PROFILE UPDATED. 

Hello! I’m brand new here and pretty much brand new to the world of kink. I wanted to update my profile slightly to share a bit more information about myself and what I’m looking for. I appreciate my profile may be long, but please do take a read. 

I’m 25, single and live alone in a little village in Oxfordshire. I work part time and in my free time I enjoy spending time with friends and family, long county walks, cooking/baking, listening to music and travelling (the Maldives is my favourite place). 

Physically - I’m 5’3, pale, curvy, have long auburn hair, hazel eyes and often wear glasses. I’m a bit of a plain Jane really. 

Now, before I go any further and get into the kink stuff I think it’s important to mention that I am autistic (high functioning). This does NOT hold me back in life. I live alone, work, drive and have a great social life. However, I do get very shy and anxious when meeting new people. It takes me a long time to warm to people and build trust. So, although I am looking for real life meets only, they won't be instant and trust must be established first. I will be very shy and anxious to begin with - which is why its important to me to find a Dom who is patient and understanding. I will not host at my home, it's my safe space and I rarely even let friends or family over. Ideally, I'd prefer that the Dom hosts, but if for whatever reason you are not able to, I'd consider hotel meets. I don't do trains or public transport (autism overload). 

Phew, now that's out the way onto the kink… I am very inexperienced in the kink world. A few years ago I was seeing an older guy (in his 40's) on and off, he wasn't a Dom but he had a kinky side, once I was comfortable with him he restrained me, used a riding crop of me, spanked me, and had rougher sex with me. That's it, that's all the experience I've got when it comes to kink. But, it's left me wanting more, and I am now at a point in my life where I feel able and ready to explore my submissive side. When it comes to sexual experiences I've only had 4 long term partners, and they've all be very vanilla, so I hope that my lack of experience isn't off putting. I am happy being single, so I wouldn't say I'm immediately looking for a relationship, just a D/s dynamic, but I'm open to see where it leads. 

In terms of what I am looking for - an experienced Dom with a dark/sadistic side, who is older but not ancient (sorrrrry. Age range 30-50 ish). Who is patient and understanding, strong both mentally and physically and takes good care of them self. Personal hygiene is a must. I'm looking for something long term, no one off encounters or occasional meets. Ideally a dynamic that's structured, has rules, and is present even in subtle little ways outside the bedroom. I'd like to get to the point where the Dom has full control. 

if the above hasn't put you off please feel free to message me. 

~ M x