I've been seeing more profiles of submissives indicating that they want a sugar daddy to finance their transition. In return for that they will be a loving, devoted partner/slave. The only problem with that is that after you spend all that money on someone what guarantee is there that they decide to stay with you? The answer to that is there is NO guarantee at all. They could leave tomorrow and your investment literally walks out the door. Which is why it's a Cinderella story. It does happen, but a more realistic plan of action is to get a job (or jobs) and start saving for HRT, hair removal, and eventual SRS (if that's the plan). There are people out there who dream and there are people out there who do, and while imagination IS important, doing is better. I knew someone who had to spend three years working as a delivery driver to finance her transition and I have nothing but respect for people who bust their ass like her.  

All the pictures on my profile except the last one are of previous partners. Some of them are still on Collarspace. Notice that all of them are in restraints, with some in very strict bondage. I'm not in a rush to truss up and dominate my partners though. I like to meet in person and share a meal, get to know my partners as real people and hear what they have to say and what they want to try if they are new to this. Everyone is more than the sum of their profile photos and text. But in the end I do want to control you... as much as you can handle. If you are nervous in bondage that is a serious plus; I do like anxiety and trepidation. However my overall goal is to take good care of my partners because I want them to come back for more, even if they are conflicted about what they are doing : )

I met with Ressa in Saskatchewan. I'm the reason she hates tickling. Otherwise she was by far the best partner I have ever met. I can't recommend her highly enough.

I recently broke off communicating with someone named Mia from Seattle who wrote to me from a variety of email sites with the moniker tgirl2be and wow, sometimes people do not take being turned down well at all! Plenty of options out there; if one doesn't work you just move on to the next one.

One thing I see on many submissive profiles is the desire to be a bimbo. I am NOT a match for anyone who wants this. I like partners who read newspapers and books, watch good or even bad movies, and enjoy interesting conversation. Undoubtedly there will be times I will want someone to shut up, but that's what ball gags and kissing are for.