1/3/2017 12:11:35 PM: So I have been busy. My computer broke and the holidays started. I travel all over the place the last 3 months of the year. I didn't get a chance to post the message from this dick of the month in November but here he is now. I think it is funny how some men are so desperate that they can't take no for an answer.  I don't keep conversations going with people like this because they obviously have mental issues and really need attention.  He doesn't realize his responses show me that my initial gut instinct was right. Men with mental issues are not what I am looking for in any capacity. For those who are wondering, I do not think you have a mental issue just because you are on this site. There are many sane , decent men and women here.sirsnoops on 11/4/16 at 1:46 AM: hello lovely. i really liked your profile. hope your are real. wanna to meet. I'm swm, fun, smart, adventurous. i may be slightly older than you request but I'm very youthful.So far nothing bad. I mean he just completely ignore the fact that I said I am not interested in a man his age at all !  It's okay I am for taking chances. BBWpleazures on 11/4/16 at 1:56 AM: Thanks for the offer but right now I am not looking for anything. I'm just keep in touch with friends and on occasion reading funny stories. Also I don't just meet up with anyone that easily. sirsnoops on 11/4/16 at 2:03 AM: really? so the be brave and write me part?... all bullshit? whatever. i would teach you why you like being a dominant. you'll never meet one like me. but your here for friends. I'm here for quality time with new people.So now he is pretty much telling me saying no to him is wrong. How dare I do such a thing ! How could lil ole me say no to spending quality time with HIM .  He would teach me teach me a thing or two. What a funny idiot he is. Men take notes , this is how you show the world you are desperate.  BBWpleazures on 11/4/16 at 2:15 AM: You can be here for whatever you want to be. If I want to learn I will go to school. I've met many so called men like you so you're not special, get over yourself. Get lost , you are not on my level. I'm not 16 and your little temper tantrum is a shinning example of why I don't meet up with just any one. I only socialize with mature adult men ! You are still a child. Of course I replied.  sirsnoops on 11/4/16 at 2:24 AM woohholyfuck you so fucked up. wow. so don't awknoledge that you profile solicits then says not interested. whatever. you are clearly trouble, don't care how your fat tits are or what a fucking retard you are to dismiss so summarily without knowing anything about me. bark, bite, you'll never know cause apparently you don't have the social skills to be civil. nobody was trying to take you to school lady but its clear you never had a dad or one that loved you. you are neither a bbw and you offer no pleasures. i hope you grow the fuck and find a way to live with yourself that doesn't end in early death. me, sugar ill be fine, i own shit. Now to be honest , I almost replied. Almost.....  So after a whole 3 seconds. I decided he is to stupid to see where he has gone wrong.  He didn't deserve a reply which I am pretty sure he wanted. Or maybe he just wanted to be a dick of the month.  Either way it he is just to funny to keep to myself , so I am sharing with all of collar space.

5/16/2011 7:20:14 PM: So every now and again as you all know I get some email from a crazy. There is a guy who likes to send you hate mail, then block you so you can not respond.  Well he can not block all of collar me. So write him and tell him what you think. You see he has nothing to do, I believe he is pretty unattractive and this is why he does this.   I know he has sent me mail before. He has multiple accounts. He comes on Collar Me to  harass other people. It is my opinion that this type of person walks into a room and never gets noticed. Even at his own party.   So here is my dick of the month cause he as been dying to get this position. He has worked very hard for it.   This is what he emailed me today.   exploringfemdom on 5/16/11 at 8:40 PM:  Hello dominant and obese are combined an oxymoron. BBW is a joke as what is beautiful about a human being who cannot take care of her own body? please do tell me this and what kind of Denial are you fat women living in? Fact is that a lot of the fat women on here are here cause no men with self respect will date someone who is obese or fat. Why should we? Do answer this question and please know it is not you I am pissed off at as you are at least honest enough to post your photo, but I have to ask why...yes WHY are you fat? Please ask yourself why you are not taking care of your own body? there is no excuse good enough, All the excuses are just that lying to yourself. what advantage do you have being fat? Are you punishing yourself for some misdeed? I am asking as I am so tired of driving countless miles and hours to meet a fat pig of a woman who sent me a photo of her from ten years ago like I am supposed to, because I am stating I am a sub, set aside what I find attractive? Are you fucking kidding me? You are perhaps about a year from being fit and in good shape. What do you have to lose? Lets say you hate being fit and in shape...well you can go down to the crispi creme store and buy a few dozen of them donuts and be fat again quickly. FACT is that fat people make less than half of what fit in shape people make, In shape people have better friends, better jobs, better everything including their HEALTH. I was trained as a sub and slave 27 years ago and back then there were NO FAT women claiming to be dommes. Plus fat women were not allowed to the munches as they wanted, if they were found out to be associated with being fit and educated. So why are you not acting like an adult? what is so bad that you have to sit and stuff your face with cakes and ice creams? Sure you can hate me, but then again you enjoy that as that fuels your reasons for being fat and obese. IT should be OOW for overweight obese woman. Please know I have myself been a larger person at one point, but I got tired of the rejection and rather than blame women for not seeing what you fat women call my inner beauty I instead spent six months eating right, which is the key and exercised. Today I feel great. This is why I bother to write to fat women as they are missing the point. WHo on gods earth, unless they have no self esteem wants to lift up folds of fat to find your pussy? IT is gross.     Oh and he is also a coward cause he blocks so he doesn't have to see your response. Yet I am sure a crazy like him will check here to see if I posted about him. My response was :   You obviously don't have a better life or self esteem because you take the time to write such loooo n rants to people whom you do not know. As well as the fact that you have no idea of what your talking about . Let us start from the beginning of your letter dumb ass. BBW is a joke as what is beautiful about a human being who cannot take care of her own body? I am certain that I look better then you. The picture I have on my profile now is of me on a bad day.  That is one of my, I was running late and had to hurry dress up days. please do tell me this and what kind of Denial are you fat women living in? I never told any one I am not fat. Yet then again it is none of your business because I never contacted you. Nor did I tell you or any one on this site I was not directly. I will call myself whatever I damn please. You made a choice to view my profile. You can just as easily choose not to. I guess you really have nothing else to do ! Unlike yourself , I am not ashamed of who I am. Nor do I have any self loathing such as you do. Fact is that a lot of the fat women on here are here cause no men with self respect will date someone who is obese or fat. Let me see my ex boyfriends are models, doctors, accountant , one stripper, 2 multi millionaires, a Colonel in the army, a lawyer, a diplomat and one famous person. Each one of these men had very strong personalities. All extremely smart and I say very pretty men. Well dressed and not ashamed to have a fem side. I am still friends with them all. If I call any of them they will all run to see what I want.  The exception is the famous ex bf. He will come as soon as he can get away from work. So the only one I see who had no self respect is you.  Why should we? Do answer this question and please know it is not you I am pissed off at as you are at least honest enough to post your photo, but I have to ask why...yes WHY are you fat? Please ask yourself why you are not taking care of your own body?  there is no excuse good enough, All the excuses are just that lying to yourself. what advantage do you have being fat? Are you punishing yourself for some misdeed? I am asking as I am so tired of driving countless miles and hours to meet a fat pig of a woman who sent me a photo of her from ten years ago like I am supposed to, because I am stating I am a sub, set aside what I find attractive? Are you fucking kidding me? You are perhaps about a year from being fit and in good shape. What do you have to lose? Lets say you hate being fit and in shape...well you can go down to the crispi creme store and buy a few dozen of them donuts and be fat again quickly. FACT is that fat people make less than half of what fit in shape people make, In shape people have better friends, better jobs, better everything including their HEALTH. I was trained as a sub and slave 27 years ago and back then there were NO FAT women claiming to be dommes. Plus fat women were not allowed to the munches as they wanted, if they were found out to be associated with being fit and educated. So why are you not acting like an adult? what is so bad that you have to sit and stuff your face with cakes and ice creams? Here is another example of someone (you) talking out of their ass again. You speak as if you know everything there is about every one on the planet, about me. First of all I bench 250 and that is only because I don't push myself to do more.  I could do 300 if I want to.  You speak as if I 500 pounds , sorry I am not.  I am a size 16 and I am 5' 9' . I say I am 5' 8' cause shorter men tend to be afraid to speak to taller woman.  I work for myself, all of my friends are professionals and college graduates. Whom will also be there for me without asking a thing other then ' What do you need?'.  I do not sit around and stuff my face with cake, nor ice cream. I can not eat many things because I have allergies. I do not eat pork, beef, nor do I eat donuts. I wish I could just sit around and eat cake and ice cream. They taste good. Yet I can't cause ice cream makes me very sick. I don't like most cakes cause they are too sweet. You sound like a real fruit cake. Yet I will humor you  for now. For breakfast I had some chilled oranges, an apple juice juice box and some left over salad from dinner last night.  Oh , what was for dinner last night you say?  Well steamed fish, salad and spinach. Ummm your whole what fat people eat thing is bull shit. I don't know where you get your information from but let me help you out a bit. I go hiking every week. I have hundreds of pictures to prove it.   I work over 50 hrs a week. More then half of that time I am standing,walking back and fourth or carrying something heavy or really hot.  When I am not home I am traveling. When I travel I do active activities. Such as walking in the desert, hiking, learning to build or make something, dancing etc.  When I am home I hike, take dance lessons, paint , etc etc. I not only take care of my responsibilities but also help a bunch of friends , family and strangers out. I am more adult then you are and that is very obvious. Sure you can hate me, but then again you enjoy that as that fuels your reasons for being fat and obese. IT should be OOW for overweight obese woman. You seem to hate yourself more then any one else could. I really don't know how you can't see that. I see self loathing is just exploding from your every word. Please know I have myself been a larger person at one point, but I got tired of the rejection and rather than blame women for not seeing what you fat women call my inner beauty I instead spent six months eating right, which is the key and exercised. Today I feel great. This is why I bother to write to fat women as they are missing the point. WHo on gods earth, unless they have no self esteem wants to lift up folds of fat to find your pussy? IT is gross. Have you ever see a pussy , I mean in real time? I bet you haven't.  Hmmmm maybe that's what's wrong with you.  Desperate much!  I can see that not only were you rejected then but I bet your still being reject. Do yourself a favor. I have never had this rejection problem you had. I can not even say I understand what you want through.  I can say that if I had I still wouldn't be like you. Go get some medical help for your displaced aggression.  You need to find something to do with yourself. Get some hobbies. You have to much time and nothing to do with it.

2/12/2011 3:04:19 PM: Seems he wanted to make another entry into the journal section so here is his last email. CUCKSLUTBOY     2/11/2011 ur picture says it all i never shouldve added u ... those ppl on here tellin me bout u were right .. ur nuthing

2/11/2011 9:59:28 AM: So here is the Loser of the month for February  2011The loser of the month award goes to   CuckslutboyHe is receiving this award because he showed me who he really is and how mature he really is right away.   You see he and I were speaking on Yahoo IM. We have spoken briefly some time ago on the 4th of February. At that time he seemed to be mentally stable. Yet again it was our first conversation and a brief one. So below you will find a full account of our brief communication and what not to do . P.S. For those of you who don't notice right away. I did tell him my name on CM. So not only is he mentally unstable and immature but he is also careless when reading. Or maybe he just has trouble paying attention. For me this is a sign of someone who communicates poorly with others.Maybe it was just his goal to end up here in my journal.     cuckslutboy on 2/4/11 at 1:12 AM:   omg.. id love to be ur slave!!>. im into everything in ur profile!     BBWpleazures on 2/4/11 at 3:52 AM:   Send me and up to date picture.  What is your name?   cuckslutboy on 2/4/11 at 10:11 AM:   that is up to date.. my name is Matt   BBWpleazures on 2/4/11 at 2:42 PM:   Hi Matt,   If that picture is up to date it seems like you already have a Domme.  So tell me about yourself Matt.  How can you be mine when you live so far away?   cuckslutboy on 2/4/11 at 2:45 PM:   no i dont have a domme... and i can travel   BBWpleazures on 2/4/11 at 2:49 PM:   Tell me in detail what kind of relationship are you looking for on collar me. Also why do you want to be a slave?   cuckslutboy on 2/4/11 at 2:52 PM   yes i want to be a slave..... may i add yu to yahoo?   BBWpleazures on 2/4/11 at 2:54 PM   If you add me to yahoo I will expect you to have a lot more to say. I don't like one line answers. It says you don't have anything to say , your lazy or you are just hear to get your rocks off talking about bdsm. None of these things are qualities I am looking for in a man.   My yahoo is   So here is our second and last yahoo IM communication. Notice how I did answer his question as well.   born2please85 (2/11/2011 12:26:44 PM): o how i mis uborn2please85 (2/11/2011 12:26:46 PM): *blushesborn2please85 (2/11/2011 12:26:52 PM): *kneels and kisses ur feetsweet(2/11/2011 12:26:56 PM): who is thisborn2please85 (2/11/2011 12:27:05 PM): ur from collarme no?sweet (2/11/2011 12:27:12 PM): yes but who are youborn2please85 (2/11/2011 12:27:17 PM): im cuckslutboy therborn2please85 (2/11/2011 12:27:31 PM): im a male slaveborn2please85 (2/11/2011 12:27:51 PM): sweet (2/11/2011 12:28:39 PM): one secborn2please85 (2/11/2011 12:28:47 PM): whats ur name on cm?sweet(2/11/2011 12:29:14 PM): I just checked my mail and I didnt see that name on itborn2please85 (2/11/2011 12:29:26 PM): look on collarme for cuckslutboyborn2please85 (2/11/2011 12:29:30 PM): whats ur name on collarmesweet (2/11/2011 12:30:03 PM): if you missed me you should know my nameborn2please85 (2/11/2011 12:30:22 PM): i dont remmeberr ur nameborn2please85 (2/11/2011 12:30:25 PM): i missed u not ur namesweet (2/11/2011 12:31:11 PM): ha ha , bbwpleazuressweet (2/11/2011 12:31:32 PM): Are you from the united states?born2please85 (2/11/2011 12:32:09 PM): yesborn2please85 (2/11/2011 12:32:12 PM): im from bostonborn2please85 (2/11/2011 12:32:19 PM): im gunna ask u one more timeborn2please85 (2/11/2011 12:32:21 PM): whats ur name thersweet (2/11/2011 12:32:27 PM): Excuse mesweet (2/11/2011 12:32:40 PM): You say that like I am your child.born2please85 (2/11/2011 12:32:49 PM): i dont like asking a million timesborn2please85 (2/11/2011 12:32:51 PM): ur name pleasesweet (2/11/2011 12:32:56 PM): by mattsweet (2/11/2011 12:33:04 PM): I gave you my name alreadysweet (2/11/2011 12:33:15 PM): but I dont like ppl with attitude so good byeborn2please85 (2/11/2011 12:33:21 PM): lmaoborn2please85 (2/11/2011 12:33:25 PM): yea figured u were fakeborn2please85 (2/11/2011 12:33:27 PM): fuck off troll     I am not going to play the crazy game with any one. If you want to go off on some fantasy trip go pay for it. I stated exactly what I am looking for. If I see that you may be even a little off upstairs I wont waste my time.   My final response to this dumb ass.   BBWpleazures on 2/11/11 at 12:38 PM   You figured wrong. I'm not fake. Yet I have learned that there are certain people on here who are not fit mentally. I am a very social person, I can not have a slave who can not fit into my social life well. I take the time to talk and get to know a slave in a vanilla way to see the little things that we as human beings with personalities may not show another person right away. You are still not mature enough or stable enough to be what I am looking for.

10/12/2010 3:16:34 AM: I don't usually write in the journal section but this month I got a special email that I wanted to share with all of my profile visitors.  I always have a loser of the month but this is my first time sharing this with all of you. So here is the Loser of the month for October 2010The loser of the month award goes to THEDUDE376He is receiving this award for the following educational email he has sent me.Theres a three letter word that means the same thing as bbw. Its fat. Obesity is not something to be glamorized unlike a lot of other fetish genres bbw was not created by man it was a term created by undesirable pieces of ugly disgusting shit that wanted to label their condition as something to be desired. Dont kid yourself. Dont try to kid us. Your a fat fuckin blob of a nasty human that should probably be put down as to not contaminate our gene pool. Buy a fuckin treadmill or bowflex and rejoin the game you sad fuck.Don't you just love it when a 5 year old uses the internet to express themselves! I think that you should take a moment and express yourself as he has. If you feel that his words have ignited a passionate response in you express it to him directly.