I do not want to settle for anyone but rather one who not only deserves me but one who understands and will choose me as she thinks I would match who she is looking for.

Some thoughts on Ds relationships.

A lot of hard work, determination, patience, and time are required to gain each others trust and to maintain that level of trust.

You should take pride and satisfaction in doing your best to please your Dom.

If a sub cannot see that their dominant cares....then it is very difficult to do their best to please.

One who likes to please and knows that is their role, is most often rewarded for their behaviour