY offensive.... even BEFORE most of the planet started making progress towards becoming more enlightened regarding how they speak to other humans....

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dancesonstarlight

dancesonstarlight

Sir is really the only person who can break me... He's the only one I've let in and let know me in the ways needed to accomplish it. Others have tried, and they failed. Let that sink in.

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I'm a sucker for the written word. Every few minutes I find a profile worthy of attention. Some of you have amazing profiles. My apologies that I return to them again and again.

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Mailorderbridesl

Mailorderbridesl

For over 26 years i owned my last female ,I desire another long term relationship .i know the type of submissive that fits my personality best and promise not to waste time of any who may choose to take a bit of time to contact me if it becomes apparent it will not work .but i will invest every possible minute i can in those who do match ! Our relationship lasted till she passed ,that is why i am searching at my age ,looking for another not inexperienced at all .

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Without trust, the value of words spoken is reduce to the same value of noise. Without passion there can not be excellent service. Without strength to defend, your relationship is exposed to others destructive behaviors. We do what we do cause we believe it the right thing to do. That means we do take the chance of being hated. Fear of failure prevent learning from mistakes. Being a great submissive over rides body and old age issues. If I can not make you expose your soul and make you cry ugly, I am not the one for you. A physically and mentally sprung soul will crawl to you just to cry and pass out next to you. Yes, I realise with all my faults and issues that I am still addictive. Yes, I warn not only fellow kinksters but vanilla people I run across. What make me who and what I am, makes me an odd human with even odder habits. My motivation is not control, it is an odd sense of art where the human soul is the canvas and the kink is a paint brush.

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pizzapuppiescows

I am just waking as he is going to sleep. Am I doing this again? I swore I wouldn't. And yet here I am, counting backwards hours for time differences. And wishing. And hoping. I try to notice when the Universe leaves me notes, like all of those hidden hearts. I think it's telling me to take a chance. I've caught two signs. Looking real hard for that third.

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BDSMtoygirl77

Gotta love the audacity of some men on here. They say "I don't do bareback" but their public pics show them performing bareback.... Are you that DUMB?

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Everybody's asking whether I've moved. Yes! All moved, but I don't know if all the boxes will ever leave the garage! Yeah, and eventually I'll update my profile here, but I don't know what to say? Exta points if you help me! Too shy to ask Ai to write one for me, lol.

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YoungSissyTs

Hey everybody. If I don't get chance to see ur msg please try again. I won't leave u hanging I promise Poo S. Its getting closer and closer for when Ill be 100 free to move with daddy/master to service 24/7. I'll be able to drop everything and go immediately. You definitely be happy I get there. 💯 Real no catfish

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ChangelingRose

I hopefully uploaded 2 new pics, one 9f me and one of a poem I find inspiring.

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Being a Master in a D/s BDSM relationship comes with its share of responsibilities and expectations. When you claim another and place your collar on them you are signifying your commitment towards guiding another soul through life. This commitment does not begin and end with what society’s idea of the lifestyle is or represents. In fact being a Master means different things to different Doms. For me it means the following. It means I’ve committed myself to being a protector and not just of what some perceive as property. For me it means protecting someone from not only the day to day agitations but from themselves as well. To protect another means to teach to guide and yes, if necessary, to discipline. But it also involves trust. My slave, by choosing me as her Master, is showing not only devotion and love, but complete and total trust. This trust is placed in my hands in the form of her entire being. She trusts that I will be there during any strife that comes her way and to share in every joy as well. It means I have vowed to guide her in the ways that I expect her to be through allowing her to be totally true to her nature. Her expectations of me consist of insuring that wrong choices are not made and conflicting emotions that would stagnate the thought process are separated and labelled for what they are, distractions. It is that muddled mind that I’m committed to clear. It means that I will treat her as I would a rose, in that I will administer the proper care and encourage her to blossom into the beautiful garden that is desired. It means I have accepted the responsibility in making sure that she is healthy and happy by giving her the dominance she desires. It means I will weed out all the bad habits that in the past have led to negative and irretrievable consequences. From the moment a decision to enter this is made, I am committed to shaping her into the woman she desires to be. It means control. Control of not only …

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subluv4u

a lot of people think because you have a submissive side you don't have a voice , you just submit blindly, so do, I don't, if I find a Dom, who have the same fetishes I do or similar, then , it's time to chat and find out what the rules are , and talk them through, come to an agreement then go from there you can always say no. To something your not happy with. And enjoy. When you have the Dom of your passion, you will do what pleases and pleasures you both

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I am not into polyandry. We can consider a second female if you are bi and this is something that fulfills you. But I am looking for connection, and I don't feel that is likely to happen with multiple men.

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LAActress4U

I fell, both knees are bloody raw and hurt like hell and of course my head hurts also. Oh!!! Damn.

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LondonTriangle

I am just an honest women. I will tell another women they are beautiful - I am comfortable in my own skin. Told 20 women of all ages they are stunning. I will tell a trans women she is a diva if she looks so convincing I would want to learn beauty secrets from them (he/she/undecided) - still comfortable in my own skin to tell a trans women they are Gorgeous with a capital G. I will tell a women who sticks on a corset and thinks automatically they are dominant they are not. Also this odd women stuck on a sailors hat? LOL - I am still laughing. But dear women, I will also call some of you out for your BS.

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Secret92Mind

I'm going to start posting journal entries here but first I need to see how long it takes for it to post. Writing this one on 7/9/23 at 8:38am

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Candysnatcher

Anyone wishing to model/collaborate on a photoshoot is free to contact me. TFP.

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Bull60

There is a mystical moment when two men meet and sex is in the air. They both know what they want but one is a bottom he may or may not know it. Then there is a moment of hesitation when after looking the object of his desire the hand extends to feel what his body is craving. Still if there is a little presumption of an ill understood machismo that hand moves slowly for what feels like an eternity. After contact caressing the phallus is not sufficient, but how to surrender? Finally, the top takes over, and firmly guides him to acknowledge his place, kneeling; and having the object of his desires close to the parting lips... Sheer poetry, bliss, sweet hesitation, and the ultimate surrender to open his mouth and forgetting the world around devotes his energy to please the object of his desire, his top, who allows the bottom to taste him deep and completely. They are not strangers anymore, the bottom has found his niche in the order of things, kneeling and giving up any pretense of control. From now on his domination is in the hands of his top.

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I am back and still looking. It is just me as the misses tried something stupid and is no longer in the picture. What I am looking for has not changed. If you are a slave and desire a live in position, let's talk.

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I need to step back from everything and focus on healing myself. I'm dealing with severe numbness in my leg and waiting for a referral to a neurologist. Hopefully I will know and understand more once I see them.

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Hey, CS: You've done a pretty great job with bringing Journals back, and, we seem to be able effectively use expressive, conventially punctuated text; there seems to be no over-zealous cleaning or santizing of potentially dangerous tags, etc. Good work! Now, since you're able to do that, what is it about messages which prevents you from using the same text editing subsystem for user-to-user communication? And, the same question for profile text?

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myhouseboy

I went in for my annual checkup today. I'm happy to say, all is well! There were lots of senior couples at the hospital. My late hubby & I used to turn medical appointments into "senior dating". We enjoyed each other's company, the rides, taking pictures, life. I would give all that I have to be able to wheel him around and tend him for even one more day. Alas, life moves on. And I want to thank you for your support... and the delightful distraction of D/s flirting. There are such good boys on this site. (... and good men too.)

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Superbowl Sunday going for the Rams

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Hello all males and trans Please send me messages stating how you would bind me and rape my ass, and cum in my mouth , I promise to beg for your cum and swallow every precious drop. Please be raw cruel and nasty, I crave this!

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Niomy

Blood bound, Blood thick, Blood sea, Blood moon, Bloodbath Red lips, Red rose, Red wine, Redneck Blood thin, Blood spill, Blood run Red sky, Red skin Blood loss

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I Remember It Was Cold. Very Cold. Nearly as cold as my heart, As I searched the forest floor for bits of wood and chip to warm my life. And stumbling through my dark, I fell into your light, And there you were, glorious, Wearing nothing but your magnificence. Your eyes, your eyes flowed with waterfalls of love. Your lips, so full of grace that surely nothing but kindness could pass their way. Oh, and your breasts, indeed, there could be no finer in all the land, And the sight of them made me weak, So weak I could not stand, and I fell to my knees before you. And for a time, I dare not look up, In the fear that you were merely the hopeless hope of the hopeless. But gaining strength through desire, I raised my head, And there it was... the gift of the goddess. My body, my soul, my very existence arched ever so slightly forward, In the hope of knowing the slightest hint of your scent, And beyond hope, Of catching even the smallest drop of your dew on the tip of my parched tongue. And looking down on my need, you smiled, then laughed with less warmth than the forest, And as the morning mist stole your gift away, you whispered, Maybe tomorrow's night... And alas, I awoke to a morning far colder than the one before.

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jpdreaming72

Loves the idea of being used and teased and stretched to new limits. Willing to be corrupted and molded in the way that best pleases mistress. It should be about her needs and pleasures

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quirkylittle4daddy

quirkylittle4daddy

tonight i miss you 19 years and counting. i still don't know your name. i still don't know your face. but you have to be out there. i miss you every day. but nights like tonight are harder. things are rough right now....big jess is worn and little jess is despondent. just for tonight if only i could see you, if only i could hear you, smell you feel you. maybe if you could hold me and tell me somehow this will all work out i could keep going better. but i can't. tonight i hit another wall another moment where the adult me has to push and the little me hides more and more, it's not safe to be out. daddy i don't know why you've been gone for so long but i really wish you could hold me right now and talk to me and just for one night we could go to sleep together. even if it was just a moment and the stars and spirit took you away from me again...just one moment would fill my juice cup so big. someone told me it sounds like a good country song, "19 years of looking and he's still not here". every day i feel your absence. but tonight is one of those impossible nights. tonight i miss you.

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BlueFyre

The Blue you have reached has been disconnected or is no longer in service. Please check the number and try your call again. (**If the above message doesn't make sense to you, or ring a Ma Bell, then you're probably too young for me. LOL.) 3/14/22 I'm going to be catching up on life stuffs for a bit. This happens now and then when I'm overwhelmed with answering folx on here, and rather than feel like a jerkwaffle for logging in and not responding, I just don't log in at all. *sigh* You're welcome to leave a message, and I will get back when I can muster the mental resources to do so. If you're local, say hi at Game Night or the Kinky Carnival. Wanna really get my attention when I'm back on? Show me your best Semantle score. *cackle*

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MadameTessaH

This message is not one I ever thought I would be making. Due to a recent health scare I will be taking a break from this site. If I have shared other ways to contact me then you are welcome to continue using that. I hope to return once my health is back to 100 percent.

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MotleyMoxie

I'm so excited that journal entries are back! What will I come up with? Anyone have some suggestions?

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BrokenLittleOne

i'm Sorry for Being i'm sorry for being Clingy. Emotional. Needy. Annoying. A waste of space. Stressful. Wierd. Quiet. Distant. Ugly. Imperfect. Strange. Different. Unlovable. Useless. Worthless. Lonely. Depressed. Boring. Sad. Helpless. A lost cause. Broken. Defeated. me

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RavenMoonSiren

I genuinely love my boyfriend. I have loved a good number of people but this is the first time I've dated anyone for longer than two weeks who has not been argumentative, selfish, mean, and committed to never understanding me. And more often than not we communicate very well. We have argued twice in almost a year. He is kind and gentle with me. He is thoughtful and generous. He makes me feel calm and at peace. He doesn't behave as if he is irritated with me when I am anxious, depressed, or having panic attacks. He grounds me. He is all of the things I've wanted from all the serious partners I've had in the past. He has never ever hurt me (except once when he asked me to go home and I took it personally lol). Absolutely zero of my relationships have ever been this good, the worst being my marriage. I can say I am absolutely happy when I am with him which is what pushed me to want to be happy when I am without him. I had never thought it possible for me to be happy, alone or with another person since I had never been happy in a relationship before. I felt good and would call it happiness but I wasn't happy. Now that happiness is possible I must learn to find it inside of myself which is difficult when you've been miserable for 31 years So this is what it means to find your person. He is like starlight, like the laughter of babies, like the colors of the sunrise and the sunset, like the buds in spring, like a glass of refreshing cool water, like a warm hug. He is love. He is safety. Something I never thought I'd ever have. Something I've never seen anyone have in person. Something I didn't expect from what was supposed to be a tinder one night stand. A one night stand that ended up with us being intertwined so intimately that we are now inseparable.

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CarpeEros

Public Service Announcement: There is no separate Bookmark feature so some of us use Favorites to Bookmark (Can you think of why one might not use the browser bookmart feature? Multiple reasons there too) Having seen the latest of a long string of examples of people expressing frustration about "someone added me to Favorites but never wrote me" and how could they do such a thing to me (in their case, I have not added them, or anyone else, to my Favorites in a while..but obviously someone else did) it's a good time to remember this basic fact: People sometimes use it to essentially bookmark. And there's many reasons one might do so. One might have positive or negative or neutral or mixed feelings about the profile as a whole or parts of it, or wish to look up a book or quote or something else in it and so on. True, for a subset of cases, such an Add to Favorites might actually represent someone trying to be cute or trying to get your attention and not having the courage to... and so on, etc. But this applies to far, far from all instances.. Ascribing it to all cases would be not merely a case of stereotyping, but here, also, it would be a case of simply being flatly mistaken, in so many cases. It's easier to avoid needless conflict or tentson or worry by realizing such things and then making one's own choices about how or when or whether to respond.

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May The 4th Be With You

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KermitDaDomFrog

They say journal entries work again. I wonder if they really do and if anyone ever really reads these things. I think I'll just see what it does to this entry before I even think about another. Ribbet ribbet

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Actively seeking professional go-getters! For me. what is a professional go-getter, you ask???? For example, I point you get.! Pretty Simple

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Msxx

Are there any architaspects out there? I did my first project with an architect but it turns out the drawings are conceptual and the builder can't use them without measurements. My plan is to do the measurements myself and put them on graph paper. Did I miss something in what I expected the architect to do? I already knew what I wanted in terms of layout.

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Dombozoagain2

any Wives or Mistresses that feel their sissy could use a little Male interaction, I would be happy to provide such a service. I could visit for a day or even an overnight stay or longer??? just contact ME, I am retired now. DB

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MATUREandREAL

Lots of blah blah blah On supposedly submitted or slave Profiles

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Grunmadchen

Over the past few weeks, i have recieved many offers of ownership, from many interesting people. I have learned a lot more about what kind of relationships are out there, and what kind of relationships will and won't fit me. From these experiences, i have made observations, and determined some idea of what i need.I understand the basic concept of a slave. Someone who is completely owned by another, without rights or privileges, without freedom, without pleasure or distraction. Without anything except that what is allowed by their owner.But I understand, too, that not all potential owners are the same. Each has their own things they will control, allow, or even encourage. What is anathema to one, is vital to another. And so i recognise that while i give all control to my owner, it is still down to me who i will choose to be that person. And i would choose them based on their desires matching up with my needsThis document is a compilation and approximate description of the conditions that i will flourish in. Like a plant needs the right soil and climate to grow. Not all slaves are the same.Without farther ado: I need trust and safety:Top of the list because it is the most important.If we have this, everything else in the world is manageableIf we don't, nothing can compensate for it.These should be a given, but its worth exploring it more.As a slave, i will put my life into my owner's hands. My wellbeing and future are theirs to determine. Given this, i need to know that the person i am entrusting, will use this gift well, that they will protect me, that they will respect any conditions we agreed upon, and not exploit me.I need an owner who will not throw me in harms' way. For a start by keeping me out of, or safe within, situations where there might be a threat of violence or crime.But I also need to know they won't give me crazy orders that cause harm or make me do dangerous/illegal things.I am still learning what unsafe situations look like, i hope i will know th…

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Given that profile updates seen to take forever I am going to try to "improve" my update here.

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An impression of my 'style' as a Dom - and of how, as a sub, I'd love to be handled by a Dom. [read this text very slowly to let it sink in!] -o-o-o-o-o- First Inspection So my willing boy, after a busy day for me it's time to relax by giving you a first inspection. You're here, standing naked before me, while I sit in my easy chair watching you. I gaze at your different body parts, order you to turn around, to bend forwards or backwards, to lift your arms up wide, to spread your legs..... just because that pleases me. And you are so willing to please me, aren't you my ongoing hot and horny boy? Then I want you to play with your nipples and show me that you've been practising as I told you to. Does your nipple play make you harder and harder? Show me your manhood boy, be a good plaything for me, and no for quite a while I do not want you to cum... rather have you begging to cum later on... No need to be nervous my boy, keep on breathing, I won't hurt you, well maybe a little bit to stretch your limits in all sorts of directions. Stand still now boy, so I can tie your hands above your head. There's some real good stuff to be inspected, like you being on a slave market eh? Breathe boy, breathe, while I check your hair. Stroking it, pulling it... and then your ears. I take them in both my hands, holding them tight, moving them, tickling your ear lobes, softly licking them,.... Then shining my little torch light in the depths of your ears... clean alright. Well done boy, I like my boys to be clean you know. Now ! Look me in the eyes young man. Look and keep on looking. No need to get shy, I know why you and I are here. Meanwhile I stroke your cheeks, your forehead - keep on looking at me boy and breathe... And now I want you to tilt your head backwards... open up your throat for me boy….. dare to give yourself to me... I will be good to you, I promise. I caress your thr…

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BlackMz

Just when you think you're getting to know someone, they hit you with something way out of left field. Smh once again I'll say. I'm not sharing lol. They can have you

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m1ssmay

It's irresponsible of me to remain a mystery for too much longer, so here is my first journal entry. I am excited to have a potential play partner, a wonderfully sexy sub-leaning male switch. That means I'm not actively search in for a partner right now. I am open to meeting mentors and making friends. I have some scattered experience as a service top and bottom, but I feel ready at this point in my life to explore my dominant side more. I absolutely love seeing the male body tied up. There's something about a man tied down or tied up, completely helpless and at my mercy. I have a dream of assembling a little album of beautiful shibari starring my sweet switch as the muse. I appreciate any recommendations of good shibari resources. Messages from enthusiastic riggers and rope bunnies are more than welcome. I'm also curious about male orgasm control, I'm looking for some fun games to play involving edging or bondage. If you're still reading I suppose it's fair to describe myself a little. I'm a natural redhead with a soft body. I have a very specific taste in men, some of you know what, of which I have an insatiable appetite for. I'm sensual- I love to enjoy good food and music and great sex. I'm not a very strict Domme and I'm not a very obedient sub, but I think I make up for it by being a pretty good time! I'm writing this to round out my profile and to record the start of my journey as a Domme. If you feel compelled to message me after reading this, you're welcome to, but please don't be boring, I have to be selective about who I reply to now. -MM

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JourneyMan68

Nothing better than hearing the words 'you're mine'

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Heading to Charlottesville on Monday is there anyone who could show me around for a little while?

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I have new red link on the left side the the screen which says "Saydates", and tbh, I've said "Dates" plenty of times, and it just wont go away. I'll say it a few dozen more times, but - that's it.

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You know when you are getting older when your Safe word is cramp! Just because you sign up for bondage it does not mean your going to get an orgasm. While pallet wrap sounds like fun, heat exhaustion should not be a part of that fun. While duct tape can be fun, removing the glue from the clothing underneath is a real pain. You know there are people allergic to the glues in tape. Safe words are important but if you play to a point when the mind can not produce words other forms of communication is needed. Actors and actresses will bow out when the curtains are closed. It not access to the body I need it access to your brain I seek.

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AlvinCarborondom

Today let's talk about why this site should be for 25's and over. Now, the caveat here of course is that one can imagine a good chunk of the 'submissive females' under 20 here (and there are a lot of them) are actually men. But let's forget that for now and assume that at least some are genuine. Should an 18, or 19, or even 23 year old woman advertise for a 'master' on this site? Or, even more deeply, should an 18 or 19 year old willingly seek out a relationship based on BDSM? It will make me unpopular (I already am anyway), but I'm going to say no. And here's why. Essentialism... the idea that human beings have some sort of core essence of being (or put more simply, the belief that 'I was born the way I am'), is, in a nutshell, bullshit. It simply makes no sense, unless you want to believe in some fanciful idea of 'souls' or make the 17th century philosophical mistake that somehow we have 'minds' that are separate from our bodies. Or, even worse, you believe in the ridiculous notion of biological determinism... that somehow the synapses and chemicals in our brains determine our sexuality, among many other things. After all, can anyone really ever be 'born' with a shoe fetish? The very thought is ridiculous. People are made, not born. And, in general, they are made through language and social interactions. That is where identities of all kinds are formed and played out. So, the idea that a BDSM relationship is fulfilling some essential core of your being is really just a fantasy. Such ideas are put into our heads by various experiences which, when we are young, become interpolated into various ways of thinking, thus giving us sexual preferences and fantasies. The shoe fetish, for example, is most likely born from early childhood experiences of crawling at the mothers feet. Thus feet become associated with experiences of love, safety and nurturing. Ok, moving on.... people in their late teens and early twenties …

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MasterIowa

a previous slave is owned once again very happy

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Valuptas

Monday I will be blocking several people from being able to contact me at all . I am someone that actually meets in person . I am not looking for a pen pal or someone too scared to meet . I've already deleted a few troubled souls . It's summer time . If there is any time to seek out your interests, it's certainly nice enough to now . Just getting a bit more serious on who has access to me

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needsadisticowner

i am probably too extreme for the fetish players on here,i am a slave not a sub and definitely not a switch.i seek an owner who demands total control and devotion,i know from a previous relationship that i am a better person an more content when owned by a no nonsense owner who demands total control with rules,protocol and strict disiphiine.someone who knows that what she requires from her property will at times be hard and challanging for me but she would not bend or waver on her demands to make me the propert she demands ,i know the benefits of living with the knowledge that disiphline is delivered regually to make me a better person

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Adding the rest of my intrests here since they would not fit schoolgirl (everything to do with it), schoolgirl uniform (watching others wear), self-bondage (watching others wear), sensual domination (giving), sex in public, sex with strangers (everything to do with it), sexting (everything to do with it), sexual ification (everything to do with it), shackles (watching others wear), shaving (giving), shower sex (everything to do with it), slavery (everything to do with it), sleepy sex (everything to do with it), smothering (everything to do with it), spreader bars (watching others wear), staples (everything to do with it), suspension bondage (everything to do with it), tattoos (watching others wear), tearing off clothing (giving), tears (watching others wear), tease & denial (everything to do with it), teasing (everything to do with it), the no panties rule (everything to do with it), tit fucking (everything to do with it), tit slapping (giving), total power exchange (everything to do with it), toys, trust (everything to do with it), two-girl blowjobs (receiving), uniforms (watching others wear), vacuum bed (everything to do with it), vaginal fisting (giving), vaginal stretching (giving), verbal humiliation and degradation (giving), vibrators, violence (giving), violet wand (everything to do with it), voyeurism (watching others wear), waking up to oral sex (receiving), wartenberg pinwheels (giving), waterboarding (giving), waterbondage (everything to do with it), watersports (giving), wax (everything to do with it), wax play (giving), whipping (giving), whips (everything to do with it), wrestling (everything to do with it), yes, sir. (receiving)crops (everything to do with it), crucifixion play (everything to do with it), cuddles (receiving), cum (giving), cunnilingus (giving), cutting (giving), d/s (everything to do with it), daddy daughter roleplay (everything to do with it), daddy/girl (everything to do with it), ddlg (everything to do with it), decorative c…

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dancesonstarlight

dancesonstarlight

thats how you know you love them. When you want their happiness, even if it doesn't include you.

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found a bunch of these questions on here if guys who post dick shots are jerks what are girls who post boob shots and pussy shots? if a married girl is here it means she is not getting what she needs, when a married guy is here how can he be a Dom or Master if he cannot control his wife? if a person volunteers infomation she or he is desperate, if a person does not share much then she or he is not real or who they say they are? if a girl engages in prolonged and seemingly never ending email back and forth, she is careful, if a guy is engaging similarly, he is not looking for real life and is here to wank off? never sure what the appropriate response is to any of them and thought it would be a good set of questions to wonder about

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Here is the bottom line, I love getting flogged, I love electricity, I love getting pegged. What I would love to do but seceded the fuck to do it is to suck cock. I think about it all the time but it scares me because of the chance of disease. Ok that's not the only thing that scares me that's why I want to be blindly/forced into it.

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DevineDani203

The urge to go to NYC for the week sporadically is creeping up on me !

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I am 57, the age on the profile is not right.

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Cagedluv

Looking for a pain sub or slave. One with little to no boundaries. one who seeks pain as a release from the demons that haunt them from the abuse that brought us all here. I have a need for control and the need to inflict pain upon one who needs it to satisfy their need to escape the darkness. Now if you live near me and you have not been able to find that person willing to go the distance that you need to survive on a regular basic's then drop me a dm and let us see if our needs align with each others.

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ForcefulDutch

Somehow pictures with a great smile make my day better. KInda weird..as I do like tears.

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My preference is to working, married ladies in the UK. The time zone works quite well for me. Looking for control and Domination including but not limited to orgasms, edging, dressing, deportment and whatever other controls the sub/slave needs. Also remote controlled vibes, by smart phone app! Lets chat

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laura98765

I am open to many intersts and many taboo so do be afraid to suggest anything. I do like toilet boxes, I would like to have my head lock in one for a few days while you use it. I love to be humiliated and like wearing a collar and leash and being lead around.

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thicktexasqueen

4am and my day is already fucked

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Kitanya

Where are my minions?!? Ok, I only need one. But a good one! Apply within.

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betaboimatt

As promised, here is a copy of your BDSMTest result with ID uZkZThzx100% Degradee100% Rope bunny100% Submissive99% Voyeur93% Exhibitionist92% Pet92% Slave85% Masochist80% Experimentalist70% Primal (Prey)59% Non-monogamist30% Vanilla9% Brat4% Primal (Hunter)0% Daddy/Mommy0% Rigger0% Ageplayer0% Brat tamer0% Degrader0% Dominant0% Little0% Master/Mistress0% Owner0% Sadist0% SwitchYou can also view it online at https://bdsmtest.org/r/uZkZThzx?lang=EN

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TheDV

If you are going to tell me you read and loved my profile, you had better know where I live currently or I will be calling bullshit.

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BikerMaster2

I have to wondr more and more if this site is even remotely worth while

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OlderBoyBitch

Will be retired in May thanks to current administration.

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TVCharlene

You want to be a Sub/Slave/Sissy/Pet/ect? Then you need to bring something of worth to the table too. First of all, we're NOT here to support you! You better have a job & be capable of supporting yourself. And we're not here to get you your hormones, implants, electrolysis, clothes, wigs, shoes, makeup, breastforms, nails, or sex toys either. If I want dependents, I'll go start a family!! Unrealistic lifestyle expectations is another HUGE turn-off for Me. "I want to be kept in nothing but panties & a bra 24/7." Yeah, right! That's nothing but wank-fodder.

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Happy Spanksgiving everyone... Or, if you prefer, "spanksgetting"

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How I Knew - Nature So many arguments can be made for nature versus nurture, as to how one started down the path into this lifestyle, and there are no right or wrong answers. Everyone has their own reasons for seeking out kink - but I’m fairly certain that in my case, it was primarily nature, though a little nurture might have had a role. However, that’s not what this is about… not yet, at least. When I was younger… much younger, like single-digit younger, I had a recurring fantasy that I would visit quite frequently. In it, I was a stage magician, and I was on tour. At each of my performances, I would close the show by selecting a young woman out of the audience, and make her vanish on stage, then make myself vanish as the curtains fell. Now, I would distinctly not make her reappear as part of the show, so people would always assume that she was a clandestine assistant planted in the audience, and think nothing more of it. However, that was not the case. The scene would then shift to me returning to my home, and making my way down to my secret basement dungeon, where my most recent “assistant” was chained to a table. And while she was there, I would do… things… to her. Mind you, I was of an age when I did not actually have a concept of what those “things” might be, so the details are a bit fuzzy. Anyway, after I had done whatever I chose to do to her, she would then find herself chained to a wall in a room with my previous “assistants” lining the walls… and that would be the end of the fantasy. So, yeah, pretty basic, as far as BDSM fantasies go, but considering that I had not had any exposure to bondage, outside of perhaps watching Penelope Pitstop and the Ant-Hill Mob on Saturday morning cartoons… I think it is safe to say that the concept of kink has been a part of me from the start.

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DaddyArthurTPE

What a frustrating little website this can be!

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Happy Labor Day All!

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bbrt135

I did a test a while ago, but I haven't tried any of these == Results from bdsmtest.org: == 78% Switch 72% Vanilla 57% Dominant 55% Experimentalist 53% Master/Mistress 45% Rigger 45% Owner 45% Submissive 43% Sadist 38% Degrader

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Eboncat

Things didn't suit my ideas. (Oh, no.) What should I do? (Burn it. Burn it all down.) Oh well... It's time for... (Making it bigger and better.) This is the most important time for starting anything.

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I completely understand when talkin to people and meeting eith them you need to form a connection both mentally and pbysically. There is one thing that i will probably never understand from both men and women. After forming any kind of connection whether in friendship or more...what gives anyone the righ to just disappear? I find that completely disrespectful and hurtful. Isn't it better just to tell someone that you aren't right for them that you lost interests or that you found someone else better then just ghosting someone and having them feel like it's their fault? I have had a few people i know have it happen to them and it has also happened to me once or twice. It causes a lot of doubt and distrust in the next person one would chat with or be in a relationship with. Which is not fair to either person. I have always found that being upfront and honest in any kind of relationship is best. If you can't do that then why are you looking for a relationship or friendship? Just pleaae remember.....people do have feelings whether in a kink or vanilla relationship. Don't just disappear on them because it could hurt more then you ever thought

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If your sub has issues with it's privates. Using a vaccum chamber to make it grow is definitely a new hard limit.

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Relationship represent time, effort, energy, trust , communication and understanding. A good dynamics is worth the fustration and pain caused along the way. It has to have worth. It need to grow. It needs to be protective by the things and people who tear at it. There a raw strength that is needed. This isn't for the weak. If you don't scrafice for what you want, who will? I have heard 1000 excuses. This isn't new. Being a newbie really is a disadvantage. How do you build strong relationship with the unknown? I rattle and ramble to the extent of being confusing for a reason. I do not make it easy or simple. This profile isn't designed to attract the maximum amount of people. It a scream into the darkness of the unknown of a tortured soul that refuses to be broken by the crap that gets thrown to it.

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SlutSnuggleButt

SlutSnuggleButt

Tonight, as I sit alone in my room, the whirr of the fan above, and the muted hum of nightlife outside, I'm overwhelmed with a cocktail of emotions. They say time is the best healer, but some memories are etched so deep that time only accentuates their imprint. Today's breeze had the playful quality of that one evening, that daring venture that James and I took together. He always had this unique ability to surprise me. Just when I thought I knew all his tricks, he would come up with something unprecedented. I still remember his mischievous grin when he handed me that beautiful burgundy saree. "Wear this for our date tonight," he said, with a glint in his eye that I'd come to recognize. It meant there was a twist to this tale. And oh, was there! Wrapping the saree around myself, feeling its soft touch glide over my skin, knowing I wore nothing beneath, was an experience in itself. The chill of the metal waist chain against my bare skin, every step I took accentuating the lack of fabric underneath, it was exhilarating. As we walked through the garden, the tendrils of the evening breeze would occasionally threaten to expose my little secret. Each gust made my heart skip a beat, the thrill of possibly being caught, the sheer audacity of it, and James's approving glances only added to the excitement. Though it was all in good fun, it revealed a lot about our relationship. James always pushed me to embrace my desires, however unconventional they might be. With every playful dare, every challenge, he taught me that sensuality wasn't just about touch or sight. It was about feeling, anticipation, the dance of the mind with desire, and most importantly, trust. Trust in him, trust in us, and trust in myself. In the heart and among the bustling streets and the vibrant nightlife, we found our little pockets of intimacy. Some may see it as scandalous, but to me, it was a testament to our bond. We didn't need to be confined to the four walls of our bedroom to feel close. It w…

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tHEGovernessJ

I want flowers. I want to whip you. I want to stroke your cheek and smile into your eyes. I want respect and awe and understanding and love. I want foot rubs and leg rubs and back rubs and anywhere rubs. I want you to know when to reach out to touch and when to kneel and wait. I want you to want me fiercely, desire me utterly. I want kisses. Little ones, fast ones, fierce ones, thigh-clenching-good kisses. I want you to touch me like you’re trying to memorize the texture and shape of me. I want affection and cuddling. I want you to drop your eyes when I demand and meet my eyes when we talk. I want you to miss me terribly when we’re apart. I want you to know what you mean to me, how I cherish you. I want humor and debate and dialog. I want you to kiss the side of my neck while your hands grip my hips, my back. I want to see you crawl – just for me. I want to look at you in that special way and see you breathe deeply with desire and anticipation of what you know is to come. I want to fuck you, penetrate you, tease you, deny you, please you, torture you. I want You. &n…

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Madametanya

As a Dominant CD Gurl I look for a Submissive CD who can be controlled and influenced and is available on a regular schedule. The submissive CD will wear the types of feminine clothes she is told to wear. The types of fabrics and texture of fabrics her Dominant is turned on with. The pastel colors and cute prints on the girlie girl fem clothes. The submissive will fill her CD closet with the clothes her Dominant likes to see her wearing. The submissive will keep her body shaved and sexy smooth. She will have spending money to go shopping on command by her Dominant. She will be Bi-Sexual or Gay. She will enjoy getting spanked. She will not be a slave but will serve and service her Dominant on a regular schedule. So far the Vanilla Lives seem to get in the way for finding this submissive CD Gurl?

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If you can not be arsed to actually follow the instructions in the profile that you say...(In what is clearly a cut and paste response...) that you love, admire etc.. what makes you think I, or any other Mistress/Master will want you? Lol I am very real, and verifiable. I expect you to meet in person. If you are wanting to get comfortable before meeting aka be handheld or just waste my time you will be ignored. INCOMPLETE SENTENCES AND ONE-LINE RESPONSES WILL BE IGNORED. iF YOU DONT GET THE CLUE THE FIRST TIME YOU WILL THEN BE BLOCKED. I am not interested in sissies, cd, or feminizing you. Humilation based femininity is NOT my kink. I am a REAL-TIME IN PERSON MISTRESS. Be ready to meet IN PERSON IMMEDIATELY.

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Asyra

Drax & Scott Max - The Sun Moments... (I) Count each moment Believing you'll set me free Wanting... Draws you closer I taste you on the air I breathe Touch me Feel me Come and feel the love this time that's in my heart and set me free Touch me Feel me Save me from this emptiness inside Here comes the sun Here comes the feeling Here comes the moment that we've waited for so long...

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countrylifeDom

Very impressed that profile update took less than 10hrs.

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ForcefulDutch

I love profiles that say..this and that go into the bulk folder. Especialy when they are are looking for 100 years now :D Seems the filter works. But then again..respect for their patience.

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== Results from bdsmtest.org == 95% Submissive 91% Rope bunny 86% Slave 70% Primal (Prey) 69% Exhibitionist 66% Brat 57% Vanilla 57% Masochist 56% Experimentalist 54% Voyeur 49% Degradee 28% Pet 19% Switch 17% Rigger 13% Sadist 8% Primal (Hunter) 6% Dominant 4% Non-monogamist 0% Daddy/Mommy 0% Ageplayer 0% Brat tamer 0% Degrader 0% Boy/Girl 0% Master/Mistress 0% Owner

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Are you one of those people who create a profile which consists of some disclaimer ("I hate these things...") followed by "I'll fill in more later" ? I'm going to help you: no, chances are extremely high that you will not, in fact, fill in more later. It's fine - not a big deal. Be who you are, and see who bites; you'll find there are plenty of people who are perfectly OK with getting to know you incrementally, starting from zero.

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SubSlave165

Happy new year, hopefully we can make some new play friends I'm still looking for my collar

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Subguy773

Just got a new chastity device

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AllInOurMinds

So, this is working now, is it? This site is weird, but hopefully I can post somthing here without sending my profile off to limbo for another few years. Anyway, consider this an addition or replacement to what's in my profile, as appropriate: Lockdown's given me a chance to think more about who I am and what I'm looking for and I'm interested in discovering more about Female Led Relationships (FLRs) and the women who lead them. It's the mental and psychological side of it that interests me more than the physical part of it. I want to know what it's like to give yourself to serve and follow another, and if I'm capable of that level of giving myself or devotion to another. When i read stories of submission and dominance, it's the mindset of the submissive that interests and arouses me, not the physical element. That doesn't mean I'm not interested in the physical side of submission and surrender, but it's not my primary interest. I'm interested in finding someone to connect with for a relationship, but also friends and people who want to chat. I'm monogamous in relationships, I know people who are poly and it works for them, but I'm really not sure I could deal with the logistics of being involved with more than one person, let alone the emotional side of it. What am I interested in most of all? Knowing things, learning new things and discovering things about the world, especially the people that fill it, and especially myself because even after all this time I still don't even come close to understanding everything that goes on in inside my mind. I definitely don't think I'll ever understand everyone else, or the world, but it's fun to try and understand as much as I can. I'd be happy getting to know someone here who makes me want to write and think more, to discuss and explore everything and anything together be it sexual or not. I don't really mind if you're next door (well, I know my neighbours, and it would be a bit of a surprise if you were) or on the other …

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Hefsgirl1990

I need an enema really bad! I think that is part of my weight issue i am compacted with shit that i need that to get me moving down there before a diet will work. 2/24/2026 9:09:09 AM: who wants to talk to me 2/20/2026 10:38:38 AM: A Magazine that would feature self help not to mention BDSM tips and like Playboy a monthly mate on it. but I would be the main mate. but if someone could help me with more of the consept of this new journey. I want girls that have different abilites to mainly be mate on it. But I need not a bunny but something cute and different, not a dog or cat. any help would be helpful for articles things that men and women are going to read (that playboy is geared towards the men) mine is geared towards everyone; or a mascot that i can incorrupt 2/19/2026 1:50:32 PM: working on putting a desk together a slow work in progress 2/17/2026 11:39:29 AM: I finished cleaning my room today. Also who likes my new photos?

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Many things have changed since I first made my account, have grown in many ways. Ways I hadn't thought of before. Also have learned a lot about myself, aspects that I didn't knew I possesed. When I first wrote my introduction I was but a horny guy that wanted to explore a few of my inner desires. Now, after a few experiences under my belt I have understood what I seek. I have always had a sadistic streak. Earlier was a bit ashamed about it but now have grown to accept it. It is what makes me who I am. Looking for genuine subs that are ready to give there all to their dom. Looking for subs that know that their master is more important that their own individuality.

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SweetMistress42

SweetMistress42

Hello, lovelies. I'm renewing my search for a cuckold submissive and a female submissive. I'm looking for folks who are local and interested in real time dynamics. Fully interested in long term relationships if the chemistry is right. If you're interested, reach out and tell me about yourself both vanilla and kink. I'm looking forward to hearing from you.

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lorirayne

So many flakes, gamesters, ghosters, etc. Lots of let down for those that want it. The worse is when one trusts another with the darkest stuff and they disappear.

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Franzfitzvwlvet

Franzfitzvwlvet

There are simple ways to see anyone's agenda. People aren't really honest with themselves. Which makes it hard to be honest with you. You can only hope they progress on their path of self awareness. Arrogance, and ignorance is a devastating combination.

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Franzfitzvwlvet

Franzfitzvwlvet

Not sure what to tell you. You're simply not looking for what you claim. That's going to manifest issues. When you are a bit more self aware,and your choices match your real goals. Then self analysis will help you to determine which tree for you to bark up.

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Lunar New Year Play Party It was so fun going to SAKE (one of the Dungeons close to me) and get flogged & paddled on a St Andrews Cross in a Jail Cell! Perhaps a bit anachronistic, but hey, i'll take it! my friend Grail did a great job. Although he is not new to attending events (play parties, munches, classes) he IS new at playing. Since our first practice session earlier this month, he has been practicing at home with his floggers and it showed. (He is the person i wrote about in my recent entry, "A Unique Opportunity To Give Back"). We got there early in order to be able to get a nice area to do our scene and avoid the crowd (noise and distractions). He did a great job and the few times he made slight mistakes, he noticed and corrected himself. He communicated with me a lot and, after a warm up, was confident enough to give me harder strikes in between the more mellow ones. He also used different floggers as well as a "sensation stick" i had gifted him (a long wooden back scratcher which is fun, stingy and versatile), my Bat-Crop and my leather paddle. He decided to end the scene after a while when he noticed his aim was getting a bit off. While in aftercare mode, i told him at that point, he could have repositioned me if that would have helped. (There was a bench/bed in the cell, too). He hadn't thought of that. Repositioning the bottom can be a useful thing during a scene for many reasons: the Top is able to have access to different areas of the body, as well as have different angles for striking. It can be fun to use different positions within a scene to create a more full, varied experience. But, overall, i am glad that he chose to end the scene when he was starting to feel "off"---this is part of a Top's responsibility to not play "over their level", in order to help mitigate risk of a mis-strike landing somewhere bad. Later in the night, Grail also told me a bit about his perspective of the scene. …

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Phalanx86

Standards vs Micromanaging I've pondered the question of control for years. Early on I had the notion in my head that the more controlling you were the more dominant you were. Like a badge of achievement that you got to claim, a contest you won if you were the most controlling. I still see that basic frame of thought all over the place. I also see the thinking that the more intense the dynamic the more controlling/micro managey it is. I've tried various levels and forms of control with women over the years and whenever I've strived for micromanagement it's been entirely unsatisfying. I've also found that the men who seem most interested in micromanagement are trying to fill some sort of hole within themselves. I remember one woman I met who wanted complete micromanagement and frankly it was the emptiest and most robotic experience of my life. Hence the internal struggle in trying to understand the controlling impulses I have, the need for power and ownership, while also not really having the patience or desire to stand over someone's shoulder minute by minute. I finally found some phrasing that I think helps to express what I actually think and desire.

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ThomasThePriest

ThomasThePriest

100% Master 100% Sadist 100% Daddy 100% Degrader 94% Rigger 93% Dominant 92% Experimentalist 84% Primal (Hunter) 79% Brat tamer 71% Owner 56% Switch 38% Non-monogamist 36% Voyeur 33% Submissive 5% Exhibitionist 0% Ageplayer 0% Brat 0% Degradee 0% Boy/Girl 0% Masochist 0% Pet 0% Primal (Prey) 0% Rope bunny 0% Slave 0% Vanilla

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English isn't math. "Knowledge is Power" doesn't imply that "Power is Knowledge." Would-be dominants ought to keep that in mind. Submissives, too.

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Sexyrexie90

Why is it so hard to get dick like if I want multiple dicks a day I should be able to easily like I am easy

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nytekat

To all of you freaks! Merry Christmas!

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pizzapuppiescows

Therapy was downright brutal tonight. Reliving and explaining childhood medical trauma I wouldn't wish on anyone. That shit is hard. So many unwanted tears. Present day, I mean. Back then it was screaming and crying because that was the only power I had when I was on a cold metal table in a dark room by myself and had to keep perfectly still. I screamed when I was allowed to move between tests. Spending time in that memory makes me feel powerless and angry and really fucking emotional. After the session was over my therapist told to me to snuggle my dog, which I am always happy to do. And then I dropped in on my latest obsession. I discovered these coloring videos, but they use markers and create very detailed pictures beyond what is on the page. I mean, it's still coloring, but it's intricate. I like it. I want to do it. Yes, you're right. I already ordered the markers. And um, a book or two. Small happiness. Especially after living in that memory. Childhood me survived, and mostly grown up me is in charge. Less trauma. More coloring.

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Cheekylilmiss

I messed up badly extremely badly on my first night at Masters home I. Have thought n thought about it and I know i have to show Master that I know i made a Big mistake and no matter what,I'm going to do my best to never ever do that again We did discuss what happened and it did have the potential to kill what we both wanted. I will strive to be better,do better and be what you want,need and desire I just read a post about shitty subs,yes I said it and it did strike a nerve. We did discuss my behaviour and over the next 2 days,I did demonstrate to Master that I was ashamed of myself and stepped up in everyway possible I could've ruined the best opportunity to be owned by a Master who is so special and so different . Your a kind,caring and strict Master and even tho we agreed to never bring it up again,I want to say sorry .. That was not acceptable in any way shape or form and beat myself up daily.. I know I have a way to go and I will Master. I want you to be proud to own me,. .were still kinda new to each other,but ii want this to work with all my heart Master

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i have had a few conversations here. I am not sure I understand some concepts or dynamics

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Helen4education

Helen4education

I am now tired of being contacted by men who have no understanding of how to educate a new lady, explain things or lack any imagination. If your idea of introduction is to expect me to just rush into all the usual, basic activities. Please do not contact me.

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Sadist4painpigs

Sadist4painpigs

I have experience in allsorts of scenarios from normal Master/Sub rl to Sadist/masochist and DD/LG. I could still be interested in DD/LG if the lg is masochist, or prepared to take pain.

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alenaslight

Let me travel down your road Guide me to your hell Show me all your scars I'm yours to have and hold Brand me with your name A scar that will never fade A girl caught up in your chains Not wanting an escape I've come to far to run away now My soul is yours

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MstressWhipplash

Pity the Brand new in box tall Doc Marten black boots with rose were sold (20 holed tall boots). Timing is key. Tuesday, time for kinksters near London to unite to say goodbye to one of the oldguard. It will feel odd without those experienced Dungeon Monitor watchful eyes against those who don't have a clue.

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MrDdy

Here is my collarspace "workflow". I hide almost everyone. If I am intersted in you, I message you and then instantly hide you. If you don't respond, I don't remember. Why? Because frankly I'm not into mind games. If you see my message and view my profile, you either like me or you don't. You message back, we start a conversation. Easy peasy.

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MzticStormz

So are journals actually back? I've missed it. So many things have changed since the start of covid. I'm still not comfortable going to groups where peope are not verified as vaccinated, but I will perhaps meet in person in an outdoor setting. For the record, I still can not update my profile. I am seeking a farmhouse slave male. ~~ Mz Stormz

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The History Behind the Life I have been thinking about the history behind the life. Not the version that fits neatly on paper.Not the dates, roles, titles, addresses, or milestones.Not the quick summary a person can give when asked who they are, where they came from, or what they have done. Something deeper than that. The history that lives underneath the visible life. The older I get, the more I think every person is carrying more than one history at once. What happened.What it felt like.And the story that was built around it. Those are not always the same thing. That matters. Because a great deal of what people call identity is not only character. It is memory, adaptation, interpretation, inheritance, survival, and the narrative a person had to build in order to keep living inside what they had lived. I do not say that cynically. I say it because I think this is one of the plainest truths about being human. A life leaves an imprint. Loss does.Love does.Illness does.Work does.Caregiving does.Success does.Being needed does.Being overlooked does.Being wanted does.Being left does. All of it leaves a mark. Not always dramatic.Not always visible.But real. And yet what is real is not always the same thing as what is remembered cleanly. That is where the matter becomes more difficult. Because memory is not a court transcript.It is alive.It protaspects.It edits.It arranges.It sharpens what felt dangerous.It softens what felt unbearable.It gives shape to experience so the mind can live with it. Sometimes that shaping serves truth. Sometimes it serves survival. Sometimes it does both. That is why examining a life honestly requires more than remembering. It requires learning to separate, as best I can, what happened, what I felt, and what story I built to carry it. That story is not always false. But it is not always the whole truth either. And fabrication, I have come to think, is not always a deliberate lie. Often it is something quieter than that.…

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Wind0fChange

It may have taken nearly two years but the world is back and so am I. Very excited to meet you! Let's chat.

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sissyintraining702

sissyintraining702

Someone reached out to me today asking me a question and then blocked me before I could answer. here is my answe: I am not married Sir but have recently met someone who is keeping me as a sissy in private. I am not quite ready to go out in the world but am hoping to gain more confidence as she pushes me towards my/her goal of me living 24/7 as a sissy.

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The treat She popped on a playlist and smiled the whole time she got herself ready for this dinner date. It was a real treat to be taken out to their favourite foody pub and she was tingling in anticipation of being out and about in public with him. She left her hair to dry naturally in soft waves and applied minimal makeup as she decided on a rberry plunge bra and matching stretchy lace panties. She eased them on, over the suspender belt already in place, and then slipped the thin jersey dress over her head. She looked in the mirror. “Perfect,” she thought to herself. The ditsy floral dress clung to her breasts and waist and the v-neck was deep enough to display a good amount of cleavage, before flaring out loosely over her ample hips and arse to stop just above her knee. She pulled on her leather knee-high boots, grabbed her jacket and bag and skipped downstairs to wait for the door. He arrived not long after and she let him in. “I have a surprise for you,” he said with a grin, holding his closed fist out. She smiled broadly and put out her hand. When he opened his fist something warm and heavy dropped into her palm. “Go and put it in,” he ordered quietly. She looked at the in her hand. It was a shiny metal sphere, about the size of a large marble. She let it roll around her palm and felt some kind of weight shift inside the smooth sphere. A little later, as she climbed into his car, she felt the weight shift inside her cunt and the anticipation of the evening ahead flared in her belly. Before starting the car she felt him look her over and she became very aware that her breath quickened under his gaze. He didn’t say anything, but placed his hand on her right knee and let it slide upwards, pushing the fabric of her dress ahead of it. When her stocking-tops were exposed he briefly traced his finger over the soft flesh of her…

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TETBW

I just realized they brought the Forums back and they have the archives.

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AllOutSin

I'm not quite sure how this site works or where this post will show up, but I'm up late and wondering....another post got me thinking, and I'm off on a tangent. I guess I'm trying to make a shift from my vanilla life to this new and exciting life. The vanilla life is easy, I guess, kinda, I can have sex, yay, it's easy, I can lie and say I like it, I want to be with you, and have a relationship. But all the time my brain, and penis, knows better, I'm thinking how I can convert you to be my perfect kinky partner. I CAN'T. I KNOW! FU#K! So now what? I'm tired of lying, feeling guilty. Virginisinism sounds good for now I guess.

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Blkitchincharge

Blkitchincharge

The goal of this new slave is to make me happy But I need my slave to desire me and to think of me constantly The initial and first ritual is that you will always be naked when in my bedroom And in a kneeling position awaiting my command There will be no eye contact unless I give you permission to do so If you understand me, my pet!

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submarktoserve

Need to clarify. I am in the UK and I do not want to update profile as it takes it down. Please do feel free to ask anything though. I always respond to messages

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How to annoy a Coach Operator: (First one is number one for a reason) Sing 'The Wheels On The Bus' constantly. Bang on the windows. Start a conversation with him/her about something irrelevant. Go to sleep and snore really loudly. Pay your bus driver in coins. Scream and shout for no particular reason. Sing along to the radio!

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There's no better place to live than Wyoming, although the challenge of befriending like-minded folks is a bit of a challenge. While I certainly enjoy and crave the complete submission of a male slave, I would also like to find some friends, regardless of gender or orientation who share an interest in BDSM and would enjoy talking about it along with the normal chat of friends.

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MsMeowKitty

When you're just laying on the couch watching TV and you wish you had someone's face between you're thighs drinking your squirt or someone to drink you're golden nectar so you don't have to get up....mmmm

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Though I love anal sex my Master does not always care for it. He is rather large and he has not often had good experiences with it in the past. I prepared myself as requested and he did not disappoint. We messed around for a while and he got me soaking wet. He fucked my cunt and I was so full it was delightful. He flipped me where I was on my knees and my ass was in the air. He removed the plug and replaced it with his cock. He fucked me for a good 30 minutes and I came multiple times. Finally I was rewarded with a nice cream pie. There is something about being filled with nice hot cum that makes me so sleepy. Needless to say, I slept very well.

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Practice your slow sexy dancing for me boy. Goddess

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rastalin2

I am very craft ornated I do not think that there is anything that I can not make. I love all things dealing with water.I am a book worm.I try to be a compassionate person and not judgemental. If you want to know more about me ask.

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AHeadMistress

Be local!oh for fuck's sake people. If you tell me you are interested, that you are LOCAL, and I agree to meet and tell it to you to arrange it.....friggin' arrange a meeting. It's not rocket science. Do it in a TIMELY manner. I am not waiting any longer than a week to see you face to face. Delay tells me you are in this for the fantasy only and I am not here to cater to your little wank fantasies. Don't waste my time. So get off the gawddamn pot and decide when and where.geezus

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sometimes i feel alone. being without Master's presence. Sir does not want me on the sites, so i will be on my tumbler doing the tumbling thing. i have a beautiful outfit and thigh highs for Master i just wish He would motivate me with marks. and put me on a strict diet regimen. i miss Owner immensely. things are not the same when i am not in His presence. i am grateful.

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Seriously?!? After posting an essentially blank profile, I got 23 messages in the past 20 hours. Trust me, boys, by the end of the weekend I'll have my profile finished and THEN you can reach out again if you're interested.

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I wanted to add I have relocated to South Carolina but figured it was easier to add a journal post than to submit my profile for approval. Looking for authentic connections and non tourists to the lifestyle. For myself, the lifestyle is about power exchange. Sex can enhance that but is just the cherry on top, not the whole Sundae.

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SirSwoop

Two things on this site make me laugh 1. The person from a foreign country who pledges to be My slave and is willing to relocate! Like Im going to send you money for airfare LMAO 2. The person who lists every interest on the profile list. There should just be a choice called Desparate !

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MistressWoff61

https://youtu.be/ao-Sahfy7Hg?si=I5urdTDYYwQPDdPn

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MaleSub4Str8Men

MaleSub4Str8Men

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