Online vs. real life:Today I read the following Journal entry, and it reflects very closely how I think about the topic, so I asked for the permission to quote it. Here it is:Online is not reality hence why they call it reality vs fantasy. In reality you can feel each other’s touch, see each other’s eyes and put them both together it can be quite intense. It’s not here and there, it’s not sometimes but always. There are never any half measures.  The need, the craving, and the hunger is Very powerful and cannot be sated unless it’s being fed in person. Online is for when I have time. Reality is there’s no choice but to make time because it’s right here not far away. To put it simply, online is safe. It doesn’t impede upon one’s time. It has zero risk factor, and minimal challenge. It’s safer for some to just talk about it instead of doing it. Telling her to fuck herself with a toy she is handling is Not you fucking her or you fucking her with it, vast difference between the two. Everyone has their preference. I respect that but it’s No way my preference. Also, under consideration is utter bullshit. Seriously? You can’t make up your mind and therefore say until I decide and that is IF I decide because you’re only considering it NO one will have the chance to own you. You’ve got to be real desperate to accept those terms. the Comical part is it’s always the ones from far away that demand the “under consideration“ to be placed at the top of her profile. This is for the subs and slaves. Slaves get NO choice and subs get somewhat of a choice. For one it’s who they are for the other it’s what they do. Be damn sure you know exactly who you are before you choose to designate it on your profile and save Men the time in wasting their time because you Think you know who you are. REAL is real and fantasy is just that...what you fantasize about.